Libra ex...

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Brickhouse27 on Sunday, December 27, 2020 and has 16 replies.

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@Brickhouse27
8 Years500+ Posts

So there is a libra ex of mines who hit me up a while back and I brushed him off kind of. I decided to reach out and suggest drinks. He’s not much of a texter so he replied with the 👌🏾. Meaning? Then he was like we can call each other about it. Is he expecting me to call or what?

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Yes. He’s expecting you to call. He may feel disillusioned because you rejected his initial offer.

How much time passed between his offer and you texting him and making your offer?

Don’t take this the wrong way, but do you have control issues?

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@Aquavina
5 Years

My Libra ex when we first met did not text much but turned out to be interested in me. But since you brushed him off I’d say call first. Don’t pull the gender card thinking women shouldn’t call or text first.

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@Brickhouse27
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Posted by DMV

Yes. He’s expecting you to call. He may feel disillusioned because you rejected his initial offer.

How much time passed between his offer and you texting him and making your offer?

Don’t take this the wrong way, but do you have control issues?

It’s been a minute, months,whew and i did a bit when we first started talking. Hell I was in my early twenties. Now that time has passed I can understand. It’s a 9 year age difference.

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Posted by Brickhouse27

So there is a libra ex of mines who hit me up a while back and I brushed him off kind of. I decided to reach out and suggest drinks. He’s not much of a texter so he replied with the 👌🏾. Meaning? Then he was like we can call each other about it. Is he expecting me to call or what?

Why not answer "sure give me a call" if you want him to call.

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Posted by Aquavina

My Libra ex when we first met did not text much but turned out to be interested in me. But since you brushed him off I’d say call first. Don’t pull the gender card thinking women shouldn’t call or text first.

Yeah your right, that’s why I was confused. I asked was I calling and he didn’t say anything.

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Posted by Timone

Posted by Brickhouse27

So there is a libra ex of mines who hit me up a while back and I brushed him off kind of. I decided to reach out and suggest drinks. He’s not much of a texter so he replied with the 👌🏾. Meaning? Then he was like we can call each other about it. Is he expecting me to call or what?

Why not answer "sure give me a call" if you want him to call.

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That’s true too, it didn’t matter who called, I just wanted it to be some type of plan in motion . The fact he said ok is like ok something got to shake.