libra in love with capricorn will it work

she said she love me and want to have a baby by me !!that was on the 14 ! i havent heard from her since DAMN! i cant stop thinking about her

Three days? You're hooked. I remember another thread about her saying all that when you were barely starting out, seeing each other for a month. A lot of us advised you to just wait and see, let things develop naturally... and to make sure you don't impregnate her just yet. That was, what? July? So it's two months later, you've been seeing her maybe three months now.. and there's some sort of weird game-playing going on by her? This does not bode well for your future, my friend.

But apparently, she knows how to play you like a fiddle. Cuz now you're smitten. Congrats, I think? Unless you just want her more, because she suddenly seems to want you less? (How LIBRA of you LOL) Wow, you've written a lot of threads about this girl. But something stood out to me in one thread... you know her birthday is Dec 31.. but not the year? You don't even know how old your girlfriend is? Or is it that you don't want to admit to her age, like she's underage or something. Dude! DON'T get her knocked up!

I'm probably talking to a blank wall. You seem totally hooked on this girl, and you'll probably do whatever it takes to get her, up to and including impregnating her. *sigh* Good luck with all that, I guess.

lol @ nefer you seem to have him summed up. Havnt seen any of his threads personally to be able to comment!

she beggin for me to get her pregno damn i almost thought about it she 27 i just hate being alone its like im always looking for love and she is the only woman to ever tell me these things WOW crazy

um, no. stop with the kid thing right now! the idea of children are not to be taken lightly! christ, i can see where this is going right now... she desperately wants to have a baby, chose u to be the father, says she loves u cuz she wants a baby so badly to fulfill a void in her life, then thinks that the baby will keep u around. not saying that it wouldn't but this is a vicious pattern i see all the time. u'll be on the maury povich show before u know it and battling out paternity tests!

don't depend on others for love. u'll never receive the satisfaction. love urself first and all will fall into place.

vsop - oh baby, you are SUCH a Libra.

Yes, you love love.. you want to be in love. Stars and sparks and rainbows and shimmering lights, trumpets and fanfare. Yes, you do.

But let me ask you this: How many times have you gotten into a relationship, pretty much giving your ALL right from the start, it's perfect, it's beautiful, it's wonderful, it's everything you ever hoped for... and then about 2 to 5 months in, you get to know her better.. and suddenly, you realize that you cannot see yourself with this woman in the future? NOW you're struggling to make a decision, to make the right choice. Do I stay or do I do? What if I make the wrong choice? What if I never find love again? She's so perfect for me, except... Oh, hell, what am I going to do?

Eventually, you disengage and leave, clearly because it's been 3 months with this new girl, so all of your previous relationships have ended. I bet you try to remain friends with ALL your ex's too, huh?

So, say you give in to this overwhelming desire to be with this girl, and you go ahead and give her that baby she so desperately wants. What happens when the rosy glasses come off in a couple more months and you realize you've made a terrible mistake? That this girl is NOT Miss Perfect, and is NOT The One for you? But now it's no longer just a couple of people learning from a short, broken relationship. Now it's going to affect another life - the baby's, and the baby had no choice in this.

DON'T DO IT! If this girl is indeed The One for you, the marriage and the babies will come later. There's no rush to do the babies NOW -- unless that's all she wants from you, just the baby. Is THAT what you want?

she lost her job i found that out on my own she txt me (i need some time to myself respect it) she depressed and me to

she want some alone time i cant wait to long she got a son to be there its just me ! somtimes i hate being a libra cause people think we cheaters and dont really care and it sucks!

vsop - yes, some people think Libras are cheaters, liars, players. Some people think the same thing about Scorpios, Virgos, Pisces, Leos, Aquarius, Capricorns, etc etc... people have experiences with certain signs and it changes the way they think about them. Happens all the time. If this girl thinks you're a cheater because you're a Libra - she probably has experienced a Libra who cheated, or knows one(s) who did, so she thinks that's what most of them do.

Anyone who truly knows and understands Libras know that they are NOT usually cheaters. They are a bit fickle, they change their minds a lot, struggle endlessly to make the right decisions and so appear indecisive, and they tend to jump in and out of relationships very, very quickly. But the truth is, Libras are looking for love, but not just ANY love. They want REAL love, lasting love, perfect love. And when they are in love, they give their ALL - honest, loyal, faithful... esp once they decide you ARE The One!

I've dated at least three Libras. The first time, the Libra was very young (we both were, only 19/20) and things went so badly, I literally REFUSED to date Libras after that. Seriously - if I found out a guy was a Libra, poof, gone, no thanks. Lasted for almost 15 years that way, me never *knowingly* dating a Libra. (And I always ask for their birthday, right away!) Then I met an amazing one - he had so many of the GOOD qualities, but was still relatively young (under 30) and so had the BAD qualities too. As much as that experience hurt me, I also realized that Libras are actually quite lovely. Good thing too - the VERY next guy I dated was my wonderful Libra beloved and we're still together and still happy and very much in love!

Don't take it so personally that people seem to think all these bad things about Libras. People think (unfair) bad things about all signs, my Pisces included. According to some Pisces haters, I would be silly, wishy-washy, head in the clouds, lazy, sit around all day watching the world pass me by, a user, manipulator, cheater, liar, helpless, spineless and weak. Those can be traits of a very bad, or very young immature Pisces.. or the traits of just about anyone from any sign LOL I'm none of those things, and I don't let it bother me that some people think I am.