Libra Man and Gemini Woman

Hi beautiful people. I’m curious about a Libra guy I met 2 days ago. He was my waiter and he was being so nice. It took me awhile to realize he was flirting with me. We’ve been messaging ever since and the convo is great (which is a must for my Gemini dominant chart). He’s 9 years younger than me (this was almost a hard stop) lol but he seems so intelligent. He’s very charming as well. He’s offered to help me with working out since I’m getting back into it.

My question is how do I keep him on his toes? Do I let him take the lead? Or suggest meeting up? Naturally I’m very funny and flirty and Iike to tease with my words. I also have a habit of taking the lead in my dating situations (I can’t help it, if a man is moving too slow I’ll push things along). I’m not looking to fall in love but it would be nice to have a meaningful connection. I can already tell that we could have a great connection. Thanks peeps

If he's too slow and not fast enough for you it's best to keep conversations light and steady. Until things start heating up. Like don't push the issues too hard and fast. That could turn him off and you'll be left, wha, crying? If this Libra dude got lots of Taurus placements in most of his major planets or even cancer for that matter or anything slow in the chart just wanna be careful in your approach. I've seen most women who take the lead or make the first approach scare some men off by coming on too fast and hard. Actually I'm the only known man that has happened to.

Take him up for his offer about the workout and go from there.

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
If he's too slow and not fast enough for you it's best to keep conversations light and steady. Until things start heating up. Like don't push the issues too hard and fast. That could turn him off and you'll be left, wha, crying? If this Libra dude got lots of Taurus placements in most of his major planets or even cancer for that matter or anything slow in the chart just wanna be careful in your approach. I've seen most women who take the lead or make the first approach scare some men off by coming on too fast and hard. Actually I'm the only known man that has happened to.

Thank you so much for your perspective! I have such a hard time being patient with these things lol I will keep the conversation flowing, I'll keep it flirty. I'm a pro at banter lol I don't know his birthday yet so I can't speak on his placements. I'll try to get that info 🙂

Posted by Timone
Take him up for his offer about the workout and go from there.

Oh I def will 🙂 I'm moving so once I get settled, maybe late this week I'll meet up for a workout session.

Posted by Nabilah92
Hi beautiful people. I’m curious about a Libra guy I met 2 days ago. He was my waiter and he was being so nice. It took me awhile to realize he was flirting with me. We’ve been messaging ever since and the convo is great (which is a must for my Gemini dominant chart). He’s 9 years younger than me (this was almost a hard stop) lol but he seems so intelligent. He’s very charming as well. He’s offered to help me with working out since I’m getting back into it.

My question is how do I keep him on his toes? Do I let him take the lead? Or suggest meeting up? Naturally I’m very funny and flirty and Iike to tease with my words. I also have a habit of taking the lead in my dating situations (I can’t help it, if a man is moving too slow I’ll push things along). I’m not looking to fall in love but it would be nice to have a meaningful connection. I can already tell that we could have a great connection. Thanks peeps

It's the beginning of the relationship. Just do you without expectations of the future. Enjoy getting to know him.

You feel like there is something worth pursuing after that later down the road, then let him know your interested in that when the time comes. He doesn't give you a clear response, give him some time to think/feel how he feels about it(men need muling time). Tho not too long so he doesn't get to comfortable if you want more from him.

Lol ya what everyone else said already.

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Posted by Nabilah92
Hi beautiful people. I’m curious about a Libra guy I met 2 days ago. He was my waiter and he was being so nice. It took me awhile to realize he was flirting with me. We’ve been messaging ever since and the convo is great (which is a must for my Gemini dominant chart). He’s 9 years younger than me (this was almost a hard stop) lol but he seems so intelligent. He’s very charming as well. He’s offered to help me with working out since I’m getting back into it.
My question is how do I keep him on his toes? Do I let him take the lead? Or suggest meeting up? Naturally I’m very funny and flirty and Iike to tease with my words. I also have a habit of taking the lead in my dating situations (I can’t help it, if a man is moving too slow I’ll push things along). I’m not looking to fall in love but it would be nice to have a meaningful connection. I can already tell that we could have a great connection. Thanks peeps

It's the beginning of the relationship. Just do you without expectations of the future. Enjoy getting to know him.

You feel like there is something worth pursuing after that later down the road, then let him know your interested in that when the time comes. He doesn't give you a clear response, give him some time to think/feel how he feels about it(men need muling time). Tho not too long so he doesn't get to comfortable if you want more from him.

Lol ya what everyone else said already.

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As someone who is very impatient, I will let this process teach me to let things unfold on natural timing. I want to enjoy the process, not sure I've done that before.

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Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by Nabilah92
Hi beautiful people. I’m curious about a Libra guy I met 2 days ago. He was my waiter and he was being so nice. It took me awhile to realize he was flirting with me. We’ve been messaging ever since and the convo is great (which is a must for my Gemini dominant chart). He’s 9 years younger than me (this was almost a hard stop) lol but he seems so intelligent. He’s very charming as well. He’s offered to help me with working out since I’m getting back into it.
My question is how do I keep him on his toes? Do I let him take the lead? Or suggest meeting up? Naturally I’m very funny and flirty and Iike to tease with my words. I also have a habit of taking the lead in my dating situations (I can’t help it, if a man is moving too slow I’ll push things along). I’m not looking to fall in love but it would be nice to have a meaningful connection. I can already tell that we could have a great connection. Thanks peeps

It's the beginning of the relationship. Just do you without expectations of the future. Enjoy getting to know him.

You feel like there is something worth pursuing after that later down the road, then let him know your interested in that when the time comes. He doesn't give you a clear response, give him some time to think/feel how he feels about it(men need muling time). Tho not too long so he doesn't get to comfortable if you want more from him.

Lol ya what everyone else said already.

As someone who is very impatient, I will let this process teach me to let things unfold on natural timing. I want to enjoy the process, not sure I've done that before.

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There is a lot of fun and joy along the journey too you know.

You don't open a new book to the last chapter.

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Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
If he's too slow and not fast enough for you it's best to keep conversations light and steady. Until things start heating up. Like don't push the issues too hard and fast. That could turn him off and you'll be left, wha, crying? If this Libra dude got lots of Taurus placements in most of his major planets or even cancer for that matter or anything slow in the chart just wanna be careful in your approach. I've seen most women who take the lead or make the first approach scare some men off by coming on too fast and hard. Actually I'm the only known man that has happened to.

Thank you so much for your perspective! I have such a hard time being patient with these things lol I will keep the conversation flowing, I'll keep it flirty. I'm a pro at banter lol I don't know his birthday yet so I can't speak on his placements. I'll try to get that info

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I kinda doubt this guy has any cancer or Taurus in any of his inner planets anyway being that he's a libra. Maybe moon i dont know. It's possible any of those two signs could be his rising. It must be whatever in his aspects as that has far more influence on an individual rather than just a person's basic chart anyway. I think with Libra men you'd have to be patient and give them enough time. Especially if yall just met. After all Libra is a sign thats slow on making decisions. Or is that a Libra rising thing🤔?

Posted by Ballerina
"I can already tell that we could have a great connection."

- and she met man two days ago! If that's not optimism idk what is!

LOL is it? Idk the conversation flows, to me that's a good sign.

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Posted by Nabilah92

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Posted by Nabilah92
Hi beautiful people. I’m curious about a Libra guy I met 2 days ago. He was my waiter and he was being so nice. It took me awhile to realize he was flirting with me. We’ve been messaging ever since and the convo is great (which is a must for my Gemini dominant chart). He’s 9 years younger than me (this was almost a hard stop) lol but he seems so intelligent. He’s very charming as well. He’s offered to help me with working out since I’m getting back into it.
My question is how do I keep him on his toes? Do I let him take the lead? Or suggest meeting up? Naturally I’m very funny and flirty and Iike to tease with my words. I also have a habit of taking the lead in my dating situations (I can’t help it, if a man is moving too slow I’ll push things along). I’m not looking to fall in love but it would be nice to have a meaningful connection. I can already tell that we could have a great connection. Thanks peeps

It's the beginning of the relationship. Just do you without expectations of the future. Enjoy getting to know him.
You feel like there is something worth pursuing after that later down the road, then let him know your interested in that when the time comes. He doesn't give you a clear response, give him some time to think/feel how he feels about it(men need muling time). Tho not too long so he doesn't get to comfortable if you want more from him.
Lol ya what everyone else said already.

As someone who is very impatient, I will let this process teach me to let things unfold on natural timing. I want to enjoy the process, not sure I've done that before.
click to expand

There is a lot of fun and joy along the journey too you know.

You don't open a new book to the last chapter.

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Ooooooh I like that! Very true lol My mars in Aries makes me want things NOW so I will have to tone that energy down lol

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Posted by Nabilah92

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
If he's too slow and not fast enough for you it's best to keep conversations light and steady. Until things start heating up. Like don't push the issues too hard and fast. That could turn him off and you'll be left, wha, crying? If this Libra dude got lots of Taurus placements in most of his major planets or even cancer for that matter or anything slow in the chart just wanna be careful in your approach. I've seen most women who take the lead or make the first approach scare some men off by coming on too fast and hard. Actually I'm the only known man that has happened to.

Thank you so much for your perspective! I have such a hard time being patient with these things lol I will keep the conversation flowing, I'll keep it flirty. I'm a pro at banter lol I don't know his birthday yet so I can't speak on his placements. I'll try to get that info
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I kinda doubt this guy has any cancer or Taurus in any of his inner planets anyway being that he's a libra. Maybe moon i dont know. It's possible any of those two signs could be his rising. It must be whatever in his aspects as that has far more influence on an individual rather than just a person's basic chart anyway. I think with Libra men you'd have to be patient and give them enough time. Especially if yall just met. After all Libra is a sign thats slow on making decisions. Or is that a Libra rising thing🤔?

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Yeah I won't push the issue. I'll let him know I'd like to work out either late this week or early next week and we will go from there 🙂

Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
you're 31, and he's 22? so between July and September you were a decade older than him? odds are slim it'll work out... I'm a Gemini who was born in '92 and have been talking to a Libra who's 5 years younger than me, feels a bit karmic but most likely I'm embarrassing myself and getting my time wasted. Meanwhile my Pisces ex who's 8 years older just popped up last night offering a relationship with a committed future ie cohabiting (we've known each other a decade). dude's probably blowing smoke but its a relief to hear I'm commitment-worthy while my Virgoan Libra lists out all my flaws nearly daily

Damn yall are babies. I can't believe I gave relationship advice to someone the same age as my eldest daughter.

Posted by NotALibra
I'm not a Libra so I wouldn't know

What Sun sign are you?

Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
you're 31, and he's 22? so between July and September you were a decade older than him? odds are slim it'll work out... I'm a Gemini who was born in '92 and have been talking to a Libra who's 5 years younger than me, feels a bit karmic but most likely I'm embarrassing myself and getting my time wasted. Meanwhile my Pisces ex who's 8 years older just popped up last night offering a relationship with a committed future ie cohabiting (we've known each other a decade). dude's probably blowing smoke but its a relief to hear I'm commitment-worthy while my Virgoan Libra lists out all my flaws nearly daily

That's too bad. Drop the Libra and pick up the Pisces.

Libras move slow when it comes to relationships. (Unless you're Travis Kelsey going after billionaire Taylor Swift). It just takes us time to decide if we are with the right person. The good news is you're a Gemini and we get along like a house on fire. I know y'all like banter and to tease, but don't do too much teasing as that starts getting on our nerves after a while.

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Posted by DonnaLibra

Posted by NotALibra
I'm not a Libra so I wouldn't know

What Sun sign are you?

idk , whats your favourite?

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Scorpio

Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
you're 31, and he's 22? so between July and September you were a decade older than him? odds are slim it'll work out... I'm a Gemini who was born in '92 and have been talking to a Libra who's 5 years younger than me, feels a bit karmic but most likely I'm embarrassing myself and getting my time wasted. Meanwhile my Pisces ex who's 8 years older just popped up last night offering a relationship with a committed future ie cohabiting (we've known each other a decade). dude's probably blowing smoke but its a relief to hear I'm commitment-worthy while my Virgoan Libra lists out all my flaws nearly daily

So odds are slim for my situation because yours didn’t work out?? Not trying to be rude, but you’re projecting. And even if it doesn’t work out, I’ll have fun along the way. Wish you the best with your Pisces. Btw no one else determines if your commitment worthy, you already know that you are 😀

Posted by DonnaLibra
Libras move slow when it comes to relationships. (Unless you're Travis Kelsey going after billionaire Taylor Swift). It just takes us time to decide if we are with the right person. The good news is you're a Gemini and we get along like a house on fire. I know y'all like banter and to tease, but don't do too much teasing as that starts getting on our nerves after a while.

When I say tease I more so mean with my words, like saying slick things/being flirty. But yeeeeah I’ve never dealt with a libra romantically. From what I’ve read they’re right up my alley. We shall see 😀

Posted by NotALibra

Posted by DonnaLibra

Posted by NotALibra

Posted by DonnaLibra

Posted by NotALibra
I'm not a Libra so I wouldn't know

What Sun sign are you?

idk , whats your favourite?

Scorpio

Sorry to hear you are mentally ill 😢 hope you get better one day

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Yeah, me too.

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Posted by Nabilah92

Posted by Ballerina
"I can already tell that we could have a great connection."
- and she met man two days ago! If that's not optimism idk what is!

LOL is it? Idk the conversation flows, to me that's a good sign.
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It is, but it's a good thing to have it obviously. Follow your feelings and see where it goes, I'm sure it can be something great eventually. You can usually tell when you "click" with someone right away

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Right?! For me I can tell after the first conversation. Thank you for your kind response 🙂 I'll try to keep everyone posted

Posted by NotALibra
I'm not a Libra so I wouldn't know

Lol tf

Posted by Nabilah92
Hi beautiful people. I’m curious about a Libra guy I met 2 days ago. He was my waiter and he was being so nice. It took me awhile to realize he was flirting with me. We’ve been messaging ever since and the convo is great (which is a must for my Gemini dominant chart). He’s 9 years younger than me (this was almost a hard stop) lol but he seems so intelligent. He’s very charming as well. He’s offered to help me with working out since I’m getting back into it.

My question is how do I keep him on his toes? Do I let him take the lead? Or suggest meeting up? Naturally I’m very funny and flirty and Iike to tease with my words. I also have a habit of taking the lead in my dating situations (I can’t help it, if a man is moving too slow I’ll push things along). I’m not looking to fall in love but it would be nice to have a meaningful connection. I can already tell that we could have a great connection. Thanks peeps

How do u even know your waiters a Libra

Posted by NotALibra

Posted by DonnaLibra

Posted by NotALibra

Posted by DonnaLibra

Posted by NotALibra
I'm not a Libra so I wouldn't know

What Sun sign are you?

idk , whats your favourite?

Scorpio

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Sorry to hear you are mentally ill hope you get better one day

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Too funny