Gemini libra fights

Gemini here. I dated a libra man for four months. It became hot and heavy quick. Sex every other day, dates, dancing, dinner, outdoors.. etc. I was about to travel to Europe for a month. We laid in bed and chatted for about an hour about our future. He wasn't sure where he wanted to live when his lease is up in November of 2019. I told him I wasn't expecting a title, a ring, or forever.. but I asked if we were only going to see one another while we still get to know one another. He said we would talk about it before I left for Europe. Long story short, I reached out to him the day before my flight and I told him we should meet up and talk about where we left off. He didn't want to meet up. I responded poorly.. I stated we probably won't see each other until I get back then. And I told him that it felt unfair to leave this all hanging while I am traveling. It ended up in an argument because I wanted to see him before I left, and he didn't seem interested in meeting. He actually refused at one point. I told him I needed clarity. He messaged me back saying he had feelings for me but that he doesn't see it as a big deal if we saw one another before I left or not. I didn't respond for a week. And I'm in Europe now. I was hurt. I'm a Gemini but I also am a cancer moon, and Mercury. Ironically he has a Scorpio moon and mercury. I viewed it as rejection and I understand me not responding for a while probably hurt him. So I texted him after I cooled off.. and asked him if we could talk when he had the chance. I never heard from him. I still haven't heard back from him and that was about 10 days ago.

It's crazy- as a Gemini I never felt so comfortable with someone. Comfortable to confide, have sex, bond, go out, stay in.. with anyone. Two social butterfly's living the dream. But also those water signs are very prominent in our charts.

It's extremely hard for me to let go. I'm giving him his space. But now I just feel I'm never going to hear from him again..

damn, i am shocked he did that as a libra. As a libra female if im fcking u doing all that, i am all in.. Sorr you had to deal with that

could be one of the bad Libra male syndrome traits - difficult to commit ... not sure why but they sure know ...

Same with the poster above. If I'm having sex with you then I'm all in. You're just dealing with a douche canoe.

It's working out this way so it'll leave tou free to meet the man of your dreams in Europe 🙂

Could also be that he doesn't want the emotional distress of getting attached to you pre-trip then having it in his mind if say, you didn't contact him for a couple of days.

Posted by tctaap

could be one of the bad Libra male syndrome traits - difficult to commit ... not sure why but they sure know ...

I'm exactly the same as OP man sign with Libra sun scorpions moon. If a lady's is not comforting and flips on me great, I see that as flakery and that will just free up space for another lover. Libras love love and if you can't cater the next inline will. Life is to short to settle for less.

If you give Libras an ultimatum it will surprise you how strong and defiant a Libra will be.

Posted by Kyralane10We laid in bed and chatted for about an hour about our future.

One pillow chat about lease end doesn’t really count for much. When you asked for exclusivity (because let’s be real, thats what it was) he avoided the topic and then avoided you.

I think your way more into him than he is into you.

You haven't heard from him because he is no longer interested. He enjoyed the sex and time he spent with you but didn't want to take it further than that and didn't want a confrontation to have to tell you that.