libra man does this, i don't know what to think

maybe it's obvious (i'm sorry if i am in denial) but when libra goes back and forth, is it really over and he just can't let go? or is it possible he will come back? somebody please explain libra man and this behavior. honestly, truthfully, why is this? you can be brutal. i need to know if there's a chance or not.

my libra ex and i were together for almost 10 months and we decided to break up. one day he randomly said he had some concerns when he thought about our future, that he could be with me for years and thought of a future with me but that these things may not change, as they are significant incompatibilities between who we are (logically we are not right for each other). nonetheless we have feelings. he is scared of being with me if it's going to end because we're not right for each other and it won't work, he does not want to feel what he feels if it doesn't have a future. He is ready to get married in the next couple years, he wants something with a future (he's in his late 20's).

i ask if that means he wants to end things with me, he says no. but these concerns stay in my mind and i get scared and so

i push him to break up with me.

since then he still calls me saying he is checking on me because he cares about me and i have done destructive things after the break up. he tries to make plans with me and talks about us spending time together as if nothing has changed, asks me to come over and hang out with him (I have twice, and we behaved as if we were still together, nothing had changed).

But I don't want this in-between, it's painful. so I push him to make a decision about me and he won't.

We don't talk for almost three weeks and then he calls me again and wants to "check on me to see if [I'm] ok." I tell him I can't be just friends with him and I ask him why he is really calling me when he knows how I feel, he says to check on me, I say but really why, he doesn't answer.

I ask him to tell me that he doesn't want to be with me so that I can let go, I ask him to help me let go by telling me that. He doesn't say anything. I ask him to tell me loud and clear that I should move on from him, because if he doesn't than I will still keep holding on. He doesn't say anything.

what does he want? is this just libra indeciveness, he's not sure he made the right choice but and he still wants to keep me as an option, or does he truly care, or? what does this mean when a libra does this?

It's libra indeciveness. i believe that he do care about you but don't know how to deal with you, libra's alwas seek for the perfect one which it's a endless search lol i bet he want to find it in you, it take two to understand but if you guys not in the same page then i guess you guys jus not meant to be you know.

I think he wants to be with you. He just needs to assure himself that you are "the one." It's really important if you want him. Putting aside astrology for a few minutes because even though as a libra he might piss you off sometimes, you can always overcome stuff, anyways like hypnotic saids "do you picture yourself with him" cause if you do then tell him. Were just looking for answers and the "right" way to go. Imo scorpios are amazing people to be with. I always feel comfortable and feel as if they are me.

Oh this is a shitty situation.

* libra goes back and forth, is it really over and he just can't let go? or is it possible he will come back? somebody please explain libra man and this behavior. honestly, truthfully, why is this? you can be brutal. i need to know if there's a chance or not.

I think he loves you. But, if what you are saying is true, he doesn't see a future with you.

The question is do you want to hurt now or hurt later. Which sucks! but feelings aside ... do YOU want to be in a relationship with a future or not?

If you want something with a future ... this guy isn't for you honey.