Libra man driving me crazy.

Thank u flowingwater! I'm definitely leaving him alone. It's just really messed up because I wasted so much time. I just don't understand it..why are Libras so indecisive.

Thank u everyone for the replies. Everyone pretty much answered the question. I think it's the combination of him being a libra and him not being that into me. He's only that into me when the moment hits him...which isn't good enough for me...It's time for me to leave him alone.

He can only do what I allow him to do...

You sound like a oxymoron. I'm surprised he still contacts you at all. If you didn't text or call me or invite me out I wouldn't bother messing with you. So yea he's not interested in you. It's not the mans job to always he the one to get your attention. Plenty of other fish in the sea.

You get in what you put in toots

Lol @starchild63. I didn't find it necessary to write the whole book on My relationship with this man. But if u must know I have done my share. So truth is he's not interested and as result not worth my time. But, thanks for your input.

I'm not sure what needs to be said since you already said it all in your OP.

If you need validation, you've seen the bs for what it is and are acting accordingly. Gold star. Don't think it's going to change though. Until you see actions backing up those flaky words, he's full of shit.

@rockyroadicecream..I'd like to thank you and everyone else that commented. I was looking for validation. I had a questionable moment. Thanks for the support. I don't think he is going to change either.

I suggest you find 5 Libra men in a messenger . Add them in your list and start talk with them . You will be shocked to see they all reply the identic way to your questions ! I did this to find out some responses and they all are the same !
Yes, your Libra is not doing that because he is not into you ! Now way ! But he feels you are too good and he can be back always to you ! If he come and go and come back again, he knows already this ! Do not contact him in any way, look his actions only and if he come with serious proof that he loves you and do things to be together, then yes, go on with him. If he come just to have from where to leave , then please be the one to leave him first ! and forever ! ( this to not wasting time anymore ! )

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Posted by Koniucha
It is just their nature, I suppose. My daughter is a Libra and can be quite indecisive.

This. All libras I met are like this.

Posted by tiziani
Yes, all Libras.

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it's true. we're all like this. i mean, maybe some of us are like this. but only when certain things happen. when other things happen, we're not like this at all. but maybe some of us are. some of us are not.

i suppose it also depends on moon placements. and if it got to do with relationships i guess venus placements also come into play. so that will affect things.

are we like that for all things? i mean, even the little stuff? the big stuff, i figure everyone is a little indecisive because no one wants to make a mistake they will regret so i guess that really has nothing to do with being a libra.

so are we all like that? i don't know. i can't decide.

Thanks Delia, since then I haven't seen him. He has called and said he wants to talk...but could talk at the time. To be expected mia.
Do needless to say I have left him alone. It's not ez..because I really like him...but I love myself more..I'm tired of that revolving door.I must admit. I still get puzzled by his actions..

If he insisting, you can let him talk to you, if you really really like him too . I mean, put the card on both face. See which one is play better. Talk to him if he insisting , but be cool, giving answeres as " I am fine" or "OK" of "thank you " or anything else that is not related to your relationship with him , is still fine . Keep cool , but show him no interest. Reply to his text later, after 1 -2 days. Say you are busy . In this way, if you want to know him more, you use this time to see his other face. If you want to end everything with him, also can do it in this way and get more and more "busy" in time. This is a nice way to end a relationship without to hurt that person. But if he really did something so bad to you as mine did and you feel you can't pass over it, then simple, cut all of contacts with him . Is depend of how grave your things are. Take care !

Posted by Delia
If he insisting, you can let him talk to you, if you really really like him too . I mean, put the card on both face. See which one is play better. Talk to him if he insisting , but be cool, giving answeres as " I am fine" or "OK" of "thank you " or anything else that is not related to your relationship with him , is still fine . Keep cool , but show him no interest. Reply to his text later, after 1 -2 days. Say you are busy . In this way, if you want to know him more, you use this time to see his other face. If you want to end everything with him, also can do it in this way and get more and more "busy" in time. This is a nice way to end a relationship without to hurt that person. But if he really did something so bad to you as mine did and you feel you can't pass over it, then simple, cut all of contacts with him . Is depend of how grave your things are. Take care !

one of the fastest ways to lose a libra.

No, is not true ! No lose a Libra if talk with him cool ! Wrong ! You are Libra probably and I know you always need attention , but if you really need it, you learn to give it also ! This is for all Libras available, not only for you . She have not to show feelings again after she was hurt , even you Libra want this , but no woman should be so stupid to show warm and love when a Libra hurt her so much ! Being cool make him see a difference and thinking and say sorry if he is well educated.... if not , he have to learn to treat a woman , because until now, in all this stories on this forum, no Libra man is capable of a happy relationship , to make happy his partner instead to disappear and to acting like a coward always and without care at all !

Posted by Delia
No, is not true ! No lose a Libra if talk with him cool ! Wrong ! You are Libra probably and I know you always need attention , but if you really need it, you learn to give it also ! This is for all Libras available, not only for you . She have not to show feelings again after she was hurt , even you Libra want this , but no woman should be so stupid to show warm and love when a Libra hurt her so much ! Being cool make him see a difference and thinking and say sorry if he is well educated.... if not , he have to learn to treat a woman , because until now, in all this stories on this forum, no Libra man is capable of a happy relationship , to make happy his partner instead to disappear and to acting like a coward always and without care at all !

we mirror. you're cool with us, we'll be cool with you. it's that simple.

No way ! I was warm and he was cold , so you don't mirror at all ! You are the most strange creatures in this world ! all Libras ! Change the Hell your personality and way to be ! Learn to respect peoples and stop games with persons who care and love you ! ( I wish this be possible ! )

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Posted by flowingwater

Posted by Koniucha
It is just their nature, I suppose. My daughter is a Libra and can be quite indecisive.

This. All libras I met are like this.

Posted by tiziani
Yes, all Libras.

it's true. we're all like this. i mean, maybe some of us are like this. but only when certain things happen. when other things happen, we're not like this at all. but maybe some of us are. some of us are not.

i suppose it also depends on moon placements. and if it got to do with relationships i guess venus placements also come into play. so that will affect things.

are we like that for all things? i mean, even the little stuff? the big stuff, i figure everyone is a little indecisive because no one wants to make a mistake they will regret so i guess that really has nothing to do with being a libra.

so are we all like that? i don't know. i can't decide.

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Well now..Is that indecisive enough for you??..LOL...Luv it
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Posted by jeane

Posted by Delia
No, is not true ! No lose a Libra if talk with him cool ! Wrong ! You are Libra probably and I know you always need attention , but if you really need it, you learn to give it also ! This is for all Libras available, not only for you . She have not to show feelings again after she was hurt , even you Libra want this , but no woman should be so stupid to show warm and love when a Libra hurt her so much ! Being cool make him see a difference and thinking and say sorry if he is well educated.... if not , he have to learn to treat a woman , because until now, in all this stories on this forum, no Libra man is capable of a happy relationship , to make happy his partner instead to disappear and to acting like a coward always and without care at all !

we mirror. you're cool with us, we'll be cool with you. it's that simple.

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In other idea, it means when you are angry on one people from the town, you are angry /cool on all the town ! So wrong thinking , for sure something is wrong with you Libras ...

I'm more indecisive than I care to admit. In matters of love, I fall and get up pretty quick if things seem to be flakey, going south, or up in the air too much. My mind is confusing enough I don't need my love matters up in the air confusing me even more, there has to be some sort of balance or I will shut down. That being said, when I truly like or want someone I'm only aloof or at least act aloof when I'm not sure if we are on the same page. I find that I often just keep it moving and disappear if the person doesn't make their intentions clear once I know I??ve made it known how much I like them.
Now for someone I don't like in a romantic way, yes I'm guilty of popping in and out. I don't do it on purpose, but it's simply because I don't feel the need to talk or see them everyday, after all Im not into them enough.
When I like someone though, trust me it's taking everything in me not to ask to see them every damn day.lol. I'm respectful of other people's space on the surface, but on the inside I'm like damn I miss them! Ugh. Even if I just seen them 2 hours ago.

My Venus is in Libra and I mirror.
This seems to be a crazy time for Libra Men whereas it was Scorps being the douchebags a month or so ago. I wonder if there is something to that? Lol

The way I understand this type of behaviour is pretty simple. He is using you as a rebound girl. When he is absent he is with someone else. When that doesn't work out he uses you until the next potential comes along. Good your jamming the revolving door and putting a stop to this game and a cycle that could go on for wayyyyy longer than it ever should.