@Geminlove
12 Years
Libra men and bitches they fall for
Why Libra Men Fall for Cold Women
Libra men are attracted to confidence and mystery, which can sometimes come across as coldness. They seek balance and harmony, often drawn to individuals who challenge their perceptions. Understanding their desire for intellectual connection and emotional depth can explain their attraction to seemingly distant partners.
Posted by MissFisk
Damn, man. My dad's a Libra. You calling my mom a bitch?
Do you consider your mom a cold bitch?
Because a lot of Libra men are prone to "white knight" syndrome.
They think they can fix someone's fucked up issues, so they pursue. Being someone's savior does wonders for that fragile, insecure ego of theirs.
I have a question. What is your definition of a bitch? The reason I ask is because my ex libra did so much immature things that it brought out the worst disciplinarian I've ever known. Lol. Like seriously, he needed to be disciplined and my attitude would be considered bitchy by a third person who doesn't know the inner story.
Secondly, one of my really good guy friends was dating a double Pisces chick. Now I've never known a Pisces to be rude and "bitchy"; although I do know that they have a terrible bad side. Initially when my friend told me things she would do and say to him, I'd be like "wow, that's really mean! Why would she do that?!" I do believe that there's two sides to a story. So, lo and behold, I meet her at his party and she ends up confiding in me about the things that my libra friend does, which irks her beyond her tolerance level. And I must say that after knowing both sides, I would be pissed as well if my bf was repeatedly doing the things that my friend was doing. As someone outside of a relationship, you don't know the inner story to call someone a bitch.
@MissFisk: i highly doubt i know your mom IRL 😐 lol
@rocky: and then in the end they get screwed over...it just happened to my libra friend and i feel bad for him, i warned him and he ended up losing a friend over her, he gets all protective if someone talks about her, shes a sag btw
@aquarius09: I know both of them personally (libra and sag)...she is 24, doesnt have a social life and puts everyone in the down lows around her. Flirts with other guys right in front of my libra friend whilst knowing he has feelings for her. He'll ask her something and she wont even bother looking up and sometimes even walks away WHILE he is talking.
Posted by Geminlove
@aquarius09: I know both of them personally (libra and sag)...she is 24, doesnt have a social life and puts everyone in the down lows around her. Flirts with other guys right in front of my libra friend whilst knowing he has feelings for her. He'll ask her something and she wont even bother looking up and sometimes even walks away WHILE he is talking.
Ok, so how is that bitchy? She's not even his gf! She owes him nothing. She's a love interest for him, and her behavior shows that she's not interested in her male friend. How many times has a guy friend liked you and you didn't like him back? So if you flirted with other guys while you were out with your male friend, does that make you a bitch? Are you suppose to cater to his feelings?
Btw, the responsibility is on him that he likes a person who has no interest in him. It doesn't make her a bitch by default. Lol
My brother does that when I'm talking to him. He'll just go off on something else, not really paying attention.
I proceed to throw something at him for being a rude asshole. Get some damned manners already. I'd like to meet a Sag who ISN'T a tacky asshole.
Btw, the responsibility is on him that he likes a person who has no interest in him
THIS. Couldn't agree more.
In all fairness though; her question was more to the effect of WHY are they drawn to women that couldn't care less & demonstrate their apathy loud and clear(or maybe downright treats him like crap in worst case scenarios).
To which, I do not know the answer(s). LOL. I've never known a Libra guy who fit the bill & consistently liked/dated women that couldn't be bothered with them.
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Posted by Geminlove
@aquarius09: I know both of them personally (libra and sag)...she is 24, doesnt have a social life and puts everyone in the down lows around her. Flirts with other guys right in front of my libra friend whilst knowing he has feelings for her. He'll ask her something and she wont even bother looking up and sometimes even walks away WHILE he is talking.Ok, so how is that bitchy? She's not even his gf! She owes him nothing. She's a love interest for him, and her behavior shows that she's not interested in her male friend. How many times has a guy friend liked you and you didn't like him back? So if you flirted with other guys while you were out with your male friend, does that make you a bitch? Are you suppose to cater to his feelings?
Btw, the responsibility is on him that he likes a person who has no interest in him. It doesn't make her a bitch by default. Lol
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Agreed. If she's told and shown him she ain't interested, that's his problem.
I've always had more of an issue with people saying one thing and acting a different way. What if that was his girlfriend and she flirts in front of him?
Libras are known to tolerate way too much shit.
I can't explain it. I know I've done it.
If you KNOW someone likes you but you dont like them, that's perfectly fine. But dont purposely flirt with guys in front of them..and i consider that bitchy. As for walking away like that while hes talking is disrespectful.
Why did i bother posting this thread? I see it happen all the time and no i dont like him, we are childhood friends and i just got out of a serious relationship with a bull
@raindancer: im curious as to how you came up with that conclusion....from now on pls refrain from posting on my threads
@rocky: yeah, thanks 🙂
Maybe they like strength since they're so mushy lol. My boyfriend is like that, so maybe they don't have the white knight syndrome they could just like their opposites. But I know my libra mom would def be considered a "bitch" most of my libra friends really have that strong personality lol. So maybe your libra guy friend just made a mistake or likes to be walked all over
@fireybunny: that could be it, except she is the only one who gets away with it. He has a leo rising and is rather prideful and is respected. But around her he is her pup (im not exaggerating)
*@fireykitty
Sorry about that im on my phone
Bumping considering the topics lately.
Trolls be trollin.
Posted by aquarius09
I have a question. What is your definition of a bitch? The reason I ask is because my ex libra did so much immature things that it brought out the worst disciplinarian I've ever known. Lol. Like seriously, he needed to be disciplined and my attitude would be considered bitchy by a third person who doesn't know the inner story.Secondly, one of my really good guy friends was dating a double Pisces chick. Now I've never known a Pisces to be rude and "bitchy"; although I do know that they have a terrible bad side. Initially when my friend told me things she would do and say to him, I'd be like "wow, that's really mean! Why would she do that?!" I do believe that there's two sides to a story. So, lo and behold, I meet her at his party and she ends up confiding in me about the things that my libra friend does, which irks her beyond her tolerance level. And I must say that after knowing both sides, I would be pissed as well if my bf was repeatedly doing the things that my friend was doing. As someone outside of a relationship, you don't know the inner story to call someone a bitch.
Yep, I loved when my Aquarius disciplined me.
Posted by Geminlove
@aquarius09: I know both of them personally (libra and sag)...she is 24, doesnt have a social life and puts everyone in the down lows around her. Flirts with other guys right in front of my libra friend whilst knowing he has feelings for her. He'll ask her something and she wont even bother looking up and sometimes even walks away WHILE he is talking.Ok, so how is that bitchy? She's not even his gf! She owes him nothing. She's a love interest for him, and her behavior shows that she's not interested in her male friend. How many times has a guy friend liked you and you didn't like him back? So if you flirted with other guys while you were out with your male friend, does that make you a bitch? Are you suppose to cater to his feelings?
Btw, the responsibility is on him that he likes a person who has no interest in him. It doesn't make her a bitch by default. Lol
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Agree.
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If i had a dollar for every time i see a flirty, gentlemen-like libra man fall for a cold bitch, i'd be a millionaire. Why do you do this to yourself? I get that a woman throwing herself at you isnt appealing or classy but you gotta draw the line at some point. Libra men and women are lovely people an i like being around them but i feel sad every time it happens...