Libra men..

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So i know this is a hot topic as always, the libra man. Let me just begin this by saying i am a cancer woman, Taurus moon, Pisces rising, and Gemini Venus. He is a libra sun, Gemini moon, Capricorn rising, and Leo Venus. We have been together for about over a year now.

All is generally well but i have done a lot of reading in the past about libra men only to think no way! Not my libra! And now some of these things seem to be rearing their ugly heads. He lies. White lies, “omitting the truth” lies, you name it. He lied to me about feeding the dog while i was at work, he lied to me when we first met about his living and job situation. He also has an infatuation with every woman around him it seems. When we first met he would make sure to point out every attractive female he seen on tv, which i put an end to. It’s not that I’m naive and believe that he doesn’t see other attractive women but i really don’t need to hear about it, save that for your boys. I don’t point out every man who’s attractive so that he can look. There was also 2 instances of him talking to women on insta and also an ex thru fb. The girl thru insta was before we technically became “official” so although it stayed in my mind i tried to move past that, even tho the conversation was not cool at all and they had this conversation while i was at his house (he also lied to HER about his job too) and the ex the conversation was seemingly innocent, especially since she lives in another state, but he was deleting them as they were conversing. He claimed it was because it was innocent and he knew I’d blow it out of proportion, but my thoughts on that is first of all if he was open no i would not, and then secondly then why even do it? He hadn’t talked to this girl in 4 years and all the sudden she sends him a friend request when he gets into a relationship and messages him. i only found out because my son was on his phone and something popped up so i read it. And lastly the laziness and procrastination. It may be the biggest downfall. He doesn’t get things done, he bullshits until the very last minute for things important or not. He never seems to want to do anything outside the home. sitting on the couch watching tv is his fav thing to do and i hate the damn tv, and i hate sitting around for extended periods of time. I need a lot stimulation, i believe that comes from the Gemini Venus. I’m a vocal person but It seems i can’t really voice my opinion because to him I’m nagging.

He’s great person, heart of gold, amazing with my son, although stubborn at first usually takes what i say into account, romantic, affectionate, does a lot for me, isn’t afraid to show me off, all that. I just don’t really know what to do because I’m feeling a little frustrated and bored lately. I also get this ‘looking over my shoulder constantly feeling’ sometimes because of the lies. I guess i just needed to vent and i would really like to hear about others’ experiences as well with this sign. Especially if they had the same pair up.
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Bellaxox
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Posted by brendaf007
THE ex thing is back up. I find Libra men always want to know they’re desirable to someone and they still have it going on. I had a Libra ex and there were plenty of white lies. In fact there was a little bit more manipulation on his side when he said I was nagging. If you love him talk to him and don’t let him sidestep it.
110% this! I have found the same thing.. they just want to feel like they are still hot shit.. by someone other than the girl they have been sticking it too.

As far as the lies.. Is an ongoing issue I face as well. Funny I got the same lie as OP about the job AND living arrangement when we first met.
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Yes! The job and living arrangement lie did throw me off at first and weirded me out a little but i just chalked it up to him possibly being a little embarrassed since he was 28 and living with his mother. But he was a single guy no kids and was in the military so i figured he was just living easy while he could. But now that i see a little bit of a pattern of more lies it got me thinking that maybe it wasn’t just a pride thing but more of a habit. A little offputting.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Yikes....those moons are tough together.

Gemini moon craves change and flexibility. Taurus is stubborn af and wants stability and consistency.
That makes a lot of sense. He’s very open minded about traditional things and I’m very traditional and consistent. I want lots of stability and his head is in the clouds sometimes. I believe my Gemini Venus does help a bit but i do notice it.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Yikes....those moons are tough together.

Gemini moon craves change and flexibility. Taurus is stubborn af and wants stability and consistency.
That makes a lot of sense. He’s very open minded about traditional things and I’m very traditional and consistent. I want lots of stability and his head is in the clouds sometimes. I believe my Gemini Venus does help a bit but i do notice it.
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Do you live together yet? Moon sign really shows itself at home.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Yikes....those moons are tough together.

Gemini moon craves change and flexibility. Taurus is stubborn af and wants stability and consistency.
That makes a lot of sense. He’s very open minded about traditional things and I’m very traditional and consistent. I want lots of stability and his head is in the clouds sometimes. I believe my Gemini Venus does help a bit but i do notice it.
Do you live together yet? Moon sign really shows itself at home.
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Yes we do