@snowflake017
8 Years
I'm having sexual problems with an Aquarius man. Can someone help me?
How to Improve Sexual Connection with an Aquarius Man
Rebuilding intimacy with an Aquarius man involves honest communication, exploring new ways to connect, and understanding his unique emotional needs. Focus on creating a comfortable environment for both of you to share desires and concerns. Patience and openness can help reignite passion and improve your sexual relationship over time.
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Maybe he is secretly gay... ? What made him pursue you at the first place otherwise? Something doesn't sounds OK
I’m a cancer woman newly dating an aqua man and I think we are a pretty good match. How’s everything else besides the sex issue?
Is he on any medications? I know that can lower your sex drive. Maybe he needs to change something.
Posted by Sheever
Maybe he is secretly gay... ? What made him pursue you at the first place otherwise? Something doesn't sounds OK
Yep. Even my blind dog agrees.
Posted by snowflake017
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. .....We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
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I’m an Aqua and my sex drive isn’t low.
you may try asking him if he would like to try something new in the bedroom (or out). maybe try finding something he can take interest in like role play for example.
i would also say looking at your ages, that you may be in two different places sexually right now. you may be still experiencing an increased libido and vice versa for him. if he is willing to work with you, i see no reason why this should be the end of the relationship if everything else is great.
you may need to talk to him about your needs and see if its something he's willing to explore with you.
I think you need to just leave him... in all honesty. You are 30 Years old this is your Saturn return... many woman get married for the wrong reasons... maybe he has money, a house, or social network... or connections not saying that has to be it. Though...
Did you change recently?
In all honesty though I don’t think you will or can make this work. So why did you in the first place... it would be one thing if you both enjoyed the sex... many woman get married at that 27 number because they feel it is the right thing to do.
Piscesmoon
Posted by Supes
And why the hell would you marry someone who sucked in bed? You KNEW you wouldn’t be satisfied on the first place.Quit complaining about the guy because this is all you
because women make decisions with feelings. "i love him it can always get better. we'll try!"
whereas a man is not the same. obv.
i stay with women who i don't have awesome sex with regularly because our emotional and intellectual connections are satisfying.
But, they don’t last.
That’s not very smart
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sexual passion stemming from infatuation doesn't last either.
there's a reason why they call it the honeymoon phase.
you deserved to be kissed and by someone who knows how.
Posted by snowflake017
Hello, I'm a cancer woman married to an aquarius man. I know we're not supposed to be a good match but I didn't want to believe it at first. Now I'm having sexual issues with my husband and I think it will only get worst.At the beginning when he started pursuing me he used to talk about sex all the time and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. It seemed weird because he really seemed into and when the time came he acted totally uninterested.
I tried to ignore all this because he's a good guy and has other amazing qualities. But after the first time we had sex, he just stopped talking about that subject completely. He became non-sexual and when I tried to bring up the subject or send him a sexy picture he would act like it was no big deal. I ended up marrying him anyway because I love everything about him, except the sex part and he told me once we lived together everything was going to change because before our relationship was long distance. Well, I was stupid to believe him because nothing changed!!!! We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent. I ended up getting bored of him and now I lost my desire for him completely. I feel like sex has become a duty and I'm just dead every time we have sex. I don't have the desire to kiss him or touch him anymore and the worst part is I can't even fake that I'm having a good time. He has completely kill my passion for sex!!! Of course, I would love to have sex but with someone else because I feel that I can't be horny and passionate with this aquarius man 😢 I had amazing sex with my previous boyfriends and now I'm stuck with someone with a low sex drive for the rest of my life.
I realized my mistake of marrying him but now I don't want to make a second mistake by having children with him. I told him it was better to end things, as I don't want to bring children to the world without passion and we're not sexually compatible and he got furious!!!
He said he's never going to divorce me and that my duty as a wife is to try to make things work instead of thinking of divorce. He's right but how am I going to get my sexual desire back? He wants to have children with me even if I don't feel happy with out sex life. Since he won't divorce me and wants me to fight for our marriage how can I get back my desire when he never showed interest in sex to begin with? I feel like he's taking the blame on me and it's not fair that I'm the one who has to make an effort when I felt unloved by him. What can I do? Is there any hope? By the way, I'm 30 years old and he's 41
He could be gay, on the verge of impotence or not sexually attracted to you. My ex Aqua was into some weird sht I can never speak of to anyone for as long as I live. Lol!
So sorry to hear 😢
I think you either have sexual chemistry with someone or not
Often it's not with the person you are married to
Sorry, but I see this a lot .... to my mind, it's not something you can create
Posted by snowflake017
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. .....We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
If she’s decent looking? I hadn’t thought of that. Legit question though. He could’ve seen her without them clothes and got grossed out, but said “fuck it”.
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He married her! And he wouldn't divorce her. So....—
41 in a man is there prime again this is where their hottest,3 times a month is cringe worthy im an aqua and yes im not that sexual like rabbits but when im with my girl we do it atleast 3 times a wk mind you theres so many people always around us but we found ways😉,then again im an aqua with a scorp moon and mars in taurus(my gf doesnt last long either)
If she’s decent looking? I hadn’t thought of that. Legit question though. He could’ve seen her without them clothes and got grossed out, but said “fuck it”.
yes, but he must ve seen her naked before. or at least make an educated assumption. is something about her body? however, if he didnt feel any attraction, why go on with the wedding anyway? looks like a marriage of convenience, where one of the main characters is either into gerald's game bedroom gymnastics or secretly gay.
what do you think ? @Ravishing & other gay ppl on dxp
Lol. That’s messed up yo!
Like I said, he must’ve said “fuck it” and rolled with it
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Except he doesn't! Fuck or roll - he does not!
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
you deserved to be kissed and by someone who knows how.
...and where...
Posted by MyStarsShine
I think you either have sexual chemistry with someone or notlet me explain this to you, from a male's point of you: it's not like that. a man's dick has a life and a mind of its own. you don t have to be in love or to have a sexual chemistry with her in order to bang your wife. the nature took care of these things. it goes like this: male sees female body. man gets a boner. especially if it's a woman you re seeing naked for the 1st time. novelty = arousal; this is not about chemistry, these people are already married. this man doesn't seem to be into women at all, not just her. why marry someone you know you won t be sharing the bed with? it s preposterous, almost like a decoy.
sorry ladies, but this is how im understanding this situation
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Thank you for the male view point...
and this is why i remain single
Posted by snowflake017
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. .....We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
If she’s decent looking? I hadn’t thought of that. Legit question though. He could’ve seen her without them clothes and got grossed out, but said “fuck it”.
He married her! And he wouldn't divorce her. So....—
She said yes to a man who didn’t and never has satisfied her. Now she’s complaining and regretting her decision. She shouldn’t have said yes.
I know this topic is easy for you to defend since you’re openly cheating on your husband for the same issues.
Quit trying to turn the world into whores
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You afraid for your bride to turn a whore?
Posted by snowflake017
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. .....We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
If she’s decent looking? I hadn’t thought of that. Legit question though. He could’ve seen her without them clothes and got grossed out, but said “fuck it”.
He married her! And he wouldn't divorce her. So....—
She said yes to a man who didn’t and never has satisfied her. Now she’s complaining and regretting her decision. She shouldn’t have said yes.
I know this topic is easy for you to defend since you’re openly cheating on your husband for the same issues.
Quit trying to turn the world into whores
You afraid for your bride to turn a whore?
Nope.
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So what do you care about world whores then? As long as is yours isn't...
You scared shitless! All men are. Ego!
Posted by snowflake017
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. .....We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
If she’s decent looking? I hadn’t thought of that. Legit question though. He could’ve seen her without them clothes and got grossed out, but said “fuck it”.
He married her! And he wouldn't divorce her. So....—
She said yes to a man who didn’t and never has satisfied her. Now she’s complaining and regretting her decision. She shouldn’t have said yes.
I know this topic is easy for you to defend since you’re openly cheating on your husband for the same issues.
Quit trying to turn the world into whores
You afraid for your bride to turn a whore?
Nope.
So what do you care about world whores then? As long as is yours isn't...
You scared shitless! All men are. Ego!
Who’s scared? I know I’m not. I got laid last night and this morning. What’s to worry about. I take care of my woman
You’re ego is way bigger than mine.
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You think it's quantity? Lmao!
Posted by MyStarsShine
I think you either have sexual chemistry with someone or notlet me explain this to you, from a male's point of you: it's not like that. a man's dick has a life and a mind of its own. you don t have to be in love or to have a sexual chemistry with her in order to bang your wife. the nature took care of these things. it goes like this: male sees female body. man gets a boner. especially if it's a woman you re seeing naked for the 1st time. novelty = arousal; this is not about chemistry, these people are already married. this man doesn't seem to be into women at all, not just her. why marry someone you know you won t be sharing the bed with? it s preposterous, almost like a decoy.
sorry ladies, but this is how im understanding this situation
Thank you for the male view point...
and this is why i remain single
That’s not even close to my perspective
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I guess not 🙂
Thankfully some men transcend that base level mentality and mature into something lots of women connect with
Thank you
Posted by MyStarsShine
I think you either have sexual chemistry with someone or notlet me explain this to you, from a male's point of you: it's not like that. a man's dick has a life and a mind of its own. you don t have to be in love or to have a sexual chemistry with her in order to bang your wife. the nature took care of these things. it goes like this: male sees female body. man gets a boner. especially if it's a woman you re seeing naked for the 1st time. novelty = arousal; this is not about chemistry, these people are already married. this man doesn't seem to be into women at all, not just her. why marry someone you know you won t be sharing the bed with? it s preposterous, almost like a decoy.
sorry ladies, but this is how im understanding this situation
Thank you for the male view point...
and this is why i remain single
ok i described the human male as if he were some kind of evolved ape.
but bottom line is men get aroused pretty easy. all it takes is an average lookin warm naked body next to u. the moment she starts moaning, its on. what the OP describes is a different behavior that doesnt fall under this category.
and the 1st 3-4 yrs in a relationship, the chemistry is pure and unadulterated. there is one thing to be unable to perform because you can t get an erection, and another to be disinterested, like she said. and sex 3 times/ month?
i read some letters written by william burroughs (aqua)'s wife, joan (aqua) to kerouac, in which she was complaining that her husband (infamously gay; bisexual at best, he had 2 kids with joan but he loved boys since he was 13; he died at 80+) was only banging her 4 times a month, and always complaining about this 'domestic duty'.
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Sorry, but i can't take the *banging* thing seriously.....you sound angry and you come across as being disrespectful
Are you very young?
Posted by Aquarius3189
41 in a man is there prime again this is where their hottest,3 times a month is cringe worthy im an aqua and yes im not that sexual like rabbits but when im with my girl we do it atleast 3 times a wk mind you theres so many people always around us but we found ways😉,then again im an aqua with a scorp moon and mars in taurus(my gf doesnt last long either)
Men are in their sexual prime in their 20s, not 40s.
Damn, 3xs per month. We hit that quota in the last 12 hrs. Twice last night and again this morning.
Posted by Aquarius3189
41 in a man is there prime again this is where their hottest,3 times a month is cringe worthy im an aqua and yes im not that sexual like rabbits but when im with my girl we do it atleast 3 times a wk mind you theres so many people always around us but we found ways😉,then again im an aqua with a scorp moon and mars in taurus(my gf doesnt last long either)Men are in their sexual prime in their 20s, not 40s.
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20s and 40s its like a cycle,im always in a group of married women so they discuss this a lot about sex,they say its like something turned off their mens sex drive when they where in their 30s but when they hit 40s hallellujah!😂
Posted by Aquarius3189
41 in a man is there prime again this is where their hottest,3 times a month is cringe worthy im an aqua and yes im not that sexual like rabbits but when im with my girl we do it atleast 3 times a wk mind you theres so many people always around us but we found ways😉,then again im an aqua with a scorp moon and mars in taurus(my gf doesnt last long either)Men are in their sexual prime in their 20s, not 40s.
20s and 40s its like a cycle,im always in a group of married women so they discuss this a lot about sex,they say its like something turned off their mens sex drive when they where in their 30s but when they hit 40s hallellujah!😂
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Lucky women I guess. Sry but men peak at 18/20 🤷♀️
Hi. It's me again!!! Snowflake017!!! Sorry but I had to create another account to log-in because I had trouble resetting my password and I don't know what happened.
I tried asking my husband what his sexual fantasies are one time and he just started giggling and didn't give me an answer. He said he's shy. Really?? I've never met a guy like this in the past.
The reason why I married my husband is because he's the only one who gave me stability in a relationship. The other guys were awesome in bed but not very serious. My husband has a good heart ❤️ but I sexually he sucks (i feel bad for saying it)
My previous boyfriend before him was a Scorpio man and it was the best sex I've ever had. That's why I feel so frustrated. He used to spank me in the ass and I loved it!! Sex was rough and nothing conpared to how things are now. He just knew what he was doing and how to please me but with this aqua I can't imagine myself having rough sex since he's different and shy!!
That Scorpio man never wanted to get serious with me so that's why I let him go. When I found this aqua he treated me very well. I just wish he was more sexual but I honestly don't know what his problem is. He doesn't even like talking about sex and tells me that he desires me even if he doesn't show it
I’m an Aquarian guy and my first serious relationship was with a canerican guy.
I’m a very sexual person and I could have sex multiple times daily (with the right person) and my cancer ex wasn’t the right person, his lips were small, his mouth was cold and his saliva was just wrong.
He went to the gym everyday while I stayed at home and he had a great body but it felt wrong to hold.
Finally the sex was the worst, when I first hooked up with him in one instance he wasn’t clean down there and I flipped him over and fucked him, when he asked me to blow him I couldn’t and I felt very uncomfortable telling him he wasn’t clean down there and it turned into this neurological nightmare for me because I’d be thinking “why the fuck can’t this guy clean himself etc” then one day I told him to clean himself and he got shitty with me and then did it and it still stunk and I said no and then he got more shitty with me and that’s when it became this game of cat and mouse between him and me and our relationship fell apart because he would always be trying to seduce me in very vulgar ways but I just couldn’t see him as sexy anymore and he became a nuisance always pestering me for sex that I had no drive to give.....I was furious that I had endured so much embarrassment and mental torture to work up the nerve to ask him to clean himself just so he could get shitty with me like it’s my problem....and I expected he would catch on and take necessary precautions (he didn’t) and so I would only fuck him and jack him off lol
But I still stayed in a relationship with him because I really appreciated his companionship and I loved him as a friend and still to this day I love his sense of humour, I ended up breaking up with him because he slept with one of my friends lol and to be honest I wasn’t angry I was relieved.
My next boyfriend was a Pisces and his dick was so nice to me lol I had to have it at least 3 times a day. We were together for a year and a half and there was only one day during that time that we didn’t have sex and that was when he visited his parents for Christmas.
So yeh to put it short, he’s just not that into you.
he's just not that into you
you have choices
Posted by Aquarius3189
41 in a man is there prime again this is where their hottest,3 times a month is cringe worthy im an aqua and yes im not that sexual like rabbits but when im with my girl we do it atleast 3 times a wk mind you theres so many people always around us but we found ways😉,then again im an aqua with a scorp moon and mars in taurus(my gf doesnt last long either)
i did not experience this at all with the 41 yr old i tried dating. mens prime is way earlier on. womens is later. i think someone was onto something with the asexual comment. i could see this for the right aqua easily.
Posted by snowflake017
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. .....We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
I’m an Aqua and my sex drive isn’t low.
And?
Are you an Aquarius male, as well?
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You said “Aqua has a low sexual drive”. That would entail Aqua females and males... am I️ wrong? I️ do understand the OP commented on one specific Aqua male, but you responded for all Aquas. Maybe common sense isn’t common for everyone.... but I don’t think you need common sense to use text evidence? Before you get so defensive reread what you wrote first.
You said “Aqua has a low sexual drive”. That would entail Aqua females and males... am I️ wrong? I️ do understand the OP commented on one specific Aqua male, but you responded for all Aquas. Maybe common sense isn’t common for everyone.... but I don’t think you need common sense to use text evidence? Before you get so defensive reread what you wrote first.
Dont be stupid. Im not defensive. Im straight offensive.. You and other aqua women who don t understand you should shut the fuucckk up and dont intervene each and every time you read a story about Aquarius MEN. Plus, in astrology, Aquarius is a sign that's not so keen on sex. It includes both the men and the women. But if you insist, sure: you re the aquarius who loves dick ever so much. But hey. I said he's gay. You couldn't even see that. Just shut it.
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Who the fuck are you talking to like that? All I said was I’m an Aqua and that I like sex. I’m dispelling the myth that ALL Aquas aren’t sexual. I was just stating MY experience and you responded, “AND are you a man?” Didn’t know OP opened the forum up for just man.... so your response was being DEFENSIVE. Now telling me to shut it is OFFENSIVE to me because you don’t know me like that and you’re coming at me 50 kinds of wrong simply because I stated I’m an Aqua and I’m sexual. Not stating,” i love dick ever so much” but that i enjoy sex with a committed partner that I’m into and in love with. Maybe this is where I should take @justagirl advice and ignore because some people will take small things to go back and forth about. I can’t stand an internet thug.... getting all angry behind a keyboard. I’ll “shut it” alright... but simply because your response was so ignorant it’s not worthy of anymore time.
You said “Aqua has a low sexual drive”. That would entail Aqua females and males... am I️ wrong? I️ do understand the OP commented on one specific Aqua male, but you responded for all Aquas. Maybe common sense isn’t common for everyone.... but I don’t think you need common sense to use text evidence? Before you get so defensive reread what you wrote first.
Dont be stupid. Im not defensive. Im straight offensive.. You and other aqua women who don t understand you should shut the fuucckk up and dont intervene each and every time you read a story about Aquarius MEN. Plus, in astrology, Aquarius is a sign that's not so keen on sex. It includes both the men and the women. But if you insist, sure: you re the aquarius who loves dick ever so much. But hey. I said he's gay. You couldn't even see that. Just shut it.
Who the fuck are you talking to like that? All I️ said was I’m an Aqua and I️ I️ like sex. I’m dispelling the myth that ALL Aquas aren’t sexual. I️ was just stating MY experience and responded, “AND are you a man?” Didn’t know OP opened the forum up for just man.... so your response was being DEFENSIVE. Now telling me to shut is OFFENSIVE to me because you don’t know me like that and you’re coming at me 50 kinds of wrong simply because I️ stated I’m an Aqua and I’m sexual. Not stating,” i love dick ever so much” but that i enjoy sex with a committed partner that I’m into and in love with. Maybe this is where I️ take @justagirl advice and ignore because some people will take small things to go back and forth about. I can’t stand an internet thug.... getting all angry behind a keyboard. I’ll shut alright... but simply because your response was so ignorant it’s not worthy of anymore time.
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they just messing with you.
id rather be non-sexual than TOO sexual
if someone is TOO sexual, they might turn out hoe-bag. and can't contain themselves.
Posted by snowflake017
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. .....We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
If she’s decent looking? I hadn’t thought of that. Legit question though. He could’ve seen her without them clothes and got grossed out, but said “fuck it”.
He married her! And he wouldn't divorce her. So....—
She said yes to a man who didn’t and never has satisfied her. Now she’s complaining and regretting her decision. She shouldn’t have said yes.
I know this topic is easy for you to defend since you’re openly cheating on your husband for the same issues.
Quit trying to turn the world into whores
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horny!!
if you're always so horny then you can't even live without sex. then it's easy for peeps to cheat.
You said “Aqua has a low sexual drive”. That would entail Aqua females and males... am I️ wrong? I️ do understand the OP commented on one specific Aqua male, but you responded for all Aquas. Maybe common sense isn’t common for everyone.... but I don’t think you need common sense to use text evidence? Before you get so defensive reread what you wrote first.
Dont be stupid. Im not defensive. Im straight offensive.. You and other aqua women who don t understand you should shut the fuucckk up and dont intervene each and every time you read a story about Aquarius MEN. Plus, in astrology, Aquarius is a sign that's not so keen on sex. It includes both the men and the women. But if you insist, sure: you re the aquarius who loves dick ever so much. But hey. I said he's gay. You couldn't even see that. Just shut it.
Who the fuck are you talking to like that? All I said was I’m an Aqua and that I like sex. I’m dispelling the myth that ALL Aquas aren’t sexual. I was just stating MY experience and you responded, “AND are you a man?” Didn’t know OP opened the forum up for just man.... so your response was being DEFENSIVE. Now telling me to shut it is OFFENSIVE to me because you don’t know me like that and you’re coming at me 50 kinds of wrong simply because I stated I’m an Aqua and I’m sexual. Not stating,” i love dick ever so much” but that i enjoy sex with a committed partner that I’m into and in love with. Maybe this is where I should take @justagirl advice and ignore because some people will take small things to go back and forth about. I can’t stand an internet thug.... getting all angry behind a keyboard. I’ll “shut it” alright... but simply because your response was so ignorant it’s not worthy of anymore time.
im not angry, am just dismissive 🙂
besides, you answered 100% as expected: a typical aquarius female who claims to be different. yes, you are all different. there's one thing to enjoy sex, and another to have a low sex drive. yes, please, do keep quiet. the topic was about AQUARIUS MEN.
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just like what happened to Elvis Presley and Priscilla Presley.
she wanted sex and complained.
so she divorced Elvis. can't deal with it.
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and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. .....We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
I’m an Aqua and my sex drive isn’t low.
And?
Are you an Aquarius male, as well?
You said “Aqua has a low sexual drive”. That would entail Aqua females and males... am I️ wrong? I️ do understand the OP commented on one specific Aqua male, but you responded for all Aquas. Maybe common sense isn’t common for everyone.... but I don’t think you need common sense to use text evidence? Before you get so defensive reread what you wrote first.
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i dont know....i have Capricorn. Capricorn has the ability to shut off that stuff easily. CONTROL.
and weirdly enough so does Scorpio.
just like what happened to Elvis Presley and Priscilla Presley.
she wanted sex and complained.
so she divorced Elvis. can't deal with it.
a marriage without sex. that s impossible
ps elvis pelvis? wasnt giving it to her?
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go look it up. lol
gemitati is the type that NEEDS sex.
thus two men. well one stopped performing. lol
Posted by FishyDude
Leave the Aqua, and maybe find yourself a Taurus, Scorpio, or Pisces dude.
what if they also suck in bed?
(except for the scorpio oooh sex god talk)
cause honestly that's what her problem is, losing her sex drive.
shes gonna find the same problems if she finds them the same.
Posted by snowflake017
Hello, I'm a cancer woman married to an aquarius man. I know we're not supposed to be a good match but I didn't want to believe it at first. Now I'm having sexual issues with my husband and I think it will only get worst.At the beginning when he started pursuing me he used to talk about sex all the time and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. It seemed weird because he really seemed into and when the time came he acted totally uninterested.
I tried to ignore all this because he's a good guy and has other amazing qualities. But after the first time we had sex, he just stopped talking about that subject completely. He became non-sexual and when I tried to bring up the subject or send him a sexy picture he would act like it was no big deal. I ended up marrying him anyway because I love everything about him, except the sex part and he told me once we lived together everything was going to change because before our relationship was long distance. Well, I was stupid to believe him because nothing changed!!!! We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent. I ended up getting bored of him and now I lost my desire for him completely. I feel like sex has become a duty and I'm just dead every time we have sex. I don't have the desire to kiss him or touch him anymore and the worst part is I can't even fake that I'm having a good time. He has completely kill my passion for sex!!! Of course, I would love to have sex but with someone else because I feel that I can't be horny and passionate with this aquarius man 😢 I had amazing sex with my previous boyfriends and now I'm stuck with someone with a low sex drive for the rest of my life.
I realized my mistake of marrying him but now I don't want to make a second mistake by having children with him. I told him it was better to end things, as I don't want to bring children to the world without passion and we're not sexually compatible and he got furious!!!
He said he's never going to divorce me and that my duty as a wife is to try to make things work instead of thinking of divorce. He's right but how am I going to get my sexual desire back? He wants to have children with me even if I don't feel happy with out sex life. Since he won't divorce me and wants me to fight for our marriage how can I get back my desire when he never showed interest in sex to begin with? I feel like he's taking the blame on me and it's not fair that I'm the one who has to make an effort when I felt unloved by him. What can I do? Is there any hope? By the way, I'm 30 years old and he's 41
i'd go with ssupes, get a vibrator.
lol and marrying a guy who is non-sexual. like all you care about is sex after all....
alot of men would distrust you because that's all you care about.
shes gonna find the same problems if she finds them the same.
but she said she used to enjoy sex with other guys before the gay aqua man
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lol
this topic is hilarious. why did she marry someone who is gay?
did he need a beard?
shes gonna find the same problems if she finds them the same.
but she said she used to enjoy sex with other guys before the gay aqua man
lol
this topic is hilarious. why did she marry someone who is gay?
did he need a beard?
she didn t know he was gay, because before marrying her he was talking about sex all the time. so she assumed he would be enthusiastic, to say the least
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that's why you should TEST it out. 😆
...so no mistakes...and go...ewwww they SUCK in bed.
You said “Aqua has a low sexual drive”. That would entail Aqua females and males... am I️ wrong? I️ do understand the OP commented on one specific Aqua male, but you responded for all Aquas. Maybe common sense isn’t common for everyone.... but I don’t think you need common sense to use text evidence? Before you get so defensive reread what you wrote first.
Dont be stupid. Im not defensive. Im straight offensive.. You and other aqua women who don t understand you should shut the fuucckk up and dont intervene each and every time you read a story about Aquarius MEN. Plus, in astrology, Aquarius is a sign that's not so keen on sex. It includes both the men and the women. But if you insist, sure: you re the aquarius who loves dick ever so much. But hey. I said he's gay. You couldn't even see that. Just shut it.
Who the fuck are you talking to like that? All I said was I’m an Aqua and that I like sex. I’m dispelling the myth that ALL Aquas aren’t sexual. I was just stating MY experience and you responded, “AND are you a man?” Didn’t know OP opened the forum up for just man.... so your response was being DEFENSIVE. Now telling me to shut it is OFFENSIVE to me because you don’t know me like that and you’re coming at me 50 kinds of wrong simply because I stated I’m an Aqua and I’m sexual. Not stating,” i love dick ever so much” but that i enjoy sex with a committed partner that I’m into and in love with. Maybe this is where I should take @justagirl advice and ignore because some people will take small things to go back and forth about. I can’t stand an internet thug.... getting all angry behind a keyboard. I’ll “shut it” alright... but simply because your response was so ignorant it’s not worthy of anymore time.
im not angry, am just dismissive 🙂
besides, you answered 100% as expected: a typical aquarius female who claims to be different. yes, you are all different. there's one thing to enjoy sex, and another to have a low sex drive. yes, please, do keep quiet. the topic was about AQUARIUS MEN.
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Using MY text evidence..., the title states, “Will SOMEONE help me?” Not will an Aqua man help me. Yes, she’s speaking of an Aqua man in the original post, but if she only wanted Aqua men to respond she would’ve specified that. Thus why women AND men responded also people of different astrological signs. Now telling me to be quiet is a great way to disagree....Fawk no. Just because I’m telling my thoughts and opinion ON A FORUM doesn’t me I need to be quiet just because someone doesn’t like what I said. Plus you can’t jump through the phone and make me be quiet. So fawk you.
...so no mistakes...and go...ewwww they SUCK in bed.
so u believe in sex before marriage, huh. did the scorpio take you for a test before?
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Are you religious? Do you believe in sex before marriage?
Posted by Cancer921
Hi. It's me again!!! Snowflake017!!! Sorry but I had to create another account to log-in because I had trouble resetting my password and I don't know what happened.I tried asking my husband what his sexual fantasies are one time and he just started giggling and didn't give me an answer. He said he's shy. Really?? I've never met a guy like this in the past.
The reason why I married my husband is because he's the only one who gave me stability in a relationship. The other guys were awesome in bed but not very serious. My husband has a good heart ❤️ but I sexually he sucks (i feel bad for saying it)
My previous boyfriend before him was a Scorpio man and it was the best sex I've ever had. That's why I feel so frustrated. He used to spank me in the ass and I loved it!! Sex was rough and nothing conpared to how things are now. He just knew what he was doing and how to please me but with this aqua I can't imagine myself having rough sex since he's different and shy!!
That Scorpio man never wanted to get serious with me so that's why I let him go. When I found this aqua he treated me very well. I just wish he was more sexual but I honestly don't know what his problem is. He doesn't even like talking about sex and tells me that he desires me even if he doesn't show it
Keep talking to him about sex. Get him comfortable with your ideas and helping him express himself. You might find a tiger in there waiting to be unleashed!
...so no mistakes...and go...ewwww they SUCK in bed.
so u believe in sex before marriage, huh. did the scorpio take you for a test before?
Are you religious? Do you believe in sex before marriage?
yes and yes
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Interesting thingies.
...so no mistakes...and go...ewwww they SUCK in bed.
so u believe in sex before marriage, huh. did the scorpio take you for a test before?
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he ain't dumb.
why do you think he married me??
lol it ain't only my good looks. haha.
...so no mistakes...and go...ewwww they SUCK in bed.
so u believe in sex before marriage, huh. did the scorpio take you for a test before?
Are you religious? Do you believe in sex before marriage?
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nope not religious. but i believe....
and i dont adhere to any "code" or strict religion because like i've said many times in the past...
religion has too many restrictions. and some i dont really believe.
Posted by Cancer921
Hi. It's me again!!! Snowflake017!!! Sorry but I had to create another account to log-in because I had trouble resetting my password and I don't know what happened.I tried asking my husband what his sexual fantasies are one time and he just started giggling and didn't give me an answer. He said he's shy. Really?? I've never met a guy like this in the past.
The reason why I married my husband is because he's the only one who gave me stability in a relationship. The other guys were awesome in bed but not very serious. My husband has a good heart ❤️ but I sexually he sucks (i feel bad for saying it)
My previous boyfriend before him was a Scorpio man and it was the best sex I've ever had. That's why I feel so frustrated. He used to spank me in the ass and I loved it!! Sex was rough and nothing conpared to how things are now. He just knew what he was doing and how to please me but with this aqua I can't imagine myself having rough sex since he's different and shy!!
That Scorpio man never wanted to get serious with me so that's why I let him go. When I found this aqua he treated me very well. I just wish he was more sexual but I honestly don't know what his problem is. He doesn't even like talking about sex and tells me that he desires me even if he doesn't show it
Keep talking to him about sex. Get him comfortable with your ideas and helping him express himself. You might find a tiger in there waiting to be unleashed!
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he might be a VIRGIN.
that's a good idea, go and help him.
My previous boyfriend before him was a Scorpio man and it was the best sex I've ever had. That's why I feel so frustrated. He used to spank me in the ass and I loved it!!
and the aqua doesn t spank you? what kind of aqua is he 😢
look, have you tried another approach? as in: when you lay in bed next to each other, start touching yourself and have him watch and encourage him to participate. or blow him and ask him to pleasure you orally. you need to encourage him if he s not gay. create some intimacy first.
since aquarius is a sign thats not too interested in sex (we like sex in an abstract way), maybe you need to stimulate his mind, too. (i dont know why you would need to stimulate his mind, instead of his dick but whatever - thats the zodiac says)
or maybe try to trick him into it. don t talk about it, just do it. at night. assault him. don t let him be, but don t pursue him aggressively, either. be like 2 cousins who explore each other's sexuality - you play with his dick, he plays with your kitty and see what happens.
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plus all these posts and topics how scorpio man is hot sex god...
how come she didnt marry that guy then?
if that's all you wanted?
plus all these posts and topics how scorpio man is hot sex god...
how come she didnt marry that guy then?
if that's all you wanted?
she had to choose between the sex god (scorpio) who wasnt into her and the most non-sexual sign (aquarius) who made her feel loved & safe. what would you choose?
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awwww ....
in the long run women want love and to be safe.
that's why she married him.
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Hello, I'm a cancer woman married to an aquarius man. I know we're not supposed to be a good match but I didn't want to believe it at first. Now I'm having sexual issues with my husband and I think it will only get worst.
At the beginning when he started pursuing me he used to talk about sex all the time and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. It seemed weird because he really seemed into and when the time came he acted totally uninterested.
I tried to ignore all this because he's a good guy and has other amazing qualities. But after the first time we had sex, he just stopped talking about that subject completely. He became non-sexual and when I tried to bring up the subject or send him a sexy picture he would act like it was no big deal. I ended up marrying him anyway because I love everything about him, except the sex part and he told me once we lived together everything was going to change because before our relationship was long distance. Well, I was stupid to believe him because nothing changed!!!! We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent. I ended up getting bored of him and now I lost my desire for him completely. I feel like sex has become a duty and I'm just dead every time we have sex. I don't have the desire to kiss him or touch him anymore and the worst part is I can't even fake that I'm having a good time. He has completely kill my passion for sex!!! Of course, I would love to have sex but with someone else because I feel that I can't be horny and passionate with this aquarius man 😢 I had amazing sex with my previous boyfriends and now I'm stuck with someone with a low sex drive for the rest of my life.
I realized my mistake of marrying him but now I don't want to make a second mistake by having children with him. I told him it was better to end things, as I don't want to bring children to the world without passion and we're not sexually compatible and he got furious!!!
He said he's never going to divorce me and that my duty as a wife is to try to make things work instead of thinking of divorce. He's right but how am I going to get my sexual desire back? He wants to have children with me even if I don't feel happy with out sex life. Since he won't divorce me and wants me to fight for our marriage how can I get back my desire when he never showed interest in sex to begin with? I feel like he's taking the blame on me and it's not fair that I'm the one who has to make an effort when I felt unloved by him. What can I do? Is there any hope? By the way, I'm 30 years old and he's 41