Libra Moon on Valentine's Day

So I'm a Libra Moon. It says "Libra Moon does not like to be alone?? they thrive in a partnership. Many will get married young or choose to move in with someone. In order to facilitate this, they may make a lot of concessions to their partner in order to keep the peace. They are social, sympathetic and they love a rousing debate. They need someone they can feel an intellectual and emotional rapport with."


So since I'm single, Valentine's Day really sucks for me.

Any independent moons tell me how I can make this holiday not make me into depressed??

i think its not really about valentines itself...its just having someone there that recognizes your value and sees your importance in their lives

When youre single...there's no one that thinks your #1

Its sad knowing that on a regular basis especially vday.

DOn't get me wrong, I value myself.

But I can't exactly talk to myself about my hopes and dreams, i cna't make myself laugh, i can't learn new things from myself.

Becuase I already know my own thoughts and plans and sense of humor etc.

As much I love myself, I'd rather be around someone.

thanks elle but i dont think its valentines. Whether its Libra Moon or a non astrology think.

The #1 thing in my life has always been to matter to someone in the romantic sense. I grew up believing in hollywood romance and no matter how much i became a realist as an adult, it didn't change craving for a happily ever after.

The one area in my life that has always been sub par, finishing last sorta thing has always been anything outside of careers and academics.

So major life milestones, dating etc. have always been tough for me to accomplish more than the average person and as a result, i've always in some way felt less than amazing.

I'm married. So I guess people think I won't be alone. But they're wrong! This is why I have furry kids. In their eyes, I'm #1.

I know a Libra moon who broke up with her Cap moon guy a month before V-day.

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I'm Scorp Sun, Libra Moon, Sag Venus

I don't know what it is but I feel so damn lonely all the time. Even when I'm surrounded by friends and family, I don't feel necessarily feel important either.

Sometimes I find myself comparing myself to others and the volume of interest others take in someone i'm around whether its friend, family, colleagues etc.

I don't think its a attention or neediness thing. I've just always felt like I'm lacking someone.

Bonnie and Clyde / partner in crime type of thing.

I don't know, it makes sense but doesn't make sense at the same time.

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Posted by thisiscrap2
thanks elle but i dont think its valentines. Whether its Libra Moon or a non astrology think.

The #1 thing in my life has always been to matter to someone in the romantic sense. I grew up believing in hollywood romance and no matter how much i became a realist as an adult, it didn't change craving for a happily ever after.

The one area in my life that has always been sub par, finishing last sorta thing has always been anything outside of careers and academics.

So major life milestones, dating etc. have always been tough for me to accomplish more than the average person and as a result, i've always in some way felt less than amazing.

I get it, I really do. I have a libra stellium in my 12th house and venus in libra too. I guess what I'm trying to say is....whether you are in a relationship or not.....those feelings are still going to be there.

I always thought a relationship would ease those feelings but it doesn't....even the healthy relationships don't.

I know, it sounds weird because your eye is on the relationship prize and that would fix everything, woudln't it? nah, it don't.

You just have to segregate those thoughts and then tell them to go fuck themself because it's not reality 😄

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I wish it as easier said than done. In the aqua forum when I mentioned a gemini friend telling me that she told aqua man that I admired and adored him and that i loved the christmas tree he gave me so much instead of accidentally killing plants that I did everything I could to keep that little plant alive that I actually spent hours researching how to take care of it and i have never made that effort over anything in my life and his response was surprise like he was seeing a side of me he noticed before and that image in my head of his reaction made me tear up in front of gemini.

This was at work and something so minor had htat much effect on me but it's not minor it emphasizes and oozes intimacy and god i dont know what else. I come across as confidnet and self assured but when it comes to humans and and all of that, I'm weak. I crave intimacy i guess.

Another gemini friend said in a joking way that I dont react in an emotional way when it matters, like I'm a robot. Like the other day a client was showing me a picture of his cute dog. Everyone who had seen the photo wa slike awwwwww he's cute and fawning over it.

When I saw it, I just said Oh he's cute and i just continued on my way.

I guess that's why its all so sad, it's like no wonder i feel lonely. No one things I give a shit.

Posted by e11e
I can see that. Being the moon is closer to you than the venus....it's probably a little more intense.

Just know there is absolutely nothing wrong with you for feeling that way. The more you accept and embrace it, the better you will start feeling about it.

I don't know how. I don't know how to accept the feelings as part of my biology. I mean logically I do but then the emotional side is screaming "it's not fair."

Posted by stillwat3r
Furry friends are awesome for a lonely heart @ thisiscrap2. May be you should get a pet.

My roommate has two cats. A 5 year old male and a 1 1/2 year old female. They adore me and follow me around. Its not the same though lol.

Posted by e11e
I don't like pets! 😛

lol @ it's not fair.

Not laughing at you, I've just muttered that to myself many, many times 🙂

Haha then you know what I mean! I will say this, when it does happen whenever it does ...he whoever he is will be a damn lucky man.

Until then, I'll try my hardest at acceptance.

Posted by beautifuldiaster
I'm a libra moon gal and I forgot all about Valentine's day... opps haha.

I'm the opposite of your placements.

Sag sun
libra moon
scorpio venus

For me, the hassle of running into a million people out on dates for the sake of valentine's day is pointless. Think about it. Like 50% of those with someone on valentine's are only doing it out of duty and that's not my cup of tea. I'd rather have the real thing and I want authenticity. Bottle of wine and walk the beach under the stars type deal.

Do I think I'm better with someone? No. I think I treat myself worse.

Do I feel like I'm not meant to be alone? Yes. But until it's real I don't do or want fake.

*hugs*
Xo

As the day went on I felt less lonely but still nonetheless

Based on previous posts of yours, this is less Libran and more you need to get some resolution in regard to your issues of relying on others for your own happiness. You've kinda given off the vibe that you just choose not to function without having someone else around for you.

Learn to be happy alone. It's a huge sign of weakness if you can't do that.

Posted by ShadowAbsorber
Meh.. I feel your pain baby girl.

It's like so orgasmic to feel someone else. It's weird.

It took a long while for me to realize I'm relationship-dependent, and I don't want that. I'm working on being more independent.

I do have my own mind, my own set of judgments, my own values, my own desires. So I try to focus on making myself happy, being my own best, being there for myself when I'm down.

You have Sun in Scorpio, and I'm a Taurus, so I'm sure a part of yourself enjoys being alone.. as I do. ;P

I do like to be alone sometimes when I'm focused on a certain task. I.e. I really want to read that book...or I really need to do my taxes.

But if I don't have any immediate plans/goals for myself then I'd rather be around others. It kinda sucks LOL

I do feel better than I did a couple of days ago. I didn't really do anything for Valentines day. I do have plans today with friends/acquaintances but a part of me doesn't really want to go even though I'm craving socialization.

It's weird.

you sound like you might be suffering with depression. have you seen a doctor?

Posted by jeane
you sound like you might be suffering with depression. have you seen a doctor?

Lol do you even know the clinical definition of depression?

Anyhoot, off I go to grab some grub with friends/acquaintances. Got nothing else to do!

Posted by thisiscrap2

Posted by jeane
you sound like you might be suffering with depression. have you seen a doctor?

Lol do you even know the clinical definition of depression?

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as a matter of fact i do.

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Posted by jeane
you sound like you might be suffering with depression. have you seen a doctor?

Lol do you even know the clinical definition of depression?

as a matter of fact i do.

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Same, and it's a good question to consider.

Posted by thisiscrap2
Another gemini friend said in a joking way that I dont react in an emotional way when it matters, like I'm a robot. Like the other day a client was showing me a picture of his cute dog. Everyone who had seen the photo wa slike awwwwww he's cute and fawning over it.

When I saw it, I just said Oh he's cute and i just continued on my way.

Yup I am same way.

I'm super introverted, and I love being alone. People irk me. And typically in relationships....I'd want them so bad, and them be over them in a flash. Having to share that much with someone took too much out of me, and I could never find before the balance my Libra moon needed.

I had finally resigned myself to being happy and alone before meeting Mr. CancerDude.