Libra trying to make me jealous

So...the libra sun scorp venus I dealt with in the past went out of his way to make me jealous at a bar last night.

It was actually ridiculous.

The short of it: he was all over this new girl, which could have been believable IF he wasn't staring at me the entire time to see my reaction & following me with his eyes everywhere I went the entire night.

It was kind of funny. I paid it no mind although seeing him that way with someone else tugged on my heart a bit.

Is this normal Libra behavior?

I haven't responded the last few times he's reached out. We're just not on the same page & I had to let it go. Too hot/cold & inconsistent for my taste.

I would have glassed him

seriously that shit makes me want to rip open my couch and eat foam.

I'm not familiar with the term glass. What does it mean?

I would be confrontational about it. I would ask him to his face at the next opportunity what he is playing at. Otherwise you will have to avoid these situations by staying away from where he might be. Or worse, I would give him loads of false hope about a reconciliation and fuck him with it 😉

Thanks to glass someone is just that, assault them with it. Might just be a UK term.

Arielle!!! That is HILARIOUS!!! OMG I Love It!

But what causes this? Obviously they're not over it. But it's gotta be deeper. Insecurity? Are they trying to make you feel like you lost out? Like what reaction are they expecting exactly? I gave NONE. It's puzzling...

And they say Libras don't do revenge..pahahahaha

What?!!! A woman has to do what she has to do 🙂

The real issues here are that the guy is a) clearly an are hole and b) clearly on love with you.

Deal with it!

**arsehole** my predictor has an aversion to bad language!

I never thought in love. Bc he's never said that. But that's a thought...
I know there are feelings there for certain. He's tried reaching out, I just can do the in and out thing anymore with him. He left for a few months and wanted to pick back up where we left. This time I wasn't having it. I never answered a call/text.

You don't tell people how to treat you, you show them.

*cant

Posted by tiziani
When we teach women how to get their ex back while making their ex boyfriend think it was his idea to come back all along, we realised the number 1 reason women wanted this is pride and wanting to no longer feel rejected. It's not that they want their ex back as a person, it's just feeling of wanting to get over rejection.

More important than feelings however, is respect imo.

So true.

Maybe he doesn't want to feel that rejection anymore, but TBH he rejected me first. Picking me up and putting me down when he felt like it.

You're right, respect is high in my book. & that's why I walked away.

Just immature, stupid guy behavior.

Let him make an ass out of himself and be on your way.

And you need to truly walk away. You keep coming back about this dude, inquiring about his behaviors, and each time you say you've moved along and don't care. That was like 3 topics ago.

I know the dudes can be a pain in the ass to shake off and it's hard not to wonder why, but start moving in that direction. It'll save your sanity. You know the guy's an idiot and full of shit. Chalk it up to that and move along. All your posts since are nothing but validation for your ego.

"He really wants me, right? That's why he does this, he's still not over me is he?? GOOD BECAUSE I'M OVER HIM HAHAHAHA. I'M THAT GREAT THAT HE'S STILL DOING THIS AND I DON'T CARE!!"

Just remember he has to live with his stupid behavior and looking like that. Not you.

Posted by Sola
And they say Libras don't do revenge..pahahahaha

What?!!! A woman has to do what she has to do 🙂

The real issues here are that the guy is a) clearly an are hole and b) clearly on love with you.

Deal with it!

I doubt it's love. I saw the same behavior from my ex with the same placements. It's that Scorp bit that's all freaking psychotic and can't get over it.

Regardless, it's just immaturity and stupidity.

"WELL I'LL SHOW HER!!" Yeah, no. You're dealing with the fragile male ego here- one that is upset that he no longer has the upper hand or is getting his way. It's much like a child throwing a tantrum.

Again, let him make an ass out of himself. This has nothing to do with love- just being a spoiled ass he couldn't get what he wanted.

No, it's not that I don't care. Bc it's clear I do, If I have to be honest with myself and others. But I have not talked to him in 6 months & it isn't bc he hasn't tried.

I'm worried bc I still care for him. BUT, I have moved away from him bc it's not a great space to be in. That's the best I can do for now. Eventually my heart & mind will follow my logical actions. It may take some time though & that's natural. No 2 people handle situations the same way. I know girls who'd still be with him, letting him come in and out of their lives as he pleases. Not me. I need more than that.

Posted by JBG
No, it's not that I don't care. Bc it's clear I do, If I have to be honest with myself and others. But I have not talked to him in 6 months & it isn't bc he hasn't tried.

I'm worried bc I still care for him. BUT, I have moved away from him bc it's not a great space to be in. That's the best I can do for now. Eventually my heart & mind will follow my logical actions. It may take some time though & that's natural. No 2 people handle situations the same way. I know girls who'd still be with him, letting him come in and out of their lives as he pleases. Not me. I need more than that.

As long as you're going in the right direction

Posted by JBG
So...the libra sun scorp venus I dealt with in the past went out of his way to make me jealous at a bar last night.

It was actually ridiculous.

The short of it: he was all over this new girl, which could have been believable IF he wasn't staring at me the entire time to see my reaction & following me with his eyes everywhere I went the entire night.

It was kind of funny. I paid it no mind although seeing him that way with someone else tugged on my heart a bit.

Is this normal Libra behavior?

I haven't responded the last few times he's reached out. We're just not on the same page & I had to let it go. Too hot/cold & inconsistent for my taste.

It's his Venus Scorpio. Im a Libra 10/17 with my Venus in Scorpio.
Katy Perry's Dark Horse, is all about a Venus in Scorpio!!

I knew you were

You were gonna come to me

And here you are

But you better choose carefully

'Cause Im capable of anything

Of anything and everything

Make me your Aphrodite

Make me your one and only

But dont make me your enemy, your enemy, your enemy

So you wanna play with magic

Boy, you should know whatcha falling for

Baby do you dare to do this

'Cause Im coming atcha like a dark horse

Are you ready for, ready for

A perfect storm, a perfect storm

'Cause once youre mine, once youre mine

Theres no going back

Mark my words

This love will make you levitate

Like a bird

Like a bird without a cage

But down to earth

If you choose to walk away, dont walk away

Its in the palm of your hand now baby

Its a yes or no, no maybe

So just be sure before you give it up to me

Up to me, give it up to me

So you wanna play with magic

Boy, you should know whatcha falling for

Baby do you dare to do this

'Cause Im coming atcha like a dark horse

Are you ready for, ready for

A perfect storm, a perfect storm

'Cause once youre mine, once youre mine

Theres no going back

Shes a beast

I call her Karma

She eat your heart out

Like Jeffrey Dahmer

Be careful

Try not to lead her on

Shawtys heart was on steroids

'Cause her love was so strong

You may fall in love

When you meet her

If you get the chance you better keep her

She swears by it but if you break her heart

She turn cold as a freezer

That fairy tale ending with a knight

That fairy tale ending with a knight in shining armor

She can be my Sleeping Beauty

Im gon put her in a coma

Woo! Damn I think I love her

Shawty so bad

Im sprung and I dont care

She got me like a roller coaster

Turn the bedroom into a fair

Her love is like a drug

I was tryna hit it and quit it

But lil mama so dope

I messed around and got addicted

So you wanna play with magic

Boy, you should know whatcha falling for

Baby do you dare to do this

'Cause Im coming atcha like a dark horse

Are you ready for, ready for

A perfect storm, a perfect storm

'Cause once youre mine, once youre mine

Theres no going back

@JBG

This libra guy sounds sooooo much like one I dated on and off for years. He is now 30 and is also an engineer .. I discovered in November he was having another relationship with someone for the last few years. Promising us both the same things... Except she had money and was buying him things even helped him finance his new jag. I have read toyr posts about him and these two guys could be twins! Not saying yours would stoop this low and date another and take her money but as far as him claiming he's not dated in years, no time due to work and school, how much he loves and misses me but wishy washy with actions. It was a mess. I'm a libra with Leo rising and my Venus in Scorpio. I was hooked and kept waiting for him to come around to his senses or many times believing that wow this great intelligent hot guy is still single. Haha it was a hell roller coaster ... He still tries to this day by texting and saying how much he loves and misses me.. I'm the only one.. He will never find anyone like me.. We are twins etc .. He's a libra. I don't know his rising sign, but what a con artist and piece of work he is.

To speak to me as a libra with Leo rising and Venus Scorpio I will say I am the most affectionate, generous, loyal, supportive, sensual and sexual lover. I despise when they say Libras cheat. Obviously some do lol as mentioned but not me, never. I'm devoted and only see that person I'm with. I take pleasure though in knowing others want me and try and that my man notices but is secure in knowing im only for him. Maybe that's the daring Scorpio in me as also the Leo riding having her attention but using it to show her loyalty. No clue. Hope this libra man's name doesn't start with a D. If so, we should talk. Lol.

Posted by JBG
No, it's not that I don't care. Bc it's clear I do, If I have to be honest with myself and others. But I have not talked to him in 6 months & it isn't bc he hasn't tried.

I'm worried bc I still care for him. BUT, I have moved away from him bc it's not a great space to be in. That's the best I can do for now. Eventually my heart & mind will follow my logical actions. It may take some time though & that's natural. No 2 people handle situations the same way. I know girls who'd still be with him, letting him come in and out of their lives as he pleases. Not me. I need more than that.

@JBG

This libra guy sounds sooooo much like one I dated on and off for years. He is now 30 and is also an engineer .. I discovered in November he was having another relationship with someone for the last few years. Promising us both the same things... Except she had money and was buying him things even helped him finance his new jag. I have read toyr posts about him and these two guys could be twins! Not saying yours would stoop this low and date another and take her money but as far as him claiming he's not dated in years, no time due to work and school, how much he loves and misses me but wishy washy with actions. It was a mess. I'm a libra with Leo rising and my Venus in Scorpio. I was hooked and kept waiting for him to come around to his senses or many times believing that wow this great intelligent hot guy is still single. Haha it was a hell roller coaster ... He still tries to this day by texting and saying how much he loves and misses me.. I'm the only one.. He will never find anyone like me.. We are twins etc .. He's a libra. I don't know his rising sign, but what a con artist and piece of work he is.

To speak to me as a libra with Leo rising and Venus Scorpio I will say I am the most affectionate, generous, loyal, supportive, sensual and sexual lover. I despise when they say Libras cheat. Obviously some do lol as mentioned but not me, never. I'm devoted and only see that person I'm with. I take pleasure though in knowing others want me and try and that my man notices but is secure in knowing im only for him. Maybe that's the daring Scorpio in me as also the Leo riding having her attention but using it to show her loyalty. No clue. Hope this libra man's name doesn't start with a D. If so, we should talk. Lol.

I am TOTALLY guilty of trying to make my crush jealous, I CANT HELP IT :c