Calling all Libras

I'm in a relationship with an Aquarius who I think is amazing but I'm just wondering...
Do any of you have experience with Aquas? And if you did, was it good or bad?

I have Aqua friends, lots of fun and good conversation. No romantic experience.

Aquarius and Libra - hmmm starts of pretty boring. Libra has way too much energy for the laid back Aquarius.
But as it progresses, Aquarius is the balance that Libra seeks and Libra is the fun that Aquarius wants.
Its a pleasant relationship -
Chilled, laid back. Just what a Libra needs after they are done with all the socializing - enough to get those scales back in sync.

Well the chemistry is definitely there, so is the understanding of each other's mind. However, he really worries me sometimes... Lol recently, he told me that one day he might sleep with another girl, just to not get bored. I really appreciate the honesty, but WTF— It was like a slap in the face. I haven't spoken to him about it yet because I'm trying to get my thoughts together before I do, but, any suggestions as to how to approach this?

Posted by PastelPlum
It's alright depending on maybe your venus moon and rising but I don't see myself with Aqua. The fixedness gets to me.

I have a Taurus Moon and a Scorpio Venus, I don't share lol
That being said, I do everything in my power to make the person I love never doubt my loyalty or love

Posted by PastelPlum
Yes then I think Aqua will suit you. You are probably very "Rosy" as your name is, due to your double Venus and Ven in Scorpio.

😄 I am lol however, he really freaked me out, I don't give my heart or body easily and he terrified me with that comment...

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Posted by RosyLibra
Well the chemistry is definitely there, so is the understanding of each other's mind. However, he really worries me sometimes... Lol recently, he told me that one day he might sleep with another girl, just to not get bored. I really appreciate the honesty, but WTF— It was like a slap in the face. I haven't spoken to him about it yet because I'm trying to get my thoughts together before I do, but, any suggestions as to how to approach this?

Dealbreaker. Leave him and never look back.

but it's up to you.

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You see, my instinct is to run lol but I've never met a man like him before. I have crushed on my fair share of guys but never had this type of connection with anyone. We're best friends and he's told me he loves me several times, which I've heard is unusual for Aquas. I have walked away and not looked back with lots of guys, but, with him I just CAN'T, he makes me weak in a way lol does that even make sense? Or do I sound like I'm rambling? Lol

Posted by PastelPlum
Soulmate, super compatible or what not will still result in breakups.

If you will be the glue that holds both of you together, then decide if he's worth it.

I'm also trying to not over-analyze our relationship and just go for it, but who am i kidding? lol I'm a Libra! I weigh everything carefully before i make a decision, something will tip the scales, eventually. I think he's worth a lot but, if he ever cheated on me, I can tell you right now, it would shatter me.

My boyfriend is Aqua moon. Ive dated a Aqua sun. My Juno is in Leo. Juno is you the asteroid indicating you ideal husband and Leo is the opposite of Aqua so I never gravitated towards them. Prefered Gemini energy. But my boyfriend is great. It'll work. You just have to look at more than the sun sign.

Well, here's our charts, I don't know if it helps...

HIS
Sun: Aqua
Ascendant: Gemini
Moon: Aries
Mars: Taurus
Saturn: Gemini
Pluto: Libra
Uranus: Libra
Neptune: Sag
Venus: Aqua
Jupiter: Aqua
Mercury: Aqua

MINE
Sun: Libra/Scorpio cusp
Ascendant: Sag
Moon: Taurus
Mars: Aqua
Saturn: Sag
Pluto: Scorpio
Uranus: Sag
Neptune: Capricorn
Venus: Scorpio
Jupiter: Aqua
Mercury: Aqua

To be fair, he said it was something he was scared he MIGHT do... Maybe I'm just trying to excuse it in my mind, but, I do need to make it clear to him that it's not acceptable to me.

Posted by PastelPlum
Your charts are also rather matching. You have the Aqua-Taurus thing with him, and opposing ASCs

Yup 😄 I'm telling you, we see each other like beautiful aliens lol
We can't believe the other has existed all this time

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Well the chemistry is definitely there, so is the understanding of each other's mind. However, he really worries me sometimes... Lol recently, he told me that one day he might sleep with another girl, just to not get bored. I really appreciate the honesty, but WTF— It was like a slap in the face. I haven't spoken to him about it yet because I'm trying to get my thoughts together before I do, but, any suggestions as to how to approach this?

Dealbreaker. Leave him and never look back.

but it's up to you.

You see, my instinct is to run lol but I've never met a man like him before. I have crushed on my fair share of guys but never had this type of connection with anyone. We're best friends and he's told me he loves me several times, which I've heard is unusual for Aquas. I have walked away and not looked back with lots of guys, but, with him I just CAN'T, he makes me weak in a way lol does that even make sense? Or do I sound like I'm rambling? Lol

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It is huge, we don't just say words to say them, we say what we mean. I love you's are only shared with those very special to us- at least this Aqua, can't speak for them all. Sounds like he was testing you...but like Tiz suggested, have a conversation and talk about it.

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Well the chemistry is definitely there, so is the understanding of each other's mind. However, he really worries me sometimes... Lol recently, he told me that one day he might sleep with another girl, just to not get bored. I really appreciate the honesty, but WTF— It was like a slap in the face. I haven't spoken to him about it yet because I'm trying to get my thoughts together before I do, but, any suggestions as to how to approach this?

Dealbreaker. Leave him and never look back.

but it's up to you.

You see, my instinct is to run lol but I've never met a man like him before. I have crushed on my fair share of guys but never had this type of connection with anyone. We're best friends and he's told me he loves me several times, which I've heard is unusual for Aquas. I have walked away and not looked back with lots of guys, but, with him I just CAN'T, he makes me weak in a way lol does that even make sense? Or do I sound like I'm rambling? Lol

It is huge, we don't just say words to say them, we say what we mean. I love you's are only shared with those very special to us- at least this Aqua, can't speak for them all. Sounds like he was testing you...but like Tiz suggested, have a conversation and talk about it.

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You give me hope! Thank you, I will follow the aforementioned suggestions and just talk to him about it

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Posted by PastelPlum
Your charts are also rather matching. You have the Aqua-Taurus thing with him, and opposing ASCs

Yup 😄 I'm telling you, we see each other like beautiful aliens lol
We can't believe the other has existed all this time

That's probably your soulmate or equivalent
Your chart match is amazing to say the least! Beautiful aliens lol what a great term 🙂

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You have no idea lol he told me we were the perfect couple
hee hee hee I was all like Awwww, not possible but I love that you think that 😄

Posted by PastelPlum
That is great Rosy
I hope no negative influences come in between you guys ??_'??_
It's a great feeling and you're at a high time - hope that will never end ?

Awww thanx 🙂 another person told me that Aquas are known for being afraid to lose their freedom. Do you think maybe he said that because he's afraid of the deep feelings he has? As in, he doesn't want me to "own" him?

Posted by PastelPlum
U need to ask an Aquarius on that one

I think I'm just going to talk to him about it 😉 He is an Aquarius after all lol

I only has a serious relationship with one aqua. We got married, kids, bought a house, the whole deal. It was great for a lot of years. We were great friends, had wonderful conversations, lots of fun. When it went bad, it went BAD.

I'm sure some libra/aqua pairs could work. Like I said, when mine was good, it was great. If I found a good aqua woman I'd try again. Don't smother an aqua, respect their freedom and space. They'll like you alot more for it. Push and poke and question constantly (and much like any person) you'll send them running.

Posted by LibraSid
I only has a serious relationship with one aqua. We got married, kids, bought a house, the whole deal. It was great for a lot of years. We were great friends, had wonderful conversations, lots of fun. When it went bad, it went BAD.

I'm sure some libra/aqua pairs could work. Like I said, when mine was good, it was great. If I found a good aqua woman I'd try again. Don't smother an aqua, respect their freedom and space. They'll like you alot more for it. Push and poke and question constantly (and much like any person) you'll send them running.

Thank you Darling 🙂 As an air sign myself, I completely understand the concept of not smothering lol but, I get that vibe as well. If thngs go well, it will be fantastic, but, if things go bad, the earth will tremble...

Posted by IrresistableScorp
IMO that was classic Aqua fishing for your loyalty/interest levels.

Sorry Feby but I have to agree with this... I talked to him about it last night and he said he doesn't really feel that way. So I asked why he said it and he explained a previous gf had said that to him, then eventually cheated on him, he was trying to find out my opinion on it. I told him he could've asked me directly, I always tell him the truth, he said he would sometimes say things just to see how I would react. On a side note, he did tell me that he really expected some crazy outburst and he admired the fact that the only thing that happened was my eyes widened then I come talk to him about it "reasonably" lol I guess that's a good thing?

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Posted by IrresistableScorp
IMO that was classic Aqua fishing for your loyalty/interest levels.

Sorry Feby but I have to agree with this... I talked to him about it last night and he said he doesn't really feel that way. So I asked why he said it and he explained a previous gf had said that to him, then eventually cheated on him, he was trying to find out my opinion on it. I told him he could've asked me directly, I always tell him the truth, he said he would sometimes say things just to see how I would react. On a side note, he did tell me that he really expected some crazy outburst and he admired the fact that the only thing that happened was my eyes widened then I come talk to him about it "reasonably" lol I guess that's a good thing?

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Yup the testing.

Sorry Feby, not all Aquas do this, but some do. It was a loyalty check. He should have just had a conversation with you, but perhaps he just didn't know how to broach it. It's good you spoke to him instead of feeding into it with insecurities.

Posted by tiziani
Aqua trolling tsk tsk tsk 😛

no such thing! 😈

Lol that was pretty messed up... But, I have to admit that it's hard for everybody to trust nowadays. He's had really bad relationships and even though he wants to trust me, he still "checks" to make sure I'm genuine. As soon as I found out he doesn't really feel that way, I got over it... That's all I needed to know, that he wasn't planning on betraying me in the future.

Posted by feby
Hot/cold protocol is really not our fault though. You made us do it!! 😛

YESSS!!!! 😆