AquriusInlust
@AquriusInlust
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libra Needs his Balls back?!!
Thanks all for replying!!!
Yes I have a Busy life!! I work a lot and I have a unit complex (rental)that I have for investments that keeps me busy!!! With finding renters to fixing up the place to making sure my renters have my rent! Ha
Plus I work out a lot. hike and swim and that keeps me busy. I definitely hang out w/my girls at least once a month either I go over or they come to my place.
Plus I have a pretty close family that I see at least once a week and I do keep busy with out him. Running my errands paying bills etc.
the thing is that My man is soooo clingy and every time he wants to go out for drinks he always wants me to go with him.
See, he has only one guy friend and that guy is rarely available and when he is available my Libra dude Always says he Wants me to go with them, even tho I often insist that he go alone"the boys only"..he refuses.
So Yes I do encourage him to go out hang out solo.
I'm Not Thrilled of the idea that he sometimes misses the chase w/ women and attention from other chicks. I would be lying if I said I'm Totally ok with that. But reality I think at some point we all kinda miss attention from opposite sex right—
Well I know I do at times. I think I kinda ignore those feeling because I'm mature enough to know that I am in love and I do ultimately want this Libra dude.
The reality is that I wish he just proposed to me dam it!! And marry my ass and have like eight kids from me ha ha haas jk (not really)
I'm patiently waiting that he matures Fast. This hot Sexy mexy isn't waiting too long for him to grow up. I mean I do want him to commit more and have more stable feelings about our future together but a Gurl can only hope...
Thank you all!!!
Yes I have a Busy life!! I work a lot and I have a unit complex (rental)that I have for investments that keeps me busy!!! With finding renters to fixing up the place to making sure my renters have my rent! Ha
Plus I work out a lot. hike and swim and that keeps me busy. I definitely hang out w/my girls at least once a month either I go over or they come to my place.
Plus I have a pretty close family that I see at least once a week and I do keep busy with out him. Running my errands paying bills etc.
the thing is that My man is soooo clingy and every time he wants to go out for drinks he always wants me to go with him.
See, he has only one guy friend and that guy is rarely available and when he is available my Libra dude Always says he Wants me to go with them, even tho I often insist that he go alone"the boys only"..he refuses.
So Yes I do encourage him to go out hang out solo.
I'm Not Thrilled of the idea that he sometimes misses the chase w/ women and attention from other chicks. I would be lying if I said I'm Totally ok with that. But reality I think at some point we all kinda miss attention from opposite sex right—
Well I know I do at times. I think I kinda ignore those feeling because I'm mature enough to know that I am in love and I do ultimately want this Libra dude.
The reality is that I wish he just proposed to me dam it!! And marry my ass and have like eight kids from me ha ha haas jk (not really)
I'm patiently waiting that he matures Fast. This hot Sexy mexy isn't waiting too long for him to grow up. I mean I do want him to commit more and have more stable feelings about our future together but a Gurl can only hope...
Thank you all!!!
you moved in together after dating for two months? that's pretty quick.
i think he might be having doubts. he said to you he didn't want anything serious at the beginning but two months later found himself moving in with someone. he may have felt that the whole situation swept him along.
but you're at where you are at. i agree with tiz, you need to try to give him his freedom at this stage. he is likely to have romanticised how it will be with tens of women throwing themselves at him. the reality of it may not be as he imagined and with that doubt quashed he might appreciate what he has with you now and not some fantasy.
the problem is, lots of women might throw themselves at him. if that's what he wants, like he told you 12 months ago, he might decide to pursue that path.
i think you're in a tenuous situation. you have to give him his freedom but it is with the risk that this might end your relationship.
i think he might be having doubts. he said to you he didn't want anything serious at the beginning but two months later found himself moving in with someone. he may have felt that the whole situation swept him along.
but you're at where you are at. i agree with tiz, you need to try to give him his freedom at this stage. he is likely to have romanticised how it will be with tens of women throwing themselves at him. the reality of it may not be as he imagined and with that doubt quashed he might appreciate what he has with you now and not some fantasy.
the problem is, lots of women might throw themselves at him. if that's what he wants, like he told you 12 months ago, he might decide to pursue that path.
i think you're in a tenuous situation. you have to give him his freedom but it is with the risk that this might end your relationship.
I'm sorry, but, "tolled?"
You have to be kidding me.
You have to be kidding me.
^just saw the disclaimer.
Still. I have never seen someone write it like that before.
I dunno why you aren't pissier. He basically wants to be single so he can go fuck around and doesn't think your relationship is worth keeping.
Honestly, you both sound really immature. It does not make for a good ltr atm. If he wants to go stick his dick in random chicks, let him. It's not worth keeping someone like that around.
Still. I have never seen someone write it like that before.
I dunno why you aren't pissier. He basically wants to be single so he can go fuck around and doesn't think your relationship is worth keeping.
Honestly, you both sound really immature. It does not make for a good ltr atm. If he wants to go stick his dick in random chicks, let him. It's not worth keeping someone like that around.
Also, a proposal after a YEAR? Bitch, you crazy. I'm sorry your culture is so outdated and think marriage is the ultimate life goal, but that's not the be all for most people. Dude is white and marriage is probably the LAST thing on his mind, especially if he misses being single. You sound a bit delusional to what's really going on, tbh.
I mean really, listen to what you're telling us- you moved in after 2 months of whatever, started arguing all the time 8 months later. He's voiced that he misses being single, and your girly ass is wishing for a proposal?
....
Are you reading what you're writing here?
Nevermind that he's freaking 38 and pining over singledom. At his age, most people are looking to settle down in some way. He's been a bachelor too long and you're trying to tie him down. That's kinda sad.
I mean really, listen to what you're telling us- you moved in after 2 months of whatever, started arguing all the time 8 months later. He's voiced that he misses being single, and your girly ass is wishing for a proposal?
....
Are you reading what you're writing here?
Nevermind that he's freaking 38 and pining over singledom. At his age, most people are looking to settle down in some way. He's been a bachelor too long and you're trying to tie him down. That's kinda sad.
Posted by Sugarfoot
So it sounds like he's trying to decide whether he'd be happier single or happier with you. Because you guys are arguing a lot right now, the grass is looking greener on the single side.
When you first met him, he was wanting something casual. Something about you made him change his mind and now you're living together. He wants you around all of the time which tells me that he's super attached to you. He's got 1 male friend, probably because he's 37 and all his old friends are married with kids and don't have time for him anymore.
He doesn't think he's gotten being a bachelor out of his system yet but he probably has. He needs to see that for himself though. Give him his freedom. That's the only way you both can see how he really feels about you and your relationship.
There's no need to break up in an angry way, but just let him know you're giving him what he wants because you want him to be happy whether or not it's with you. If he misses his freedom, then maybe it's best that he should be free. Funny thing about Libras is that we sometimes don't know how we feel about something until we actually HAVE it. The IDEA seems much better than the real deal is.
The only thing is that when he has his freedom, you have to be strong and not let him have you too. Give him complete freedom (meaning no fwb with you, no long talks and hanging out with you). It's my feeling that he needs to be without your relationship for a while in order to appreciate it and gain clarity on what he really wants.
If I was you I'd feel confident knowing that this will show you once and for all how he feels about you. It's my feeling that he'll come back with the quickness having a renewed interest and passion for your relationship. However, if he doesn't, that shows you that he's not the one for you. He wants something you don't want and vice versa. Better to find out now than later.
well said sugarfoot.
Hey guys thanx for all the Responses!
I know that due to our recent constant arguing, he's probably leaning towards short term.
we have talked about the future(not marriage or kids) but moving in to a bigger place. He's said for me to have more room &space for my clothes. Plus he has mentioned long term future together just not marriage and kids "YET".
Pastelplum: I feel that he is not mature enough to want to get married yet or even desire it. And we've talked about long term future goals before, as a Possibility before so that's refreshing to know. Right?
I know he loves me and he doesn't want to hurt me so I feel like he's trying to let me know that at this very moment he doesn't see a Life long future with me. I'm aware as we get along better he leanes towards Future and if we bicker and argue more towards short term..
I know one thing, he's very hard to please and is a very needy person who seeks lots and lots of attention physically mentally and emotionally.
plus he needs lots and LoTS of Sex and coming from his own mouth he says "Most women can't keep up with me". He says I'm the Best Sex he's ever had. I do know this is one of the MAIN reasons he's with me. I'm not an idiot.
Although we do have lots of fun and special moments together I honestly do feel he's just not there yet. I'm sure he feels I'm not his ultimate, and he's not seeking a life long future therefore he's just trying to address this. Especially that he knows I'm seeking serious commitment.
I'm aware that he's still Has the desire to one day meet more women,date ,have sex etc... I'm just letting him know that I'm here for him and I wish him nothing but happiness in life.with or with out me. Although he is very ware that I'm very happy in love with him I do wish him the best.
We have came to an agreement RECENTLY to givE each other a lil more space. The fact is that we do have love for one and other and we aren't ready to call it off. At least not yet. I hope for long term w/him. on the other hand he doesn't. At least not these few weeks where we keep arguing so much 😢
This libra also pulls me in, to then spit me out.
By this I mean I can't even watch some tv in the other room with out him coming in the room telling me to come to bed because he misses me. Even when he has some events to attend he refuses to go alone. So this has me confused at times. If I say no he gets like a lil boy and wines.
I know I should say yes go alone so he can m
I know that due to our recent constant arguing, he's probably leaning towards short term.
we have talked about the future(not marriage or kids) but moving in to a bigger place. He's said for me to have more room &space for my clothes. Plus he has mentioned long term future together just not marriage and kids "YET".
Pastelplum: I feel that he is not mature enough to want to get married yet or even desire it. And we've talked about long term future goals before, as a Possibility before so that's refreshing to know. Right?
I know he loves me and he doesn't want to hurt me so I feel like he's trying to let me know that at this very moment he doesn't see a Life long future with me. I'm aware as we get along better he leanes towards Future and if we bicker and argue more towards short term..
I know one thing, he's very hard to please and is a very needy person who seeks lots and lots of attention physically mentally and emotionally.
plus he needs lots and LoTS of Sex and coming from his own mouth he says "Most women can't keep up with me". He says I'm the Best Sex he's ever had. I do know this is one of the MAIN reasons he's with me. I'm not an idiot.
Although we do have lots of fun and special moments together I honestly do feel he's just not there yet. I'm sure he feels I'm not his ultimate, and he's not seeking a life long future therefore he's just trying to address this. Especially that he knows I'm seeking serious commitment.
I'm aware that he's still Has the desire to one day meet more women,date ,have sex etc... I'm just letting him know that I'm here for him and I wish him nothing but happiness in life.with or with out me. Although he is very ware that I'm very happy in love with him I do wish him the best.
We have came to an agreement RECENTLY to givE each other a lil more space. The fact is that we do have love for one and other and we aren't ready to call it off. At least not yet. I hope for long term w/him. on the other hand he doesn't. At least not these few weeks where we keep arguing so much 😢
This libra also pulls me in, to then spit me out.
By this I mean I can't even watch some tv in the other room with out him coming in the room telling me to come to bed because he misses me. Even when he has some events to attend he refuses to go alone. So this has me confused at times. If I say no he gets like a lil boy and wines.
I know I should say yes go alone so he can m
....,,,,,This libra also pulls me in, to then spit me out.
By this I mean I can't even watch some tv in the other room with out him coming in the room telling me to come to bed because he misses me. Even when he has some events to attend he refuses to go alone. So this has me confused at times. If I say no he gets like a lil boy and wines.
I know I should say yes go alone so he can miss me even more. I realize with this libra man he tends to want what he can't have? Why— Why do Libras like the chase? I mean isn't the ultimate goal to find someone that adores you and loves you for you??😢
As far as planing a short getaway I did two months ago I flew to Las Vegas for two days with a bunch of friends girls only!!! When I got back he said he missed me and loves me very much so it worked. I think...
Within two months of knowing each other I moved in because I though it would get us closer and he moved me in because he is so needy and wanted all the attention he could get. Yes I know I shouldn't have. Too soon too quick.
Rockyroadicecream: yea tolled. I know bad right?! Lol
Sugarfoot:
I definitely agree with 98% of what u say !! The only thing is I don't have a problem leaving him and hopefully this will make him really see how it is out there, miss me and appreciate me even more than ever...Yet I Live at his place. it's not that easy to pack all my stuff and leave.
What if He wants me back a few weeks/months later?
That's one thing I won't do. I'm not a yoyo to play with.
This is my dilemma. What do I do? Should I pack some stuff or ALL? give him his freedom and hope for the best?
or leave In Definitely?
but if I do leave I refuse to go back living together In the future. Why— Because I should have some standards right?...
So confused?!!!!
The truth is I do want marriage,kids and the whole nine yards. And I'm willing to wait for him if he eventually will come around to that idea, one day.but how long do I if I do wait...
I'm not in a hurry either. But reality is I'm 34 and I can't wait much time.. Right??
He makes me happy and I do see myself with him. But do I leave now and seek better or stay to see what the future holds?!!!!....
By this I mean I can't even watch some tv in the other room with out him coming in the room telling me to come to bed because he misses me. Even when he has some events to attend he refuses to go alone. So this has me confused at times. If I say no he gets like a lil boy and wines.
I know I should say yes go alone so he can miss me even more. I realize with this libra man he tends to want what he can't have? Why— Why do Libras like the chase? I mean isn't the ultimate goal to find someone that adores you and loves you for you??😢
As far as planing a short getaway I did two months ago I flew to Las Vegas for two days with a bunch of friends girls only!!! When I got back he said he missed me and loves me very much so it worked. I think...
Within two months of knowing each other I moved in because I though it would get us closer and he moved me in because he is so needy and wanted all the attention he could get. Yes I know I shouldn't have. Too soon too quick.
Rockyroadicecream: yea tolled. I know bad right?! Lol
Sugarfoot:
I definitely agree with 98% of what u say !! The only thing is I don't have a problem leaving him and hopefully this will make him really see how it is out there, miss me and appreciate me even more than ever...Yet I Live at his place. it's not that easy to pack all my stuff and leave.
What if He wants me back a few weeks/months later?
That's one thing I won't do. I'm not a yoyo to play with.
This is my dilemma. What do I do? Should I pack some stuff or ALL? give him his freedom and hope for the best?
or leave In Definitely?
but if I do leave I refuse to go back living together In the future. Why— Because I should have some standards right?...
So confused?!!!!
The truth is I do want marriage,kids and the whole nine yards. And I'm willing to wait for him if he eventually will come around to that idea, one day.but how long do I if I do wait...
I'm not in a hurry either. But reality is I'm 34 and I can't wait much time.. Right??
He makes me happy and I do see myself with him. But do I leave now and seek better or stay to see what the future holds?!!!!....
honestly? it sounds like you are ultimately looking to get married and it doesn't really matter to who. you got a guy you like and before the ink was dry you moved in. now only a year later you want to seal the deal with getting hitched. you're concerned about your age and think i'll wait because i don't want to spend the time going through trying to get another on the hook while i already have a live one wiggling.
this is a terrible way to get married.
do you really love him? to use an awful cliche is he mr right or mr right now?
if you get married and have children but then later realise that the hairline cracks you had in the beginning are now gaping big holes this will be a tragic situation to have innocent children deal with.
if you are concerned about how much time you have left, cut your losses now and start again. you still have time to make good decisions. your choices will be limited when you are 45, divorced with an angry and resentful ex-husband and three kids around your neck.
take your time and make the right decision, for you, for him and for any children you have in the future.
this is a terrible way to get married.
do you really love him? to use an awful cliche is he mr right or mr right now?
if you get married and have children but then later realise that the hairline cracks you had in the beginning are now gaping big holes this will be a tragic situation to have innocent children deal with.
if you are concerned about how much time you have left, cut your losses now and start again. you still have time to make good decisions. your choices will be limited when you are 45, divorced with an angry and resentful ex-husband and three kids around your neck.
take your time and make the right decision, for you, for him and for any children you have in the future.
Jeane : absolutely I want to get married but I'm not There yet. Well at least not the way things are going with this Libra. Yes marriage would be amazing but I'm in No hurry.
Eventually, if I'm with a guy for a few years, Yes I would like to know that's on the agenda eventually. For both of us Righ?
It's NoT bad that a women would like her boyfriend that she lives with (or been datingfor a while) to want a long term commitment right?!?
I don't think this is a bad thing to want.
If this Libra were to Proposed Tomorrow I would decline.
Because I feel our relationship has some work. Honestly.
Yes I Love this man Bad! He makes me feel amazing like NO man has ever in my 34years of life on this earth! He's incredibly loving attentive sweet caring supportive and loving! Yes loving 2X.
I haven't felt this way for a guy in about 8years. The only bad thing is that he's not mature enough and lately he's been having doubts about our future. And all that stuff. Stepping stones.
In my mind I'm hoping he will eventually come around and once we figure out our differences he will feel good about our relationship once again, therefore we can focus on the relationship and so forth....
I love him sooo much that I'm Willing to wait. I'm even willing to wait on the married &kids idea for a few years. I I My concern is how long is long enough?..
I LoVe this Man So Bad!!!
Sugarfoot:
I totally agree and I should just leave. But I love him so much and honestly I don't pressure him. he knows From the beginning that I'm seeking long term and for the most part he's down for that as long as we get along better and understand each other.
We've agreed if we are still together a few years later then,yes he knows he will have to give me those things so this is a breath of fresh air.
The last 3/4 days he's been super sweet loving and caring. Telling me he loves me over and over. I've given him some space and he's hung out w/a buddy from work. Slowly but surely. I hope. _??_??
He's Being like his old self. I'm not gonna lie the last 2weeks I've seen him a lil distant and somewhat cold. So I think and I hope he's starting to see the good in this relationship.
We will see.
I know I shouldn't have moved in so quick but he insisted and it just a seemed so Perfect the first 8months!! I honestly did it because I thought moving in meant it would bring us closer stronger. 😢 it honestly felt right.
I think Ima let things simmer down. keep an eye on t
Eventually, if I'm with a guy for a few years, Yes I would like to know that's on the agenda eventually. For both of us Righ?
It's NoT bad that a women would like her boyfriend that she lives with (or been datingfor a while) to want a long term commitment right?!?
I don't think this is a bad thing to want.
If this Libra were to Proposed Tomorrow I would decline.
Because I feel our relationship has some work. Honestly.
Yes I Love this man Bad! He makes me feel amazing like NO man has ever in my 34years of life on this earth! He's incredibly loving attentive sweet caring supportive and loving! Yes loving 2X.
I haven't felt this way for a guy in about 8years. The only bad thing is that he's not mature enough and lately he's been having doubts about our future. And all that stuff. Stepping stones.
In my mind I'm hoping he will eventually come around and once we figure out our differences he will feel good about our relationship once again, therefore we can focus on the relationship and so forth....
I love him sooo much that I'm Willing to wait. I'm even willing to wait on the married &kids idea for a few years. I I My concern is how long is long enough?..
I LoVe this Man So Bad!!!
Sugarfoot:
I totally agree and I should just leave. But I love him so much and honestly I don't pressure him. he knows From the beginning that I'm seeking long term and for the most part he's down for that as long as we get along better and understand each other.
We've agreed if we are still together a few years later then,yes he knows he will have to give me those things so this is a breath of fresh air.
The last 3/4 days he's been super sweet loving and caring. Telling me he loves me over and over. I've given him some space and he's hung out w/a buddy from work. Slowly but surely. I hope. _??_??
He's Being like his old self. I'm not gonna lie the last 2weeks I've seen him a lil distant and somewhat cold. So I think and I hope he's starting to see the good in this relationship.
We will see.
I know I shouldn't have moved in so quick but he insisted and it just a seemed so Perfect the first 8months!! I honestly did it because I thought moving in meant it would bring us closer stronger. 😢 it honestly felt right.
I think Ima let things simmer down. keep an eye on t
...... I think Ima let things simmer down. keep an eye on things. If things get worse or if I see that he seems distant,cold,confused.. Leaving would be the only thing for me to do. I'm ok with that. I'm grown enough that I'm worth more than Confusion or indecisiveness. I'm a fighter and I'm willing to work for what I Love But smart enough to know You Can't do it Alone.
AquriusInlust :
Shame on me. I don't think so. I'm a fighter. Specially if I feel this strong about our relationship.
Thank you all for your comments I Really appreciate them all.
Will keep u posted in the next few weeks. see how things flow.
Libra's and their indecisiveness... they want you, then they don't.
Now it's the right time, oh wait not right now!
Pull you in only to reject you because they need time to think before taking action!
ERRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!
Now it's the right time, oh wait not right now!
Pull you in only to reject you because they need time to think before taking action!
ERRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by AquriusInlustInteresting...
The last 3/4 days he's been super sweet loving and caring. Telling me he loves me over and over. I've given him some space and he's hung out w/a buddy from work. Slowly but surely. I hope.
He's Being like his old self. I'm not gonna lie the last 2weeks I've seen him a lil distant and somewhat cold.
Yes he's back to his Old self!!! loving sweet caring etc...
I've been reading his horoscope and this month it says he's very indicissibe and he will be seeking CHANGE! So I will see.
LThe last week we haven't argued or got into any disagreements and I'm trying to keep it fun and light with out any fights because I definetly don't want it to be hiatile any more. I'm happy for now let's see what happens...
I know this libra has his days and he's a big flirt at work with all the girls he works with( around30) very good looking attractive girls. Uhhhh lol
Yes I know he loves attention and flirting is a natural thing they have but I do nodes when he's with me or when we are out he doesn't flirt he actually is very quiet and reserve.
what I nodes is that he does tend to feel more comfortable with his coworkers at work. He definetly flirts with a particular girl but I hope it's just innocnet flirting. I definetly don't feel he would cheat but should this flirting with this particular girl worry me.. Huhmmmm—?
I always tell him flirting is ok in all innocent flirting fun. Like chat, conversation with friends but once u start getting touchy touchy or hugs etc THen I definetly don't agree with that being innocent.
One annoying thing I Know about my Libra is that He tends to like the chase. He loves (without him knowing) and desires what he can't have. I realize he always wants what he can't have!! Why— I mean his last relationship it seemed like he was obsessed with her because she never wanted to kiss or hug him. Like the more she rejected him the more he craved her. She even always had an excuse To have sex with him only a few times a month.
Also some other girls he has dated in the past,which he was In lust over ,they never gave him the attention he wanted bUt he would be soooo crazy for them. why get sooooo Worked up over someone that doesn't give u the time of day— Or makes excuses not to see you as often as you like. Why does he tend to gravitate towards stuff or people he can't have??!!!
Here I am giving him all the love and attention he wants and I get left in the cold. Booooo this sucks!!! I mean do I need to play hard to get or act like I'm sooo busy at times to have him go crazy for me—? What a messed up thing this world comes to.
Yikes!!
Imean playing games In Order to have my Libra crazy for me😢 waaaaaaa
Ha'
I've been reading his horoscope and this month it says he's very indicissibe and he will be seeking CHANGE! So I will see.
LThe last week we haven't argued or got into any disagreements and I'm trying to keep it fun and light with out any fights because I definetly don't want it to be hiatile any more. I'm happy for now let's see what happens...
I know this libra has his days and he's a big flirt at work with all the girls he works with( around30) very good looking attractive girls. Uhhhh lol
Yes I know he loves attention and flirting is a natural thing they have but I do nodes when he's with me or when we are out he doesn't flirt he actually is very quiet and reserve.
what I nodes is that he does tend to feel more comfortable with his coworkers at work. He definetly flirts with a particular girl but I hope it's just innocnet flirting. I definetly don't feel he would cheat but should this flirting with this particular girl worry me.. Huhmmmm—?
I always tell him flirting is ok in all innocent flirting fun. Like chat, conversation with friends but once u start getting touchy touchy or hugs etc THen I definetly don't agree with that being innocent.
One annoying thing I Know about my Libra is that He tends to like the chase. He loves (without him knowing) and desires what he can't have. I realize he always wants what he can't have!! Why— I mean his last relationship it seemed like he was obsessed with her because she never wanted to kiss or hug him. Like the more she rejected him the more he craved her. She even always had an excuse To have sex with him only a few times a month.
Also some other girls he has dated in the past,which he was In lust over ,they never gave him the attention he wanted bUt he would be soooo crazy for them. why get sooooo Worked up over someone that doesn't give u the time of day— Or makes excuses not to see you as often as you like. Why does he tend to gravitate towards stuff or people he can't have??!!!
Here I am giving him all the love and attention he wants and I get left in the cold. Booooo this sucks!!! I mean do I need to play hard to get or act like I'm sooo busy at times to have him go crazy for me—? What a messed up thing this world comes to.
Yikes!!
Imean playing games In Order to have my Libra crazy for me😢 waaaaaaa
Ha'
*facepalm* What the fuck did I just read??
Women seriously need to stop coming here for validation/attention under the guise of "help." If they want to remain in dysfunctional relationships and be the "beaten wife," do it alone, away from the rest of the population. No need to make the rest of us suffer with your facade of "help."
Stop fucking bitching. You were told this guy is being a dick and you should move along, yet you come back, whining about how you're "left out in the cold" because you were WARNED this was going to happen.
He wants to stick his dick in other women. But your silly ass is stuck on wanting to marry some guy who wants to fuck other women while you wait until he's done. WHO does that besides desperate hoes needy for attention? Cut your losses and find a guy who's ready to settle down and WANTS to get married- not someone who prematurely trapped himself with you and openly tells you he'd rather be single than be with you.
Sweetheart, that is NOT marriage material, let alone relationship material.
Women seriously need to stop coming here for validation/attention under the guise of "help." If they want to remain in dysfunctional relationships and be the "beaten wife," do it alone, away from the rest of the population. No need to make the rest of us suffer with your facade of "help."
Stop fucking bitching. You were told this guy is being a dick and you should move along, yet you come back, whining about how you're "left out in the cold" because you were WARNED this was going to happen.
He wants to stick his dick in other women. But your silly ass is stuck on wanting to marry some guy who wants to fuck other women while you wait until he's done. WHO does that besides desperate hoes needy for attention? Cut your losses and find a guy who's ready to settle down and WANTS to get married- not someone who prematurely trapped himself with you and openly tells you he'd rather be single than be with you.
Sweetheart, that is NOT marriage material, let alone relationship material.
Posted by AquriusInlusti suggest you re-read what you wrote and imagine a friend sent this to you.
Yes he's back to his Old self!!! loving sweet caring etc...
I've been reading his horoscope and this month it says he's very indicissibe and he will be seeking CHANGE! So I will see....
Rockyroadcream:
First and foremost ,if you can't stand my thoughts opinions and or concerns then get the Effff out of thismessageboard!!!
Second,if all marriages and relationships thougt like you there probably would' beNONE! How can u seriously have advice to get over it and move on?! I genuinely love tat man. Why are u so bitter?!!! You seriously think all relationships are Perfect and peachy 100% at all times?!!sorry sweety I'm a fighter, a love fighter! Not giving up on this man. InKNOWNHE TRULLY loves me and he in deed wants to make this relationship work!
He actually toldme the other day that he feels that I'll b in his life for ever. Meaning hes starting to feel very strong about us again (relationship). He looks forward and bettering at it. As a matter of fact he wants me to look for apparents so I can have more room space to have my stuff.
No he's not perfect butNeither am I !
Ok he's had conteplated thoughts of being single or saying he misses it!! So What?!!!!!i mean come on what guy or what person doesn't at some point. after living with them for almost a year. Specially after only few months right when we met... doesn't that feeling come to mind at some point?
Having doubts when the relationship has been rocky the last Two Months come on.. It's Reality sweety. Sooner or later People get doubts.
First and foremost ,if you can't stand my thoughts opinions and or concerns then get the Effff out of thismessageboard!!!
Second,if all marriages and relationships thougt like you there probably would' beNONE! How can u seriously have advice to get over it and move on?! I genuinely love tat man. Why are u so bitter?!!! You seriously think all relationships are Perfect and peachy 100% at all times?!!sorry sweety I'm a fighter, a love fighter! Not giving up on this man. InKNOWNHE TRULLY loves me and he in deed wants to make this relationship work!
He actually toldme the other day that he feels that I'll b in his life for ever. Meaning hes starting to feel very strong about us again (relationship). He looks forward and bettering at it. As a matter of fact he wants me to look for apparents so I can have more room space to have my stuff.
No he's not perfect butNeither am I !
Ok he's had conteplated thoughts of being single or saying he misses it!! So What?!!!!!i mean come on what guy or what person doesn't at some point. after living with them for almost a year. Specially after only few months right when we met... doesn't that feeling come to mind at some point?
Having doubts when the relationship has been rocky the last Two Months come on.. It's Reality sweety. Sooner or later People get doubts.
Whatever makes you sleep at night, honey.
Posted by AquriusInlust
Yes he's back to his Old self!!! loving sweet caring etc...
I've been reading his horoscope and this month it says he's very indicissibe and he will be seeking CHANGE! So I will see.
LThe last week we haven't argued or got into any disagreements and I'm trying to keep it fun and light with out any fights because I definetly don't want it to be hiatile any more. I'm happy for now let's see what happens...
I know this libra has his days and he's a big flirt at work with all the girls he works with( around30) very good looking attractive girls. Uhhhh lol
Yes I know he loves attention and flirting is a natural thing they have but I do nodes when he's with me or when we are out he doesn't flirt he actually is very quiet and reserve.
what I nodes is that he does tend to feel more comfortable with his coworkers at work. He definetly flirts with a particular girl but I hope it's just innocnet flirting. I definetly don't feel he would cheat but should this flirting with this particular girl worry me.. Huhmmmm—?
I always tell him flirting is ok in all innocent flirting fun. Like chat, conversation with friends but once u start getting touchy touchy or hugs etc THen I definetly don't agree with that being innocent.
One annoying thing I Know about my Libra is that He tends to like the chase. He loves (without him knowing) and desires what he can't have. I realize he always wants what he can't have!! Why— I mean his last relationship it seemed like he was obsessed with her because she never wanted to kiss or hug him. Like the more she rejected him the more he craved her. She even always had an excuse To have sex with him only a few times a month.
Also some other girls he has dated in the past,which he was In lust over ,they never gave him the attention he wanted bUt he would be soooo crazy for them. why get sooooo Worked up over someone that doesn't give u the time of day— Or makes excuses not to see you as often as you like. Why does he tend to gravitate towards stuff or people he can't have??!!!
Here I am giving him all the love and attention he wants and I get left in the cold. Booooo this sucks!!! I mean do I need to play hard to get or act like I'm sooo busy at times to have him go crazy for me—? What a messed up thing this world comes to.
IF you let him go, you have to understand that this relationship will never work . If he decided to go and "miss" his freedom, that means he decided to leave you and find other one ! Is easy to understand this and you should not be so easy to understand him ! No way ! How about if you two would be married and he would say the same thing ? Would you "understand " him or agree so easy to let him go ? ? ? A man who say this, means he does not loves you . You said you wanted from start something long term but he not. So, he used you for sex only this 10 months, why not ? Was your choice , right ? You agreed to move together , he has a profit from this and now he just want to back to his freedom. 10 months together, sleeping together ,etc, should make him be into you very much, or at all, but now he wants to go and you want to "understand" him — Why ?? You was not good for him —?
No matter what sign is , Libra or other one, a man who want to go, just want to go ! Remember this . 10 months you was good, now he got bored — Think about this.... IF he decided to go, tell him simple, he can go, but never be back ! Let him think about this and see what he do next.
No matter what sign is , Libra or other one, a man who want to go, just want to go ! Remember this . 10 months you was good, now he got bored — Think about this.... IF he decided to go, tell him simple, he can go, but never be back ! Let him think about this and see what he do next.
Posted by AquriusInlustYou are too Native ! sorry to say this, but how can you believe what he say that you will be in his life forever, if he wants now to leave you —? The ex Libra I had my bad experience with him, said exactly the same, that we will be in love forever, that we will be forever together etc... Oh , no ! Never believe words, dear ! See his actions ! And love yourself more than you love others ! You give to this dude all your energy ! Pty !
Rockyroadcream:
First and foremost ,if you can't stand my thoughts opinions and or concerns then get the Effff out of thismessageboard!!!
Second,if all marriages and relationships thougt like you there probably would' beNONE! How can u seriously have advice to get over it and move on?! I genuinely love tat man. Why are u so bitter?!!! You seriously think all relationships are Perfect and peachy 100% at all times?!!sorry sweety I'm a fighter, a love fighter! Not giving up on this man. InKNOWNHE TRULLY loves me and he in deed wants to make this relationship work!
He actually toldme the other day that he feels that I'll b in his life for ever. Meaning hes starting to feel very strong about us again (relationship). He looks forward and bettering at it. As a matter of fact he wants me to look for apparents so I can have more room space to have my stuff.
No he's not perfect butNeither am I !
Ok he's had conteplated thoughts of being single or saying he misses it!! So What?!!!!!i mean come on what guy or what person doesn't at some point. after living with them for almost a year. Specially after only few months right when we met... doesn't that feeling come to mind at some point?
Having doubts when the relationship has been rocky the last Two Months come on.. It's Reality sweety. Sooner or later People get doubts.
You risk to fighting just for wasting time...... Rockie is perfect right ! What are you fighting for — A man who used you for sex 10 months and then he leave you just to get back his freedom — Don't be so Native ! Fighting for something that does not works , is a wasting of time ! A man who loves you, will never say " I want to get back my freedom , I miss girls call me , etc.. " ! That means he does not consider you ! Is very clear ! No matter how much YOU love him , HE does not loves you if he want to be free ! Why don't you try to see clear this ? Is simple ...... and very visible.... He manipulate you only.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamI really agree with you here , Rockie ! I wish all women who ask for help here, to see that they are victims only in this kind of relationships and nobody can help them, but themselves to move on , yes ! To be a victim, means at least 30% is your fault if you became. Is like a man want to rape you and you are dressed so sexy in the middle of the street . More than 50% in this case, is your fault, because you dressed like that to attracting bad men !
*facepalm* What the fuck did I just read??
Women seriously need to stop coming here for validation/attention under the guise of "help." If they want to remain in dysfunctional relationships and be the "beaten wife," do it alone, away from the rest of the population. No need to make the rest of us suffer with your facade of "help."
Stop fucking bitching. You were told this guy is being a dick and you should move along, yet you come back, whining about how you're "left out in the cold" because you were WARNED this was going to happen.
He wants to stick his dick in other women. But your silly ass is stuck on wanting to marry some guy who wants to fuck other women while you wait until he's done. WHO does that besides desperate hoes needy for attention? Cut your losses and find a guy who's ready to settle down and WANTS to get married- not someone who prematurely trapped himself with you and openly tells you he'd rather be single than be with you.
Sweetheart, that is NOT marriage material, let alone relationship material.
Posted by NoMoreFuck you.
More than 50% in this case, is your fault, because you dressed like that to attracting bad men !
Rape is not the woman's fault and you're a piece of shit for saying so.
Gawd people are fucking stupid...
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I know he loves me and I'm pretty sure its natural to feel like he wants his "balls" back right—
Ok thank you to all I really appreciate any comments. Please be nice.
Disclaimer: I have bad grammar and spelling issues please be nice. My English isn't the best.
Thanx.