Libra+Pisces=Heaven Sent or Hell Bound—

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Wow.. gonna need a lot more to go on LOL Otherwise, most of my opinions will come across trite or cliche... all that "communication, listening, compromise, honesty" stuff.. like ANY relationship needs.

TABULA RASA!

Which is great.. don't let it color your opinion before you give it a fair shot, because PEOPLE are far more than their SUN SIGN. I was born the first day of Pisces, and I'm not exactly typical.. but my Libra IS a textbook Libra haha So maybe that's why it works so well for us? I've dated Libras before, a couple of them pretty seriously. Didn't work out (obviously).. but I could SEE the good in it, right there, all that fabulous lovely Libra goodness you read so much about.. but it wasn't to be mine, not with those particular guys. The bad was there too, but we were younger then, a lot more immature.

According to basic Astrology, my best matches are Scorpio and Cancer, and Capricorn. But it's usually not true for me - and I have NOT ONE single Cancer or Scorp planet in my chart. Though I do love me some Scorps, I just don't mix with Cancers and most Caps.. we can't see eye to eye. I've got too much Air and Earth underneath for that.. I don't care much for very "Watery" people... I usually mesh with Virgos (my opposite) and with Airs, esp Libras. Fires for friends, but not romance. Always thought I was odd, until I realized the rest of my chart affects my Sun VERY strongly, making me atypical.

Truth is, Pisces and Libra aren't generally considered a fabulous match.. not a disaster match, either.. one of those middle iffy ones. But it's said that after age 30 or so (aka maturity) Libra-Pisces matches seem to work better. But that's also just going on basic Sun Signs. A person's other placements will affect things a lot... the Pisces might be very Airy underneath.. the Libra very Watery... both might be full of Fire or Earth. Almost infinite combos!

And if I'd given up on Libras after 2 or more failed attempts (one pretty epically!).. I wouldn't be with the Libra man I absolutely adore and want to spend the rest of my life with. Don't rule out anything, esp not because of their Sun sign. In fact, ALL Astrology is just the clay we're born with.. our LIVES and our experiences are the hands that keep forming and reforming us, over and over.. slowly creating what shapes we take.
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And.. LibraSweetie already heard me run my mouth (fingers) at length in her thread in Pisces ^_^

She wants to hear the Libra's side of this! I'd get my Libra man to post his opinions.. but he won't, stubborn ass. He says Astrology is "bunk"... though he admits I have an UNCANNY edge in dealing with most people, but especially HIM. he used to roll his eyes and laugh at the mention of Libra or Pisces or Leos or Aquas... but too many times, my observations were proven correct - I knew things about people he took longer to see. So now he just smiles in amusement when he says, "Whatcha doing, baby?" and I say, "Ohhh, just cruising around DXP.".. "That astrology forum?".. "Well, it's a lot more than that, but yes.".. "*grin*" That's all, he grins.
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Lol yes u did give ur awesome opinion in my other thread and ur advice of me being a mean girl seems to be working Ima libra/scorpio cusper and I think my scorp side takes over once the libra side has deemed a person love worthy lol I don't think I'm a typical libra nor him a typical PISCES because I read they are clingy and emotional and all sorts of things I don't see with him. Altho my attraction to him started back in high school and I could never figure out why? So when we reconnected and well u read my story I felt even more drawn to him. And ppl look at me all kind of crazy when I start talking about Signs and whatnot..but 90% of the time I'm correct when I state something. I just wanted to know if any libras found themselves drawn to a pisces as I have. And @ nefer this is actually another pisces who is trying to pursue me and he calls everyday and texts often but ill update on him l8r.
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generally not great. You can't be too nice, gotta keep them at a distance. Or you can be sweet but extremely screwed up. Even the worst libra will come off as having our shit together, so that's not an option. Basically, the pisces has to feel like this is temporary, that you won't stick around forever, and that they have to try very hard to keep you.

most are not clingy at all. Many are actually the exact opposite of all the pisces stereotypes. They feel like they are the stereotype, then go too far in trying to prove to the world how cold, logical, and selfish they can be. The more pisces in the chart, the worse they are. I've dated several, and the one that really hurt me had sun, merc, venus, mars, and I think at least one outer planet in pisces. Anytime his emotions made him feel weak, he would throw a tantrum or distance himself. They care more about how they feel than what is really happening, which can cause a lot of problems.

in hindsight, I suspect he was more hurt by his behavior than I was. And all because I was too sweet, didn't have the patience to play a sadist for his benefit. They like to feel like martyrs, and if you don't give them that, they'll do it for both of you.

I doubt I'll let myself deal with another, but I still get along well with most as people.
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I was in a relationship with my Pisces for 4 years and it was mostly a wonderful connection. We were very much in love. I adored his deep sense of the world and love of philosophy, he was very emotional about things and I found him to be a beautiful creature.

The reason we broke up - in hindsight - is that he was too emotional for me. As a Libra, I was much more optimistic and light-hearted. I realize now that his beautiful depth brought me down. Libra's tend to mirror their partner's outlook/behavior, etc. and his was so opposite of mine that we couldn't maintain a loving relationship with each other any longer.

However, he is still a very dear friend of mine and we talk every few months to catch up with each other's lives. I consider that relationship to be very wonderful and have no regrets about any aspects of it.

I think it can be a good match but the Libra in the relationship needs to maintain their independence and sense of self for it to work. I was young when I was with him and imagine that it might be easier now that I'm more mature.

Good luck with yours, this can be a very positive connection!
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Oh trust I know all about the Libra / Cancer relationship my son's father is a cancer and it started out so perfectly until he got comfortable and didn't want to meet me halfway on anything or give me the support and attention I needed while carrying his child



water and air is probably among the worst combinations. makes earth & air look easy.
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I do know what you mean, as a super-air-lack-of-water myself.
Air gets smothered more inside water - as for earth, air has to move around that immovable rock. Fire? Air will be used up and depleted. 🙂
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I have a nice mix of all the elements iirc.



Scorpio too? 😉
You have a greater choice of the elements, then.




lol

as do i a earth sun a rising aqua a fire moon in leo a mercury in libra in venus a mars in virgo perfect logical and detached lmao.


The man has it here too !
Oowwwww

Best element though ?


FIyah !!

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lmaoooooooo.

its okay at times lol. so glad i have air planets to work that shit out lol.
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Posted by spica
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I have a nice mix of all the elements iirc.



Scorpio too? 😉
You have a greater choice of the elements, then.




lol

as do i a earth sun a rising aqua a fire moon in leo a mercury in libra in venus a mars in virgo perfect logical and detached lmao.
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I know a girl with virgo sun, leo moon, libra venus..
her venus in libra shows 😄

..and you'd likely choose an Earthy.
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Posted by spica
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
Posted by spica
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I have a nice mix of all the elements iirc.



Scorpio too? 😉
You have a greater choice of the elements, then.




lol

as do i a earth sun a rising aqua a fire moon in leo a mercury in libra in venus a mars in virgo perfect logical and detached lmao.



I know a girl with virgo sun, leo moon, libra venus..
her venus in libra shows 😄

..and you'd likely choose an Earthy.
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lol

alotta people say that im firey and blunt and honest i think my leo moon shows alot since it as some aspects to it but my virgo sun balance me when i dont have to use my emotions to solve problems.