Libra the true ignorer- u don't exist

We have known each other for years, the opportunity did not present itself because we were always with other people. Finally time came, normal relationship 5 months learning the likes and dislikes . He just came home from work in another state in which he was gone for 3 mo 14 hr drive away. I made a trip to see him for his birthday in Oct when he was away, we talk everyday 2-3 times a day. He came home for Thanksgiving and for good at Christmas until he has to do it again. New Years Eve he flaked on me a day before we were supposed to go out of town to his brothers house. He said it turned into a family event and he thought it was going to be a couples event. 🤔.... But, I get it. So I let him know that he handled the situation poorly and I was hurt and disappointed and it didn't seem as if it mattered to him in anyway as there was no acknowledgement of how I felt about it. There was no response, I did not hear from him again until 4 days later. I even text him I left his belongings on his door .Yes I repeatedly text and called with no response for 4 days (20 communications to be exact,I know ridic) these mssgs told him how he never cared about me, only hisself how I was embarrassed I cared and how he was being a jerk. When he finally does call it is to tell me I can meet his sister to pick up some money he owes me,that it doesn't matter I have not spoke to him in 4 days and I'm a headache. That did not happen because I don't know his sister and why are you not able to handle your own business. So 2 days later after ,"so we can be done"' text from him I finally meet him he sits in his truck I come to the window and he looks straight ahead, never looks at me. Gives me the money still never looks at me. I walked away and he was driving away before I could even get in my car.
We were just talking about getting our children together to meet, and yes since this happened he still communicates with my daughter. He treated me like a stranger l've known him for years. I think I see the Libra all in him. All the way the point, of when a Libra's mind is made up, their done their done. I feel like I will never hear from him again.The Libra is the king of ignoring, I have seen it first hand.
I want him to know I handled the situation wrong because of my own insecurities and is their away for us to get back on track? What can I do to make him see I want him in my life and we can make this work?

The confused Gemini ”
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i'm not surprised he reacted the way he did.

so how do you get him back? i would suggest writing an email and explain your feelings towards him and why you reacted the way you did. tell him the situation from your perspective. don't blame him. tell him you know you handled the situation incorrectly and if he feels that the best thing is not be in each others lives, tell him that you accept that although it's not what you want.

if someone apologises to me i want to see real remorse and some understanding of their wrongdoing. it won't hurt either to show a bit of understanding on his position as well. i would want to see that someone understands my reaction to cut ties.

if you explain the situation from your side in language that is "i felt x or when this happened i thought y" rather than "you made me feel x or when you did this, i thought y" you might go some way to having him soften his position. hopefully he will empathise with your point of view.

Yall geminis is clingy idk what anyone says and im a cancer jeesh...hopefully the libra can chime in and help u. They day kib and gem go perfect together but libras like stability despite their indecisiveness that doesnt mena they will tolerate it from their partner and gems do that back and forth too much...

Jeane, I actually brought a card and put a lil letter in it. I'm going to mail it and let the chips fall where they may. If you think of anything else keep me posted.
Thanx a bunch€

Lovely77 yeah I do find that I am clingy when I really like someone and I have never been one to date 2 or 3 guys at a time so my focus is all on the one person and even though I don't want to be dating 2 or 3 ppl at one time I do need to realize that there needs to be space for his sanity and mines. Hopefully he we see my side and we can continue getting to know each other and grow together.
Thanx a bunch

That's the thing I hate arguing it drains me I like it to be stable .... As long as I know where I stand im good, the deviations in actions not matching words spoken get me every time

Well well, it's over for now. Once a libra starts ignoring you for days on end they had enough and don't want to argue or reason about whatever the situation is. There is still hope if you learn to give respected space. If you can't then it will get worst where he will start to speak his mind. It won't be pretty, chances are everything out his mouth will be based on facts not jus words to cut you but FACTS. After that he won't look at you the same but as something beneath him. Leave him alone. If you have to pretend you're happy, do it. Libras don't give up on the ones they love so easy regardless of arguments/disagreements and fights. But they do need their respect and air time/space to recharge. "Remember libras always thinks tomarrow will be better." Let it be for now. Stop with all the talking and prove by actions you can do better...that's the point of him ignoring you. All the best

Thank you. I have done just that. I sent him a card w/ a lil note and his favorite champagne. He text me and told me it was thoughtful n beautiful. I still didn't bother him. I send text now to say hello n we converse a bit through text but I'm still laying low. Hopefully it will continue to flow in the right direction