Libra trait or male trait?

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Ok so, there's this guy I kinda REALLY like, it drives me CRAZY!
And sometimes he'll flirt with me with his "Libra charm" and it drives me even more crazy. But then he'll like completely not even acknowledge that I exist, I could post nude photo's of myself and I doubt he'd notice!! so I sit there pining for a few weeks and get it into my head that I should give up, because it's going no where and never will, and I swear it's like he can sense that I'm doing so and BAM back with the starting conversations and liking tonnes of my posts on social networking sites like " HELLO I'M HERE" and I just want to kill him. This cycle seems to repeat constantly.
Why is this so difficult, I'm a Gemini, this should be easy right? He probably just doesn't like me and it trying to string me on, but I don't think he's heartless.. so what the fug?!
Any insights would be grateful 🙂
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
You could just be direct with him and say do you want me or words to that effect ?
If he doesn't contact with the same amount of regularity as previous maybe he's just busy with other things or maintaining a distance just so he can actually get those other things done ?





It could be possible, I mean he does come across as a very busy person 🙂
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Posted by Pecheresse
You will never catch the libra male who plays constant games. I mean he's got a few others like you on the side so don't put him on a pedestal just yet.




God I wish I hadn't, I know this sounds ridiculous but sometimes I think I'll never like anyone else to the extent or intensity that I like him (I know I'm loony, I'll look back at this one day and laugh haha) and I know for a fact that there's other girls he's been interested in, but one is in a relationship with someone else and the appear to be not interested? It's so annoying, if he's not interested why can't he ignore me like the rest of the male population!
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Posted by Pecheresse
You will never catch the libra male who plays constant games. I mean he's got a few others like you on the side so don't put him on a pedestal just yet.




God I wish I hadn't, I know this sounds ridiculous but sometimes I think I'll never like anyone else to the extent or intensity that I like him (I know I'm loony, I'll look back at this one day and laugh haha) and I know for a fact that there's other girls he's been interested in, but one is in a relationship with someone else and the appear to be not interested? It's so annoying, if he's not interested why can't he ignore me like the rest of the male population!



My ex is libra, so I would say, it's always flattering for an ambivalent Libra dude to have like a harem around him. Just in case he's running outta attention. Maybe the only way to know if he's playing game is to disappear & watch him crawl. Or not. Just don't give him all your attention because he won't be grateful. I wish i could bring you good news but I'm sort of allergic to Libra games. haha.
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Well I guess it's not like I really start the conversations most of the time (or ever) it's not that I'm nervous that much, I rarely ever start conversations with people (but when a conversation is started I never shut up and usually have the last word lol). I wanna be like next time he talks to me, not answer as fast or as enthusiasticly as usual, but I also don't wanna give him the impression that I'm NOT interested, geez dating is hard. And I haven't even got there yet. Hahaha
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Rag,
Do you see im in person often or just always online ?
I hate to be blunt but if you want results and if he is a typical male Libra follow this simple plan:
put on one of your sexier dresses and heels ,make yourself up pretty ...and tell him to ' Come get some '
(or something else daring ) with a wink. If your a looker you will easily seduce the shit out of him.
If he doesnt respond he's either gay or he's not a Libra ! Your a Gemini so I know you know how to 'work it'
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Um online. We friends through mutual friends I guess. But yeah, I think I'm just gonna put it all down to the fact he's just a massive flirt and try to get over my unrequited love haha 😉 Also I can definitely be flirty and daring but when it cones to the person I like, I'm like a sack of nerves and can barely compose a sentence. Also helps speaking to him online so I have time to think about how to reply instead of blurting out whatever ridiculous shit comes to mind haha