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Libran men
Are Libran Men Compatible with Other Librans
Libran men are charming and attentive, often seeking harmony and balance in relationships. They enjoy romantic gestures and can be very affectionate. However, since Libras value fairness and may avoid conflict, their relationships might lack decisiveness. Compatibility with other Libras can bring mutual understanding, but it may also lead to indecision if both partners avoid confrontation.
Posted by sweethearts
Give me the gory details...I have one that is pulling out all the stops to impress and get me hooked. He is absolutely adorable and I like him loads but I know little apart from myself (Libra) and we are different to the men.They fall hard but then back away quickly is what I have learnt through these forums....what else??
I'm getting wooed big time and I like it but always reserved...
It really is nice, all the attention to detail. 1st date, he took me out to dinner and dancing, 2nd date, a casual drink and game of pool at the local, 3rd date and he cooked for me and he is still trying to impress. I'm lapping it up!!!!
Is the Libra/Libra a perfect combo??
Uhhhhh, I thought someone's seeing an Aries?
Posted by Pecheresse
I'd deffo go for an Aries over any Libra!
Phwoar! You posted at 1:11:11 PM. Awesome feat.
Go 4 an Aries then 😛
Posted by sweethearts
Give me the gory details...I have one that is pulling out all the stops to impress and get me hooked. He is absolutely adorable and I like him loads but I know little apart from myself (Libra) and we are different to the men.They fall hard but then back away quickly is what I have learnt through these forums....what else??
I'm getting wooed big time and I like it but always reserved...
It really is nice, all the attention to detail. 1st date, he took me out to dinner and dancing, 2nd date, a casual drink and game of pool at the local, 3rd date and he cooked for me and he is still trying to impress. I'm lapping it up!!!!
Is the Libra/Libra a perfect combo??
Uhhhhh, I thought someone's seeing an Aries?
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Aries is my fwb and has been for a couple years...he lives in my hometown and we are going on an OE next year. 😉
So why not enjoy some attention from someone living sooo close!
@ Pech,
he is lovely and I deserve the attention but yeh, I'm not allowing myself to get too caught up in it all. And yes I can see the Libran in him and what I have read up on these guys. Funny I remember saying recently I really want to try a Leeb and wham@!
They are very romantic and sooo attentive to detail 🙂
I've only had 2 fwb's. First one was when I had just moved countries and I was lonely and had no friends here. He was company and turned me on but I knew without a doubt that I could never fall for this guy. It lasted 6 months. My Aries and I met when I went home a couple of years ago. Circumstances are that, we really care for each other and he is so much fun to party with, the guy everyone loves, but neither of us can move to be with the other because of our children so we hook up when we see each other...if the other isn't involved with someone else. I won't ever lose his friendship and we are planning a trip together, whether that be as mates or lovers, who knows, depends on what's happening in our lives at the time. If we were living in the same place we would be together.
But I do believe Pech that it takes special types of people that can deal with that type of relationship.
As for this new guy, my instincts tell me that he is dead keen on us being exclusive. I'm 95% sure he is genuine. In fact, I don't want to hurt him which is why I'm holding back...
Ooh so many Lib/Lib couples now. I'm so jealous lmao
Posted by spica
Ooh so many Lib/Lib couples now. I'm so jealous lmao
I thought you had a Leeb man?
Posted by spica
Ooh so many Lib/Lib couples now. I'm so jealous lmaoI thought you had a Lib man?
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I'm just sayin' 🙂
Posted by Pecheresse
I'd deffo go for an Aries over any Libra!Phwoar! You posted at 1:11:11 PM. Awesome feat.
Go 4 an Aries then 😛
Damn you think that's a sign? 😉
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Hmm I'm not sure but it could be some spiritual awakening signal
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I was thinking more good timing, that 11:11 thing doesn't work all that much tbh.
hmm, I guess then. I haven't understood it's significance anyway.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
It's what you make it I like to think, but it's symbolism as well as others warrant mention and make for interesting reading, but I don't believe in Angels and light beings/spirit guardians so that's probably it too.🙂
I sorta believe anything is possible, but to each their own..
I think Libra/Libra is the best match! I am slightly biased as I have a Libra man, though 😛 it wasnt the easiest relationship to get going! There was a lot of push/pull hot/cold nonsense from both of us. In the past with Libra's I have just given up when they went cold as I couldnt be bothered but from this experience all it took was for me to man up and tell him to stop the bullshit and it kicked him into being the lovely sweet Libra that he is with no nonsense . Best relationship i have ever been in, we both discuss everything rationally and reasonably, no raised voices, we seem to agree on most things and if not can still understand the others point of view, we both consider the other person before making a decsion, although it does takes us about a million hors to make a decision haha but apart from that its all good 🙂
Temperament wise, libra/Libra is the best match for sure. The others depends on maturity, personality, goals and of course dedication to each other.
What's iggie anyways?
Ah, you're right. Pecheresse has a point too, btw. It's a 50/50; can't be all good all week
Posted by everevolvingepithet
But then again she did say I reminded her of her dad a few too many times too and it just turned me off a bit after that :/
Could be she wants you to take the role of her dad too..
Posted by everevolvingepithet
But then again she did say I reminded her of her dad a few too many times too and it just turned me off a bit after that :/Could be she wants you to take the role of her dad too..
It was kinda tweaked and funny the first time once she explained it,, but a few times too many.
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Maybe you played "Santa claus" one too many times with her?
Ugh sorry I'm just projecting re: my Leo cubs who want me to play Santa most the time
Posted by everevolvingepithet
But then again she did say I reminded her of her dad a few too many times too and it just turned me off a bit after that :/Could be she wants you to take the role of her dad too..
It was kinda tweaked and funny the first time once she explained it,, but a few times too many.
Plus I had a beard at the time so that might've done it too.Maybe you played "Santa claus" one too many times with her?
Ugh sorry I'm just projecting re: my Leo cubs who want me to play Santa most the timeIt was the middle of summer, and I have a ginger beard so no santa lol.
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I mean you played "daddy" and gave out some gifts, or gestures?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
But then again she did say I reminded her of her dad a few too many times too and it just turned me off a bit after that :/Could be she wants you to take the role of her dad too..
It was kinda tweaked and funny the first time once she explained it,, but a few times too many.
Plus I had a beard at the time so that might've done it too.Maybe you played "Santa claus" one too many times with her?
Ugh sorry I'm just projecting re: my Leo cubs who want me to play Santa most the timePlaying Santa with her sat on your lap? lol
*eye roll*
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Lol, gifts. Leo women are really demanding that I found. I don't want a Leo girl next time lol
No Leo nor Aries baby girls for me next time sweet jesus.
nice eye
*considerable libra
I'd like a cappy boy kid and maybe a virg girl.
Posted by Pecheresse
Same here. And no more cancer girls either. Dramatic cry babies are just excluded from now on! haha.I think I'll have a Gemini girl - so far that's the sweetest. The cancer must have considerable lumbar for me to consider. I don't want a libra boy child either. Ugh that one gives me trouble lol
Gem chicks.... so quick witted & fun. haha. Cap chicks are interesting too, cos so grounded & serious + never jealous it seems.
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Hmm I don't know so much about cap girls actually, they're ok I suppose, altho the occasional boss-around
By the way Pecheresse, is your ex doing drugs?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
But then again she did say I reminded her of her dad a few too many times too and it just turned me off a bit after that :/Could be she wants you to take the role of her dad too..
It was kinda tweaked and funny the first time once she explained it,, but a few times too many.
Plus I had a beard at the time so that might've done it too.Maybe you played "Santa claus" one too many times with her?
Ugh sorry I'm just projecting re: my Leo cubs who want me to play Santa most the timePlaying Santa with her sat on your lap? lol
*eye roll*
🙂Lol, gifts. Leo women are really demanding that I found. I don't want a Leo girl next time lol
No offense to her, but yep, plus expectations out of sync with reality.🙂
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Ya so? She called you daddy because you were treating her JUST like a wee cub! 😉
Posted by everevolvingepithet
+ not allowed to win at scrabble lmfao
She sounds like my Leo cub. Leo sun/ Lib moon perchance?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
+ not allowed to win at scrabble lmfaoShe sounds like my Leo cub. Leo sun/ Lib moon perchance?
I've no idea, I'd go with cancer moon just because she had a heart-shaped face lol.
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check astro . Com ?
Posted by spica
By the way Pecheresse, is your ex doing drugs?Yeah. I thought he was strong enough not to get ever hooked, but he got hooked on cocaine which is also a reason why I left him.
Yeah it could be the drugs that made it haywire. Try to get him off coke ( if poss ), the Lib/Lib would work better. The winehouse route ain't cool.
My Lib used to smoke which I obviously didn't like but he'd just blow smoke on me. Till we had a rift, he didn't smoke anymore. Or at least claimed not tosmoke? weed?
ex smokes like 10+ joints a day. He's always done it. He will never stop. Claims he's hyperactive and it just calms him down. *shrugs*
-i seriously went through hell with him but i never got hooked on any substances, so screw him! lolclick to expand
Smokes cigs, not weed.
Eh, that's what my Lib claimed too. I'm not sure what made him stop, but I think it was the finances. He figured it was too expensive
Rehab.
Posted by Pecheresse
just cigs, easy to stop, he should just read allen carr's book...and think to himself... not concerned with that anymore. it works. 😄
You're right though re first point. Maybe leave book at desk in their vicinity?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
+ not allowed to win at scrabble lmfaoShe sounds like my Leo cub. Leo sun/ Lib moon perchance?
I've no idea, I'd go with cancer moon just because she had a heart-shaped face lol.
check astro . Com ?
I'm just happy with the memmorriieesss lol
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lol, yeah I get it
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I can't remember her birthday too fwiw 🙂
Lol, selective memory?
My most troublesome Leo was born 15 aug, a libran influenced Leo. Ha! I'll remember it to see if any others overwrite it with positivity
Posted by Pecheresse
just cigs, easy to stop, he should just read allen carr's book...and think to himself... not concerned with that anymore. it works. 😄You're right though re first point. Maybe leave book at desk in their vicinity?
I think that'd be a nice thing to do...
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Yeah it won't be too pushy I guess 🙂
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I can't remember her birthday too fwiw 🙂Lol, selective memory?
My most troublesome Leo was born 15 aug, a libran influenced Leo. Ha! I'll remember it to see if any others overwrite it with positivityThat's close, I was thinking it was the 17th but can't be 100% 🙂
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ahh I see...
I don't think u did alot wrong I don't think - it's the drugs that stalls growth
😄
Posted by libra sun
I think Libra/Libra is the best match! I am slightly biased as I have a Libra man, though 😛 it wasnt the easiest relationship to get going! There was a lot of push/pull hot/cold nonsense from both of us. In the past with Libra's I have just given up when they went cold as I couldnt be bothered but from this experience all it took was for me to man up and tell him to stop the bullshit and it kicked him into being the lovely sweet Libra that he is with no nonsense . Best relationship i have ever been in, we both discuss everything rationally and reasonably, no raised voices, we seem to agree on most things and if not can still understand the others point of view, we both consider the other person before making a decsion, although it does takes us about a million hors to make a decision haha but apart from that its all good 🙂
I'm not getting hot and cold, it's all warm 🙂 Probably I'm more the cooler of the two as I prefer to take things slowly, there is no rush in my mind. I love the honeymoon period and that's what keeps me interested 🙂
i think you maybe right with this combo, it suits me perfectly!
I'm intrigued, are you a Buddhist?....
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I don't subscribe to religion or any denomination, so free thinker it is. Hope things work out!
It's pretty slow moving, nothing like what sweethearts talks about at all, nor any of those Mills and Boons. But I still hope it can graduate to a marriage in 4-6 years.. ha
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Ouch, receding gums ?
(swilling/pushing olive or vit e oil through the gaps supposedly helps reverse this fwiw)I think him just going cold turkey and staying away from potheads would be greatly beneficial too.
He will just never. He's been smoking for like 15 yrs... He really thinks he's stronger than death or something.
Are his brains though ? :/
Lmao. Last time I saw him, without us giving each other the finger that is, was like a yr ago. He seemed to be living in a weird other dimension. I don't even know why I talk about him so damn much. I don't care. He made me miserable, I made him miserable. Not compatible. End of story.
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He sounds like he needs help. Libs tend to be lost in their heads.. with drugs, oh. much worse.. rehab, psychologist, counsellor, anything.
Posted by spica
It's pretty slow moving, nothing like what sweethearts talks about at all, nor any of those Mills and Boons. But I still hope it can graduate to a marriage in 4-6 years.. ha
Wow, I'm getting the full treatment 🙂 A dozen white roses at lunch, no ones ever done that and talk of a weekend away before I go on my trip plus shows and dancing...yes it's all new but Im loving it while it lasts 😄
How long you and Mr Leeb been dating Spica?
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Give me the gory details...I have one that is pulling out all the stops to impress and get me hooked. He is absolutely adorable and I like him loads but I know little apart from myself (Libra) and we are different to the men.
They fall hard but then back away quickly is what I have learnt through these forums....what else??
I'm getting wooed big time and I like it but always reserved...
It really is nice, all the attention to detail. 1st date, he took me out to dinner and dancing, 2nd date, a casual drink and game of pool at the local, 3rd date and he cooked for me and he is still trying to impress. I'm lapping it up!!!!
Is the Libra/Libra a perfect combo??