CANNOT Shake Libra Ex

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by natural25 on Wednesday, May 18, 2011 and has 7 replies.

Understanding Why a Libra Man May Struggle to Move On

Libra men value harmony and connection, making it hard for them to let go after a breakup. They often seek closure and may cling to hope, especially if they still feel emotional attachment. Patience and clear boundaries help them start healing and move forward without resentment.

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@natural25
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OMG!!

I was with my Libra ex for 1.5 years. We had a good relationship for the most part. We lived together during the last 6 months or so. However, he had some communication and family issues that drove a wedge between the two of us. He is very attractive and I know the ladies liked/like him. When I broke up with him, I just knew it would be a clean break. He would find some other woman really quickly and go on about his business! Wrong! We broke up in November and he is still coming around. In fact, in the last month he has come around more than ever! Crying (literally..sobbing), begging and pleading for me to take him back. Saying that he has lost everything and has nothing without me. SMH.

I guess he did not get the memo that when I am done, I am DONE! I feel bad because he IS a really good guy. But I am no longer in love with him. His communication and family issues pushed me away big time and I am done. I have completely moved on and have no desire to be anything more than a friend to him but he is relentless. He came to my job the other day with flowers, begging to get back with me. I just don't get it. When we were together he was so nonchalant. Now, he is crying like he is a lost member of Boyz to Men.

Anyone have similar experience with a Libra man? How do I get him to move on without creating bad blood?

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@natural25
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King - YOU are BAAADDD!!! Lol. 😉

Ever - Oh most definitely. If he does not cool his heels, I will do what I have to do. I just would like it if it does not come to that point...

Sassy - That migt be a good idea! I dont know if it is too late b/c I have already been somewhat stern with him about me not wanting to be with him. Lol.

Sweet - I have told him that I do not want to be with him and listed some of the reasons behind my decision. However, I always sugar coat it with "I think youre a great guy..." Maybe, that is where I am going wrong. Lol.