LIBRA..do you hold GRUDGES?

When someone did wrong to you..do you tend to forgive & forget also move on..or you tend to hold grudges?
I am an Aries girl with Libra rising and..Aries is not the sign that holds grudges. I am wondering if my Libra rising is contributing to this trait..or my Leo moon 🙂

Some admin lady at office behaved catty towards me and until today I still am angry whenever I think about it, and I resent her very much.
This is not an Aries trait at all. My Aries friends told me they tend to forget because they are more self oriented. I am wondering if this is a Libra trait?

Oh hell yeah!!!!! never forget...but I hardly ever act on anything. I will never let them get that close to me again as betrayal is the utmost worst for me and definitely THEIR loss!

Like some others have said, it depends on the situation. With small stuff I let it go quickly. I don't get angry easily and I don't stay angry long. On the other hand, with big problems like betrayal I will just cut the offending person from my life. I will forgive but I don't forget. Forgiveness allows me to move on without holding some bitterness or anger inside. Remembering helps protect myself in the future.

I hold grudges, which I am trying hard to let go. Read somewhere that it's like holding a sack of potatoes throughout my journey in life, and I hate to "carry" my adversary in my mind even if it's only the thought of revenge.

That said, I have Pluto(intensity/revenge) and Saturn(loooooong retention) on my sun, and elsewhere, so if I decide to hold a grudge and act on it, for sure I can do it right up heaven and earth through many lifetimes. But I sure hope to resolve it before that.

But if impossible, then they deserve my bitterness. I usually seek revenge when I'm feeling really angry. It's a good release.

But LOVE can cure revenge. It can drown it out almost completely.

My Libra sun makes me need to restore balance so if I have been treated unfairly then I need to even the score out and then I am over it.....however my venus in scorpio sometimes makes me secretely be plotting a way to destroy the person and torture them for the rest of their life but I try to keep it under control 😛 haha

some random office chick was rude toward you so now you're gonna hold a grudge against her? lol

like you're seriously gonna let some random office chick dictate how you feel about yourself?? wow.

i can't relate to something like that im sorry.

this little incident you're talking about is like...not even a big deal...lol

other people out there have been treated a lot worse than that lol

if something is bad enough to bug me, it usually bugs me a lot. so i'll either shrug off minor slights or hold massive grudges for the major offenses. if i don't forgive someone immediately, i never will.

my reasons for holding grudges are usually based on offenses to my libran sensibility, but the passion and stubbornness i hold the grudges with is probably more due to my strong leo and scorpio influences.

aries can hold grudges plenty. i don't know where you got the idea that you don't. you've got your own set of principles you hold people to, and will absolutely hate someone who offends your sensibilities. opposing signs are usually very similar, different sides of the same coin. you do things differently, but you're just as idealistic as we are.

Posted by amethyst2002
Haha, she said Leo moon.

Yeah although I have a Leo moon..it's kinda hard to get close to Leo women...and have friendship
I don't think that I can communicate well with em
They seem so catty LOL

I still hold a GRUDGE upon this Leo Lady at office...OMG
She talked rude to me..and after that still had the NERVE to borrow money.. -_-
And she did that with a pompous proud behavior..the nerve!!

Posted by kristalaries
When someone did wrong to you..do you tend to forgive & forget also move on..or you tend to hold grudges?
I am an Aries girl with Libra rising and..Aries is not the sign that holds grudges.

Whoever told you that Aries wasn't the sign to hold grudges..was wrong...DEAD wrong. Aries hold grudges like muthaphucka!!! I think their only saving grace for an aries to stop holding a grudge is if..they forget they had a grudge in the first place.

I personally do not hold grudges, and if I did, that person would have had to do something...really, really, really really, REALLY fucked up to make me hate them till the end of time. And even then, I'd probably forget, or gave the appearance that I did (they would never know I still hated them.)

From my time on this forum..I have never heard or read of a libra "icing" someone out. So yah, I'd take another look at your sun...or maybe it's a sun opposite rising thing. or your sun in conjunction with your moon thing..(double fire, you have a super-super ego)

So I've been looking up aries sun again, and it says several times that "they don't hold grudges." But every aries, I've ever met, from my father, to random coworkers..to people on here held grudges so stand by..i'ma look into this.

I'm thinking it might be an aspect that makes you inclined to hold grudges as opposed to your sun sign.

Maybe it's a cardinal sign thing?

I personally don't like holding a grudge but I sure do remember why I had a grudge in the first place with the other person lol and would act civil instead of being childish

Posted by kristalaries
When someone did wrong to you..do you tend to forgive & forget also move on..or you tend to hold grudges?
I am an Aries girl with Libra rising and..Aries is not the sign that holds grudges. I am wondering if my Libra rising is contributing to this trait..or my Leo moon 🙂

Some admin lady at office behaved catty towards me and until today I still am angry whenever I think about it, and I resent her very much.
This is not an Aries trait at all. My Aries friends told me they tend to forget because they are more self oriented. I am wondering if this is a Libra trait?

I'm a libra with a libra rising and a Leo moon also.

Me, I never forget any slight done to me. I cam brood but the intensity wears off and I just feel numb at the person. Then I just move on and cut them off

I can't hold grudges cuz the emotion gets real hot and goes numb. Now if I always feel anger at a person, yea but I never really held grudges, I just brood real bad lol

I don't find myself holding a grudge that often and when I do I will usually get over it pretty quickly.

i dont hold grudges i just cut their balls off and eat them for breakfast.

well i eat them when theyre attached. still the same

Posted by bnicole84
I'm guilty of holding grudges.. I also have a tendancie to just cut people out of my life if i feel betrayed or hurt by them.. I somehow can just cut ties and act like I never knew em...

Me too.
Once I cut a person out of my life..then it's for good.

Posted by Pride of 0ctober

Posted by kristalaries
When someone did wrong to you..do you tend to forgive & forget also move on..or you tend to hold grudges?
I am an Aries girl with Libra rising and..Aries is not the sign that holds grudges. I am wondering if my Libra rising is contributing to this trait..or my Leo moon 🙂

Some admin lady at office behaved catty towards me and until today I still am angry whenever I think about it, and I resent her very much.
This is not an Aries trait at all. My Aries friends told me they tend to forget because they are more self oriented. I am wondering if this is a Libra trait?

I'm a libra with a libra rising and a Leo moon also.

Me, I never forget any slight done to me. I cam brood but the intensity wears off and I just feel numb at the person. Then I just move on and cut them off

I can't hold grudges cuz the emotion gets real hot and goes numb. Now if I always feel anger at a person, yea but I never really held grudges, I just brood real bad lol

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very interesting insight!
I am..I hold grudges..but the Aries in me tend to cut off quickly and not think about that person at all anymore. Just focus on moving on.

Yes

For me it's not so much holding a grudge , but when Ive been deliberately crossed by someone or if a person shows malicious intent . They will be iced , I have no time or respect for evildoers . - Scorpios always seem to let me down in this dept.