Libra vs Scorpio females. Why the tension ?

The people I had the most tension and annoyance with happened to be all libra females. Why do you think that is?

As far as the libra people i knew it was cause they all were about maintaining an image in their own way. One never liked dating guys her age because I think men her age (30s) were well versed and had a life. While she still parties, doesn't have financial stability cause she shops, doesn't want promotions cause its too much responsibility. So she dates younger guys in their 20s. I figure if she dated someone her own age because shed feel stupid around them. She is scared of talking to creditors even to set up payments. She avoids confrontation and thinks shes always right

Another libra I knew was an old boss I hated. She never would do anything and always took credit. She always bought nice things and showed it off all the time. Because she never did anything at work clients didnt know she was the manager. She got pissed and told us one time that it was our job to make it known to everyone who the manager was

Another libra is the wife of a close friend. They are rich because of him. He was rich when they met. She spends all his money buys things she never uses but uses it when relatives visit. She even bought a diaper bag once. I met her for the first time a couple years ago and she was so clingy with him. The second time I met her i said hi and she gave me a dirty look. And whenever we are all ganging out she calls him non stop until he answers

Whatcha think?

Feelings mutual 😛 . I clash with scorpios because they are so serious and suspicious. Always seem to be plotting an scheming I could go on forever haha. Also all the ones I have ever let get close to me have tried to control my life to the point of turning boyfriends/friends against me!

Love the guys though and for some reason they seem to flock to me to hear my aloof point of view on thier broken heart situations but the women NO THANKS!

My sis is a scorpio and I often see the "death stares" she throws my way. She dislikes me because I am not morbid and dont let things get me down, she hates my happy go lucky attitude and despises my ability to always land on my feet! On the plus side shes very generous as I find most scorps to be with people close to them but I also link with control ("I'll buy you dinner aslong as its chinese" etc)but the only time we "get on" is when she has a vendetta against someone and I give her some inventive and original way to get back at them lol

We think your happy go lucky behavior is you libras being fake. Seems like they are all about image when we believe owning up to who we are even our faults

We think libras wanna come across better than they actually are

No we really are just that great 🙂

She dislikes me because I am not morbid and dont let things get me down, she hates my happy go lucky attitude and despises my ability to always land on my feet!

I find this interesting because I would describe it more as a Scorpio trait not a Libra trait.

Seriously?! All the scorpios I know are morbid and vengeful. They dont just land on their feet they work hard and are ambitious and put the effort in to get there

Well I am the following:

Compassionate
Sympathetic
Passionate
Intuitive
Strong willed
Sensitive
Ambitious
Humble


Can't say the same for libras lol

If our lists were the same then what would be the point in us being different starsigns. And humble? You only.listed your positive traits how about throwing in some negatives. I could write a list of all Libras positives but I havnt got all night :p

I dont deny scorps have positive traits I put above you are ambitious and work hard. But that still doesnt counteract your "dark side"

Dark side?

Jealous
Likes revenge
Sensitive lover analytical

Oh another positive trait. Honesty. We don't like liars 😉

You have answered your own question

I did we own up to who we are bad and good

I've always felt lib women pretend to be someone they aren't cause image is everything to them

Image means nothing to me I am simply ME. What you "feel" doesnt mean its true coukd you not for one second just think that maybe just maybe with Libras what you see is what you get! Just because someone is different doesnt make them fake. Maybe if you bothered understanding Libras there might be less tension?! But not with me as I hate you guys 😛

Lol touch? @librasun

The ultra them being libra was a coincidence but the one thing they all had in common was them portraying themselves better than they are. For example one libra would never ask for help from her bffs of 10 years nor her bf of one year. I suspect it was the fact that she didnt them to know she wasnt financially stable even at her age. I mean y date someone if you felt you can't ask them for help when you need it. I always found that character aspect in libras I knew to be annoying

I'm a compassionate person but I've never denied who I was. I owned up to all my mistakes and it seemed like all the libra women i knew never could. They always wanted to look good in the eyes of others

WOW! This topic came at the right time!

Yeah, Scorpio females can't get alone with Libras.
My explanation is that Pluto hates Venus. It is a natural by-product of mythology.

Pluto is the dark hole. Venus is the "light".. Dark abhors light. The only Pluto that likes Venus is the male pluto.. In mythology that is, Pluto is hades, venus is persephone.

Posted by ScorpioFemale79
The people I had the most tension and annoyance with happened to be all libra females. Why do you think that is?

As far as the libra people i knew it was cause they all were about maintaining an image in their own way. One never liked dating guys her age because I think men her age (30s) were well versed and had a life. While she still parties, doesn't have financial stability cause she shops, doesn't want promotions cause its too much responsibility. So she dates younger guys in their 20s. I figure if she dated someone her own age because shed feel stupid around them. She is scared of talking to creditors even to set up payments. She avoids confrontation and thinks shes always right

Another libra I knew was an old boss I hated. She never would do anything and always took credit. She always bought nice things and showed it off all the time. Because she never did anything at work clients didnt know she was the manager. She got pissed and told us one time that it was our job to make it known to everyone who the manager was

Another libra is the wife of a close friend. They are rich because of him. He was rich when they met. She spends all his money buys things she never uses but uses it when relatives visit. She even bought a diaper bag once. I met her for the first time a couple years ago and she was so clingy with him. The second time I met her i said hi and she gave me a dirty look. And whenever we are all ganging out she calls him non stop until he answers

Whatcha think?

I think you should look to Aries and Capricorn as best friends.. they are more right up your alley.

Posted by ScorpioFemale79
I did we own up to who we are bad and good

I've always felt lib women pretend to be someone they aren't cause image is everything to them

not always, but this shows you are jealous. Who cares what Libra females do, just do your own?

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Posted by spica
WOW! This topic came at the right time!

Yeah, Scorpio females can't get alone with Libras.
My explanation is that Pluto hates Venus. It is a natural by-product of mythology.

Pluto is the dark hole. Venus is the "light".. Dark abhors light. The only Pluto that likes Venus is the male pluto.. In mythology that is, Pluto is hades, venus is persephone.

Pluto abhors light but light keeps Pluto alive.

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Yeah, so they can go hunt their next victim 😉

Speaking about "depth", the only "depth" a scorpion type is capable of is manipulation. They are masters at manipulating emotions. They aren't "deep" by any means, nor self aware. Their mind is too fixed to be able to see any POV other than their own. To argue with a Scorpio woman is futile..

Every Scorpion benefits from courses in psychology and self help. Otherwise they're just trapped in their own dark abyss.

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Posted by spica
WOW! This topic came at the right time!

Yeah, Scorpio females can't get alone with Libras.
My explanation is that Pluto hates Venus. It is a natural by-product of mythology.

Pluto is the dark hole. Venus is the "light".. Dark abhors light. The only Pluto that likes Venus is the male pluto.. In mythology that is, Pluto is hades, venus is persephone.

Pluto abhors light but light keeps Pluto alive.

Yeah, so they can go hunt their next victim 😉

All the victims end up having Stockholm syndrome anyways 😉

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They are pitied 🙂

@spica. I actually think I am a deep individual. Other ppl have commented they think i was also

Not sure about Aries tho. I heard the makes we're a-holes. I should check the Aries forum. Caps. My ex was sooooooi into ambition but not in a endearing way. Hed rather watch jeopardy than go out cause he said hed like testing how smart he was lol

Posted by LIBRA1234
Scorps deep and libra shallow?? not so much in my opinion lol. My most meaningful, objective and very intelligent conversations are with my libra friends. Libras are extremely observant.They notice the smallest things and always try to rationalize and be logical about the same. Water signs aka scorpio in this example leads with emotions and reason is not always present. I love scorps though and I never had bad experience with them, but I have to be very honest here, sometimes I think water signs overall are not that bright when it comes to life and the only reason is that they would believe anything their heart tells them. They fight so hard in what they believe/feel that they often ignore the power of thought. I always know what topics I can cover with my scorp friends and what kind of advice I can get when it comes to love/life - let's just say most of the time advices are not practical nor very intelligent 😢... on the other hand I always got great advice (from scorps) when it comes to career issues - they seem to be much better in this area.

I do have to agree with you on some of this. I do feel I lead with my emotions rather than logic. It is just natural for me to go with what "feels" right rather than what is right.

@theultra the finances don't bother me its the lack of integrity that bothered me. She would never own up to her mistakes or faults even when she was in a 4 yr relationship her ex never knew anything about her instability. Shed never bring them to her place either. So i always saw it as an image thing. God forbid they find out she wasnt perfect and if she made a mistake with anything shed get all defensive for no reason

Anyway most of the libra women i knew just always had to look good in the eyes of others

@candyapples I agree with everything you said lol

I couldnt care less what people think of.me. Would rather be hated for who I am then loved for who I am not. If I wanted you to like me wouldnt I be agreeing with you so we can get along??

And about the finances so what?! My finances.arent anyones business but if you must know they are all in order lol. I dont discuss.my.finances with.my husband and he doesnt discuss his with me (also a libra) because they are none of eachothers business. Our joint finances we discuss as they affect us both.

Read up on typical scorp traits positive and negatives, you will find the words dark mysterious and secretive in theire over and over again. I dont trust secretive people

I have a lot of scorp in my chart and I hate it luckily I have enough air in my chart to stop me being a jealous possesive vengeful psychopath haha even though it does.make an appearance every now and then.

The only thing I like about scorp is the sexual side, even the worst looking scorpios still seem to have something about them that attracts you to them and the ability to make people give in to their demands.

I couldnt care less what people think of.me. Would rather be hated for who I am then loved for who I am not. If I wanted you to like me wouldnt I be agreeing with you so we can get along??

And about the finances so what?! My finances.arent anyones business but if you must know they are all in order lol. I dont discuss.my.finances with.my husband and he doesnt discuss his with me (also a libra) because they are none of eachothers business. Our joint finances we discuss as they affect us both.

Read up on typical scorp traits positive and negatives, you will find the words dark mysterious and secretive in theire over and over again. I dont trust secretive people

I have a lot of scorp in my chart and I hate it luckily I have enough air in my chart to stop me being a jealous possesive vengeful psychopath haha even though it does.make an appearance every now and then.

The only thing I like about scorp is the sexual side, even the worst looking scorpios still seem to have something about them that attracts you to them and the ability to make people give in to their demands.

Get out while you still can! Haha

Posted by libra sun
My sis is a scorpio and I often see the "death stares" she throws my way. She dislikes me because I am not morbid and dont let things get me down, she hates my happy go lucky attitude and despises my ability to always land on my feet! On the plus side shes very generous as I find most scorps to be with people close to them but I also link with control ("I'll buy you dinner aslong as its chinese" etc)but the only time we "get on" is when she has a vendetta against someone and I give her some inventive and original way to get back at them lol

Hahaha I totally get where u coming from with your examples..

Posted by TheUltra79
Scorpios - 2 beings merging completely and walking thru life as one

You are kidding.. they like 90-100% hahaha from what I seen and heard. No concept of fairness of course this is the unenlightened, negative scorpio female.. cant say for all again. In their quest for self control, they have no choice but to control their environment. It's a by product..

Posted by ScorpioFemale79


Not sure about Aries tho. I heard the makes we're a-holes. I should check the Aries forum. Caps. My ex was sooooooi into ambition but not in a endearing way. Hed rather watch jeopardy than go out cause he said hed like testing how smart he was lol

We talking about female-females right.. 😛
I meant Aries and Capricorn females. I think Cap females are your best bet..

@spica cool ill read up on cap females

@libra sun i wouldn't call myself dark secretive or mysterious. I'm open about everything if asked. But I guess that's the mysterious and secretive part. I don't talk about myself unless asked.

My best friend is a Scorpio... I kinda think it's an awesome balance. Where this relationship is slightly dangerous when the two get together to party... Wild shit always goes down with us together and no one really stops each other...

I think what makes us really good friends is that we give each other space. Too much Scorpio in my life drives me effing crazy. And I'm sure too much indecisiveness drives Scorps crazy.

It's actually a relationship I've learned a lot from as a Libra. Again, the key is S P A C E...

That's what I want is space but constantly smothering me with dependence when I've already lost respect is making it turn to resentment

Us Libras sometimes freak out for some reason. We turn into Scorpios when there is something off within us. Maybe that's just me because of my Scorp moon... Just back up. Avoid calls and stuff until you muster up the words to tell her to calm the eff down in a nice rosy way...or to talk with her to see what's really bothering her.

We mean well, but sometimes we are just a little too much. And it takes us a minute to realize...

I'm deep in a spiritual sense. Alot of times my intuition sees things about the world others never notice.

It's scary lol

Plus I seem to draw up inner strength when others would have given up

Posted by ScorpioFemale79
I'm deep in a spiritual sense. Alot of times my intuition sees things about the world others never notice.

It's scary lol

Plus I seem to draw up inner strength when others would have given up

Thats because you are water you have an "emotional depth" . Just becase Libras arnt emotionally deep (in general) doesnt make them shallow. We are air.so our depth is intellectual used in debate/discussion. Eg. Libras love their partners and think they are amazing where as scorps want to own their partner merge into them wear their internal.organs around their neck as a symbol.of their love haha ok a bit extreme but you get the point 🙂

I have had friendships with scorps one WAS my best friend and she screwed me over big time. I could write about 20 stories a lot worse then your libra examples.about why I have issues with scorps but.they all revolve around the same scenarios which are: me letting them get close, they become obsesive controlling (to the point people began to think they were my partner!) me getting screwed over and then.me cutting them off. No other friendships have gone that way with any other sign 😢

Haha I've never been like that with friends. I am too independent lol

What is your chart?

Been there done that.. its not only scorpios but most females of different signs in general.. But the DA FUQ do i care now though ild rather not care than buy those expensive wrinkle creams.

Each has its own beauty and skills... how and when you use doesnt matter as long you get you why 🙂

Other people cant make you happy so why need to care when they don't? Live your life dont mind the bitches 🙂

We libras are happy because we are 🙂 If you think we're not why does it affect you? Be happy that we are happy At least someone is smiling and enjoying life ..right??

I don't remember off hand but I think it is

Sun scorpio
Moon libra
Rising sag

Then your not even a scorpio :p

I was born one! Lol

Yeah, you're not a true scorp. That libra moon... It could be an issue of dealing with an immature libra or you yourself is immature.

Maybe other libras can interject, but don't immature libras piss you off? I work with an immature libra and I want to punch her in the face anytime she starts talking... because she is so insecure and immature. Or maybe that's my scorpio moon kicking in...

i don't care about the tension. both women should know their place

Posted by HouseCleaning
i don't care about the tension. both women should know their place

LOL!!!!

Posted by LIBRA1234
Scorps deep and libra shallow?? not so much in my opinion lol. My most meaningful, objective and very intelligent conversations are with my libra friends. Libras are extremely observant.They notice the smallest things and always try to rationalize and be logical about the same.

I always know what topics I can cover with my scorp friends and what kind of advice I can get when it comes to love/life - let's just say most of the time advices are not practical nor very intelligent 😢...

on the other hand I always got great advice (from scorps) when it comes to career issues - they seem to be much better in this area.

Hi Libra 1234,

I must say that I absolutely agree with your two paragraphs. However, the third paragraph, I really dont get useful advices from Scorpios considering the carrier side. Their advices are fullish and ridiculous. My sister in law is a scorpio. Shes pretty and nice, but most of the time, she pisses me off a looot. She is very close-minded and if you tell her one thing she would see it the opposite way. So, i stopped telling her anything about my love life, or professional life.

Overall, i think theres a tension between libra and scorpio girl because scorpio girls seem to be good looking also, and we libras are known for our beauty and charm. Thats how i see it.

At the end, I am happy being libra, and choosing between libra and scorpio, Id go for libra.

Also, have you ever noticed that there is a huge difference between a libra and other libra? My two first generation cousins are Libra, both of them are pretty, thats the only common thing we have between the 3 of us, the rest...is nothing comparable. For instance, I carry all Libra characteristics.

I don't know what it is but the four women that pissed me off the most in life happened to be libra. I think the things they had in common was they alwAys wanted to be included in everything even when it had nothing to do with the , they always wanted things their way and if if wasnt they bitched about it, and the image thing. So they ended up just pissing me off somehow but they were also kind ppl but I me we really got to see that side cause they pissed me off lol

@libra22 if someone being good looking causes you tension then maybe you are one of those shallow libras that these scorps have been talking about?! Was that a serious response—?

Posted by libra sun
@libra22 if someone being good looking causes you tension then maybe you are one of those shallow libras that these scorps have been talking about?! Was that a serious response—?

To be honest I didnt read entirely what the scorps have been talking about because its nonsense to me. I try to look as pretty as possible and do all kinds of beauty things and if I see some good-looking scorp i tell her she looks nice, i give her a compliment, but I can never stand them, never. Maybe there are exceptions, but havent met anyone so far.

My father is a scorpio. Hes all about power, money, and idk what. Hes a great father, thanks God, but me and him have huge fights, sometimes...not all the time. When its bad, it can get really bad between the both of us. But I balance things because he is my father, otherwise I dont really give them the nicest of me. Why? I dont know either.

And considering the carrier thing, I help people, i keep the humanity in me, but I can be also a B*&% ch. I know my job and I am everywhere present, all events, celebrations, and everything.

Overall, people tell me Iam not afraid to speak out, I am strong, humble, but theres something inside me that knows where to draw a line.

I do get hurt emotionally a lot, but I dont express that, even if it is tearing me apart.

But as i told you, I forgive easily.

I must say that sometimes to some people my future dreams seem unreal, like some of this thread mentioned that libras live in their fantasy world, lol. I dont see nothing bad in that, and I am quite sure I will have the life Iam imagining in my head.

Anything that I mentioned similar to your personality?

p.s I love luxury and beauty things, probably thats common for all Libras. And, Iam very detail-oriented person. I pay attention to even the smallest details, and award people for paying attention to them as well.

I will add one more thing... I know Libras who are very cheap people. I DISLIKE THEM A LOT. Iam not like that. There have been many times when I was running out of money but I would still buy the best, the nicest thing. My cousin is a Libra and she saves more money than I do, (i dont know what It means 'saving money' although Iam a banker, and everytime we go together on shopping I WOULD BUY EVERYTHING, EVEN THE THINGS I DONT NEED (bc i assume ill need them in future, maybe), and SHE BUYS NOTHING. OMG!!!

Or

If she sees 2 t-shirts what are alike, she would buy the cheapest one, and I will buy the more expensive one bc i think i dont know what, but I will buy the more expensive one.

It is the same with gifts... I like buying people gifts and when I get something, I want it to be high quality and something very valuable, whereas my cousins, aunt, they dont...
Maybe something is wrong with me, i dont know, iam not saying iam right and they are wrong.


And at the end my cousin has more money than i do! 🙂

End of the story.

😄

Yes its sounds very similar to me. I agreed with most of your previous post too until you mentioned the tension being caused by them being pretty lol.

I agree its the money power control thing. Libras arnt controlable which is what I think causes the tension.

Eg if my scorp friend wanted to set me up with a guy but I found my own guy she would manipulate the situation to get my guy to break up with me so that I would have to give the guy she picked for me a chance! I find.scorps to be control freaks!

Posted by libra sun
Yes its sounds very similar to me. I agreed with most of your previous post too until you mentioned the tension being caused by them being pretty lol.

I agree its the money power control thing. Libras arnt controlable which is what I think causes the tension.

Eg if my scorp friend wanted to set me up with a guy but I found my own guy she would manipulate the situation to get my guy to break up with me so that I would have to give the guy she picked for me a chance! I find.scorps to be control freaks!

libra,

I want mu husband to be a little bit controlling, (just to know whos the man and whos the woman), but having a friend TO CONTROL ME, HELLO, NOOOO!!!! She/He would want to stay away from me.

I get irritated when I tell people this and that is what I wanna do, and they all of a sudden start with their negativity and their opinions and this and that, i just dislike that very much. If i want their opinion Id as them for their opinion, if not close your mouth and listen.

When someone comes to me for an advice and gets one, after sometime they would call me to thank me bc 1)it worked, 2) they feel me closer to them bc I DONT JUDGE, where as i have seen other signs that judge people a lot, which is a pity.