Libra vs Scorpio females. Why the tension ? (Page 2)

See now I am very careful with money I will buy the best for other people but will not splash out on myself. I am one of those cheap Libras youu dislike 😛 . I cant stand to see money being wasted and I save save save. Im not materialistic at all.I like beautiful.things but I believe beauty and price is not relative.

I have quite a bt of scorp in my chart so along with making me great in bed it also keeps my bank balance in check haha. However on the whole I do not like or trust Scorpio Suns

Posted by libra sun
See now I am very careful with money I will buy the best for other people but will not splash out on myself. I am one of those cheap Libras youu dislike 😛 . I cant stand to see money being wasted and I save save save. Im not materialistic at all.I like beautiful.things but I believe beauty and price is not relative.

I have quite a bt of scorp in my chart so along with making me great in bed it also keeps my bank balance in check haha. However on the whole I do not like or trust Scorpio Suns

You made me smile. Lol, Maybe if we go on shopping together I can change your mind, ha?! 😄

I have been told that iam an excellent love-maker. 😄 I do possess that trait also, as Iam very romantic Libra. I seem to ask a lot from a guy, but that is because I know how worth I am.

HOW ABOUT BEAUTY TREATMENTS? Are you obsessed with those? I think the word 'obsessed' doesnt describe me talking about beauty things. 🙂 I could spend hours in the beauty salon, hours...

By the way, Are there any Libras that have experience with Aries (man)?

I dont do beauty treatments, I dont even wear make up!

All signs have the potential to not get along with othees

Hahaha the telling the same story over and over is so me!!! I have also noticed other Libras do it too

Posted by ScorpioFemale79
We think your happy go lucky behavior is you libras being fake. Seems like they are all about image when we believe owning up to who we are even our faults

We think libras wanna come across better than they actually are

Or maybe we choose not to wallow in misery. Self-flagellation accomplishes little.

I think some Scorpios are just negative people.

Posted by ScorpioFemale79
Lol touch? @librasun

The ultra them being libra was a coincidence but the one thing they all had in common was them portraying themselves better than they are. For example one libra would never ask for help from her bffs of 10 years nor her bf of one year. I suspect it was the fact that she didnt them to know she wasnt financially stable even at her age. I mean y date someone if you felt you can't ask them for help when you need it. I always found that character aspect in libras I knew to be annoying

I'm a compassionate person but I've never denied who I was. I owned up to all my mistakes and it seemed like all the libra women i knew never could. They always wanted to look good in the eyes of others

Then she IS owning up to her problems. She's dealing with her own shit, rather than mooching off and being bailed out by others. It's called dignity and personal responsibility. But yeah, my Scorp ex-whatever used to call me independent like it was a bad thing. *eye roll*

Posted by ScorpioFemale79
@theultra the finances don't bother me its the lack of integrity that bothered me. She would never own up to her mistakes or faults even when she was in a 4 yr relationship her ex never knew anything about her instability. Shed never bring them to her place either. So i always saw it as an image thing. God forbid they find out she wasnt perfect and if she made a mistake with anything shed get all defensive for no reason

Anyway most of the libra women i knew just always had to look good in the eyes of others

@candyapples I agree with everything you said lol

Again, it's called dignity. Why should we make our problems your problems?

Do you ever wear makeup? Do you ever clean your house prior to guests arriving? Do you proofread your resume? If you had really bad acne, would you attempt to treat it?

Perhaps learn to mind your own business.

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Posted by ScorpioFemale79
@theultra the finances don't bother me its the lack of integrity that bothered me. She would never own up to her mistakes or faults even when she was in a 4 yr relationship her ex never knew anything about her instability. Shed never bring them to her place either. So i always saw it as an image thing. God forbid they find out she wasnt perfect and if she made a mistake with anything shed get all defensive for no reason

Anyway most of the libra women i knew just always had to look good in the eyes of others

@candyapples I agree with everything you said lol

Again, it's called dignity. Why should we make our problems your problems?

Do you ever wear makeup? Do you ever clean your house prior to guests arriving? Do you proofread your resume? If you had really bad acne, would you attempt to treat it?

Perhaps learn to mind your own business.

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+1 .. i really dont get the reason why people always gets negative when someone else looks good—
if the libra looked good on your expense than thats when you bitch about it...


But if you were in no way used by the libra to look good then what the fuck are bitching about?

Mind your own business because youre just wasting your time frowning while the libra who gets in your nerves doesnt even care about your existence.

Focus on yourself and not on others issues unless you are directly involved, hurt or a close relative or something.

I have never known any scorpio women 0.o. I think I would get along with them though. The scorp males have qualities I respect and admire so I imagine their female counterparts would amplify those character traits

LOL . i red this whole post, for the last couple of years i have been attracting both male and female scorpio friends in my life, and now one is my boyfriend and im 8 months pregnant.

its funny because my own boyfriend will call me fake when im so open and upfront with eveything, i think its just a matter of how a libra carrys and presents, grooms herself, through any strom or situation in life, could be going broke or having problems whatever else, but we still will be positive and look good while were at it, whats wrong with that?! That is libra trying ti stay balanced inside and out, after all the symbol is a scale..

Frist let me say i love libra and scorpio women, i love there confidence, and strength and power. But me and the scorpio woman are not in contact anymore, im very intuitive and observant i open up to people veery slowly and i didnt feel it was a wise thing to do was to get too comfortable with her and i never did, but she did pretty quick most people do, when we first starting hanging out she was very nice and sweet.. but the more she got comfortable around me and used to me she started doing cold pointless what was the point of that things, and bossy... insecure, very pretty and confident. I can get along with any sign, because i have tolerence.. but not for long! Im pretty too but im more on the humble laid back side. I tried stayed in contact with her for a little while, but then i stopped, there was just something about her i couldnt let down my guard, and she didnt try to keep the contact going, so that says enoguh for me right there...


Im a Libra by the way :-). & in my opinion, theres two kind of libra women, the strong level headed ones me, and the "wild ones", with infinity different personality traits and qualities, so were all going to pretty different in some way. Like me yes i do care about my apperance and i love shoping, but im also natural advocate,dont really care for wearing make up too much but im not against it either,i could go from "dressed up" to natural from one day to the next. Im very emotionally deep and sensitive, but the logical thinking in me always leads, im ambitious, never been a slacker worked hard for everythimg that ive accomplished, and will admit when i make mistakes or done something wrong.

My point im trying to make is dont judge or criticize of why a woman does what she does.

and remember jealously is the Tglyist Trait... ;-

I suppose it's not too late to add my 2 cents. For what it's worth, I've always had relativity good relationships with scorpios. My best freind of a long time is a scorp, and she's one of the coolest people I've ever met. This might be because of my cap moon though, which makes me a lot less happy go lucky and a lot more calm (scorpios tend to be kind of repulsed by hardcore cheeriness, for whatever reason). There is a lot of potential for tension and fighting to ensue, but most of the time that's something that can be worked through. I guess it just depends on the maturity level of the two people involved, and whether or not they want to make things work.

I wanted to add to this forum my own experience:

My best friend is a Libra and I am a Scorpio. It happens that in her chart Libra/Venus are the domaninants and Scorpio/Pluto-Mars are in mine. I've got to say that this isn't an easy relationship. We've had a LOT of arguments and we've stopped talking to each other too, but our friendship is more important than that: she being an air sign knows that our little fights aren't worth it and I being a water sign get too emotional so I've got to let it pass to be calm with myself. One of the things I admire from her is that she's always impartial, she has the ability to discern and to do things with much ease on the emotional side.. I'm not able to do that! What she loves about me is that I've got a lot of passion and determination and she knows that when I want something.. I get it. Contrary to what people think, Libras are not shallow.. They just like harmony and peace and what they want is to be able to hang out with everyone. But their ways have a limit: if they see any chaos coming from you they are not going to change themselves for you. Me as a Scorpio I'm very different: If I don't like you I'm not even going to acknowledge you exist, because I either love you or hate you. We're also not secretive. We just happen to have passed through a lot and only the most deserving people are going to get to know about it.

There were times in our friendship where I hated her always pleasing personality and there were times when she couldn't handle my overbearing intensity. But, the most effective way of reconciliating a Libra and a Scorpio is having a talk. Scorpios are going to let it all out, what we like and what we dislike and Libras LOVE frankness and openness and are going to try to balance it in spite of the two. Libras can teach us a lot as the other way around. Libras can find in us the most loyal friends and they are never going to put us after other people because, as being the balancing, fair sign, they know who we are among their friends. And we Scorpios are always going to find in them wisdom and a strange sense of "stability". Sometimes we Scorpios are going to doubt you Libras and we're going to be suspicious of your ways, and sometimes you're going to take your time and go away for a while when you sense our intensity. But remember things always are made up between us with sincere communication.

Also, we're the most beautiful pair of best friends EVER. She's the charming, lovely girl of the pa

Posted by spica
WOW! This topic came at the right time!

Yeah, Scorpio females can't get alone with Libras.
My explanation is that Pluto hates Venus. It is a natural by-product of mythology.

Pluto is the dark hole. Venus is the "light".. Dark abhors light. The only Pluto that likes Venus is the male pluto.. In mythology that is, Pluto is hades, venus is persephone.

I'm totally attracted to my Libra man's "light". :O He helps me grow my own! But he has his dark sides, too. He's troubled and embarrassed by his own temper sometimes. The way he acts afterward, I may be one of very few people in his life who just accept it as part of human nature and won't beat him down for it. He acts like he thinks I should be offended enough to high-tail and run. But I know there are good days and bad days, and after some bad, will come more good. His good is fantastic.

I'll admit I only read three pages into this thread.. but here's some input from me 🙂

I have known two Libra women. The first I met because she was sleeping with my boyfriend. I was shocked because when I found out and sent her a kind message via facebook I was brutally attacked, put down, and called nasty names. I was also completely shocked because she felt I was 'out of place' asking her to stop spending time with MY boyfriend. I've ran into her a couple times since this all happened and all I get are daggers glared in my direction.

The second Libra woman I've known is civil with me, and even took in my cat for six months when I didn't have place to keep him. When we are out with our group of friends she looks at me complacently, like she is barely tolerating my presence. She also flirts uncontrollably with my current boyfriend (a Libra) when I'm there with him and even with her own boyfriend beside her. It's always *felt* to me that it's a control/manipulation issue. "Oh look, I can get your boyfriend to flirt with me when you're right beside him! Tee hee!" is what I picture her thinking 😛

I think another reason there is tension is because these are the two signs that are thought of as 'the most attractive" or that have 'the most sex appeal", and there is a silent battle to be the most dazzling, most seductive woman in the room. Scorpio and Libra are both narcissistic and vain.

I have Scorpio rising, but my mother is Scorpio Sun Scorpio rising and we've discussed Libra women before and have both agreed that they are typically manipulative and vain, and that we don't get along!

Nothing against Libra women, I've just had some bad run ins. I will say that I admire how outgoing you ladies are, and you always have the most GORGEOUS shiny, long, perfectly waved hair 🙂