Libra Woman Aquarius Man

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I have met this southern Aquarius man who is talking about marriage really fast. His moon in Capricorn, Venus in Aries, Sun in Aquarius. He says really sweet things that are really uncharacteristic of most Aquarius I know. Any Libras have experience with Aquarius moving fast? He said he loves hard, he asked will I leave or hurt him if he fell in love. ðŸ'˜ i asked if we could be friends....AN AQUARIUS SAID "no!". He is resolute about me just dating him only. He said he just does one at a time. WTF!! Libras any experience with a fast-moving AQUARIUS? Is it Venus in Aries that is stimulating his aggressive pursuit? The Capricorn moon...tell me your experience pls. ☺
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Probably that Venus in Aries like you mentioned...in a few months he will probably forget he even asked you all of those questions. Definitely keep your distance. That's way too fast for someone to be talking about marriage. I have an Aries (Sun) male friend that acts the same. He's been married three times and divorced three times all on a whim because he thought he was in love and wanted to be married..JSMH
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I'm trying to extricate myself from an aqua man before I get hurt any more than I already have. We were friends for four years, then things turned romantic/physical about three months ago. It was very quick/intense. Then he went back home to San Diego (I live in Orlando) and the distancing began, almost like all of it never happened. I told him in an email yesterday that I had lost interest and patience, and NOW he wants to talk. I've had enough of the Aqua experience to tell you to RRRUUUNNNNNNN!!! don't walk, to the nearest exit.
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I’m currently interested in an Aqua male. I dated one before him years ago.
I didn’t know his placements, but we got along great, he was a very good
Boyfriend, when he wasn’t dipping off into his dreamland leaving me on earth.
Ugh. What’s crazy is they say Libra women are the only women that can handle them
When they get like that. The way I handled it was by not handling it. I told him I didn’t like
It and after a while I started doing it back, without realizing it. Next thing I knew he always wanted
To be around and to talk. Air signs need space, and yes we have the tendency to jump the gun at times
when we see something or someone we like. We start to fantasize on what it “could” be like, and then
we rush to make that fantasy a reality. Then when the reality isn’t how a dreamer imagined it, well that’s when the flames start to cool off. Also, be prepared for the random disappearing and re-appearing. I’m starting to think all air signs do this. Libra’s and Aquarius are the worst though. However I will say at least when an Aquarius does it they don’t try to lie their way out of it, or act like it didn’t happen. They do it because they need space to plan for yall future and next move or sometimes just to recharge. If they know it bothers you they have no problem apologizing and doing whatever it takes to make you smile again.

I’m sorry but it is a huge red flag if a Libra disappears during courtship and especially during a relationship. It simply means you’re losing their attention. They don’t see you the same way, or you rubbed them the wrong way, and since they aren’t good at confrontational situations, they fade off like the wind.

In this case, I’d say stand your ground. Do not let him rush you. You have to bring the dreamer back to real life sometimes, he will appreciate it, just make sure he knows you’re interested but you prefer to take things slow. He has Aries Venus, hunters and lovers of a good chase. If you’re turning him down it’s only fueling him even more because Aries loves a challenge. Be careful because as soon as you give in, he may lose interest and start to see things for what they really are. Like I said, if you like him and really want to see where it goes, slow it down.
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Also if it's long distance, out of sight out of mind with an Air sign. It's not to be mean, but if they have fire in their chart they need that firey passion that can only ignite face to face.
Plus if you haven't heard, we have the shortest attention span.lol.
Focusing on more than one thing is something we love to try to do, but something or someone always ends up with the shorter end of the stick
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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Just go with it you'll love him.....

They say Librans need earth to have some stability in a partner, well here you have a comparable air sign with significant earth placement who knows who he wants.
this...

Forget his aries venus. Aquarius moon is fixed and Capricorn moon is deep, emotional and slow to detach. If you trust him to set the pace without being controlling then he will keep moving ahead. Aquarius men may not be the most emotional but they know when something is real, they can be just as picky as us virgos. Don't mistake his speed for something fleeting, it has nothing to do with the depth of his feeling. If you are doubting then use your femmine wiles to set the pace to your liking but don't put his fire out with doubt.

Trust.