Libra Man confused with Aquarius Woman

I am usually able to forget women relatively easy, but not so with the Aquarius woman. Can somebody tell me what's going on? She says she just wants us to be friends and I catch myself moping around the house eager to see her and blindsided by my inability to 'shake' this woman. I told her I wanted to have sex, she insisted we hang out first. I thought the "hanging out" was a complete waste of time; so I declined the majority of her invitations, but after 4 months of her calm no pressure friendly invitations - I spontaneously accepted. We went to hear a lecturer then she treated me to Chinese food. I appreciated her calm nature and sultry voice. A couple of weeks later she convinced me to hang out with her at Starbucks. That night she finally caught my attention and I began to flirt; I laid on the charm and the smiles. She is not easy to get into bed, so I fight to remember her presence in my life but one day I reached out to talk to her about something personal. Her demeanor turned arrogant and rude; we argued for 3 days straight. I then began to push her away, and lost interest in the connection and terminated the union.

She could not admit her "part" in argument nor could she see her faults. TOTAL TURN OFF! But I was intrigued by her tenacity to stick with this. She asked that we commit to continue to talk to each other despite our feuds, and we make a vow to not argue. I love those words, I love that she had the heart to stick it out. I really deeply appreciated her tenacity after our fighting. Most women would have left, I sent her a song on her timeline in Facebook page. She was honored by my gesture and she boldly responded to the video on her timeline by writing the words " I think you are so sexy, have i ever told you that!" I was quite taken back from her bold public response and I fell hard for her. I have tried to push her away as to reduce the intensity of the feelings I feel for this stranger. I wake up thinking about her, I got to sleep thinking about her. But we have been arguing nonstop again. Finally after an argument on Saturday she announced she wants to just be :"friends." I asked her if she just wanted to limit our contact to hi and bye when I see her around, she said "No she wants us to kick it as friends." So when an Aquarius puts you in the friend category does that mean she it's over? Is she done with the romantic part of our relationship? That's fine, it hurts but I will get over her. Just needed some feedback.

She's probably done - there wasn't much of a romantic side to your relationship anyway, right?

I'm not extremely familiar with Aquarius women, but just based on your description, I don't think she's interested in anything serious.

It depends. I've put people in the friend zone to just strictly be friends OR to feel them out. Usually the feeling out thing only happens if I still have feelings for them and are not sure if we're a good fit. If she's making contact first and on a regular basis, that's a good thing. She may still be feeling you out to see where this can go. If you do have feelings, you should express them and see where it goes. She will not express feelings first and you two will just be left going around in circles.

You can't keep pushing her away and rejecting her, that will get you put in the cut off zone. No woman, regardless of sign, wants to go through that or hot and cold behaviour. She's not a mind reader so be vocal with her. She'll appreciate it 🙂

Im an Aquarius girl, good luck getting any closure, all of my favorite exes are still in love with me. After a breakup I Dont ever feel like I should stop talking to the person. I feel care, kindness and faith in others, I like to be spiritual guides to my exes or share life with them.
I can't say no to friendship and I'm sure your friend can't either. Ask her this specific question; would you ever want to be with me. If she puases its a thought she thinks about, if she says no then clearly its no, unless she's one of the women that okay head games and say no so the other person is supposed to automatically know she really means yes, which is bs.
Yes is just yes.
Keep me updated.

Update

Yeah so she just showed up at my hang-out spot for lunch. I was shocked to see her car parked next to mine as well. I haven't been at that spot in a long time, how the hell did she know where I was? Before i spotted her I was feeling a strong desire to see her. I turned around and she was there. She was there. I couldn't believe it! The look on her face was cool adoration. I walked to the back of the room just to look at her then I proceeded to sit next to her. It felt right! I liked being by her side. I am not interested in taking her to bed at all I really want to relax and enjoy our slow moments. So I think it's fair to say she has friend-zoned me to feel me out. Any additional pointers?

Posted by thisismylife2015
It depends. I've put people in the friend zone to just strictly be friends OR to feel them out. Usually the feeling out thing only happens if I still have feelings for them and are not sure if we're a good fit. If she's making contact first and on a regular basis, that's a good thing. She may still be feeling you out to see where this can go. If you do have feelings, you should express them and see where it goes. She will not express feelings first and you two will just be left going around in circles.

You can't keep pushing her away and rejecting her, that will get you put in the cut off zone. No woman, regardless of sign, wants to go through that or hot and cold behaviour. She's not a mind reader so be vocal with her. She'll appreciate it 🙂

Thank you so much. Your input is so helpful especially the part where no woman wants a man that blows hot and cold. Imagine having a mind that balances, weighs, blows hot, cold all day long. It's unbearable. I am grateful that everybody responded. I appreciate your input; friend-zoning until she feels it out. I believe this to feel the most accurate assessment since she sought me out and found my car today. LOL, I think it's adorable. It's that normal Aquarius behavior?

Posted by downstairsmixup
Im an Aquarius girl, good luck getting any closure, all of my favorite exes are still in love with me. After a breakup I Dont ever feel like I should stop talking to the person. I feel care, kindness and faith in others, I like to be spiritual guides to my exes or share life with them.
I can't say no to friendship and I'm sure your friend can't either. Ask her this specific question; would you ever want to be with me. If she puases its a thought she thinks about, if she says no then clearly its no, unless she's one of the women that okay head games and say no so the other person is supposed to automatically know she really means yes, which is bs.
Yes is just yes.
Keep me updated.

I can definitely believe your exes are still in love with you. The Aquarius woman is turning out to be quite interesting. Today she showed up at my hangout spot and I am almost certain she still likes me.

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Posted by Username123
I told her I wanted to have sex, she insisted we hang out first. I thought the "hanging out" was a complete waste of time; so I declined the majority of her invitations .She is not easy to get into bed

She could not admit her "part" in argument nor could she see her faults. TOTAL TURN OFF!

She just realised that you desperately wanted to get in her pants so she friend zoned you. Yes, Aqua women are not easily seduced and all your attempts to manipulate her into the bed blew up in your face. Are you really a Libra?? You act like a fire/water sign.

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Wait, wait, wait. Relax okay? Aquarius are supposed to be my (Libra) wife or something and look AquaMermaid we are arguing already. LOL. No seriously, i can understand how you may take offense with my lower self bane desires. But there are a lot of women that love them and leave them too. Most women I know like sex as much as I do so - there is usually no wait and it's mutual and sometimes initiated by the lady. This lady is making me wait and in the interim I am liking her personality.

lmao@ Topic 😆

omg dxp, too much.

with a username avatar with a buff man there.

only on the aquarius forum?? how come we get targeted??

the avatar looks like a gay man's Paradise. 😛

Posted by AquaMermaid
How old are you?

You sound like a very nice person who is happily married. username123 you can block AquaMermaid for her kindess, and lisabethur8 for her pleasant sense of humor if you are overwhelmed by their lovely social manners. LOL

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Posted by Username123
I told her I wanted to have sex, she insisted we hang out first. I thought the "hanging out" was a complete waste of time; so I declined the majority of her invitations .She is not easy to get into bed

She could not admit her "part" in argument nor could she see her faults. TOTAL TURN OFF!

She just realised that you desperately wanted to get in her pants so she friend zoned you. Yes, Aqua women are not easily seduced and all your attempts to manipulate her into the bed blew up in your face. Are you really a Libra?? You act like a fire/water sign.

Wait, wait, wait. Relax okay? Aquarius are supposed to be my (Libra) wife or something and look AquaMermaid we are arguing already. LOL. No seriously, i can understand how you may take offense with my lower self bane desires. But there are a lot of women that love them and leave them too. Most women I know like sex as much as I do so - there is usually no wait and it's mutual and sometimes initiated by the lady. This lady is making me wait and in the interim I am liking her personality.

I'm married to a SCORPIO so not all Aquarians are supposed to be your wife or end up with Libras. As for my response to you, I just pointed out what you yourself confessed in the OP. Looks like you enjoy sex with a lot of ladies and this Aquarius is a challenge to you because she isn't giving in. I don't know how old you are but looks like you don't understand the difference between love and lust. I'm not your moral teacher so whatever floats your boat! If she's entertaining this then who am I to lecture? Good luck with it!

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I have a lot of compassion for you, I couldn't imagine being that miserable.

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I told her I wanted to have sex, she insisted we hang out first. I thought the "hanging out" was a complete waste of time; so I declined the majority of her invitations .She is not easy to get into bed

She could not admit her "part" in argument nor could she see her faults. TOTAL TURN OFF!

She just realised that you desperately wanted to get in her pants so she friend zoned you. Yes, Aqua women are not easily seduced and all your attempts to manipulate her into the bed blew up in your face. Are you really a Libra?? You act like a fire/water sign.

Wait, wait, wait. Relax okay? Aquarius are supposed to be my (Libra) wife or something and look AquaMermaid we are arguing already. LOL. No seriously, i can understand how you may take offense with my lower self bane desires. But there are a lot of women that love them and leave them too. Most women I know like sex as much as I do so - there is usually no wait and it's mutual and sometimes initiated by the lady. This lady is making me wait and in the interim I am liking her personality.

I'm married to a SCORPIO so not all Aquarians are supposed to be your wife or end up with Libras. As for my response to you, I just pointed out what you yourself confessed in the OP. Looks like you enjoy sex with a lot of ladies and this Aquarius is a challenge to you because she isn't giving in. I don't know how old you are but looks like you don't understand the difference between love and lust. I'm not your moral teacher so whatever floats your boat! If she's entertaining this then who am I to lecture? Good luck with it!

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i'm honestly married to someone that IS NOT an air sun or air moon OR air mars OR air venus.

at least you're married to an air mars, AM 🙂

aw it's ok. OP can brag all he wants about liking this lady. heehee.

our son has libra in personal planets though 😛

Not in the sun or moon though.

Posted by lisabethur8
the avatar looks like a gay man's Paradise. 😛

I'm not a gay man and I think it's hot.

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the avatar looks like a gay man's Paradise. 😛

I'm not a gay man and I think it's hot.

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not my type to be honest.

that would be my gay cousin's type though. 😆

and to be honest, he showed me his gay boyfriend's photo, and i thought oooohhhh wow lookkkeee that. so handsome!!!

and his boyfriend is a double libra, Scorpio venus.😛

naw honestly he's a good man.

most libra men are good guys. Like my sister's husband. a libra sun, but he don't look like you 😆 😆

he looks like a cancer rising cancer sun cancer moon guy. A round mooney face and big round body. 😄 😄

she feeds him well. 😆 😆

ops no offense to round mooney face guys 😆

Like Ed Sheeran.

Posted by AquaMermaid
My brother is a Libra but he doesn't treat women like this. That is why I asked the OP if he's a Libra. He has confessed he just wanted to have sex with her but she's making him wait. If it's mutual then I don't care at all.

lmao

i think this topic is just for fun anyway.

I honestly can't take that avatar for serious.

*smh*

i feel like i have to refer him to a playgirl photographer and make good money for some centerfold. 😆

Posted by AquaMermaid
My brother is a Libra but he doesn't treat women like this. That is why I asked the OP if he's a Libra. He has confessed he just wanted to have sex with her but she's making him wait. If it's mutual then I don't care at all.

LOL @ your perception of libra men. Libra men are indeed like the OP. Quick to fall in love/lust and sex is most definitely part of that. Your bro probably has some earthy placements that's taking away from it. My libra ex with Aries moon was a total sex fiend. One night stand was histhing.

No offence OP, but your post is confusing. You tell her you wanted sex, but it was waste of time to hang out? You ignored her invitations repeatedly and then she convinced you to go have coffee, suddenly she caught your attention...then you laid the charm on thick? You come across like a player. Your main focus seems to be getting her in bed. Aquas typically need to have a meeting of the minds, all the charm and sweet talking sends up warning signals.

What was the argument over when you didn't speak for 3 days? You come across as if you did her a favor of allowing her to remain friends. perhaps that's not your intention, but that's how it is coming off as. I fight with a Libra man time to time, let me tell you, he thinks he is right more times than he really is and to see him get his feathers ruffled, is funny. What was the most recent argument over? Did you guys actually become intimate? was this a FWB situation?

from time to time*

Also want to add, he enjoys ruffling my feathers and gets a weird twisted satisfaction at getting me riled up too! He at least as admitted to that much LOL

Posted by flowingwater
so wait, Virgo has Libra Venus and Mercury. What does this do for him?? Honestly, his Libra placements swoon me hehe :p

LISA!!!!! can you explain my Virgos chart....please??

LMAO soooo hard! Brilliant!!! Good move Flowingwater...

Posted by flowingwater
so wait, Virgo has Libra Venus and Mercury. What does this do for him?? Honestly, his Libra placements swoon me hehe :p

LISA!!!!! can you explain my Virgos chart....please??

i have no idea, fw.

my husband has NO libra personal planets.

I'm very honestly NOT interested when i was single.

i'm the wrong woman to ask.

If only my sister the Aries is into astrology. She married a libra sun, and she is taking care of a libra sun boy too. (her husband's first son)

also, my other sister ha a libra boy with cancer moon.

I'm thinking honestly they need to learn the lessons of libra and 7th house.

i Always feel like the outcast here because i'm into astrology but i'm with a square sun sign.

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Posted by flowingwater
so wait, Virgo has Libra Venus and Mercury. What does this do for him?? Honestly, his Libra placements swoon me hehe :p

LISA!!!!! can you explain my Virgos chart....please??

LMAO soooo hard! Brilliant!!! Good move Flowingwater...

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LMAO!!!!! OP.....your thread just got
Hijacked. Better luck next time!

@flowing water,

i already told you. I don't have ANY experience with libra placements on men. that's the TRUTH.

*sigh*

you were upset about your Scorpio/libra moon guy and now this guy with libra other placements.

I'm really really SORRY.

if you wanna know anything about Leo moon, and leo rising, that's what i have known. my sister is with a Virgo man and i dont know how he is because i dont live with them either.

I am NOT in a relationship with a Virgo sun male either. Go over there.

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Posted by lisabethur8
@flowing water,

you were upset about your Scorpio/libra moon guy and now this guy with libra other placements.

I'm really really SORRY.

I was thinking the same thing. She was with a Libra mooner before and it was a disaster. I never wish ill upon her though. I hope this one is her "one and only".

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i wish her luck, and i wished her luck with the other guy too.

but Virgo /Scorpio moon sounds so much better in my opinion. for her.

Virgo sun males are really good men too in my experience, but i've never been in a personal, romantic relationship with them, my sister is with one, and the neighbor lady is with a virgo man too (but much much older) He is high strung a bit. and his bday is coming up too.

Posted by justagirl
No offence OP, but your post is confusing. You tell her you wanted sex, but it was waste of time to hang out? You ignored her invitations repeatedly and then she convinced you to go have coffee, suddenly she caught your attention...then you laid the charm on thick? You come across like a player. Your main focus seems to be getting her in bed. Aquas typically need to have a meeting of the minds, all the charm and sweet talking sends up warning signals.

What was the argument over when you didn't speak for 3 days? You come across as if you did her a favor of allowing her to remain friends. perhaps that's not your intention, but that's how it is coming off as. I fight with a Libra man time to time, let me tell you, he thinks he is right more times than he really is and to see him get his feathers ruffled, is funny. What was the most recent argument over? Did you guys actually become intimate? was this a FWB situation?

I am so glad she never gave up with inviting me out. I love that quality about “fixed” signs; they are persistent. However she attends a variety of functions with a vast array of characters so don’t know if her persistence is universal or personal.

It’s funny that you asked about the argument. We argue because I experience something unfamiliar in this union – feelings! I am triple air with no water placements, yet the emotional impact of this trine association Libra-Aquarius is extremely intense. For instance, she said she was driving down to Reno, Nevada with her friends I was furious. Everything with her is 10’x intense than with others. This intensity is intoxicating but emotions erupt and an argument ensues. She makes a blaze comment and I feel very possessive about his woman and I fear she is leaving or will be leaving. Her independence is seductive and terrifying. So I have been MIA for 24 hours and she doesn’t know why. I saw her spying on me at my hang-out today at noon, but she didn’t come in. Any pointers on how to deal with intense emotions and not explode or implode?

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Posted by flowingwater
so wait, Virgo has Libra Venus and Mercury. What does this do for him?? Honestly, his Libra placements swoon me hehe :p

LISA!!!!! can you explain my Virgos chart....please??

LMAO soooo hard! Brilliant!!! Good move Flowingwater...

LMAO!!!!! OP.....your thread just got
Hijacked. Better luck next time!

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I am okay with the thread being hijacked it's my first thread. LOL. So have you dated a Libra male?

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Posted by thisismylife2015

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Posted by flowingwater
so wait, Virgo has Libra Venus and Mercury. What does this do for him?? Honestly, his Libra placements swoon me hehe :p

LISA!!!!! can you explain my Virgos chart....please??

LMAO soooo hard! Brilliant!!! Good move Flowingwater...

LMAO!!!!! OP.....your thread just got
Hijacked. Better luck next time!

I am okay with the thread being hijacked it's my first thread. LOL. So have you dated a Libra male?

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No, but I'm a Libra chick madly in love with an aquarius guy... I think if you leave out the sex thing, slow down a couple notches, concentrate on trying to get to know each other better, don't take 'the arguments' too seriously or become angry (she could just be pressing some buttons to see how you operate, Aquas are good at this!)...finally keep living your life, things may even out.

I think she's knocked your scales off balance! You've allowed that! Find the middle!!! 😉

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Posted by justagirl
No offence OP, but your post is confusing. You tell her you wanted sex, but it was waste of time to hang out? You ignored her invitations repeatedly and then she convinced you to go have coffee, suddenly she caught your attention...then you laid the charm on thick? You come across like a player. Your main focus seems to be getting her in bed. Aquas typically need to have a meeting of the minds, all the charm and sweet talking sends up warning signals.

What was the argument over when you didn't speak for 3 days? You come across as if you did her a favor of allowing her to remain friends. perhaps that's not your intention, but that's how it is coming off as. I fight with a Libra man time to time, let me tell you, he thinks he is right more times than he really is and to see him get his feathers ruffled, is funny. What was the most recent argument over? Did you guys actually become intimate? was this a FWB situation?

I am so glad she never gave up with inviting me out. I love that quality about “fixed” signs; they are persistent. However she attends a variety of functions with a vast array of characters so don’t know if her persistence is universal or personal.

It’s funny that you asked about the argument. We argue because I experience something unfamiliar in this union – feelings! I am triple air with no water placements, yet the emotional impact of this trine association Libra-Aquarius is extremely intense. For instance, she said she was driving down to Reno, Nevada with her friends I was furious. Everything with her is 10’x intense than with others. This intensity is intoxicating but emotions erupt and an argument ensues. She makes a blaze comment and I feel very possessive about his woman and I fear she is leaving or will be leaving. Her independence is seductive and terrifying. So I have been MIA for 24 hours and she doesn’t know why. I saw her spying on me at my hang-out today at noon, but she didn’t come in. Any pointers on how to deal with intense emotions and not explode or implode?

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Communicate. Not trying to be flippant, but seriously communicate with the intent to listen and really hear each other. Too many listen to respond so miss out on what's really bein

really being said.

Cut me off!

Ok I know this post is like 3 years old and now it May 2018....BUT...I would like to know what happened to this Libra/Aqua love/friend relationship. After reading through the entire thread I feel like my fellow Aquarian was just feeling this Libra man out and seeing if he is really who he says he is. She's and Aquarius for God's sake so while you were on this thread asking about her she was on some other astrology site seeing if you two are compatible and what Libra men are like. If anyone would like to crawl from under God knows where and respond to this post from 2015 I would greatly appreciate it.