Aquarius man and Libra woman

Just wondering if anyone has a take on what its like being with an Aquarius man.

I met a guy a couple months ago and we seem to have so much in common. We went out dancing this past weekend and it was great...wow what kisses and chemistry....but we didnt go too far, ya know. Before that we have just talked and danced and sang at our local karaoke club.

Anyone know if aquas and libra match?

They 'match' alright. In my experience, its one of those relationships that are hard to walk away from. Amazing chemistry blablabla, lots of disagreements etc, but a fun relationship no doubt.

The friendship part is also true. My libra ex is the only ex that turned bestfriend. Its not a bad match up, both just need to be matured for it to work..just like in any other relationship. Relationships dont just function by themselves, the people involved must do a lot of hard labour for it to keep running.

Posted by libraCUSPscorpio
It's so easy to float away with all that air. Like we could talk about our future and come up with amazing business plans, silly, goofy, or serious... or plan fun, crazy vacations all on the couch without putting action into anything lol. Just fun to be around each other but never felt stable and strong. A lot of aloofness. Not too much passion. Keeping it light.

True, but the passion part differs from couple to couple.

Air is not always a soft cool breeze, it could be a hurricane too thus creating the right amount of passion..keeping things interesting. I for one dont like too much passion in a relationship because it always brings drama, so thank you, I'll pass lol. But, passion must be there otherwise there's no point being in a relationship without a pulse.

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Whole heartedly agree it varies from couple to couple. I was also 18/19 with the Aqua, totally different person then. Scorpio ex tought me a lot about passion lol. It was pretty extreme in every way possible so I need a good in between now.

in my experience, scorps do tend to bring up the unhealthy kind of passion lol. One that kind of screws you up mentally if you stick around long enough. Its life changing in a good & not so good way. I'm not a fan lol.

Posted by Pecheresse
Aquas make great friends for Leebs, but I don't see it work out as a relationship.

I agree. I never saw anything in libra men at all, even in celebrities, nothing. Sting is close to someone I believe is pretty cool in my book. It depends on the placements too. As I know in real life, my Aries sister is the one that is attracted to libra men and she even married one. I am attracted to men born in November and March for some odd reason. I believe it has to do with some kind of energy.

Both my sisters seem to love September men, and July men too. So the July and September energies seem to be good for them.

*I even married a March man (Pisces, near Aries cusp) and am happily married to a November man.

My sister's (Aries and Sag) with dominant earth and water married early September and late september.

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Air is not always a soft cool breeze, it could be a hurricane too thus creating the right amount of passion..keeping things interesting. I for one dont like too much passion in a relationship because it always brings drama, so thank you, I'll pass lol. But, passion must be there otherwise there's no point being in a relationship without a pulse.

this coming from a woman who can't even keep a man.

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Yeah when it comes to Air and Air, when a hot front meets a cold front... all sorts of passionate and violent stuff can happen.

Now that I think of it, it seems to be true in my experience as well. Things between the Gemini and I got pretty crazy after 6ish years.

Have you dated any Aquas?

No Aquas, only a Gemini.

It was a mindgame the whole way through on both sides. And it's just because we saw things so differently. But when we calmed down we were good friends too. Which is how it is now.

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you seem ok, Tiz.

Not as bad as I thought because I thought you were an extremely flirty person going around to all the women flirting like cray-cray, but that don't matter if they are single. (unless they hate it) But you seem very respectful, and you're not an asshole at all. You seem like a good sort of guy.

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Aquas make great friends for Leebs, but I don't see it work out as a relationship.

I agree. I never saw anything in libra men at all, even in celebrities, nothing. Sting is close to someone I believe is pretty cool in my book. It depends on the placements too. As I know in real life, my Aries sister is the one that is attracted to libra men and she even married one. I am attracted to men born in November and March for some odd reason. I believe it has to do with some kind of energy.

Both my sisters seem to love September men, and July men too. So the July and September energies seem to be good for them.

I agree, I came to the conclusion as a Libra that Libra guys are only good at being friends, because the lack of intensity, and the constant "politically correct" attitude drives me nuts. It's like trying to catch air, it never really happens and you're never grounded with such a partner. It's better to keep them as FWB I'd say.

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For some reason, my sister likes it alot and is very happy! 🙂 I'm happy for her though, and he's a good fellow too. (1st decan)

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or just friends with no benefits at all. lolz

ew. None of that, even with Leo or Scorpio men. I'm all or nothing. Then once married, the shades of grey can come in. LOL

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Aquas make great friends for Leebs, but I don't see it work out as a relationship.

I agree. I never saw anything in libra men at all, even in celebrities, nothing. Sting is close to someone I believe is pretty cool in my book. It depends on the placements too. As I know in real life, my Aries sister is the one that is attracted to libra men and she even married one. I am attracted to men born in November and March for some odd reason. I believe it has to do with some kind of energy.

Both my sisters seem to love September men, and July men too. So the July and September energies seem to be good for them.

I agree, I came to the conclusion as a Libra that Libra guys are only good at being friends, because the lack of intensity, and the constant "politically correct" attitude drives me nuts. It's like trying to catch air, it never really happens and you're never grounded with such a partner. It's better to keep them as FWB I'd say.

For some reason, my sister likes it alot and is very happy! 🙂 I'm happy for her though, and he's a good fellow too. (1st decan)

Does she or he have water in their chart?

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She's dominant 60% water. Taurus mooner though. He's dominant earth to her fire sun, and cancer mars too, like yours. When I did their chart I was surprised, lots of opposites.

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Air is not always a soft cool breeze, it could be a hurricane too thus creating the right amount of passion..keeping things interesting. I for one dont like too much passion in a relationship because it always brings drama, so thank you, I'll pass lol. But, passion must be there otherwise there's no point being in a relationship without a pulse.

this coming from a woman who can't even keep a man.

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lmao & being married means you got him? You're an idiot.

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Air is not always a soft cool breeze, it could be a hurricane too thus creating the right amount of passion..keeping things interesting. I for one dont like too much passion in a relationship because it always brings drama, so thank you, I'll pass lol. But, passion must be there otherwise there's no point being in a relationship without a pulse.

this coming from a woman who can't even keep a man.

lmao & being married means you got him? You're an idiot.

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of course, cause when you were married to your aries, you don't got him right? So you are projecting your failed marriage.

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Air is not always a soft cool breeze, it could be a hurricane too thus creating the right amount of passion..keeping things interesting. I for one dont like too much passion in a relationship because it always brings drama, so thank you, I'll pass lol. But, passion must be there otherwise there's no point being in a relationship without a pulse.

this coming from a woman who can't even keep a man.

lmao & being married means you got him? You're an idiot.

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Look who's talking about idiot. hehehehe. You're the one going to the libra forum asking, "Woeee is meeeee I can't seem to get him!!"

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Wow, well, I guess astrology is a lotta BS afterall 😛

Because of his cancer mars? 😄

You might end up with an Aries man with dominant water.

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At the same time, whoever says they *got him* while referring about a Libra male, is in for quite some disappointment!

well for my sister's sake, hopefully he stays loyal and true. I believe he will. He has a good upbringing.
Matt Damon is married to a cancer woman and he is very happy but i think his upbringing despite hollywood influence helped him. Also he seems to have good friends too.

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Air is not always a soft cool breeze, it could be a hurricane too thus creating the right amount of passion..keeping things interesting. I for one dont like too much passion in a relationship because it always brings drama, so thank you, I'll pass lol. But, passion must be there otherwise there's no point being in a relationship without a pulse.

this coming from a woman who can't even keep a man.

lmao & being married means you got him? You're an idiot.

of course, cause when you were married to your aries, you don't got him right? So you are projecting your failed marriage.

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unlike you, i dont see relationships as a game of catch, so no, i didnt get him. I'm not projecting anything since im the one who ended it, but you might be the one doing a lot of projection about your own shaky marriage. It doesnt take a genius to figure out that all may not be as good as you present it to be.

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Air is not always a soft cool breeze, it could be a hurricane too thus creating the right amount of passion..keeping things interesting. I for one dont like too much passion in a relationship because it always brings drama, so thank you, I'll pass lol. But, passion must be there otherwise there's no point being in a relationship without a pulse.

this coming from a woman who can't even keep a man.

lmao & being married means you got him? You're an idiot.

Look who's talking about idiot. hehehehe. You're the one going to the libra forum asking, "Woeee is meeeee I can't seem to get him!!"

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wrong again! He wants me, but im the one who doesnt want to settle for whats currently on the table.

LOL You WISH that women had bad marriages, because you can't believe anyone could have good marriages in this world. You are a product of women who go after bad men.

Believe me, when I tell you I am very content and very happy. he's a GOOD man and i'm extremely proud of him.

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Air is not always a soft cool breeze, it could be a hurricane too thus creating the right amount of passion..keeping things interesting. I for one dont like too much passion in a relationship because it always brings drama, so thank you, I'll pass lol. But, passion must be there otherwise there's no point being in a relationship without a pulse.

this coming from a woman who can't even keep a man.

lmao & being married means you got him? You're an idiot.

Look who's talking about idiot. hehehehe. You're the one going to the libra forum asking, "Woeee is meeeee I can't seem to get him!!"

wrong again! He wants me, but im the one who doesnt want to settle for whats currently on the table.

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then why are you whining about him constantly HUH?? and making threads about it constantly and trying to promote it. I don't go around promoting "heeeey, aquarius woman/scorpio man, or aquarius woman/leo man or sag man" Because my husband has dominant leo. I dont go around doing that. I know what his placements are, and despite that, I dont care, it just HAPPENED to be like that in the end. It just worked out like that, because i didnt even need to go to astrology.

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At the same time, whoever says they *got him* while referring about a Libra male, is in for quite some disappointment!

wrong. Maybe not 'got him', but all men are able to fall inlove regardless of sign. All it takes is finding a good match.

Posted by tiziani
I'm not sure if you're approval of my character fills me with any joy tbh, lisabethur.

I am aware I am an asshole, totally capable of good moments too. But this isn't one of them.

I'm not sure I will ever understand someone who openly judges people by their ability (for lack of a better word) to keep a man or person in their lives. Maybe in the future some experience will hit me in the face to understand where that comes from. But not today.

For today, I still take it as a better sign of my growth when people like you and me do not see eye to eye. Let's leave it at that.

Not to mention Water Cup is a larger than life character all the way from South Africa to Switzerland. It's unsurprising that not many would be up to the test of matching her mental prowess and I wouldn't want her to settle for the first sap through the door.

Ok fine with me. I don't care either way. You and I dont see eye to eye and that's fine with me. You dont see everyone on this forum getting along do you? You get along with WC, she rubs me the wrong way. I didnt mind at first, but she is constantly going around trumpeting her broken relationship. You just like her alot because she loves libra men. If my sister were here, you'd probably love her too. Though, her libra husband might get angry.

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At the same time, whoever says they *got him* while referring about a Libra male, is in for quite some disappointment!

wrong. Maybe not 'got him', but all men are able to fall inlove regardless of sign. All it takes is finding a good match.

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OHH FINALLY something I agree with you on.

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LOL You WISH that women had bad marriages, because you can't believe anyone could have good marriages in this world. You are a product of women who go after bad men.

Believe me, when I tell you I am very content and very happy. he's a GOOD man and i'm extremely proud of him.

i cant believe that people can have good marriages? How did you come to THAT conclusion? Right, the same way you concluded that i cant keep a man. All pulled fresh deep out of your anus. I have happily married friends, all have marital problems, but I admire how they all work it out.

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LOL You WISH that women had bad marriages, because you can't believe anyone could have good marriages in this world. You are a product of women who go after bad men.

Believe me, when I tell you I am very content and very happy. he's a GOOD man and i'm extremely proud of him.

i cant believe that people can have good marriages? How did you come to THAT conclusion? Right, the same way you concluded that i cant keep a man. All pulled fresh deep out of your anus. I have happily married friends, all have marital problems, but I admire how they all work it out.

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if you know people who have good marriages, why do you go after bad men? If you said he is the one that is harassing you, is it SO hard to tell him to go jump off a cliff? He isn't doing your psyche any good and he isn't giving you any peace. Maybe you love that conflict everyday of your life.

My sister never had that conflict with her husband, it was very peaceful.

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Air is not always a soft cool breeze, it could be a hurricane too thus creating the right amount of passion..keeping things interesting. I for one dont like too much passion in a relationship because it always brings drama, so thank you, I'll pass lol. But, passion must be there otherwise there's no point being in a relationship without a pulse.

this coming from a woman who can't even keep a man.

lmao & being married means you got him? You're an idiot.

Look who's talking about idiot. hehehehe. You're the one going to the libra forum asking, "Woeee is meeeee I can't seem to get him!!"

wrong again! He wants me, but im the one who doesnt want to settle for whats currently on the table.

then why are you whining about him constantly HUH?? and making threads about it constantly and trying to promote it. I don't go around promoting "heeeey, aquarius woman/scorpio man, or aquarius woman/leo man or sag man" Because my husband has dominant leo. I dont go around doing that. I know what his placements are, and despite that, I dont care, it just HAPPENED to be like that in the end. It just worked out like that, because i didnt even need to go to astrology.

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jelous? You not 'promoting' your own relationship is up to you & I disagree that you dont promote it because its all you talk about. Now, does that mean there are issues? Please answer that. I 'whine' about him because I want to, problem? And just because I whine doesnt mean we dont love each other. All couples have problems. Shocked?

Posted by Pecheresse
WC gives great advice and she's an authentic Aqua woman with a gentle heart. I like.

The thing is, if she can't have a good relationship with her man/men, how is it she can give good advice?

My relationship with my husband is fantastic...infact EFFORTLESS!!! I love him very very much. Sure, it's not perfect as I'm a lazy butt (dominant venus makes you a lazy butt) but so is he when he's home all week and enjoying time. We're both lazy butts but we love it. But we both work hard when we do work. (I believe dominant sun energy makes you a lazy butt too) LOL

yeah i guess you're right. I do subconsciously promote it. 🙂
Love him to bits and pieces! (snuggle buggle)

in fact tonight, we are all going out to dinner and movies with his best buddy and his best friend's live in girlfriend. 🙂
His buddy has a good relationship with his girlfriend. Don't know her sign though.

Posted by tiziani
I'm not sure if you're approval of my character fills me with any joy tbh, lisabethur.

I am aware I am an asshole, totally capable of good moments too. But this isn't one of them.

I'm not sure I will ever understand someone who openly judges people by their ability (for lack of a better word) to keep a man or person in their lives. Maybe in the future some experience will hit me in the face to understand where that comes from. But not today.

For today, I still take it as a better sign of my growth when people like you and me do not see eye to eye. Let's leave it at that.

Not to mention Water Cup is a larger than life character all the way from South Africa to Switzerland. It's unsurprising that not many would be up to the test of matching her mental prowess and I wouldn't want her to settle for the first sap through the door.

please dont make her more jealous of me than she already is 😛
Oh, who am i kidding? Make her jealous! Say more! It does wonders to my already fat ego😄

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At the same time, whoever says they *got him* while referring about a Libra male, is in for quite some disappointment!

wrong. Maybe not 'got him', but all men are able to fall inlove regardless of sign. All it takes is finding a good match.

I know that. It takes a lot of efforts to make something blossom into a beautiful relationship. I know it happens, with patience and love though. 🙂

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there you go! 🙂

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I'm not sure if you're approval of my character fills me with any joy tbh, lisabethur.

I am aware I am an asshole, totally capable of good moments too. But this isn't one of them.

I'm not sure I will ever understand someone who openly judges people by their ability (for lack of a better word) to keep a man or person in their lives. Maybe in the future some experience will hit me in the face to understand where that comes from. But not today.

For today, I still take it as a better sign of my growth when people like you and me do not see eye to eye. Let's leave it at that.

Not to mention Water Cup is a larger than life character all the way from South Africa to Switzerland. It's unsurprising that not many would be up to the test of matching her mental prowess and I wouldn't want her to settle for the first sap through the door.

please dont make her more jealous of me than she already is 😛
Oh, who am i kidding? Make her jealous! Say more! It does wonders to my already fat ego😄

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Lol. I'm not jealous and you know it. If you are truly happy with your life, WC, then kudos to you. 🙂 Honestly, I only wish you a good life. It may seem like i dont wish that on you, but you already can see that I'm happy for my sister's and even my good friends who have good partners.

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Actually I like WC a lot because she rubs me the wrong way, funnily enough. But other than that, you're right, we can't win em all.

im a tease, nothing less & nothing more. I'm ok not being like by all, especially not by people like lisa. Its all good & I like you too, Tiz incase you didnt know that already. With that out of the way, NEXT!! Lmao

pffft whatever.

I guess i'm here too, to learn about other people's relationships, as well as astrology. I also go to Elsa boards and sasstrology. Sass has a lot more in-depth, and Elsa's board is really fun to read. 🙂
I know that not everything is perfect in life, and I'm a hard person, but honestly when I tell you, my husband loves me alot and tells me that. It's not often but when he does, it's so beautiful and honest. He holds me at night and tells me how he loves me sooooo much. It does bring tears to my eyes.

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LOL You WISH that women had bad marriages, because you can't believe anyone could have good marriages in this world. You are a product of women who go after bad men.

Believe me, when I tell you I am very content and very happy. he's a GOOD man and i'm extremely proud of him.

i cant believe that people can have good marriages? How did you come to THAT conclusion? Right, the same way you concluded that i cant keep a man. All pulled fresh deep out of your anus. I have happily married friends, all have marital problems, but I admire how they all work it out.

if you know people who have good marriages, why do you go after bad men? If you said he is the one that is harassing you, is it SO hard to tell him to go jump off a cliff? He isn't doing your psyche any good and he isn't giving you any peace. Maybe you love that conflict everyday of your life.

My sister never had that conflict with her husband, it was very peaceful.

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im NOT your sister and how i go about my life is NONE of your business, but mine. My life, which means MINE! Why are you bothered by the choices IN MY LIFE? I dont care about you🙂

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LOL You WISH that women had bad marriages, because you can't believe anyone could have good marriages in this world. You are a product of women who go after bad men.

Believe me, when I tell you I am very content and very happy. he's a GOOD man and i'm extremely proud of him.

i cant believe that people can have good marriages? How did you come to THAT conclusion? Right, the same way you concluded that i cant keep a man. All pulled fresh deep out of your anus. I have happily married friends, all have marital problems, but I admire how they all work it out.

if you know people who have good marriages, why do you go after bad men? If you said he is the one that is harassing you, is it SO hard to tell him to go jump off a cliff? He isn't doing your psyche any good and he isn't giving you any peace. Maybe you love that conflict everyday of your life.

My sister never had that conflict with her husband, it was very peaceful.

im NOT your sister and how i go about my life is NONE of your business, but mine. My life, which means MINE! Why are you bothered by the choices IN MY LIFE? I dont care about you🙂

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that's fine. 🙂
You see, the only people I care and love in my life is my family. Near and dear to my heart. I only say what I say because you do announce your relationship and it's always terrible, and you want to promote a terrible relationship? I guess that's why we don't see eye to eye.

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WC gives great advice and she's an authentic Aqua woman with a gentle heart. I like.

thanks, pech. Haters gonna hate because im never invisible ANYWHERE I GO. I'm liked by A LOT of people even in RL. The net means nothing compared to all the love I get out there in the concrete jungle.

Posted by tiziani
Elsa Elsa is cool, yeah.

She gave some good advice about Scorpios last year just as they were going through their Saturn Return.

My husband and his scorpio relatives are doing fine. His scorpio cousin (2nd decan) with sagittarius venus is a professional athlete. He's doing awesome and financially well too. Although, this year had some SERIOUS cuts to the professional sports field he's in. But it pulled through for some reason. The banks are still able to finance the rest of the year, no matter what. Which is a relief to the athletes. Just something to go by, on Saturn in Scorpio.

*he's married btw, and happily married with children. The only problem is that he's away for half a year and many months from his family. It's the perks for being an athlete I guess. That's the huge downside.

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I'm not sure if you're approval of my character fills me with any joy tbh, lisabethur.

I am aware I am an asshole, totally capable of good moments too. But this isn't one of them.

I'm not sure I will ever understand someone who openly judges people by their ability (for lack of a better word) to keep a man or person in their lives. Maybe in the future some experience will hit me in the face to understand where that comes from. But not today.

For today, I still take it as a better sign of my growth when people like you and me do not see eye to eye. Let's leave it at that.

Not to mention Water Cup is a larger than life character all the way from South Africa to Switzerland. It's unsurprising that not many would be up to the test of matching her mental prowess and I wouldn't want her to settle for the first sap through the door.

please dont make her more jealous of me than she already is 😛
Oh, who am i kidding? Make her jealous! Say more! It does wonders to my already fat ego😄

Lol. I'm not jealous and you know it. If you are truly happy with your life, WC, then kudos to you. 🙂 Honestly, I only wish you a good life. It may seem like i dont wish that on you, but you already can see that I'm happy for my sister's and even my good friends who have good partners.

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I dont care! And btw, I GIVE advice & not shoving it down anybody throat, its up to them to apply it into their situation or not. It makes no difference to me. Plus, nobody, when seeking advice says 'only those IN relationships must answer'. Fair game. We are all humans with experiences & being in or out of a relationship means fuck all. I dont give my advice claiming to be a relationship therapist, I give it as a human being.

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Elsa Elsa is cool, yeah.

She gave some good advice about Scorpios last year just as they were going through their Saturn Return.

My husband and his scorpio relatives are doing fine. His scorpio cousin (2nd decan) with sagittarius venus is a professional athlete. He's doing awesome and financially well too. Although, this year had some SERIOUS cuts to the professional sports field he's in. But it pulled through for some reason. The banks are still able to finance the rest of the year, no matter what. Which is a relief to the athletes. Just something to go by, on Saturn in Scorpio.

Fair enough. Good news is good news. What I hear about Saturn though is that it more less dictates the need to regulate personal relationships rather than professional ones, especially in the first year. It's not all bad news at all, just a sobering experience. And obviously you have to be at the right age to experience it's full effects, which I did since Saturn only just left Libra for the last three years. I wouldn't trade the lessons I learned for anything even if I'm glad to see the back of it in my Sun placement.

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yeah my husband had to work far, last year and part of this year too, which is depressing. Yes, money has to be made, but when it's in a different country or just many hours away it's difficult. But he had some clout to get into another program. I guess that too happened with his cousin, because the athletes thought they wouldn't get any more funding from the banks due to the economy. But it pulled through as well. The relationship on the personal basis might be strained for his family due to the distance of being FAR away and not only FAR but for many many MONTHS. But, she's a good woman, and she has close family and sometimes she does make trips to visit him on his tours. It is just very difficult.

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I'm not sure if you're approval of my character fills me with any joy tbh, lisabethur.

I am aware I am an asshole, totally capable of good moments too. But this isn't one of them.

I'm not sure I will ever understand someone who openly judges people by their ability (for lack of a better word) to keep a man or person in their lives. Maybe in the future some experience will hit me in the face to understand where that comes from. But not today.

For today, I still take it as a better sign of my growth when people like you and me do not see eye to eye. Let's leave it at that.

Not to mention Water Cup is a larger than life character all the way from South Africa to Switzerland. It's unsurprising that not many would be up to the test of matching her mental prowess and I wouldn't want her to settle for the first sap through the door.

please dont make her more jealous of me than she already is 😛
Oh, who am i kidding? Make her jealous! Say more! It does wonders to my already fat ego😄

Lol. I'm not jealous and you know it. If you are truly happy with your life, WC, then kudos to you. 🙂 Honestly, I only wish you a good life. It may seem like i dont wish that on you, but you already can see that I'm happy for my sister's and even my good friends who have good partners.

I dont care! And btw, I GIVE advice & not shoving it down anybody throat, its up to them to apply it into their situation or not. It makes no difference to me. Plus, nobody, when seeking advice says 'only those IN relationships must answer'. Fair game. We are all humans with experiences & being in or out of a relationship means fuck all. I dont give my advice claiming to be a relationship therapist, I give it as a human being.

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talk to the hand. 😄

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They still are going thru some *get-your-shit-together-or-die* kind of transit. Lol.

Yep, that's what happened to me. Well, it was more like die. Then now that you what that feels like and you have a second chance, why not get your shit together after all?

You mean you got Scorp in you—!!! What's your chart?!

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pfff so does my dad and my mother. And my sister too. You make it sound like a fantastic piece of cake. LOL 😄

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LOL You WISH that women had bad marriages, because you can't believe anyone could have good marriages in this world. You are a product of women who go after bad men.

Believe me, when I tell you I am very content and very happy. he's a GOOD man and i'm extremely proud of him.

i cant believe that people can have good marriages? How did you come to THAT conclusion? Right, the same way you concluded that i cant keep a man. All pulled fresh deep out of your anus. I have happily married friends, all have marital problems, but I admire how they all work it out.

if you know people who have good marriages, why do you go after bad men? If you said he is the one that is harassing you, is it SO hard to tell him to go jump off a cliff? He isn't doing your psyche any good and he isn't giving you any peace. Maybe you love that conflict everyday of your life.

My sister never had that conflict with her husband, it was very peaceful.

im NOT your sister and how i go about my life is NONE of your business, but mine. My life, which means MINE! Why are you bothered by the choices IN MY LIFE? I dont care about you🙂

that's fine. 🙂
You see, the only people I care and love in my life is my family. Near and dear to my heart. I only say what I say because you do announce your relationship and it's always terrible, and you want to promote a terrible relationship? I guess that's why we don't see eye to eye.

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my relationship may be terrible TO YOU & not to others who may be going throu something similar. We arent living in a Disney Channel here, terrible things happen ALL THE TIME. Btw, YOUR relationship with your hubby is terribly BORING to me too. Hand me a gun *points on head & bang-bang* 😛

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Posted by tiziani
I'm not sure if you're approval of my character fills me with any joy tbh, lisabethur.

I am aware I am an asshole, totally capable of good moments too. But this isn't one of them.

I'm not sure I will ever understand someone who openly judges people by their ability (for lack of a better word) to keep a man or person in their lives. Maybe in the future some experience will hit me in the face to understand where that comes from. But not today.

For today, I still take it as a better sign of my growth when people like you and me do not see eye to eye. Let's leave it at that.

Not to mention Water Cup is a larger than life character all the way from South Africa to Switzerland. It's unsurprising that not many would be up to the test of matching her mental prowess and I wouldn't want her to settle for the first sap through the door.

please dont make her more jealous of me than she already is 😛
Oh, who am i kidding? Make her jealous! Say more! It does wonders to my already fat ego😄

Lol. I'm not jealous and you know it. If you are truly happy with your life, WC, then kudos to you. 🙂 Honestly, I only wish you a good life. It may seem like i dont wish that on you, but you already can see that I'm happy for my sister's and even my good friends who have good partners.

I dont care! And btw, I GIVE advice & not shoving it down anybody throat, its up to them to apply it into their situation or not. It makes no difference to me. Plus, nobody, when seeking advice says 'only those IN relationships must answer'. Fair game. We are all humans with experiences & being in or out of a relationship means fuck all. I dont give my advice claiming to be a relationship therapist, I give it as a human being.

talk to the hand. 😄

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suck my dick! 🙂
all im saying, dont start shit you cant finish then 😉

meh.... it may be boring to you, but it's disneyland (with all the flavours of haunted house, rollercoaster, tea cups, and cotton candy, with dark tunnels going through the fairybookland) to me. 😄

Tiz, waiting with the bucket of KFC AND a big 2 liter coke or whatever soda he likes (since athletes are always sweating and thirsty) is fantastic.

pfff speaking of food. Gots to go and make lunch. 🙂

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meh.... it may be boring to you, but it's disneyland (with all the flavours of haunted house, rollercoaster, tea cups, and cotton candy, with dark tunnels going through the fairybookland) to me. 😄

Tiz, waiting with the bucket of KFC AND a big 2 liter coke or whatever soda he likes (since athletes are always sweating and thirsty) is fantastic.

like mine is real life to somebody else. This site is NOT about you & your boring life alone. We all have a right to put our lives out there if we so choose.