Libra Woman... Do they Stare?

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LeonineCharmer
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Hi,

New here and nice to meet you. I am a Leo with Capricorn rising and Capricorn moon. I have a female friend who is a Libra and I suspect has some Scorpio in her chart as well. I am very attracted to her yet not normally attracted to other women. And honestly I do not know where she stands as far as sexuality either. She is currently with a man and so am I, both of our relationships are falling apart.

We have known each other for about 9 months and we are currently starting to get closer. She started asking me to do stuff with her outside our normal day to day encounters. It is a working relationship that is turning into more of a friendship.

As of about 4 or 5 months ago, in conversation she intently "stares" at me. And it is intense. She is very stoic, and amazingly graceful in speech and movement. When I do see her as she goes by me we will both look at each other at the same time and she has that same staring gaze and we seem to look away at the same time as well. The same thing when we are across the room from each other. She will not smile, nor will I, when we catch each others gaze, yet when we are in close proximity having conversation she often smiles and her eyes soften some. I, as well, will smile more and feel more relaxed even through that stare of hers. *smiles*

When I do look away, for example a bird caught my attention, and she literally looked confused, like she was searching for me to make eye contact again, until I looked back at her to continue our conversation.

I cannot read this woman for the life of me! I am not sure if it is a baseline friendship she wants, a closer friendship or more intimate relationship. I don't want to make a fool of myself because of being blinded by me feelings for her.

Any advice?
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LeonineCharmer
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I think she has Scorpio because of the intensity of her stare. I was with a Scorpio for about 5 years and his stare went right through you, hers doesn't but it is like she is just taking it all in.

I don't know where she stands on whether or not she is only attracted to men. Because I have feelings for her I am not sure if the way she looks at me is indicative of her having feelings for me or if it is just something she does. I haven't noticed her looking at other people like that, but I also haven't been paying as close attention to that either.

My Venus is in Cancer.
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LeonineCharmer
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Posted by Notmyrealname

Hmm yeah I do like a lot of eye contact... I’m pretty sure I do it with everyone but I guess it’s pretty obvious when it’s something more. Like you would definitely feel it... but if you are both in relationships it might be better to focus on that for now though?


That's where I am confused. Sometimes I totally feel it and she gets real bubbly and silly, and other times more reserved and harder to read.

In my relationship I have tried over and over. He lives his life and I live mine, unfortunately. Divorce just isn't practical for us right now for different reasons.
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LeonineCharmer
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Posted by Generous_Libra

I stare then look away when caught lol Libras and Leo's make good friends, Leo women are fierce yet very sensitive and considerate, try friendship first why not? Then see where it'll lead since both of you are already in a RS.


Yeah, that's where we are at now, developing a friendship. I do really want to get to know her better. Just guarding my heart too in a way. Don't want to think there is a potential of something being there if this is just how she is, so I am curious about how a Libra works 🙂

My brother is a Libra but how we were raised was really messed up, so he is a very angry person.

My relationship is done and has been. Divorce just isn't a real possibility at this point. I can't speak for hers.
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Posted by fishcrabscale2

Yes we do stare. like my embarassing gaffe in a meeting last month

Unitentional. maybe you are attractive

I'd like to think so 🙂 Wavy strawberry blonde hair with natural blonde highlights, blue eyes, full lips, tall and on the thinner side. Of course you would expect a Leo to describe herself LOL
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😝👍 it is such a natural thing to do, stare at something lovely to look at. When that happens to me, it isnt on a deep level. Definitely an attraction, and if theyd ask me out i will. 😄 whats the worse that can happen? You find out that your expectations dont match.. you bounce back