@Nvragn400
7 Years
Here's why i'm done with Libra women, as well as air signs in general
Why Some People Avoid Libra Women and Air Signs
Many find Libra women and air signs detached, superficial, or prone to emotional distance. These traits can challenge deep, loyal relationships, especially for those seeking strong emotional connections. Personal experiences vary, but understanding astrological traits can help navigate compatibility and expectations in relationships.
But trend wise emotionally unavailable women are in
"You can't paint an entire group of people born in a particular time frame with the same brush".
If the shoe fits...
The OP sounds like their projecting low self esteem. If you think libras are detached actually there just wanting to see how devoted you are to them. If you don't fight for a libra attention someone else will. You sound like you don't do well with ladies in general because libras tend to be easy going and go with the flow.
The OP sounds like their projecting low self esteem. If you think libras are detached actually there just wanting to see how devoted you are to them. If you don't fight for a libra attention someone else will. You sound like you don't do well with ladies in general because libras tend to be easy going and go with the flow.
Uh... "fight" for someone's attention isn't "going with the flow" besides, life is suppose to be smooth salin. 'struggle' isn't necessary; i'll pass...
First, let me just say i am a 'attached' person. attached in a way that if i open myself up to you just in general communication, that means that i put my trust in you to be who you present yourself to be. i do not like smalltalk, for i am a in depth person. i prefer deep conversations and value loyalty if i open myself up to you, both male and female. i also prefer solid relationships both male and female; long lasting ones not superficial gestures. for some reason over the past couple of years, i seem to always attract libra people and it always turns out a disaster. with the women it never works out because in my opinion they seem to detached for my taste; and this is just in the flirting stages. i can't stand their detached personalities. like i said, i prefer solid relationships; but its more than just a "detached" personality. the ones i encountered seem to throw people they know under the bus(in all aspects) this seems to be a trait in most air signs i've encountered. it's fine if that's their stee-low, but im choosing on keeping all of them at arms length from now on; i'm not with the mind games. the libra women seem to think they're better then everyone else, but i can sense the projection of low self-esteem in them. never again will i deal with a libra woman.
Libra women tend to move the goal-posts a lot. This is especially true after they tell you something very specific. A few weeks or months later, and they suddenly do exactly the opposite of what they said is the standard.
It's irritating to deal with, and supremely unattractive.
Also, Libra females cannot hold a job for very long, so that sporadic level of income-flow is draining to deal with.
Additionally, they make a big deal about nothing, and always have some jarring comment about something. They are generally a nuisance to be around, and it's little wonder why they lead the way in terms of divorce and bad relationship endings.
I am still trying to figure out why they think they are Cardinal signs with all of the fickle and flighty behavior they sustain.
There is nothing good, in terms of leadership, from such absurd practice.
Lmfao. You gave it the best you got so move on.
I always ask the posters who post about relationship stuff to recall what they did. What were you responsible for? Did the Libra not fit your view or the mold you wanted to put them in? 🤔
I’ve seen enough people come on astrology boards crying and playing the blame game while not acknowledging any wrongdoing of the self. Most were trying to use astrology as a tool to gain leverage over the other person, that’s called manipulation.
Uh... "fight" for someone's attention isn't "going with the flow" besides, life is suppose to be smooth salin. 'struggle' isn't necessary; i'll pass...
Lol life is rarely smooth sailing! But I agree that a relationship should be fairly easy in the beginning. If it’s not, you just may not match up. If it’s mixed messages, then it’s just a pain in the ass!
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That’s another one of his many issues. He read Libras online are easy to deal with and all that peacemaker bs so now that he didn’t get his way he came to vent. Same with other people that trash talk Libras lol. They thought the Libra was supposed to be nice to them, kiss their ass, and they would have no conflict, get their way, etc.
Uh... "fight" for someone's attention isn't "going with the flow" besides, life is suppose to be smooth salin. 'struggle' isn't necessary; i'll pass...
"Lol life is rarely smooth sailing! But I agree that a relationship should be fairly easy in the beginning. If it’s not, you just may not match up. If it’s mixed messages, then it’s just a pain in the ass!" Agree
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If I’m detached then I don’t trust you. It’s the main reason for me. A Libra woman 🤷🏻♀️
We can be as social as can be, but going deep in conversation with a person requires trust.
"Also, Libra females cannot hold a job for very long, so that sporadic level of income-flow is draining to deal with."
"Additionally, they make a big deal about nothing, and always have some jarring comment about something. They are generally a nuisance to be around, and it's little wonder why they lead the way in terms of divorce and bad relationship endings." Agree
"That’s another one of his many issues. He read Libras online are easy to deal with and all that peacemaker bs so now that he didn’t get his way he came to vent. Same with other people that trash talk Libras lol. They thought the Libra was supposed to be nice to them, kiss their ass, and they would have no conflict, get their way, etc."
This has nothing to do with the cyber world. this is real life experiences with patterns of Libra's...
"That’s another one of his many issues. He read Libras online are easy to deal with and all that peacemaker bs so now that he didn’t get his way he came to vent. Same with other people that trash talk Libras lol. They thought the Libra was supposed to be nice to them, kiss their ass, and they would have no conflict, get their way, etc."
This has nothing to do with the cyber world. this is real life experiences with patterns of Libra's...
You didn’t make the correct correlation. I’m saying you read bullshit online and thought it would be smooth sailing and that Libras would give you no trouble in real life.
You also need to learn how to quote.
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"You didn’t make the correct correlation. I’m saying you read bullshit online and thought it would be smooth sailing and that Libras would give you no trouble in real life."
"You also need to learn how to quote."
You also need to learn how to comprehend; you obviously didn't make the correct assessment of my reply
"You didn’t make the correct correlation. I’m saying you read bullshit online and thought it would be smooth sailing and that Libras would give you no trouble in real life."
"You also need to learn how to quote."
You also need to learn how to comprehend; you obviously didn't make the correct assessment of my reply
I comprehend quite well. What I don’t allow is someone else to alter my opinion or viewpoint of anything whatsoever. You have an issue with control and it’s seeping out in your responses.
You obviously didn’t make the correct assessment of my reply = I didn’t feed into your bullshit or pacify your emotions about Libra women.
If I’m detached then I don’t trust you. It’s the main reason for me. A Libra woman 🤷🏻♀️
We can be as social as can be, but going deep in conversation with a person requires trust.
I'm like this too. I'm attached to the people I love and to the rest I can be the completely opposite. There are not many people I open up to and trust. I love people with emotional depth and to connect on a deeper level. If I trust you and consider you a true friend then I will be very loyal to you. If I'm fickle and detached then you're probably just someone I might hang out with on occasion but not someone I would ever open up. I don't consider these people my true friends. I know very quickly what type of person someone is and if I can trust that person or not.
It seems to me OP that you thought you connected with the libras and then you got disappointed? Did you think they were someone they weren't? Why did you even get involved with someone you didn't feel you could connect to on a deeper level? They might be everything you said they were but the decision to get involved with them is on you.
In general air signs are the element that's the most detached but you have to look at the rest of the chart especially the moon sign.
Like i said in my post, i seem to always attract libras; i don't go looking for them.
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we don't all get along with each other.
you don't like libras and it sounds like libras don't care too much for you either.
it's ok. as you say, just avoid them in future.
you don't like libras and it sounds like libras don't care too much for you either.
Gtfo with the pettiness. You could've easily got your point across without doing so.
Yeah op I can see why u cant stand some libras. They're not all bad though.
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what's petty about an explanation of why he is getting the response he is?
or are you calling him a snowflake?
First, let me just say i am a 'attached' person. attached in a way that if i open myself up to you just in general communication, that means that i put my trust in you to be who you present yourself to be. i do not like smalltalk, for i am a in depth person. i prefer deep conversations and value loyalty if i open myself up to you, both male and female. i also prefer solid relationships both male and female; long lasting ones not superficial gestures. for some reason over the past couple of years, i seem to always attract libra people and it always turns out a disaster. with the women it never works out because in my opinion they seem to detached for my taste; and this is just in the flirting stages. i can't stand their detached personalities. like i said, i prefer solid relationships; but its more than just a "detached" personality. the ones i encountered seem to throw people they know under the bus(in all aspects) this seems to be a trait in most air signs i've encountered. it's fine if that's their stee-low, but im choosing on keeping all of them at arms length from now on; i'm not with the mind games. the libra women seem to think they're better then everyone else, but i can sense the projection of low self-esteem in them. never again will i deal with a libra woman.
In all honesty you really just don’t seem like the sort of person any self-respecting Libra would let themselves get attached to. Read what you’ve written... it’s a lot of one-sided you you you, you’re amazing, everything is their fault. Like where is your perspective? You claim to crave depth and deep conversations but your complete lack of awareness or sense of perspective gives the overwhelming impression that your version of ‘deep’ is shallow, self-involved demands on other people’s attention. You sound exhausting. And someone so easily prejudiced into make such sweeping generalisations about people are not ‘deep’ ... or interesting, or capable of deep understanding, or emotional complexity... they are boring. They are narrow-minded. They are basic.
If you wanna pretend like you’re the one rejecting Librans when you’re the last kinda person any Libra on earth would want anything to do with, be my guest I guess. What does it matter? Can’t believe you created a whole new account just to post this 😂🤦♀️
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I feel you my friend. I'm the same way, very attached.
First, let me just say i am a 'attached' person. attached in a way that if i open myself up to you just in general communication, that means that i put my trust in you to be who you present yourself to be. i do not like smalltalk, for i am a in depth person. i prefer deep conversations and value loyalty if i open myself up to you, both male and female. i also prefer solid relationships both male and female; long lasting ones not superficial gestures. for some reason over the past couple of years, i seem to always attract libra people and it always turns out a disaster. with the women it never works out because in my opinion they seem to detached for my taste; and this is just in the flirting stages. i can't stand their detached personalities. like i said, i prefer solid relationships; but its more than just a "detached" personality. the ones i encountered seem to throw people they know under the bus(in all aspects) this seems to be a trait in most air signs i've encountered. it's fine if that's their stee-low, but im choosing on keeping all of them at arms length from now on; i'm not with the mind games. the libra women seem to think they're better then everyone else, but i can sense the projection of low self-esteem in them. never again will i deal with a libra woman.
You seem to have gotten your feelings hurt dealing with Libra women. I am surprised you went past the flirting stage having detected the detached behavior you hate so much. If a Libra woman wants you there will be no detachment or mind games as you say. Them not fitting into your idea of a "solid" relationship seems to have led you to believe they think they are better than you. Sounds like the ones you met were just confident in what and who they wanted and that didn't include you. No biggie. Just move on. No need for sour grapes. All this negativity will just weigh you down. I have encountered a few signs myself that I do not click with as well as I would like but I don't waste time wallowing in the negativity of it. Better to choose to let it go and find a better match. I assure, Libras won't mind a bit...
lol! You just proved my point.
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Another generalisation thread.
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First, let me just say i am a 'attached' person. attached in a way that if i open myself up to you just in general communication, that means that i put my trust in you to be who you present yourself to be. i do not like smalltalk, for i am a in depth person. i prefer deep conversations and value loyalty if i open myself up to you, both male and female. i also prefer solid relationships both male and female; long lasting ones not superficial gestures. for some reason over the past couple of years, i seem to always attract libra people and it always turns out a disaster. with the women it never works out because in my opinion they seem to detached for my taste; and this is just in the flirting stages. i can't stand their detached personalities. like i said, i prefer solid relationships; but its more than just a "detached" personality. the ones i encountered seem to throw people they know under the bus(in all aspects) this seems to be a trait in most air signs i've encountered. it's fine if that's their stee-low, but im choosing on keeping all of them at arms length from now on; i'm not with the mind games. the libra women seem to think they're better then everyone else, but i can sense the projection of low self-esteem in them. never again will i deal with a libra woman.