Libras and the difference between hurt and angry

I gotta ask this cause I'm getting different answers from my friends so I'm asking the forum

This libra guy name Dennis claims to be angry cause his side chick called his wife and told her to tell her husband to stop calling her because they are no longer hitting the sheets and not going out anymore, this girl left the wife 4 voicemails, so from my understanding Dennis told the other woman that if she calls his wife be ready for the consequences that come after it, so I guess he never thought that would happen, but the wife kick his azz out the house for cheating anyway, but I guess since Dennis has another child with another woman which made his wife go crazy, so Dennis would tell me and my boyfriend a whole bunch of lies, but when you look at his situation he really doesn't spend much time with his wife just the other woman, and the only reason why the wife got angry was because of the 5 year secret he has been keeping from her, that would be the other child, but I'm not sure if Dennis told her, but o well

Now if he claims to be so hurt then why is he still contacting the other girl if she hurt him by doing that, or was it just a temporary anger moment that he didn't think she would call his wife, what would really get a libra angry to the point of not contacting a person that did them wrong, and what would be the difference between a libra being hurt or angry?

For a guy whose name rhymes with penis..he's acting like one.

Dennis doesn't give a shit about anyone.

Posted by Damnata
For a guy whose name rhymes with penis..he's acting like one.

Dennis doesn't give a shit about anyone.

ROTFL

Posted by Damnata
For a guy whose name rhymes with penis..he's acting like one.

Dennis doesn't give a shit about anyone.

But himself.

Libras have a thing of not wanting to be alone or lonely.

I'm trying to be a good friend to Dennis, but he just keep getting himself in shit

Then my boyfriend would try to be understanding, but I'm like, dude I'm sorry but I'm glad she called your wife, but if your so hurt why the hell are you calling the other girl back, are you really angry or turned on?

I'm like dude she called your wife and left the woman 4 messages, and the wife didn't say nothing until the 5th phone call about a 5 year secret


Thats one hell of a marriage, and his side of the family didn't even tell his wife the truth, until that secret pissed her off

That would make me stop calling that person, but he seems to not sure his damn brain

Posted by feby16aqua
Dennis has a child with this other woman?

Naw, he has a wife, a baby mother after he got married, the child is 5 years old, and he didn't even tell his wife, and his side of the family didn't even bother to say anything either

The side chick would have been the third woman, but Dennis told me that he wasnt going back to his wife they were separated for a year, just not legally yet, so the side chick I guess got pissed off cause now Dennis wants to work things out with the wife because of his kids

Yup This libras has 3 kids by the wife, and 1 child by another woman

But if he is so angry or hurt, why would a libra call the person that pretty much threw him under the bus, I mean the girl called his wife and blew him up

I mean I wouldn't call, but I guess it takes more than calling ha wife to get him to hate her or something

Posted by feby16aqua
dennis has found himself in a pickle lol

Lol, I do believe that's the same pickle that got him into trouble, hehehehe

Posted by feby16aqua
He's probably still emotionally attached to this other woman.

I agree, so I guess he wasn't angry or hurt then?

Posted by feby16aqua
Not everyone is the same, too...some people can cut someone off and others aren't good with that kinda thing. I mean, he hasn't left his wife after all this time.

He has been cheating on his wife all this time, and I try to keep my comments to myself with him at times, but the man cheated on her after he gave her the ring, after marriage and he got a kid with another woman while he was married, but the funny thing is I never see him with his wife, I always see him with the other woman, even to his family cookouts parties the other woman even spent the night with him at his mothers house

So I'm thinking maybe he is getting a divorce, so I kept quiet, cause its been a year and I never saw him with his wife

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Posted by TaurusNikki

Posted by feby16aqua
He's probably still emotionally attached to this other woman.

I agree, so I guess he wasn't angry or hurt then?

perhaps he is really upset...but some people are good at separating their emotions out of an equation. I don't know if this is an air sign thing in general, but I am like this.

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O ok, cause I could have sworn that if someone throws me under the bus, I wouldn't even consider calling them, wether I was right or wrong

He's just pissed he got caught and this chick handed his ass to him.

And in usual beaten wife syndrome, these idiots are attracted to this type of thing like moths to a flame.

If you're too nice, they walk all over you and take advantage. You put your foot down and get "mean" or tell them to fuck off, they won't let go and follow you around like a lost puppy.


...it's really weird.

This guy in particular sounds like a freaking momma's boy moron.

Lmao

Basically no backbone

Posted by TaurusNikki
I'm trying to be a good friend to Dennis, but he just keep getting himself in shit

Then my boyfriend would try to be understanding, but I'm like, dude I'm sorry but I'm glad she called your wife, but if your so hurt why the hell are you calling the other girl back, are you really angry or turned on?

I cannot associate with a disgusting and insanely selfish human being like Dennis. Foe his own interest, he is playing with lives. There are innocent children involved. Immature and selfish bastards like him should be impotent. I really believe that society should shun people like this by their friends renouncing them.

Nikki, you and your bf shouldn't be supportive to such a toxic parasite.
I mean if you bf did that, do you think his friends should sit there and console of the mess he made of his life and others ALL on his own.

Posted by aquarius09
Nikki, you and your bf shouldn't be supportive to such a toxic parasite.
I mean if you bf did that, do you think his friends should sit there and console of the mess he made of his life and others ALL on his own.

I was never supportive, I just thought the libra was going to get his divorce and be a man about everything, but I guess he just wanted the easy way out

But in the end he got caught, but I haven't seen his wife in a while, so I didn't think nothing other than they are going their seperate ways, but if his wife stay with him she must have low self esteem also, cause the boy been cheating for years

And the fact that the libra is calling the other woman, I'm like what the heck would it take for you to let certain people go, pick, the wife or the other woman

I mean what would it take for a libra to really get angry

This libra told her to get ready for what's next, which made the other woman call his wife

And all he did was wait a few days then called the other woman back

I, pretty sure that had to make him angry

But I guess you male libras don't get mad at people that do that for too long

I must admit I never seen a true libra revenge

Cause when I talked to him, he loves how this other woman makes him feel, I think the libras is pussy whipped

The girl just might get him messed up again, cause they were always together

@tiz

So what do you think is wrong with this libra

Come on let's get a male libras input

Posted by tiziani

Posted by TaurusNikki
@tiz

So what do you think is wrong with this libra

Come on let's get a male libras input

lol where does anyone start? He is a mess. You can't rationalise a mess like that, the best thing I can say is maybe he got too into living the "perfect" image in front of everyone. Not many people realize this but perfectionists are motivated by failing. They like loss and like pain. That's why he's attracted to that other woman. It gives him more reason to beat himself up when he loses his dream life. He has to learn how to start doing himself a favour realistically every day by making honest decisions and stop being addicted to losing.

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Omg, Tiz, I'd hug ya if I saw you

I said the same damn thing, I swear the same damn thing, my boyfriend just looked at me and had a drink, so I'm thinkng I was alittle hard on Dennis saying that

Cause Dennis just doesn't want to do nothing really,


He is lazy ad hell, but when it comes to the other woman he just glows, but get him to talk about his wife he gets depressed but won't divorce her, but want to keep this other woman, Dennis is just all messed up, priorities are all wrong, wants to work things out with his wife, but cheats on her, keeps his daughter a secret from his wife for nearly 5 years, but doesn't want the other woman to leave him, but gets mad just because the other girl is seeing someone else

I'm curious if he is going get revenge on her?, guess I'll keep the forum updated

Posted by TaurusNikki
Cause Dennis just doesn't want to do nothing really,


He is lazy ad hell, but when it comes to the other woman he just glows, but get him to talk about his wife he gets depressed but won't divorce her, but want to keep this other woman, Dennis is just all messed up, priorities are all wrong, wants to work things out with his wife, but cheats on her, keeps his daughter a secret from his wife for nearly 5 years, but doesn't want the other woman to leave him, but gets mad just because the other girl is seeing someone else

I cant speak for all libras but for me I do get myself in predicaments, not like this but I was in a very hard spot a while back...and my Taurus friend helped me c clearly..as for this situation..I cant say for certain, im not him but in my opinion from what ive read...if he glows with this other woman then he loves her and if he gets depressed with his wife then he probably doesn't know how to leave...there has to be a reason why he married her to begin with...and that probably is there...or doesn't know the right option...the whole daughter thing could have been as simple as maybe the wife or someone said or did something that made him think she wouldn't be ok with his daughter...cheating on his wife though I dnt quite get that..yet I guess if they have sort of separated like distancing themselves from each other that might be the cause...then again love doesn't make sense so if he truly loves this other woman then yea his life is all kinds of mess right now...revenge? there is one person in my mind I would have revenge on but I wait...I don't even know why I wait..maybe im lazy...but if the person leaves me alone I usually will back off...i could of so many times gotten back at this person for destroying almost everything and yet the timing is never right.. the days I am going to FINALLY do something they do it to themselves...and then im like yea ok...that s about right its not worth my time and effort anyway..idk...i generally like everyone....someone has to be a real son of a gun to get me that mad..this person has crossed to many lines....I have many lines mind you...so to cross every single one to the point I have no respect for this person...Your libra might be different though..i don't know what he considers lines that shouldn't be crossed...that depends on him..

That makes sense

But with Dennis all I get is why he didn't divorce the wife is because he doesn't want to admit he made a mistake and failed

Why he still call that girl back ? He wants meet her or he is angry and have something to tell her like this ?
Having a child with another woman..... no wonder .... Libra has no feelings for family, he is confused and still confuse always . Probably he got 3 kids with his wife only because the wife remained pregnant, but not his wish...
Libra can get angry or do not want contact you without any reason, there is no need be a reason. If he thinks for a moment that he need stop contact with you, he will do it and disappear . The same is if he thinks to still contacting you, he will do it, even there is no sense .. because they can't see any sense of life anyway ! They are always confuse ! So I am no wonder why he is in this situation , having war with 3 women ... the girl who called, the woman with 5 yars old child and his wife.... Probably there will be a divorce soon also and this will make him wake up at reality ! Then he will regret what he done , but too late is too late...

Libra don't realy get hurt, he is a perfect victime of any situation ! He will always wear a mask showing he is hurt, but he is so selfish by nature , that he can not easily get hurt by something. Angry, possible , but anyway in his hear is fog always , the confusion will keep him "under control" ... so he will don't know when hw is hurt and when he is angry in fact. They get angry from anything, even from a small small thing and then they wear the victime mask in anything.

Posted by TaurusNikki
Cause Dennis just doesn't want to do nothing really,


He is lazy ad hell, but when it comes to the other woman he just glows, but get him to talk about his wife he gets depressed but won't divorce her, but want to keep this other woman, Dennis is just all messed up, priorities are all wrong, wants to work things out with his wife, but cheats on her, keeps his daughter a secret from his wife for nearly 5 years, but doesn't want the other woman to leave him, but gets mad just because the other girl is seeing someone else

Blame his family/mom. Sounds like they primed him for this bs and encourage it by coddling him.

Hell, my ex's friends do this to him because he's the youngest and they just sit back and go "oh well, he'll learn." But the problem is that NOBODY has told him what he's doing is stupid and wrong and a good source for all his issues. I've tried to encouage them to say something but they just come up with excuses as to why they can't. But they can, and should as friends. If I had a friend going through some shit like that, I'd say something because they're harming themselves and those around them, you know?

But our mutual friends? Nope. They just stay quiet and let it happen.

In Dennis' case, it sounds just the same, except his family isn't doing shit.

He's mad because he got caught but probably can't go long without a woman-hence the multiple affairs- so he'll stay with whoever is willing to take his shit.
He's lucky he has friends who are more loyal than he is. lol

Posted by Jessy801
Why he still call that girl back ? He wants meet her or he is angry and have something to tell her like this ?
Having a child with another woman..... no wonder .... Libra has no feelings for family, he is confused and still confuse always . Probably he got 3 kids with his wife only because the wife remained pregnant, but not his wish...
Libra can get angry or do not want contact you without any reason, there is no need be a reason. If he thinks for a moment that he need stop contact with you, he will do it and disappear . The same is if he thinks to still contacting you, he will do it, even there is no sense .. because they can't see any sense of life anyway ! They are always confuse ! So I am no wonder why he is in this situation , having war with 3 women ... the girl who called, the woman with 5 yars old child and his wife.... Probably there will be a divorce soon also and this will make him wake up at reality ! Then he will regret what he done , but too late is too late...

I hear ya, no word yet on what's going on with the wife, all I know is that she kicked him out before for cheating, and for the other girl to call his wife and leave her 4 voice messages and then telling her that her husband is hiding a 5 year secret, she must have been pissed, but Dennis mother got mad at the side girl for telling his wife the truth, the side chick never got the chance to tell the wife about the daughter, I think the family blew that up

But I'm not sure if the wife is getting the divorce yet, but if she doesn't she dumb as hell, and yes Dennis being a crazy libra is still trying to contact the side chick to get her to speak to him

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Posted by TaurusNikki
Cause Dennis just doesn't want to do nothing really,


He is lazy ad hell, but when it comes to the other woman he just glows, but get him to talk about his wife he gets depressed but won't divorce her, but want to keep this other woman, Dennis is just all messed up, priorities are all wrong, wants to work things out with his wife, but cheats on her, keeps his daughter a secret from his wife for nearly 5 years, but doesn't want the other woman to leave him, but gets mad just because the other girl is seeing someone else

Blame his family/mom. Sounds like they primed him for this bs and encourage it by coddling him.

Hell, my ex's friends do this to him because he's the youngest and they just sit back and go "oh well, he'll learn." But the problem is that NOBODY has told him what he's doing is stupid and wrong and a good source for all his issues. I've tried to encouage them to say something but they just come up with excuses as to why they can't. But they can, and should as friends. If I had a friend going through some shit like that, I'd say something because they're harming themselves and those around them, you know?

But our mutual friends? Nope. They just stay quiet and let it happen.

In Dennis' case, it sounds just the same, except his family isn't doing shit.

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Get this, when I met Dennis family with my boyfriend his mother was like its up to Dennis to tell his wife about his daughter with this other woman, but the child is 5 now, so what the hell is he waiting for, then his wife isn't around his side of the family like that according to his family, but Dennis doesn't spend movies or dinners with his wife, he goes with the side girl, so I'm getting the family is Marat the side chick for calling his wife and telling her about Dennis activities, cause at the time when I asked him did his wife tell him about the voicemails he told me no, not until the 5 year secret came out