Libra's Lady

Well...at least you're in a category... but the goal is to not simply be one of his ladies...but to be The Lady who has captured his mind...and heart...being in a category with someone else or others is not really a good thing if you're looking for more- not to say rush into anything or be out of character- and every connection will have its attatchment...at some point you two will have to become vulnerable to one another not in an uncontrolable nutty way but in a way thats honest,secure and carefree...

***So, is this a compliment, coming from a Libra, to be put in the catagory of being "one of his ladies"? ****

Sure if you don't mind being "one of" the women he sees.

I have found it to be much more rewarding being the apple of his eye and center of his affection. Number 1 and only love... Especially a Librans.

But do what feels right for you.

i'm not sure if it's a compliment - i guess it depends on how your feelings measure out for him. if you're ok with being one of his ladies and not his ONLY lady, then more power to you.

but it sounds like you like it this way. sounds like you like the unemotional attachment from him.

***To be his "Only" lady, that would be a dream come true, as I see what kind of man he can be when he is able to focus on one person for any length of time, and I have been the recipiant of that attention, in a way, when he chooses to share that part of himself with me. He admits he has told me and shared with me things he has never told anyone else before about his life, growing up and in the present.***

Beware they can be this way with a friend they care deeply for, but doesn't want to be "in a relationship" with or not "in love" with. I know. Not to say this is the case. Just pulling your coat tale. Don't make more of it than it is. Listen to what he tells you. He is telling you exactly what his intentions are. For now.

***Patience, as I have found is the key, don't you agree? Pushing a Libra to do something, or telling them what to do, does not wash...one must allow them to figure it out for themselves, realize on their own...when that happens...then it appears that they can accept that which they are trying so hard to resist.****

It is up to you... It may or may not turn to your favor. Would you want to wait around and miss out on the possibility of Mr. Right showing up while you are waiting for Mr. Not Right Now. Who may never come to be what you want? No matter how long you wait he won't want you for more, unless and if he decides to. It isn't gauranteed and most times they know when they want you early on.

I have been FWB, with Librans, in Relationships and a marriage. I know too well both sides.

If you are fine with being one of the many FWB's he has or will continue to have. Then do what you feel. Just don't put your emotions there. Cutting them off subconciously for others. Librans like "the different" girl, not the one who is like all the rest.
FYI. Good Luck!!! Make him sweat a little, don't make it easy and you might get another reaction. Be different.