Is Libra the zodiac's most spoilt sign?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Ferocity Dravidian on Thursday, October 4, 2007 and has 10 replies.

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@spica
19 Years5,000+ Posts

Libra can be spoilt if they are allowed to be. However, alot of other controlling signs spoil it for the libra's inherent sense of spoiltness.
I would say the self-serving signs are way more spoilt. Granted, Libra is ruled by venus, but is also a sign of partnerships. Libra tends to think of others as well as themselves, as they gain happiness through interactions.

To answer the question, people are spoilt only by those who spoil them.

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@Queenscorpio
19 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

Librans like to be admired, there for to some extent catered too. This I will admit. However, the balance with them is they also give a great deal. They earn being spoilt so to speak. Unlike "selfish" signs who want to be catered to and don't like to give in return.

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@nicodemus
19 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

I don't think being spoiled is something I can associate with any Libra I know personally. All Libras I know both male and female were raised in very trying and turbulant family enviroments. This, again with every single one of them has actually appeared to lead to an unreasonable and personal disdain for being spoiled. I think taking care of ourselves and not accepting a free ride from other people is a matter of pride for all Libras. It makes us more secure in our independance.

I have never been spoiled by family, I have had partners try to spoil me but it actually pushes me away. The only thing I think that comes close is we are very indulgant in relationships. We love to be lazy libras with our lovers, lay in bed all day when there is nothing that needs to be done, cook rich and complicated meals for our partners and enjoy the same from them, close the outside world off to us and just indulge in each other every opportunity we get. In a sense that is enjoying the spoils of a relationship...but if it feels material we tend to reject it. If my GF were to buy me something extravagent for my birthday, something beyond the realm of necessity and expensive...I would urge her to return it so we could put the money towards something we need or save it for when we do.

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@Queenscorpio
19 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

***If my GF were to buy me something extravagent for my birthday, something beyond the realm of necessity and expensive...I would urge her to return it so we could put the money towards something we need or save it for when we do.***

In my experience Librans like expensive gifts. I have never known one to ask that a partner return one. Male or female. Wow.

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@Queenscorpio
19 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

However the indulging in partnering time. Is very true indeed. I remember some of the best moments during my marriage was when my ex and I would just lay in bed all day on a cold winter weekend. Watch movies, some sleep and other things etc, etc, etc... It stregnthens the bond. They love that.

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@thelibran
20 Years1,000+ Posts

Yes!!! we are a danger to society. I think we should have a libraland into where all libras has to be deported from all around the world. Atleast there will be peace and happiness. lol!!!

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

I loved to spoil my ex-Libra man .. and he enjoyed it too. But, spoiling him rotten didn't come from gifts, rather, pampering his needs and desires, giving him lots of attention, both physically and intellectually, as well as, giving him space to have his numerous friends.

Just spoiled him to death .. and he never complained about it.

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@Queenscorpio
19 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

P-Angel, who doesn't like to be spoiled. LOL!!! I must also add that not only do they like to be spoiled or enjoy a lot of attention, when in love, they know how to give it all back in return, sometimes in a much better way than they received it. 😉