Manipulative or truth?

Does Libras mean it when they say that they are hurt by you ? Actions speak louder than words. All of my friends are libras but my guy friend said i hurt him but i don't know how? I think he manipulates to get his way alot. He said he used to woman taking care of him. Lately we been on a bumpy road. We have debates all the time and it's turning me the other way to run. I think he isn't going to change but we got so close lately. We do everything together he told me he got feelings for me but i don't feel the same way. I think he tries to woo me it's too much its ruining our friendship. I just want to know if he truly cares or just manipulating me? I'm confused and hurt myself by this situation. I helped him get a job i take him places he hears me talk bout my day to day drama but i just want to know what can i do to fix this issue. He says he can tell I'm trying to turn him off but it's not working because he cares about me. I dealt with alot of leeb man but we been around each other everyday for 2 months.

He says he has feelings for you, why don't you believe him?

If you don't have feelings for him, why to string him along? He likes you, believe him. Just have a very sincere talk with him that you two cannot be together and you should not cross the friendship line. Do not allow him to catch even more feelings, because he will suffer a lot more.

I have but it's not like he wants that to happen. I tried to be friends nothing but more. I don't know what else to do. I think i done that to my last Libra as well. He told me i hurt him cause we had sex but wasn't romantically interested in each other. I think he a sweet guy. I just don't want to hurt him and ruin our friendship.

Your friendship is already ruined. Keep him at arms length and strictly professional. Tell him you need your space. And, of course, never get involved again with work buddies. It's always a recipe for disaster. If you don't reject him firmly he will keep hoping. This will end when one of you will get involved in a real relationship. Sad, but true.

Posted by blackphase
If you don't have feelings for him why are you so damn concerned STILL about whether he truly cares or is manipulating you? Jesus.. a few months ago you were accusing the guy of stalking you and making him out to be a total nut job, now he is your friend and you spend every day together? Leave the manipulative, mommy's boy alone. Cause that is exactly what he is.. I know another just like him and it's not even worth your effort to try and figure him out.. trust me!

If you read my posts right before jumping to conclusions you would stop making assumptions. So reread again before you jump the gun and you a gemini tho so obvi you are obsess with the libra forum yourself hun.

The other guy i was talking about my posts isn't my friend i haven't had contact with him in months. Yes i still see him ride by or somewhere but i go on about my business. This is a different libra he is older and i do think the friendship is ruined. I don't feel the same i do somewhat he manipulates to get what he wants he says he is dying but looking for a relationship? So you want to date and it has to be someone's responsibility to bury you. I got him a job give him rides the other day he wanted me to make his plate. He got narcissistic ways since his venus is scorpio.

Posted by Diamondnurse
The other guy i was talking about my posts isn't my friend i haven't had contact with him in months. Yes i still see him ride by or somewhere but i go on about my business. This is a different libra he is older and i do think the friendship is ruined. I don't feel the same i do somewhat he manipulates to get what he wants he says he is dying but looking for a relationship? So you want to date and it has to be someone's responsibility to bury you. I got him a job give him rides the other day he wanted me to make his plate. He got narcissistic ways since his venus is scorpio.

Question for you, these guys who are your 'friends' how'd you meet them? Was it through a common interest/hobby? Or did they pursue you and you friend zoned them??

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Posted by Diamondnurse
The other guy i was talking about my posts isn't my friend i haven't had contact with him in months. Yes i still see him ride by or somewhere but i go on about my business. This is a different libra he is older and i do think the friendship is ruined. I don't feel the same i do somewhat he manipulates to get what he wants he says he is dying but looking for a relationship? So you want to date and it has to be someone's responsibility to bury you. I got him a job give him rides the other day he wanted me to make his plate. He got narcissistic ways since his venus is scorpio.

Question for you, these guys who are your 'friends' how'd you meet them? Was it through a common interest/hobby? Or did they pursue you and you friend zoned them??

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We meet with the same circle of people. We had more interests than the others. We talked all the time but we got in a big argument that really shut our friendship down. He never pursued but i see is trying to now.

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Posted by Diamondnurse
Does Libras mean it when they say that they are hurt by you ? Actions speak louder than words. All of my friends are libras but my guy friend said i hurt him but i don't know how? I think he manipulates to get his way alot. He said he used to woman taking care of him. Lately we been on a bumpy road. We have debates all the time and it's turning me the other way to run. I think he isn't going to change but we got so close lately. We do everything together he told me he got feelings for me but i don't feel the same way. I think he tries to woo me it's too much its ruining our friendship. I just want to know if he truly cares or just manipulating me? I'm confused and hurt myself by this situation. I helped him get a job i take him places he hears me talk bout my day to day drama but i just want to know what can i do to fix this issue. He says he can tell I'm trying to turn him off but it's not working because he cares about me. I dealt with alot of leeb man but we been around each other everyday for 2 months.

He told you what he's "used to". How is he being manipulative? I want to believe these sob stories on dxpnet, but I never do. Maybe you can convince me...

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Used to being in lust and i can see his lust. But really i just see him as a friend.

It's another guy if you listen you sound dumb. I said we are friends and i have other friends that are libras. We got closer and the other guy is off my meter. I don't talk to that guy so where do you get it's bout the other guy? Geminis hear what they want to hear and go tell whatever they want everyone think of you wants to hear. You seriously need to stop jumping conclusions. You mad and upset cause you put your two cents in and it has nothing to do with nothing. You need a life or something. Sometimes you just need to read over things and not take things in matter that has nothing to do with anything. @blackphase i see why you annoying and dramafied to others. You got to get someone to back you up on your false assumptions of your ideal bs.

So carry on your bs. Cause it has nothing to do with that libra guy. So tf you get that from oh yeah past posts yup it was bout the one i was screwing and this one is my friend. So different person and different situation. Please do yourself a favor calm your self down and go read another post. Thanks.