@Princely
9 Years
Libra girlfriend won't tell me her sexuality
Troll
Prudish? Maybe she thinks you are pestering her for sex? Are you sure she is your gf and you are her bf?
Posted by Earthgoddess
Weird. After seven months of dating she wont even talk about sex.No shade but u sure its a girl?....could be a guy...how old is she? So many questions
Have you guys meet in person? Kissed?
Idk i would be worried
Sorry im NOT a libra
We haven't kissed, she's a girl. We think we should leave sex till after marriage though, but we haven't explicitly discussed it. This is the one time I feel was ok to discuss sex with her, so I started by asking of her virginity. We've been together for 7months. I'm 28, she's 22.
Posted by Libracookie
7months and no talk about sex? How old are you two?
I'm 28, she's 22
Even if he respects her not speaking on it, she's not communicating with him... that seems one sided, at
least say you prefer to talk about it another time with the intent of actually talking about it
are both very religious?
why spurred you on to asking about it last night?
when she became cold, why did you persist with that conversation? did you feel it is (was) important for you to know?
how did you ask her? what did you say exactly?
is this the same libra girlfriend of two months that walked out on you 9 months ago?
and are you still exchanging online messages with the horny cap?
I said " Wait, we've been going for 7months now, and I don't know something. I want to know... Are you a virgin?"
She replied "Am not saying anything".
I said "Come ooon, if you want to be shy, is it me you want to be shy with? Firstly for me, like I told you, I'm not a virgin. Its healthy we know these intimate stuffs within us. Its just us"
She replied "bye"
Then went offline
Posted by Earthgoddess
Great now my virgo mind is going full speed...Have they meet in person? Still havent gotten that answer
We've met in person, a number of times.
Posted by jeane
is this the same libra girlfriend of two months that walked out on you 9 months ago?and are you still exchanging online messages with the horny cap?
Nah
Posted by Princely
I said " Wait, we've been going for 7months now, and I don't know something. I want to know... Are you a virgin?"She replied "Am not saying anything".
I said "Come ooon, if you want to be shy, is it me you want to be shy with? Firstly for me, like I told you, I'm not a virgin. Its healthy we know these intimate stuffs within us. Its just us"
She replied "bye"
Then went offline
i think she is too young. i think you should find someone closer to your mentality and life experience. she's a kid.
Get yourself an older woman
Posted by Earthgoddess
Weird. After seven months of dating she wont even talk about sex.No shade but u sure its a girl?....could be a guy...how old is she? So many questions
Have you guys meet in person? Kissed?
Idk i would be worried
Sorry im NOT a libra
We haven't kissed, she's a girl. We think we should leave sex till after marriage though, but we haven't explicitly discussed it. This is the one time I feel was ok to discuss sex with her, so I started by asking of her virginity. We've been together for 7months. I'm 28, she's 22.
If you see its other for 7 months as you say...you have not kiss and as i understand you are not in a relationship then yes asking about her virginity is off topic.
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I'm feeling really bad
Ohhh, those shady Leebs!
It's sounds like she has a religious background, and she has grown up believing sex = shame. If this is the case, it is your sworn duty to let her know how utterly ridiculous this is. I'm not even fvcking kidding bro. I'd love to see how high divorce rates are between those who remained "pure" until marriage.
That said, I can respect a person's decision to wait until marriage IF they know what this entails. By 'entails', I mean that they are educated about sexual compatibility. Sexual compatibility cannot be determined outside of having sex. Things can look good on paper, but the reality can prove to be much different. As she gains sexual experience, she may end up not being into the same things you are, OR she might be into all kinds of crazy stuff you never even thought of. This is why I believe it's the stupidest fcvking thing ever to go into a marriage leaving something so substantial in the total dark.
The other issue is she isn't communicating with you. Seven months, and not even a kiss without giving any kind of reason? You are like the guy on that Taco Bell commercial with the really hot chick and are either seriously friend-zoned and don't even know, or this girl has some kind of an issue going on.
Either your a troll or each time she's starting to warm to you you start bringing up the status of her pussy. Keep your mouth shut if you ever want to get some. Smooth operator you are not.
Posted by Gob_Shite
Unless she's been a victim of sexual abuse, or you've made it known that you're very religious, there's really no excuse for her being so evasive.If she doesn't open up to you soon, you should end things with her.
Because being asked if your a virgin is how to get the panties to drop. Smh
Asking that question sends a very queer message. I'd shut down the convo too. You all need to learn how to speak to people.
Posted by bittercupcake
id consider that as an invasion of privacymaybe shes not comfortable telling you she is
who knows...maybe shes been around the block
and is emberassed.
point is: respect her decision to keep hsh on it.
lol
i don't get the humor?
please englihtentme
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Just Laugh and never mind! Lol
Posted by Earthgoddess
Weird. After seven months of dating she wont even talk about sex.No shade but u sure its a girl?....could be a guy...how old is she? So many questions
Have you guys meet in person? Kissed?
Idk i would be worried
Sorry im NOT a libra
We haven't kissed, she's a girl. We think we should leave sex till after marriage though, but we haven't explicitly discussed it. This is the one time I feel was ok to discuss sex with her, so I started by asking of her virginity. We've been together for 7months. I'm 28, she's 22.
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Is yor name Princely because you believe you are royalty of some sort?
Sounds to me like you haven't earned her trust yet, dude.
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.
Posted by pinkbird03
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.
How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
Posted by pinkbird03
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
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lol it's not too common that people are virgins until marriage, but it does exists. There are churches and followers that are super serious about this commitment. He knows this about her. I'm not sure why he's questioning her now just because she's not answering an obvious question. He doesn't seem too smart ?
Posted by pinkbird03
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
lol it's not too common that people are virgins until marriage, but it does exists. There are churches and followers that are super serious about this commitment. He knows this about her. I'm not sure why he's questioning her now just because she's not answering an obvious question. He doesn't seem too smart ?
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When did he said he knows? I've missed it. And saying 'yes I am a vifgin' isn't a sin!
Is it? ?
Posted by GetMisted
If you are, or ever have plans to be physical with someone.. you have a right to know their sexual history.
Don't you think he should kiss her first before he starts interrogating her about whether he's the first? Absolutely 0 tact.
Posted by GetMisted
What if she has an incurable STD but is too embarrassed to tell him?Some folks are not okay with that (others are as there are precautions to take) and have the right to know before things get anymore serious.
He should focus on their first kiss and if there is any chemistry between them. Dating for 8 months but hasn't kissed her...mmmmkay troll alert
Posted by GetMisted
If you are, or ever have plans to be physical with someone.. you have a right to know their sexual history.Don't you think he should kiss her first before he starts interrogating her about whether he's the first? Absolutely 0 tact.
No kissing until marriage
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What cult is that? I'm out.
Posted by GetMisted
What if she has an incurable STD but is too embarrassed to tell him?Some folks are not okay with that (others are as there are precautions to take) and have the right to know before things get anymore serious.
He should focus on their first kiss and if there is any chemistry between them. Dating for 8 months but hasn't kissed her...mmmmkay troll alert
Edit: never believe people when they say their clean. Verify that sheeet
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Posted by pinkbird03
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
lol it's not too common that people are virgins until marriage, but it does exists. There are churches and followers that are super serious about this commitment. He knows this about her. I'm not sure why he's questioning her now just because she's not answering an obvious question. He doesn't seem too smart ?
When did he said he knows? I've missed it. And saying 'yes I am a vifgin' isn't a sin!
Is it? ?
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Well the guy I'm still dating (believe it or not!) tells me a lot about his friend who is a 30 year old Christian that has never had sex and wants to wait until marriage. He's not ugly either. It's so hard to believe! But I have a lot of respect for a guy who can actually keep his thing in his pants! Although I don't know if I could date a guy like that... could u??
Posted by pinkbird03
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
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What ya heck is 😆?
Posted by pinkbird03
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
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What ya heck is 😆?
Posted by pinkbird03
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
lol it's not too common that people are virgins until marriage, but it does exists. There are churches and followers that are super serious about this commitment. He knows this about her. I'm not sure why he's questioning her now just because she's not answering an obvious question. He doesn't seem too smart ?
When did he said he knows? I've missed it. And saying 'yes I am a vifgin' isn't a sin!
Is it? ?
Well the guy I'm still dating (believe it or not!) tells me a lot about his friend who is a 30 year old Christian that has never had sex and wants to wait until marriage. He's not ugly either. It's so hard to believe! But I have a lot of respect for a guy who can actually keep his thing in his pants! Although I don't know if I could date a guy like that... could u??
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NOooooooo! ?
Posted by pinkbird03
If she's waiting for marriage, then she probably hasn't had sex. Or she has and she regrets it because she really did want to wait until marriage. Either way, you're making her uncomfortable and you're pushing her away. Drop the subject and move forward.How can he move forward? Wait for another 5 years to get to know what is she/he/it?
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What ya heck is 😆?
They said she/he / it
Thats funny as hell lol...😆
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What's 😆?
Well all i can say is.. Waiting for marriage is pretty much a guaranteed fail. Shes only 22...she's not gonna wanna only be with you her whole life... Recipe for disaster.who cares if she's a virgin or not?! Really NOT the most important issue.... Which would be if you're even compatible in the sack... You're both being extremely unrealistic.
Sounds like you missed a step or two here. You have been seeing each other for 7 months, but haven't kissed yet? Are you sure you're even dating?
Libra women tend to be more refined with how they approach certain situations since they can be very private people. When she said that she would not discuss the matter with you, you should have let it drop. Libras do not like being forced to do anything. Pushing her only caused her to shut down on you.
Why she's so withdrawn about discussing this subject with you is another story. My guess is that you haven't made her comfortable emotionally yet. Likewise, if you two haven't kissed, it's possible she's not sure what she wants from you. Try getting a kiss first. She may think you're only asking about sex as a way to pressure her into it. If she's not willing to kiss you then she probably has no romantic feelings for you.
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Been dating my libra girl for 7 months now with no discussion about sex between either of us. Just this evening while chatting, I asked her if she is a virgin, she became cold. I prodded further, she went offline, came back to tell me she's not telling me anything. I still asked further, even told her, I'm not one myself, still, she said "bye". Went offline and won't pick my calls again.
Why could this be?
What could it mean?
Are libra girls uncomfortable with their men asking them of their virginity?
Or she's scared of something? I don't understand.
Libra folks, what do you make of this?
Guys with libra girlfriends, ever encountered things like this?
Thanks for opinions please