my experience with a libra male

My experience with a libra male is that he wanted more than anything for the relatlionship to be harmonious.... no demands, no stress, no expectations of any kind, he wanted to breeze in, breeze out, not like a happy sagitarrian more like the UPS man coming with a delivery. I was with this man for many years. It was good but never great but then again never bad either... just like eating meatloaf and mashed potatoes with a salad for dinner every night.... not exciting but then on the positive side, it was not stressful, just going along day after day after day. Never really high never really low. Never a sunburn but never a snow burn either. Just a warm cloudy day every day the same thing ,,,,,, day after day.... sometimes I got really bored.... other times I was very grateful for the routine which allowed me to focus on other areas of my life.

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I would so go with a routine guy of any sort just as long as I knew I could count on something...Meatloaf and mash is a blessing (fattening) but still I relate to the fact that you had something you could count on vs. the uncertainty of it all - like not knowing what is for dinner and by the time dinner comes around youre so tired that you just make a piece of toast or pass altogether.

I have a bad crush on a Libra and he has disappeared...I get bits and pieces of his whereabouts (and even that is vague) thru his sister that I am acquaintances w.
I wish I was so busy that I didnt focus on "what's for dinner"

be thankful - it sounds peaceful. Boring does not always mean the grass is dead...its better than waiting for it to grow.

so is he gone??

I re-read your post...I dont know if I could handle the scattered UPS deliveries either.

((.... other times I was very grateful for the routine which allowed me to focus on other areas of my life.))

Thats the main attraction of the package.

well, honestly the package is sometimes the main attraction

I was born on the cusp of Sag / Scorpio, with Scorpio rising. I loved this Libra man.... and he loved me. We separated because I wanted to follow my career into another country. I got my excitement and my challenges in life from my career and from politics. My Libra man was my staple. He was sort of like a human teddy bear. I used to call him "Old Stodgy" and he'd call me the "silly switch." We had a few good laughs together.

so everything in your post is written past tense which makes me believe you guys arent around each other anymore...
ya, the right kind of Libra- I do love their humor...they are so funny.

I have problems understanding the new age disease called career growth. Are you all living to work your life away or working to live your life in a relaxed manner?

Personally i work to put food on the table for my family, pay the rent and have some fun here and there... I secretly wish I had a position that kept me busy as with Snap and Arian.

I multi-task and have oft put things on the burner for a relationship...

its just the times, men arent coming home from war in droves and marrying the first pretty girl they kissed in Times Square...women have to work and provide for themselves more and more.