FemmeScorpion
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I'd like to pop in here and say thanks to the libra men on this forum also. They do tell it how it is and I am quite appreciative of it!
ugh, reality check.
mmmnope. the reason you have more male friends is cause the women tend to be more socially skilled, smell your act and call it for what it is right away. males are more naive.
So you created a thread to ask for advice huh. yet you didnt ask any. you bash people. and then you nominated some, excluded others and flattered the ones who could be more useful. Nothing new, its from the roman times, divide et impera.
I reacted because your behaviour around dxp got so hypocritical it's not even funny and I thought maybe you'd learn and change a bit. it's honestly to your advantage, cause ppl tend to avoid that kind of games playing attitude. Oh, since you seem to appreciate being praised I won't waste any more of our time ...
mmmnope. the reason you have more male friends is cause the women tend to be more socially skilled, smell your act and call it for what it is right away. males are more naive.
So you created a thread to ask for advice huh. yet you didnt ask any. you bash people. and then you nominated some, excluded others and flattered the ones who could be more useful. Nothing new, its from the roman times, divide et impera.
I reacted because your behaviour around dxp got so hypocritical it's not even funny and I thought maybe you'd learn and change a bit. it's honestly to your advantage, cause ppl tend to avoid that kind of games playing attitude. Oh, since you seem to appreciate being praised I won't waste any more of our time ...
I don't mean to turn my words around now 🙂 however, generally speaking it is the women that make the invitations, orchestrate the socializing game, who to invite, etc etc. it's not to say they do a better or worse job, it's just how go; men let them do this, they probably think life (nd the real battles) must be someplace else ..🙂
to me Libras (and Virgos for that matter) are extremely skilled, even the males are better than lots of other women in different signs (learned plenty of rephrasing from the Libra guy I was in love with)
to me Libras (and Virgos for that matter) are extremely skilled, even the males are better than lots of other women in different signs (learned plenty of rephrasing from the Libra guy I was in love with)
A primatologist I studied with summed it up nicely. He was reflecting on some of the hunter gather and small scale societies he had traveled to. Men are pretty much the same around the world. They play with pointy sticks, brew beer and play practical jokes. Women do all the real work.
Generally, I much prefer the company of women. When the shit hits the fan, women are the ones who can hold you up. I have seen this truth played out so many times in my life, I no longer doubt it.
Generally, I much prefer the company of women. When the shit hits the fan, women are the ones who can hold you up. I have seen this truth played out so many times in my life, I no longer doubt it.
IMO you get along with guys better because guys don't try to look too deep into what is going on under the surface. There are places guys don't go with girls because they either don't care to or don't see it as advantagous in their position in your particular relationship paradigm.
In short, guys placate you but stroke your ego and make you feel good while they are doing it. Women who get along better with men tend to look past the same attention they complain about from men. Women who gravitate towards guy friends lean on the comfort of being able to control the relationship through the sexual undertones that naturally exist. Women have more power around guys, plain and simple. Any other attempt at justification is an act of denial.
The one execption is girls under 22 or so. Teen girls and young women have a strange viciousness that warrants a lack of desire to get to know too many of them and young guys, because they have not yet established who they are within themselves are more likely to feel comfortable in close opposite sex friendships where they can take a break from the competative nature of guy frienships.
Once people mature it stops working that way though.
In short, guys placate you but stroke your ego and make you feel good while they are doing it. Women who get along better with men tend to look past the same attention they complain about from men. Women who gravitate towards guy friends lean on the comfort of being able to control the relationship through the sexual undertones that naturally exist. Women have more power around guys, plain and simple. Any other attempt at justification is an act of denial.
The one execption is girls under 22 or so. Teen girls and young women have a strange viciousness that warrants a lack of desire to get to know too many of them and young guys, because they have not yet established who they are within themselves are more likely to feel comfortable in close opposite sex friendships where they can take a break from the competative nature of guy frienships.
Once people mature it stops working that way though.
Posted by little_sparrow
Men are pretty much the same around the world. They play with pointy sticks, brew beer and play practical jokes. Women do all the real work.
This has to be one of the funniest things I have read in quite some time. I have a very literal mind and read things like this as they were a cartoon strip.
Good stuff.
Don't forget 'pull my finger'. A classic.
Wow...guys what is all the angst about...I value FemmeScorp advice...I think that we all go through rough patches, we just need to be tolerant of one another! Life is really too short to hate, reject or blame one another!!!
I truly appreciate both guys and girls opinions in friendships! Actually having been in all girls school elementary and high school it took me quite some time to make guy friends..like it was more around college years. But it is only now that I truly appreciate being around guys the most.
Here we go:
I enjoy my girl friends because there is this sisterhood thing where you can talk about nonsense things such as makeup, fashion, gossip till death does us part...lol, shopping, manicures and pedicures, talk about guys, dissect every single detail about someone or an event, ect.
I enjoy my guy friends because I get to be rough around them...go to the gym with them, play sports, talk about cars and video games, plan friendly beer dates, go for a jog, foul talking, laugh and remain lighthearted because discussion never get too deep or personal and if they do, well they don't last for hours, ect.
There is more to me than what just meets the eye!!!
Therefore I think we shouldn't talk butter about anyone or generalize until we know someone from top to bottom.
I truly appreciate both guys and girls opinions in friendships! Actually having been in all girls school elementary and high school it took me quite some time to make guy friends..like it was more around college years. But it is only now that I truly appreciate being around guys the most.
Here we go:
I enjoy my girl friends because there is this sisterhood thing where you can talk about nonsense things such as makeup, fashion, gossip till death does us part...lol, shopping, manicures and pedicures, talk about guys, dissect every single detail about someone or an event, ect.
I enjoy my guy friends because I get to be rough around them...go to the gym with them, play sports, talk about cars and video games, plan friendly beer dates, go for a jog, foul talking, laugh and remain lighthearted because discussion never get too deep or personal and if they do, well they don't last for hours, ect.
There is more to me than what just meets the eye!!!
Therefore I think we shouldn't talk butter about anyone or generalize until we know someone from top to bottom.
Posted by LibraSidPosted by little_sparrow
Men are pretty much the same around the world. They play with pointy sticks, brew beer and play practical jokes. Women do all the real work.
This has to be one of the funniest things I have read in quite some time. I have a very literal mind and read things like this as they were a cartoon strip.
Good stuff.click to expand
hee. Yeah. I know. That is why it always stuck with me. 🙂
I just know somewhere, there is a dissertation comparing tribal beers from around the world. Oh academia, how I love you.
Posted by ScorpSage
Wow...guys what is all the angst about...I value FemmeScorp advice...I think that we all go through rough patches, we just need to be tolerant of one another! Life is really too short to hate, reject or blame one another!!!
I truly appreciate both guys and girls opinions in friendships! Actually having been in all girls school elementary and high school it took me quite some time to make guy friends..like it was more around college years. But it is only now that I truly appreciate being around guys the most.
Here we go:
I enjoy my girl friends because there is this sisterhood thing where you can talk about nonsense things such as makeup, fashion, gossip till death does us part...lol, shopping, manicures and pedicures, talk about guys, dissect every single detail about someone or an event, ect.
I enjoy my guy friends because I get to be rough around them...go to the gym with them, play sports, talk about cars and video games, plan friendly beer dates, go for a jog, foul talking, laugh and remain lighthearted because discussion never get too deep or personal and if they do, well they don't last for hours, ect.
There is more to me than what just meets the eye!!!
Therefore I think we shouldn't talk butter about anyone or generalize until we know someone from top to bottom.
You are still young. When you hit your thirties, chances are you will value women much differently than you do now. In a good way. 🙂
Hold up,I post this thread to show gratitude to the men of this forum. And its turn into a slagging match.
Some ppl really need to get over their hatred.lol
Some ppl really need to get over their hatred.lol
Libra males are pretty awesome, I do have to admit myself, but no need to bash Libra females cause were pretty awesome too!
I am Libra/sun with scorp/rising....
Guy Friends are good for:
Insestivity to being made fun of (I have a fiesty sense of humor); Good dick and fart jokes; giving them advice about girl problems is always fun; the dynamic in being able to control men is definately there (through sexual innuendos, ect), which is fun, if your a single woman, and coniving, lol; giving advice from the "mans prospective"(flexes arms in deep voice)on relationships; I like to debate politics, dating advice, relationships, ect, men are usually better at doing this with no "hard feelings"
Girl friends are good for:
Talking nails, hair, ect; if they are wiser, giving better relationship advise than any man could ever give, this is because they know where you are coming from as a woman, and they will give you advise that will help you stay true to your self and your intentions; bonding with if you are in a relationship with another man; venting (without thiking your crazy, or being accused of being on "that time of the month")
To each their own, I say, they are both good for different reasons... a good balance of male and female prospectives is the best of both worlds if you ask me.
I am Libra/sun with scorp/rising....
Guy Friends are good for:
Insestivity to being made fun of (I have a fiesty sense of humor); Good dick and fart jokes; giving them advice about girl problems is always fun; the dynamic in being able to control men is definately there (through sexual innuendos, ect), which is fun, if your a single woman, and coniving, lol; giving advice from the "mans prospective"(flexes arms in deep voice)on relationships; I like to debate politics, dating advice, relationships, ect, men are usually better at doing this with no "hard feelings"
Girl friends are good for:
Talking nails, hair, ect; if they are wiser, giving better relationship advise than any man could ever give, this is because they know where you are coming from as a woman, and they will give you advise that will help you stay true to your self and your intentions; bonding with if you are in a relationship with another man; venting (without thiking your crazy, or being accused of being on "that time of the month")
To each their own, I say, they are both good for different reasons... a good balance of male and female prospectives is the best of both worlds if you ask me.
Angeleyes....alot of what you said are spot on....but i find sometimes/most times female friends tell you what you want to hear.
For example....when i was having issues with mr libra,ill tell my girl mates and they will side with me. However when am on good terms with him they are fine with him.
Where as my guy friends opinion have not really changed....what they thought at the start remained the same.
And i can speak to my male friends about anything except nails,lip gloss shade.However my guys friends would be happy to talk about hair,relationship and fashion with me.
And may i add they are all straight.
For example....when i was having issues with mr libra,ill tell my girl mates and they will side with me. However when am on good terms with him they are fine with him.
Where as my guy friends opinion have not really changed....what they thought at the start remained the same.
And i can speak to my male friends about anything except nails,lip gloss shade.However my guys friends would be happy to talk about hair,relationship and fashion with me.
And may i add they are all straight.
I get what you are saying about the female friends "telling you what you want to hear" I have had plenty of those, I valued those friendships still because they are the friends who will have your back in any situation. So long as they arent the type to agree with you and then turn around and gossip, dump those like a bad habbit or quit your bad habbits, one of the two. It sounds like you dont have many girl friends to choose from that you trust, I have also been there. Just remeber you reap what you sow, set your intentions to be a true girl friend and to find girl friends that will be true to you and it shouldnt be hard to find... it is probably easier than finding true guy friends because "same sex" friends go through the same experiences. And a lot of opposite sex friendships one person wants more than a friendship if ya know what I mean.
Nico and I have had many conversations about this, and his prospective was interesting. If you would like to ask him for advise on male/female friendships.
Your guy friends opinions may not have changed because they don't think on different terms for different situations, they see situations that have one answer and one answer only which is so limited in my opinion. There is no "if this than that" kind of scenario with a lot of guys, luckily I found one that does have that prospective, and he is not only my best friend but my lover, so he does have sexual intentions for me, lol ;p
Every person you encounter is valuable in some way, whether it be you woshiping their every move or learning the type of people you want to steer clear of. Its good to have a balance of advise from both male/female perspectives.
Nico and I have had many conversations about this, and his prospective was interesting. If you would like to ask him for advise on male/female friendships.
Your guy friends opinions may not have changed because they don't think on different terms for different situations, they see situations that have one answer and one answer only which is so limited in my opinion. There is no "if this than that" kind of scenario with a lot of guys, luckily I found one that does have that prospective, and he is not only my best friend but my lover, so he does have sexual intentions for me, lol ;p
Every person you encounter is valuable in some way, whether it be you woshiping their every move or learning the type of people you want to steer clear of. Its good to have a balance of advise from both male/female perspectives.
Posted by sdgafPosted by LisaLeo
ugh, reality check.
mmmnope. the reason you have more male friends is cause the women tend to be more socially skilled, smell your act and call it for what it is right away. males are more naive.
So you created a thread to ask for advice huh. yet you didnt ask any. you bash people. and then you nominated some, excluded others and flattered the ones who could be more useful. Nothing new, its from the roman times, divide et impera.
I reacted because your behaviour around dxp got so hypocritical it's not even funny and I thought maybe you'd learn and change a bit. it's honestly to your advantage, cause ppl tend to avoid that kind of games playing attitude. Oh, since you seem to appreciate being praised I won't waste any more of our time ...
BS.
Your jealousy is becoming more and more transparent.
This is how a Leo acts .. when he/she isn't under the spotlight.
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jealousy yes, the Leo part no (Im not your average Leo and the craving for attention thing ..hahah, luckily I never had it.
Im probably bitter cause I never realized how easy and efficient these mind games are, always passed by them, took them as being under my standards. I was wrong.
still, as angeleyes says, what you sow you shall reap.. I can't expect femmescorp to actually get the message if I pack it this way ...so since I don't have the patience to pack (fakeness maade me cringe) Im just gonna keep quiet about it 🙂
I just wanted to help Lisa Leo, I see what you are saying about not having the patience I've been there too. I too cringed when I read the original posts made, but then I realized that The people who come off as the "strongest" usually need the most advice, and there is no point to post mean comments about her post, other than to stir more needless drama, (may not have been your intention.)
I didn't have much to do today anyway. so what the hay. why not try and help somboday. lol (ive been reading too many dr. suess books, ive got rhymes, trust me i couldve gone on, figured id spare all of you,) Did I mention I am somewhat of a dork?
I didn't have much to do today anyway. so what the hay. why not try and help somboday. lol (ive been reading too many dr. suess books, ive got rhymes, trust me i couldve gone on, figured id spare all of you,) Did I mention I am somewhat of a dork?
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However from my experience i found i got better advice from the libra males of this forum.
The female libra's on the other hand tends to tell you how much of a cookie monster,treetrunking,mind gamer,etc etc you are.
Now who wants to hear all that rubbish when you are at you nadir!! I sure dont.
Obviously they are exception to the rules for example Spica,little sparrow,corkie(not sure if i got the spelling right)tend to give very good advice when they are not caught up in the drama.
In my personal life i tend to have more male friends and thats because i find men tend to tell you how it is,they dont bitch and dont sugar coat to spare your feelings.
So just a huge shout out to all the men, who takes THE time out the be our AGONY UNCLES. THANK U!!
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