Need insight on this libra sun, cap moon, libra Venus man!!

I went through the libra forum & it looks like I’m not the only one thrown off by this sign, but here’s my situation;

I’ve known this libra guy for over 3 years. We had a very stagnant friendship while he was in a long term on/off relationship with an Aries that ended about 2 months ago. We reconnected about a week after they broke up.

Things were going well between us for about 2 weeks. We were having very lighthearted & friendly conversations, he was loving on a lot of my texts (in iPhone you can love/like text messages) then all of a sudden, he started to grow cold. He told me in the beginning when we first reconnected, that he really appreciated me wanting to be there for him during this transition in his life.

So a couple weeks ago, he shared something on social media that was not very beneficial to the people who looked up to him & I let him know this. It threw me off because he’s normally very mindful of what he shares on social media in general. Not from a space of getting on his case, but to look out for him. After that conversation where he had a very “I don’t care” attitude which threw me off, I sent him a message letting him know where I stood & being very honest with what my intentions were in regards to the friendship & I never heard back.

Just recently, I sent him a friend request on Facebook. Keep in mind, this is a couple weeks after no interaction. Not only did he accept the request, but he liked one of my posts about going after your goals & dreams & also viewed my stories. Yet he won’t respond to my recent text message that I sent last night where I let him know that I wasn’t ignoring him & that I hope he’s doing ok.

So I’ll admit, I am confused some.

I have a son who is a sun & moon Capricorn so I know that Caps tend to internalize a lot of what they feel. With this guy being a Cap moon also, I’m sure there’s some of that going on here.

But the Libra side! As I mentioned, he’s a libra sun & Venus.

Why accept my friend request & interact with my social media if you can’t respond to a text?

Maybe with me being a Taurus & having Aries in my Mercury & Venus I know I tend to be very direct & honest with my thoughts & feelings. Sometimes I expect that from others too, even though I’ve learned you can’t always do that.

Can any Libras out there be willing to offer insight?

hmm sounds like he is happy to be facebook friends and not much more.

you're quite judgemental aren't you?

I didn’t realize accepting a fb friend request meant you have to respond to that persons text. Must’ve missed the fine print on that one..

I’d say not to freak out over a lack of response on a text. Some people forget to text back. Or maybe he just isn’t into texting. Or maybe he just needed you for the ego boost post breakup and now that he’s feeling more himself your usefulness to him has ended.

Either way, time will tell.

Posted by blvckphvse

Didn't even have to read past the first few sentences.. A week after ending his relationship, he just wants attention and knows you will give it to him. If you want something real, you don't go for a guy fresh out of a relationship.. smh

I never said I was going for him, lol why so quick to jump to conclusions? You don’t know where I’m an in my life in regards to how I feel about relationships, if been through something very similar, honest connections are where I’m at first & foremost. As a Taurus, that’s where my values lie. So I told him from the beginning I wanted to be supportive of his process since I could relate. We’ve had a strained friendship over the years & I've expected nothing from him. I do care, he knows this but regardless of who you are if I consider you a friend, I’m willing to be present for you. If you had read my entire post, that would’ve been more clear. I was just trying to get a better understanding from the sign perspective, why someone who was very happy to have the friendship again all of a sudden became super silent & mysterious.

Posted by LadyNeptune

I didn’t realize accepting a fb friend request meant you have to respond to that persons text. Must’ve missed the fine print on that one..

I didn’t text him right after we connected on facebook. We hadn’t texted for a couple weeks when we were regularly before. I texted him like a day later letting him know that I wasn’t ignoring him.

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Posted by Celisse

I went through the libra forum & it looks like I’m not the only one thrown off by this sign, but here’s my situation;

I’ve known this libra guy for over 3 years. We had a very stagnant friendship while he was in a long term on/off relationship with an Aries that ended about 2 months ago. We reconnected about a week after they broke up.

Things were going well between us for about 2 weeks. We were having very lighthearted & friendly conversations, he was loving on a lot of my texts (in iPhone you can love/like text messages) then all of a sudden, he started to grow cold. He told me in the beginning when we first reconnected, that he really appreciated me wanting to be there for him during this transition in his life.

So a couple weeks ago, he shared something on social media that was not very beneficial to the people who looked up to him & I let him know this. It threw me off because he’s normally very mindful of what he shares on social media in general. Not from a space of getting on his case, but to look out for him. After that conversation where he had a very “I don’t care” attitude which threw me off, I sent him a message letting him know where I stood & being very honest with what my intentions were in regards to the friendship & I never heard back.

Just recently, I sent him a friend request on Facebook. Keep in mind, this is a couple weeks after no interaction. Not only did he accept the request, but he liked one of my posts about going after your goals & dreams & also viewed my stories. Yet he won’t respond to my recent text message that I sent last night where I let him know that I wasn’t ignoring him & that I hope he’s doing ok.

So I’ll admit, I am confused some.

I have a son who is a sun & moon Capricorn so I know that Caps tend to internalize a lot of what they feel. With this guy being a Cap moon also, I’m sure there’s some of that going on here.

But the Libra side! As I mentioned, he’s a libra sun & Venus.

Why accept my friend request & interact with my social media if you can’t respond to a text?

Maybe with me being a Taurus & having Aries in my Mercury & Venus I know I tend to be very direct & honest with my thoughts & feelings. Sometimes I expect that from others too, even though I’ve learned you can’t always do that.

Can any Libras out there be willing to offer insight?

I believe you shot yourself in the foot with the social media conversation. I'm very independent myself and hate to be restrained from doing want I want. Coupled with that and his recent breakup he seems to be ok with being friendly but leery of a romance and changed his mind....

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Never said I was going after a romance with him right off the bat, lol. Not sure why everyone is making that assumption. 🤔

Hes probably sad because his relationship ended I'm a libra sun and venus too but with Taurus moon.

Didn't read past the title.

Moon Square Venus... difficult men to satisfy. Look it up.

Libras laugh at desperate thirsty things. We flirt for fun and hate being trapped or even better reprimanded.

I don’t know about the Venus in Libra but My father has a libra sun and Capricorn moon, so I’ll speak to that.

He’s a quiet person and doesn’t like to be pushed. Not sure what your sign is, but given your response, you’ve probably got one of the masculine signs (Aquarius, Aries etc). Libras are feminine signs. Taking gender equality out of the equation you have to remember those dynamics.

There was nothing wrong with what you said and I applaud you for speaking your mind. But to him, he probably felt: you didn’t need to say it, didn’t have the authority/right to say it, and he didn’t like the way you said it.

So now you’re in chopping block mode. He’s not ready to cut you off because he might view you as his potential next date, but you fucked up in his mind. Hence the cracked open door mindset.

I also will say this...friendship? 🤔 if that was the case, you wouldn’t have bothered to look up his Venus! Venus is for love. If it was a friendship thing, Mercury would be more important since that’s his thought process.

OP- you like him. And that’s totally ok. But you can’t cover those feelings in a pretend friendship.

My best advice would be to cool the energy. We can sometimes get caught up in our emotions and not realize, especially when we have a sign that’s masculine and double the case when it’s in our moon, that we are putting out “pushy” energy.

You haven’t earned the right to critique him yet. And he’s already raw coming out of a relationship with an aries.

I’d suggest backing off a bit, get back to the light heartiness for a while and keeping, unless it’s a serious violation, your more serious thoughts to yourself. He’s going through a process of the ending of a relationship. Libras don’t like to be alone and love and need relationships. So you have to keep all this in mind with timing.

Good luck OP! 🤗