Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Celisse
I went through the libra forum & it looks like I’m not the only one thrown off by this sign, but here’s my situation;
I’ve known this libra guy for over 3 years. We had a very stagnant friendship while he was in a long term on/off relationship with an Aries that ended about 2 months ago. We reconnected about a week after they broke up.
Things were going well between us for about 2 weeks. We were having very lighthearted & friendly conversations, he was loving on a lot of my texts (in iPhone you can love/like text messages) then all of a sudden, he started to grow cold. He told me in the beginning when we first reconnected, that he really appreciated me wanting to be there for him during this transition in his life.
So a couple weeks ago, he shared something on social media that was not very beneficial to the people who looked up to him & I let him know this. It threw me off because he’s normally very mindful of what he shares on social media in general. Not from a space of getting on his case, but to look out for him. After that conversation where he had a very “I don’t care” attitude which threw me off, I sent him a message letting him know where I stood & being very honest with what my intentions were in regards to the friendship & I never heard back.
Just recently, I sent him a friend request on Facebook. Keep in mind, this is a couple weeks after no interaction. Not only did he accept the request, but he liked one of my posts about going after your goals & dreams & also viewed my stories. Yet he won’t respond to my recent text message that I sent last night where I let him know that I wasn’t ignoring him & that I hope he’s doing ok.
So I’ll admit, I am confused some.
I have a son who is a sun & moon Capricorn so I know that Caps tend to internalize a lot of what they feel. With this guy being a Cap moon also, I’m sure there’s some of that going on here.
But the Libra side! As I mentioned, he’s a libra sun & Venus.
Why accept my friend request & interact with my social media if you can’t respond to a text?
Maybe with me being a Taurus & having Aries in my Mercury & Venus I know I tend to be very direct & honest with my thoughts & feelings. Sometimes I expect that from others too, even though I’ve learned you can’t always do that.
Can any Libras out there be willing to offer insight?
I believe you shot yourself in the foot with the social media conversation. I'm very independent myself and hate to be restrained from doing want I want. Coupled with that and his recent breakup he seems to be ok with being friendly but leery of a romance and changed his mind....click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptune
I didn’t realize accepting a fb friend request meant you have to respond to that persons text. Must’ve missed the fine print on that one..
Posted by blvckphvse
Didn't even have to read past the first few sentences.. A week after ending his relationship, he just wants attention and knows you will give it to him. If you want something real, you don't go for a guy fresh out of a relationship.. smh