I usually have no problems analyzing a situation, but this one continues to stump me. My ex (jerk Libra) pops up at my job the other day. Wants to hug and find out if I'm ok. He got a dry hello and hug and I told him I was great. I asked what was he doing here? He said he was on vacation and wanted to see me. He said he called earlier and left a message. So he decided to stop by. He continued to stare at me and then said "what did you do ? you look guilty." i have no reason to be guilty about anything, remember i have no boyfriend." he was like whatever stop playing and call me later. i went back in to work and checked my messages. the message said i don't know why you are not taking or returning my calls. i'm by your job.i did not call him at all. last night i got a text asking was i still mad at him and he was sorry for whatever he did and would i call him. i did no such thing. what the heck is going on with this guy? he's gorgeous so i know he can't be lonely and sex he can get from anywhere. this crap is baffling my aquarius mind and putting a damper on my energy. can somebody tell me something?
Need More Help Please!!!!

HE is just as guilty as what he is trying to tell you
OR - HE knew now what he really wants
AND - HE could be in love!
What you have to do — Take it easy, dont jump into it
Careful......
( OR follow your heart )
OR - HE knew now what he really wants
AND - HE could be in love!
What you have to do — Take it easy, dont jump into it
Careful......
( OR follow your heart )
i love is not in the air. i told him he was inconsiderate of everyone's feeling but his own (via text message). later i texted and semi apologized for my comment but i also added "you're only being you" so he called me super pissed and said when you act like a B***** i don't say you're only being you do i? don't call me no more and hung up. (that was the first time we talked in weeks) so needless to say i deleted and blocked his number from my phone.
he is silly. he just drained my energy with his negativity. i'll look at this as a learning experience. thanks for the feedback.

I'm probably getting your guy mixed up with someone else's, but isn't he the one who said he would want you to have an abortion if you got pregnant—
that's him.
Aww man.....hmmm lets see he was on vacation—was it a mental vacation he sounds like a fruitcake!
Actually here is the deal..we libras think we RULE the world! When we walk away from a relationship first which is what we do most of the time....it is so we have the option to come back! Most Libras are control freaks in that dept! I walked away so it is up to me to come back.....if you came back and I walked away well that is really just pathetic I mean maybe at first its appealing because of the ego stroking but after that well it is just pathetic and unattractive! So when he decided to come back you were supposed to be thankful drop everything you were doing and step into his world....trust me I do this all the time! LMAO I'm working at changing!
Actually here is the deal..we libras think we RULE the world! When we walk away from a relationship first which is what we do most of the time....it is so we have the option to come back! Most Libras are control freaks in that dept! I walked away so it is up to me to come back.....if you came back and I walked away well that is really just pathetic I mean maybe at first its appealing because of the ego stroking but after that well it is just pathetic and unattractive! So when he decided to come back you were supposed to be thankful drop everything you were doing and step into his world....trust me I do this all the time! LMAO I'm working at changing!
Hmmm there certainly are some very unattractive traits within Libra=land.....libragyrl you really described that well because its so true...you can walk away and it can be months and months down the track, then pop up like nothing ever happened and expect that same person whom you crushed without a moments' thought or empathy to just embrace you with open arms...argghhhh!!!!
baby76, I think you'd be mad to drop anything for this guy....he's clearly very unstable...afterall, who on earth expects a woman to use abortion as a form of contraception?? that's just disgusting and degrading!! Let's just hope that you can't remember his number to go and add it back on....
Ive seen some stories on here about Libras and mine certainly wasnt anything to be happy about but sheesh, yours wins the prize!!
baby76, I think you'd be mad to drop anything for this guy....he's clearly very unstable...afterall, who on earth expects a woman to use abortion as a form of contraception?? that's just disgusting and degrading!! Let's just hope that you can't remember his number to go and add it back on....
Ive seen some stories on here about Libras and mine certainly wasnt anything to be happy about but sheesh, yours wins the prize!!
sorry guys it took so long to respond. my computer crashed tragically. he is a nut. i thought about that after our first episode and he came back like everything was great. i will not be adding that number back into my phone seriously. i just look at this as a learning experience and hope my next relationship will not be with a resident of the coo coo's nest.
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