Libra guy intense!

This topic was created in the Libra forum by AnnoyedCancer on Sunday, May 4, 2008 and has 15 replies.

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@AnnoyedCancer
19 YearsCancer

So this guy sends me a message, very nice, and I respond.
Next day he sends another, I respond.
Third day he asks for my number.
I dont respond, cause this guy is alittle intense.
And he sends another message, worried that he did something wrong.
I respond saying no, and I give it to him.
Is this normal in a Libra?

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@AnnoyedCancer
19 YearsCancer

And why not?
I find it, as I said, that its actually refreshing. 🙂
Maybe in the long run?
Lemme ask, how long does it usually take for them to drop a line? 😄

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

I respond saying no, and I give it to him.
Is this normal in a Libra?
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Oh it's very normal IF they are interested in you to the point of being that intense. But hey, just see where it goes. I have the feeling that SOMETHING inside you wanted him to have your number & that "Something" is something you may not figure out until you two actually talk & see where all this attraction (even if it's one-sided) is coming from. And yes, I definetely agree, Libras & Cancers normally don't work. Instead of us telling you why, I think you should learn this one all by yourself.

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@AnnoyedCancer
19 YearsCancer

Well, I just found it flattering is all lol.
And he is very good looking!
He called today, (which is wierd, most guys follow that 2-3 day rule...crap.)
Talked for a little, he said he was going to take his dad out to eat.
Which I totally thought was sweet, cause family is VERY important to me.
And asked if he could call me later, I said, whatever you like.
He says, "Oh no, I dont want to make you think I'm pushy." ? HUH?
And I said, its ok. It wouldnt look that way to me.
Hmmm dunno...no call yet. And its 9.
Guess I'm just excited for something new. 🙂

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@AnnoyedCancer
19 YearsCancer

I was told that they are very flirty.
And that cancers are jealous?
Not me, I am insanely possesive.
Which to me, is worse lol.
But I am also very flirty, and wouldnt they have a problem with it too?
Krysrenee7 are you a libra?

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@thelibran
20 Years1,000+ Posts

((ummm...how do YOU know it's not gonna work?))

I myself have gone through a few experiments and whatever they all mention matches exactly the same. Its a turn off once we begin to have face to face conversations. Libra might try to stick in for the sex part. But not otherwise.

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@AnnoyedCancer
19 YearsCancer

I've been talking to him on the phone.
Seems pretty down to earth to me, I can play around with him.
Some quiet parts, tiny, but it seems fine to me.
I guess later on?

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@jinggay
18 Years

The way I think a libra/cancer relationship would work is to learn to play along.
I have tried it... be deep...mysterious...do not let them know everything about you.
The things that you do all the time. Let him find it out. He loves finding out more
of the person you are. Leave a gray matter up top.

If he feels detach, detach yourself as well. But feel the air, if you think he needs
someone to talk to start conversing about themselves. Tell them, if they need someone to talk to you are there. Everytime they feel a need to talk, the only person that will pop
up in their minds is your name. That is comfort. They need this because they are restless.

I dont know...but this is how we are working... not everyone has the same character...
But there's no harm in trying especially if you really want to get inside them....

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@AnnoyedCancer
19 YearsCancer

Ohhh! Good! Lol cause I don't let things slip easily.
You guys are wayy too helpful :]
If you guys need to know anything about cancers, I will be more than happy to respond! :]
Also, he didn't call yesterday.
And since it doesn't hurt to try, I thought about sending him the same mesage he sent me.
Ill send "hey gorgeous, how is your week going?"
Sound good? Or too pushy?