New man, a Libra

I am a taurus girl just started dating a libra man. We've been dating a month. It started out great with romantic dates and messages, but after 2 weeks the messages became few and far between as did the dates. When i do see him he talks about how much he likes me and wants to be with me, but then he goes a week without messaging. Is this a Libra trait, should i believe what he says, right now i feel it's all talk and no action. We recently made our relationship official but i still don't feel secure (must be a taurus thing) because to me his words seem empty. Basicly i feel there is insincerity in his words, that he's not that into me but thinks sweet talk will make me happy.

just to add, he doesn't call or message when he says he will. I leave it for a few days, then message him, he then does not reply until the next day if i'm lucky. I confronted him about it and he said he was busy, in my experience you are never too busy to pick up the phone and tell someone you miss them or to say hi. I can't help but feeling i'm being strung alone, but he absolutely swears this is not the case. So confused.

Thanks, i did text him and confronted him about it, he said he had a lot of stuff going on. Fine, i understand that. but now we are official (his words) and he's gone away for a few weeks, so we can't keep in contact. he said he would call to say goodbye before he left, he didn't. It's not the first time he said he'll do something and not follow through. My question is am i over reacting or is he not into me?

Glad i'm not the only one who thinks that.
Guess i'll have to see what happens when he gets back.
Maybe abscence will make the heart grow fonder, or it will fizzle into nothing.

The typical libra is not very good with obligations. They find it stifling to report their whereabouts all the time. They are more a fan of spontaneity. But then again he just wants to be free while partnered. Or maybe he's that rude irresponsible boy who'll never grow up

Go with God fellow Taurus.

sounds familliar with my libra ex.... all talk, no action. :/

I have a question about a libra male...I met him online we talked for a week and he was calling everyday and everything was great. He told me he usually doesnt date big girls but really loved my personality and knew I was working on my fitness so it seemed that it didnt bother him. Leading up to the week that we were suppose to meet I had to contact hi everyday and he would ignore me. Thursday came and he asked me to come but we had made plans for friday and I already had plans on thursday night and I thought he did also. I texted him friday morning about what time I should come and he was like I don't know if I will have time today. I flipped out and in the end I ended up going to his house and we made out and other stuff no sex and I stayed over and left the next morning. He said he would call later never did I asked him what he thought of me he said he was busy. I texted sunday and saw that he was back on the online dating and before that he had told me that I was all he wanted and that he found his wife and that I shouldnt go back online because hes my hbby now. I confronted him about being online and he was like he was sleeping all day and this is the reason that he doesnt want to be with me because I always assume that hes doing something and he was like as of last week I became unattracted to you, you text and call to much when I was just feeling off of his vibe. Then come to find out he lied about a lot of different things. Anyhow I am still upset about the situation and not really sure if he was into me or did he really just play me.

I actually agree with suninx. Libras on/off switch is crushing to someone who demands and requires stability.

Posted by taurus8419m
We've been dating a month. After 2 weeks the messages became few and far between as did the dates. He goes a week without messaging.

Read that, without the blah blah blah around it. Is it clear yet? No? Let me spell it out.

You BARELY know each other, you are practically strangers.. what kind of "security" are you looking for here, from a stranger? If what you are looking for is consistency, stability, unwavering attention.. he ALREADY SHOWED YOU ONLY TWO WEEKS IN, while people are on their best shiny and impressive behaviors.. that he's not willing/capable of giving you that. Which is odd -- Libras tend to go ALL OUT in the first month or two.

Slow your roll, girl. Slow down and DATE this guy and get to know him to BUILD security. And wtf are you so focused on a guy you've been dating for a minute, expecting some deeply fulfilling and magically awesome secure relationship in a MONTH? Loosen the stranglehold, state your needs and expectations clearly, and if he still gives you consistently bad or neglectful treatment, cut him loose BEFORE you get hooked further.

Also, stop fucking guys you haven't dated very long. Sex hormones obviously tangle you up into a needy little mess of insecurity and hidden expectations. And don't tell me you ain't knocking boots.. no chick who is just casually dating a guy with no sex gets THIS fucked up over him not calling. Unless she's just a psycho.

HAHAHAHAHA Keep them big ol' eyes far FAR away from me!

Wow...ok well thanks for the comments some were helpful others crushing. That being said it is helpful to hear the good and the bad. You're right it has not been that long so why am i freaking out. Well i guess i dated a Cap guy who had pretty much the same behaviour and i let it be only to discover that he had made a complete fool of me, so forgive me if i seem like a psycho controlling, insecure cow, i'm not particularly fond of being fooled twice. So i guess this me trying to figure out if i should jump ship now. So yes i'm going to back off and see where the wind blows.

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Posted by venusianbull
HAHAHAHAHA Keep them big ol' eyes far FAR away from me!

LMAO, you Bulls.. I should have iterated that when a Taurus is happy in love (or happy in general), they are the most beautiful people to know, bar none. I've an affinity with you people.. As harsh as I sound, it's all about endearment. You are the true Venusians. 🙂

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And I find Libra to be witty, generous and kind. Just not for me. Two bombed attempts sir, no more. Full court press then *beginning strains of 'Smoke On The Water'* LOL Nah. 🙂

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Posted by venusianbull
HAHAHAHAHA Keep them big ol' eyes far FAR away from me!

LMAO, you Bulls.. I should have iterated that when a Taurus is happy in love (or happy in general), they are the most beautiful people to know, bar none. I've an affinity with you people.. As harsh as I sound, it's all about endearment. You are the true Venusians. 🙂

And I find Libra to be witty, generous and kind. Just not for me. Two bombed attempts sir, no more. Full court press then *beginning strains of 'Smoke On The Water'* LOL Nah. 🙂

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My first two attempts with Libras were dismal failures.. nice guys, GREAT guys.. not enough common ground. Third time, I lucked out and got one with a Virgo Moon and Cap Rising, to mesh with my Taurus underneath.

Ok so update. You were all correct. He was not into me and has now met someone else. He did not bother to tell me, just ignored me for weeks until i finally messaged him asked him what's up and he said he had met someone else. There we go. Thanks to all for your help.

I am a Libra myself and sorry to say at times almost all of these traits true at times and i have never had a short relationship and it never really is until six months in i find my stepping where i am comfy and know its going somewhere. I myself fall to these faults its just who we Libras are sadly and we mostly know of these faults until someone says something which my girlfriend which is now my ex of six plus years did but my situation was different in the way that in the end my ex became board of her whole life and just walked away from everything including me. Try having a deep talk with him about his actions and tell him about how you have felt sometimes you have to set aside the signs and have an intervention blows but it will either pop him back into reality or you will find that it isn't going to work out. Personally I find it odd that he or any person for that matter would say he will message you and not do so till the next day and that would make me question his loyalty to you.

ok so update, this guy wants to see me again. After we broke up i did not message him, nothing. Once we are through we are through. So imagine my surprise when 3 weeks later i get not one, but a few messages from this guy. Apparently he wants to try again. Whatever it is i'm not giving him the time of day, and i've made it pretty clear. I'm just stumped by the audacity. Anyway, is this how Libra men are, unbelievable.

He wants the sexxx! Or he just beat his current video game and is bored again... But yes, yes we are unbelievable