Ok, get this Libra guy wants a threesome

My libra Guy friend how I think is cool wants a threesome, with a girl he is talking to and her friend, I asked him about the girl he is talking to, and he told me at times he does screw up with plans but he won't do a threesome if the girl he is talking won't do it.... So I asked him does he want her friend , he tells me no, I asked did the girl asked you if u want her friend, he says yes, but he told her he doesn't want the friend he just wants to try a threesome cause he had never done it.

I asked my libra friend does he keep asking her for the threesome, he says yes, in which I told him that he is wrong for asking her, for the fact that he keeps messing up doing things for the girl he is talking to, if u have made a foundation with this girl how do u expect her to agree with a threesome, unless u want the friend, which makes no sense to me, he tells me that he won't do it unless the girl wants to, but yet he keeps asking the girl when can they do it

What do u guys think about this, cause it seems to me like he wants the friend but doesn't want to hurt the girls feelings.....the reason why I say that is because he did mention that he want to have sex with the girl and her friend but was afraid to ask her because he didn't want to hurt the girls feelings, which to me means he wants the friend or at less have sex with her, so I asked the girl did she offer to hook up libra and her friend she tells me she in fact try'd as soon as he asked her, and he said no, she offered 2 times because of the request, she states she doesn't understand why he wants a threesome when he sometimes screws up and they are not bf and gf yet

This post confuses me. :/

Hey Rocky



Tell me bout it, I more confused than ever and he wants my advice, but I don't get how he is talking to this girl, but wants to have a threesome with her and her friend, I have no clue how to help him, cause I don't share

Posted by libraCUSPscorpio
Men are pigs lol

Speak the truth girl, speak it

Posted by tiziani
It is possible to want it without having any desires for the third person.

It has to do with wanting to learn about your girl and your relationship.

He probably picked the friend in mind because he feels this is the girl that his girlfriend would be most comfortable to express herself with and let go of inhibitions.

As long as he explains his desires transparently and never pressures her, then if she cares for their relationship enough she will understand.

But it's a long road and many pitfalls of miscommunication along the way.

I get that, but they are not bf and gf yet tho
Plus he does ask her when can they do it, I just don't understand how he can want that from her if he hasn't commit to her, can't say I don't blame the girl for trying to hook him up with her friend, because he sometimes does screw up plans with her and hangout with friends, that a libra trait I'm afraid

I could have sworn libra don't want to share the person they are trying to get to know

Is that even wife material to do a threesome?

So do u think the girl should give him a threesome even tho they are not bf and gf


Or do u think that my libra friend want the third party ?

Thought I'd chime in here.

Just given the story you've given us there's seriously not information to make and solid speculation. I'll pose it to you like this because from the story I'm getting this vibe they are all in this for sexual experimentation and experience and not for any kind of relationship. The 'girl' seems to be the point of contact and that he just wants to make sure she's fully on board with this before partaking in the threesome.

Posted by tiziani
"But he won't do a threesome if the girl he is talking won't do it"

I think this is a dead giveway that he likes the girl. And not the third party. He probably just feels the girl will be more comfortable to get freaky with the third party and not intimidated.

But it's possible that he also like the idea of having a threesome more than the girl.

He should just relax, and realise if she likes him enough... it will come. Never pressure anyone into anything. Or repeat yourself. Once you've stated your case, that's it. Let it be and what will happen will happen.

O I see, but I agree him keep asking her is a bit much, I don't see why he doesn't just make it official with this girl he is talking to

I guess since the girl offered the friend to him and he said no, I gotta respect that if it's true, but he did in fact keep telling me that he won't do the threesome without her involved, do that was interesting

True on him wanting the threesome more than the girl, never seen him so excited to try it, good lord

But still why not commit to her, but he wants a threesome from her, isn't that backwards?

This guy is 41, and I've been trying to get his azz in gear about trusting people, and giving that girl a chance, it's just funny how he wants something from her, but yet can't commit, or do what he says he is going to do with this girl, i told him he has to prove himself to her, can't expect her to agree to a threesome if u keep f******* up right?

Posted by tiziani
Haha I mean it's really between them two to decide those kinds of things.

But I was just surprised at finding out he's 41. jeez.

Yeah I guess it comes to shows time isn't a requirement for emotional maturity. Though it would make more sense if he was in a committed relationship for a long time and now he's out of it and for some reason decides to experiment *shrugs*

btw Nikki are you close with this Libra?

Yup, 41

If I were her, I'd turn him loose, how can u want a threesome without commitment, then u keep asking her for one, the man spends more time with me and my friends than he does with her, but I've known him for years, he like my brother, but to me, I get that he doesn't want to do it without the chick, but dam, he does not have his priorities together sometimes

If men are pigs then isn't this thread pointless? Just let your friend go off and be a pig *shrugs*

I must say u guys rock 🙂

Lmao


Good lord, maybe I need Jesus

Posted by TaurusNikki
Hey Rocky



Tell me bout it, I more confused than ever and he wants my advice, but I don't get how he is talking to this girl, but wants to have a threesome with her and her friend, I have no clue how to help him, cause I don't share

I meant the post itself. I had a hard time following what was going on other than he wanted a threesome with some girl's friend.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by TaurusNikki
Hey Rocky



Tell me bout it, I more confused than ever and he wants my advice, but I don't get how he is talking to this girl, but wants to have a threesome with her and her friend, I have no clue how to help him, cause I don't share

I meant the post itself. I had a hard time following what was going on other than he wanted a threesome with some girl's friend.

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My libra guy friend wants a threesome with the girl he is talking to, and wants to do it with her friend, the girl he is talking to is wondering why does he want a threesome with her and her friend, he says she is sexy like her, but my libra friend doesn't really spent time with her and she is not the girlfriend, so my libra friend says he won't do the threesome with her friend without the girl he is talking to, now the girl he is talking to is thinking he wants her friend instead of her, so she has try'd to hook them up, but my libra friend says he doesnt want to hook up with her friend he just wants to try the threesome with the both of them, but yet he keeps asking the girl he is talking to about when can they do it, which to me seems a bit much considering that that are not gf and bf