Part II

I really am confused-- Im back so like a dodo I text him r we cool? nothing..everything ok..nothing? I want to ravish you..nothing? I am very girly and hot and we were great together--he said I was a player-- so he thought-- so I showed him an interest...and I know he is working a lot ..so finally I e mail him with--

I dont want to be intrusive, but I don't know many folks here, and don't want to alienate the few I do know -- I realize that I may have appeared to show more of interest lately...and your schedule may not be able to accommodate....but, it is a small world...and I think your fun-- your brother is cool with my cousin (Prominent lobbyist firm)..and he says you guys are good people -- ( I knew that wld get his attention)

BTW (He does not know we hung out and would prefer to keep it that way). Anyway this DC thing is really quite an adjustment for me... -- Oh! I am not interested in pursuing anything more than a friendship at this time......just want to keep in the loop ...if time permits -- no strings attached. Hope all is well!

His response:
U cool with me...been crazy at work...but let's hang soon.

WTF -- I do not want to be in a relationship with someone like this-- but just wanted some clarity -- Did I show too much of an interests?

move on....He's not that into you, I hear it's tough dating in DC but don't give up but please stop text messaging and emailing a man that is not responding to you, the more you do that your behavior screams desperate (I don't believe you are but when men don't respond it means not into you) If he was truly interested (busy or not) he would reply to you, his hard to get game is OLD (so many men playing this tired ass game) let him move it on, keep your eyes peeled, stay positive, stay on the social scene and most importantly be happy and inevitably a man will find you in DC and you will eventually have yourself a social circle of men that won't play you out like that by ignoring you....If you have to offer him no strings attached fun to get him to respond that says a lot, he's not looking for a relationship with you....most likely he would keep unattached sex on the menu and not much more than that and I'm sure you don't want to chase him to get used for that...unless you do

Well..tiki..ur right..thank you for your response -- I responded to his email -- of ur cool..just busy..lets hang out soon..

with No thanks but thanks in Re: caption

No thank you! just would like to be kept in the loop!

🙂 Finished done -- and if I want to know something socially -- then I will call and ask-- if I dont then I will keep it moving -- !

I am in control again--I thinks its my ego -- not use to a guy just ignoring me-- and I was fine with just sex-- truth is thats all he cld provide-- he had no car...no furniture, no food, no alarm clock - no pictures of his daughter -- too strange for a relationship -- but sex was great!!!

It will be missed but price is too high ..I wld rather import a man -- and I am 🙂

lol wow seems you were dating down, nothing wrong with that, your adults, yet when you were text messaging him numerous times and then followed up with an email that didn't seem like no strings attach behavior that's why he kept it short, he didn't want to say too much to mislead you in any way, I'm sure he figured it wasn't a big deal to respond to you given it was just a no strings attached situation but it's clear as you said it got to your ego.....you did the best thing, move on and if you need some sexual companionship i'm sure he will be available for that other than that it wouldn't make sense to date down with a man whose priorities are off balance...

Good luck in DC d:

hey tiki--lol--sex was decent--but it does not seem like an option---if he is not responding--his responses seem very limited--and as i mentioned i sent a text opening that door and no response---strange--—

ugh. i've been in a similar situation. contacted a guy just to get in touch, and he doesn't respond, and i end up feeling the need to clarify that i'm just saying hi.

which is stupid. it's best to just cut someone off. but then it always seems that they contact you shortly after you decide you want nothing to do with them.

plus it sucks to burn bridges, especially when you don't have many available to you.

this isn't an astrology thing. this is a people thing. that dude is clearly an asshole.

Yea...peeps thanks for support-- what is really treetrunking me---I thought he we cld be friends .... Really not knowing many folks here-- he was very phony--and mislead

Now there's a lesson for you...when a guy wants sex they will pull out all the stops and say anything you want to hear to get it. they will paint themselves out to be the perfect man "for you." Sorry, live and learn!

We all learn the hard way from ass's that do this and it cuts! But hope that you're eye's are a litttle more open next time round.