I have a friend i went to college with and shes a very sweet a polite person just like a typical libra, but she has a tendency to lie about small petty things and it really gets on my nerves :S. Like for example once i was on the phone to her and she said she was working at her office and she then asked me what i was doing. I told her i was sitting on my bed watching some TV, then she said yes me to, and i was like whaaaat?? you said you were in the office. She would then hesitate and say errr errrr yes i have a TV in my office, fair enough i thought what about the bed you have a bed in the office to!!. She would then do a hesistant laugh and change the subject. Another time she went out shopping and we were discussing what kind of clothes she brought so she said she brought a blue and black top, the next week she would come into college with a totally different colour top and say yea this is the top i brought :S This is only a few example i could go on all day with her little lies. I know they are only little lies but why have the need to lie about things like that i really dont get it. I guess its partly my fault for getting so annoyed and effected by it but am an aries i have a quick temper loll 😛. Is this a libra trait? if so why do they do it?
I have wanted to confront her about this for a very long time, but i dont want to hurt her feelings, even though am an aries who is usually blunt i just cant do it, shes got the cutest little face ever and i would hate it if she got sad and embaressed, i already feel embaressed for her as it is :S
lol, it's not her sign, sounds like immaturity - some Libra like to keep a certain image most times depending on who they're dealing with, she may be trying to project certain images with you...
You may wanna stop paying so much attention to her and details, so she won't feel the need to project to you...but as friends, if you do ask her, remove confrontation from your mind...it will be pointless cos she won't admit anything
hmmm, I've noticed this trait in Libras-trying-to-impress or keep peace...they could get realy wrapped in created reality --- the problem is, it may grow to become larger than little white lies. Could be said for most signs though 😕
Virgo_libra i have wanted to blast at her for this for a while but no luck, she has the libra signature smile, shes the kind of person with a perminant smile on her face and she has puppy like eyes, lol ahaha it sounds astho i have a crush on her or something but you get what i mean. How can i tell her 'gently'?
if you decide to tell her, don't tell her like it's a big deal...just wait until she does it again...then just casually mention something like...'erm, I notice you do that a lot, did you know that? are you doing it on purpose?' then...*smile or laugh*...
thanks Zenal, ill try that, just hope it doesnt come out all wrong hehe, lol you wish!!! am straight and have a boyfriend to prove it 😛 who by the way is also a libra..oh dear i seem to be libra mad
lol Libras are cool - my 1st choice for relationship I think... if she tries to smooth it over and she will, let it be, don't argue - hahaha ! Good luck...
thanks for all the advice u guys 😄 really appreciate it 😄 i called her up yesterday and told her as politely as i could that she didnt need to lie about all these things at first it didnt go well, i think her exact words were
'i am telling you the truth hun i didnt lie about those kinda things, i am not a liar i dont wanna talk to you bye'
and i was like oh noooo :O
in that sentence its like she sed 'hun' quite calmly and then she gets alittle angry and says 'am not talking to you bye'
gosh she is 2 sides of a scale
but then today i texted her to ask if she was ok and she said she was fine, she seems to have forgoten about yesterday or maybe wants to forget?
well she was all cheery again. Just hope that what i said actually went into her head hmmm...
Like for example once i was on the phone to her and she said she was working at her office and she then asked me what i was doing. I told her i was sitting on my bed watching some TV, then she said yes me to, and i was like whaaaat?? you said you were in the office. She would then hesitate and say errr errrr yes i have a TV in my office, fair enough i thought what about the bed you have a bed in the office to!!. She would then do a hesistant laugh and change the subject.
Another time she went out shopping and we were discussing what kind of clothes she brought so she said she brought a blue and black top, the next week she would come into college with a totally different colour top and say yea this is the top i brought :S This is only a few example i could go on all day with her little lies.
I know they are only little lies but why have the need to lie about things like that i really dont get it. I guess its partly my fault for getting so annoyed and effected by it but am an aries i have a quick temper loll 😛.
Is this a libra trait? if so why do they do it?