libra girls how do you like

the guy to be flirting with you? whats the best way to keep your interest high?
do you like surprises? like u think u going out on a regular stereotypical date dinner and a movie but it turns out to be something else and fun?
what do you look for in a guy and do you like if he is more like you or total opposite?
gimme some idea how libra thinks when it comes down to that

....with Mars in Pisces and Moon in Scorpio (water signs), do you constantly battle your emotional responses? Just wondering....

Since you are most likely a sensitive (sympathetic, compassionate...)person, if you do a "surprise" date, just make sure that your Libra friend is not put in an awkward or embarrassing situation. Like, if she's all dressed up for a dinner date and then you take her to a rodeo 🙂, she wouldn't be thrilled about looking "out of place."

Your last question is a tough one to answer...I'd be interested to hear what others say.

Dinner and a movie..godd, but not for a first date because you cant exactly talk through a film..and libra loves to talk!! What about a comedy club, or the rodeo sounds like fun!! Just be considerate and interested and you cant go wrong 🙂

**good** sorry!

yeah i know i hate cliche dates movie and a dinner ughh how unoriginal

we are kind of joking around that she owes me a dance lesson since she asked if i dance and i said no... so i was thinking of taking her to a salsa dance lessons session without telling her where we going but i would make sure she is dressed appropriately but than you can always dance barefoot, ,lol and then for some margaritas at one of my good friends bars...he was voted in top 5 bartenders in chi town 3 years in the row...he makes killer drinks lol
I love comedy clubs and in chicago we have some good ones, its always fun to go to one on a first date specially if the comedian is a dirty one lol ....i just love dave attel or mitch fatel....they rock

but this are only plans in my head what i could do if it got that far, right now im uncertain what her intentions towards me are, since i hardly know her at all, but like i said earlier she says that i make her laugh and that she is going to have to keep me around and gave me he email without me asking for it...all this tells me the door is open
i havent txt or email her in few days, im wondering how long is too long?

It's definitely time to make a suggestion, plus its just in time for the weekend too.

Just say something simple like hey, how are you, was thinking about doing (insert) at the weekend..wondered if you wanted to join me. So, basically you are asking her out but she will still feel she has room to manouvre because you you didnt actually say "so, do you want to go out with me"..there is a logic!! Dont leave it any longer, otherwise she'll make plans and you'll have lost your chance..GO NOW 🙂

the guy to be flirting with you? whats the best way to keep your interest high?

clever words dressed in pretty.

Well, first there's has to be an attraction that's the biggie with us Libras.
After that its pretty easy. Now keeping our interest is something else, just be fair, honest (as much as possible), let us talk about ourselves and give us lots of attention. WE'LL DO THE REST.

sola, i already did tell her somethng like that, well i told her why dont you come out to that bday party , she wanted to but had to work, this is how our joking around about dancing started since sha said she wants to dance with me
our schedules are so weird, she works alternating shifts, few weeks nights, few weeks days, some weekend and some hollidays
and im gone usually 2 weeks at a time,
i wont be able to make any plans with her this weekend maybe next, this should give me little more time to figure out what is going on here, lol

sometimes it good when things are awkward at first because it gives you an idea of how much effort a person is prepared to make in order to see you..sometimes its too easy if you know what i mean?? Just be cool, dont stress or obsess, sounds like you're on the right track 🙂

Speaking of comedy clubs....Humor is sexy ...when it's the right kind of humor for the person. Also, the kind of humor a person has or enjoys provides a window to the soul, so to speak.

Laughter is a great way to bond 🙂

Enjoy!

As far as flirting keep it light and playful with lots of double meaning. You don't need to feel out a Libra girls intentions with you or level of attraction especially sexual, she will let you know, trying to feel it out through candid flirtation can actually turn them off.

They like fiesty and slightly cocky (keep it from crossing the line of arrogance) but playful, they can pick up on double meaning and loaded behavior even before it comes out. With a natural will to go against what those expect of them, free yourself from expectation before you enter her presence. She will pick apart someone with expectations of her either aparent or disguised in a way that won't be so fun with you.

As for the date, take her somewhere that gives her insight into you. That is what it is all about anyway so it only seems natural and practical. If you have a strong interrest in one area, show her that area weather it be art or music or a particular sport. Your going to have to do the opening up anyway. With a Libra girl your going to have to get used to being exposed first and them doing the exposing in kind. They protect themselves emotionally very well, but don't let it discourage you, if you get into relationship aspect where love is reciprocating they will more than meet you half way. Until then, patience, charm, and a good sense of who you are and why you are that person will get you in her good graces.

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hmmm... I would suggest doing something that is up her alley. Like if you have noticed her hobbies or have talked about them doing something like that and during the date saying why you chose that. I know that I tend to like going to a nice restaurant and talking...a movie not so much because I am a talker and when I am trying to get to know someone I dont want to have to remember whatever questions pop in my head for 3 hrs. Or if she is a shopper....my aries won me over when he went shopping with me, sat outside the dressing room and honestly critiqued everything I tried on, then let me do the same and bought what I suggested. That was when he was a normal human being and not the sociopath Ive seen in the past week. Just remember its the simple stuff!