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Scorpio in a situation with Libra..
Well I am in a similar situation, a libra I dated in sixth or seven grade found me on fb he is a great guy and we have been on dates but sometimes he will send me texts where I think I need to put a end to our friendship but I don't want to loose our friendship since he is a great guy. How I kinda dealt with it is I told him that I didn't want anything serious right now I need some time to figure out what I want and get to know me, he said that he was fine with that but still a week later he sent me flowers to work. I feel like I could start to like him but I have to clear out my path first and we have hung out about five or six times and only a peck on the lips is as far as we have went or he has tried to go.
The good thing about this libra he has an aqua moon so he is very cool and collective and ok with what ever my decision is, so his moon is good but in a serious relationship I think his chart is too cool for me I need fire and lot a fire and some water in a guy.
The good thing about this libra he has an aqua moon so he is very cool and collective and ok with what ever my decision is, so his moon is good but in a serious relationship I think his chart is too cool for me I need fire and lot a fire and some water in a guy.
For a typical Scorpio girl and Libra guy to work out, it seems like the Scorpio has to do all the work..
Unless the Libra guy is like 10 years older (or has been clubbed in the head by Saturn) ...
Unless the Libra guy is like 10 years older (or has been clubbed in the head by Saturn) ...
Spica.. I don't want anything with this guy lol ! I just want him off my clam!
Scorpdiva. It's the same concept between me and Libra. I will act COMPLETELY aloof with him and he still rains attention on me like a hail storm.
That's cuz you're aloof for real. Try chasing him and pushing for a commitment, he'll brake so hard his neck might snap 😛
Posted by Nefer
That's cuz you're aloof for real. Try chasing him and pushing for a commitment, he'll brake so hard his neck might snap 😛
haha love this!! so true.
The way these things often go...
Girl meets Libra boy and thinks, "Meh. He's okay." She doesn't dismiss OR encourage him, she's just not THAT interested in him. But that aloofness often triggers the charming and flirtatious Mr. Libra to shower the aloof girl with attention (along with several others, usually. It's just him being friendly!).. Girl isn't all that into him, maybe Mr. Libra isn't her "type".. maybe she's still getting over the last guy she dated, maybe she's more interested in some other guy. So when it goes several days or a week of not hearing from him, she barely notices and certainly doesn't get in a tizzy over it. She also barely notices that he missed her and drifts back after a few days to contact her again.
But Libra is nice, he's sweet, he's fun and funny, a good friend and good company.. so they spend more time together, hanging out or talking and texting. Then, girl realizes she's actually FALLING for Libra... when did this happen?? NOW she notices when he doesn't contact her for a day or two, is afraid he's off with some other girl or doesn't want him to "forget" her.. so she sends him a "harmless" little text, "Hey you, haven't heard from you in a couple days. Miss talking to you." and she waits for a response. Six hours later, he still hasn't answered, and she's feeling increasingly upset and hurt.. WTF is UP with this Libra boy? Why is he suddenly blowing her off and ignoring her? So she sends him another, just in case he didn't get the first one. Still no answer, and now she's getting herself really worked up over it. The next day he finally responds and says he was busy. She asks if he wants to hang out. He says he's busy that day too. She says okay fine, want to go check out that new place on Friday?...
Lather, rinse, repeat... until SHE comes to DXP and makes a post about how this Libra chased his ASS off until he GOT her, then he started blowing hot and cold and hardly answers her texts anymore, and is often "too busy" for her.. WTF?
So what happened? Did you see it, boys and girls? Did you see when it switched and SHE started chasing HIM? I'll give you a hint.. it was right after she realized she had feelings for him, and suddenly every single thing he did or did not do meant something to her. The Libra did not change, not really.. he was basically the same before, during, and after.. except for his natural inclination to pull away when being chased (pushed, pressured).. SHE changed, not HIM!
Girl meets Libra boy and thinks, "Meh. He's okay." She doesn't dismiss OR encourage him, she's just not THAT interested in him. But that aloofness often triggers the charming and flirtatious Mr. Libra to shower the aloof girl with attention (along with several others, usually. It's just him being friendly!).. Girl isn't all that into him, maybe Mr. Libra isn't her "type".. maybe she's still getting over the last guy she dated, maybe she's more interested in some other guy. So when it goes several days or a week of not hearing from him, she barely notices and certainly doesn't get in a tizzy over it. She also barely notices that he missed her and drifts back after a few days to contact her again.
But Libra is nice, he's sweet, he's fun and funny, a good friend and good company.. so they spend more time together, hanging out or talking and texting. Then, girl realizes she's actually FALLING for Libra... when did this happen?? NOW she notices when he doesn't contact her for a day or two, is afraid he's off with some other girl or doesn't want him to "forget" her.. so she sends him a "harmless" little text, "Hey you, haven't heard from you in a couple days. Miss talking to you." and she waits for a response. Six hours later, he still hasn't answered, and she's feeling increasingly upset and hurt.. WTF is UP with this Libra boy? Why is he suddenly blowing her off and ignoring her? So she sends him another, just in case he didn't get the first one. Still no answer, and now she's getting herself really worked up over it. The next day he finally responds and says he was busy. She asks if he wants to hang out. He says he's busy that day too. She says okay fine, want to go check out that new place on Friday?...
Lather, rinse, repeat... until SHE comes to DXP and makes a post about how this Libra chased his ASS off until he GOT her, then he started blowing hot and cold and hardly answers her texts anymore, and is often "too busy" for her.. WTF?
So what happened? Did you see it, boys and girls? Did you see when it switched and SHE started chasing HIM? I'll give you a hint.. it was right after she realized she had feelings for him, and suddenly every single thing he did or did not do meant something to her. The Libra did not change, not really.. he was basically the same before, during, and after.. except for his natural inclination to pull away when being chased (pushed, pressured).. SHE changed, not HIM!
BTW.. in most cases.. "Libra" up there is interchangeable with "Man" and this scenario plays out all the time across the astrological boards. *sigh*
LOL.....sounds like my male Libra best friend. A girl chased him and BOOM......the brakes went on faster than you can say Anbesol!!! he avoided her like the plague and was terrbily uncomfortable around her....even to the point where he would have other people help her with what ever issues she was having.
Haha so wow I have been going about this the WRONG way then.. but I have too much on my plate right now to act clingy.. you know.. priorities?? I'm only 21 lol. I'm barely getting a career started so it's only natural for me to treat EVERYONE that way since this is the first thing in life that I've taken seriously. But thank you for the insight. *sigh* now I know haha!
But Nefer, pushing for commitment.. He totally wants it. I feel like each end of the sword is pointed here. I mean, our first date: "I haven't been in a relationship in two years. I'm kind of tired of it you know?" When this was me about 15 minutes prior: "I just got out of a bad relationship a month ago. I don't think I want to go through that trouble with a someone else again." Did I trigger something in his head?!
Yeah, Scorp girl.. you can't backpedal NOW, you've already hooked him in (though if you develop feelings for him and start acting all insecure and clingy and CHASING HIM, he'll unhook faster than a runaway train!).. was just giving you a heads up for next time LOL
All you can do NOW is straight up TELL him you aren't interested in him. You MAY even have to give up the friendship part for awhile, if he seems to still think that's his foot in the door to the relationship he wants (Libras DO so love to mix love and friendship!) You CAN'T be wishy-washy about it, and you CAN'T do "relationship type" stuff with him.. like hanging out one on one (he'll see it as a date, you'll see it as friends).. no snuggles on the couch watching movies or hours-long text/phone/IM convos.. again.. you will have TREAT HIM AS A FRIEND and TELL him he's just a friend. And if it doesn't work, cut him loose and stop answering his texts and calls so he can find another love interest.
Man, you don't seem very Scorpy to me.. what's the rest of your chart like, I wonder? I'm thinking some airy, detached Libra influence.. maybe some freedom-loving Sag. Maybe even a Sun-Moon Opposition with Taurus. Whatever it is, you sure aren't drowning in Water underneath! lol
All you can do NOW is straight up TELL him you aren't interested in him. You MAY even have to give up the friendship part for awhile, if he seems to still think that's his foot in the door to the relationship he wants (Libras DO so love to mix love and friendship!) You CAN'T be wishy-washy about it, and you CAN'T do "relationship type" stuff with him.. like hanging out one on one (he'll see it as a date, you'll see it as friends).. no snuggles on the couch watching movies or hours-long text/phone/IM convos.. again.. you will have TREAT HIM AS A FRIEND and TELL him he's just a friend. And if it doesn't work, cut him loose and stop answering his texts and calls so he can find another love interest.
Man, you don't seem very Scorpy to me.. what's the rest of your chart like, I wonder? I'm thinking some airy, detached Libra influence.. maybe some freedom-loving Sag. Maybe even a Sun-Moon Opposition with Taurus. Whatever it is, you sure aren't drowning in Water underneath! lol
PS - I can pretty much guarantee with 99.99% certainty... you're very pretty, Scorp girl. Oh yeah, downright HOT, with that smoldering sexy self-confidence to boot. Libras just don't DO "ugly".. a pretty face is many a Libra boy's downfall!
Libras LOVE beauty. Some people accuse them of being shallow, but I think it's just a matter of being a little picky and wanting to be attracted to their partners. *shrug*
Libras LOVE beauty. Some people accuse them of being shallow, but I think it's just a matter of being a little picky and wanting to be attracted to their partners. *shrug*
Though I did know a Libra once who (while dating and discarding a parade of beauties!)... was still TOTALLY hooked on his ex.. and no, she wasn't pretty. Borderline homely, with buggy eyes and messed up teeth and an oddly pear-shaped body (gorgeous long hair, though!)... But it was her attitude.. she was a Sag, mostly aloof and fun-seeking... and Sag girls seem to have this INBORN "I am the shizznit" quality, regardless of their actual looks. This Sag girl thought of herself as Da Bomb, carried herself like she was the hottest thing on the planet, EXPECTED to be treated like the Queen... and in HIS eyes.. was the most beautiful girl he'd ever known, and as far as I know she still has the key to his heart -- even though she's getting married next month to some tatted-up biker dude LOL
Posted by Nefer
The way these things often go...
Girl meets Libra boy and thinks, "Meh. He's okay." She doesn't dismiss OR encourage him, she's just not THAT interested in him. But that aloofness often triggers the charming and flirtatious Mr. Libra to shower the aloof girl with attention (along with several others, usually. It's just him being friendly!).. Girl isn't all that into him, maybe Mr. Libra isn't her "type".. maybe she's still getting over the last guy she dated, maybe she's more interested in some other guy. So when it goes several days or a week of not hearing from him, she barely notices and certainly doesn't get in a tizzy over it. She also barely notices that he missed her and drifts back after a few days to contact her again.
But Libra is nice, he's sweet, he's fun and funny, a good friend and good company.. so they spend more time together, hanging out or talking and texting. Then, girl realizes she's actually FALLING for Libra... when did this happen?? NOW she notices when he doesn't contact her for a day or two, is afraid he's off with some other girl or doesn't want him to "forget" her.. so she sends him a "harmless" little text, "Hey you, haven't heard from you in a couple days. Miss talking to you." and she waits for a response. Six hours later, he still hasn't answered, and she's feeling increasingly upset and hurt.. WTF is UP with this Libra boy? Why is he suddenly blowing her off and ignoring her? So she sends him another, just in case he didn't get the first one. Still no answer, and now she's getting herself really worked up over it. The next day he finally responds and says he was busy. She asks if he wants to hang out. He says he's busy that day too. She says okay fine, want to go check out that new place on Friday?...
Lather, rinse, repeat... until SHE comes to DXP and makes a post about how this Libra chased his ASS off until he GOT her, then he started blowing hot and cold and hardly answers her texts anymore, and is often "too busy" for her.. WTF?
So what happened? Did you see it, boys and girls? Did you see when it switched and SHE started chasing HIM? I'll give you a hint.. it was right after she realized she had feelings for him, and suddenly every single thing he did or did not do meant something to her. The Libra did not change, not really.. he was basically the same before, during, and after.. except for his natural inclination to pul
SPOT ON! same with libra women. . . plus they cant handle rejection its like inside they're like " fuck what? are you saying no to me?" and then they would every tricks on their sleeve that sometimes you cant breathe anymore ( and some people are masochistic by nature so it works everytime ) and THEN they do this STOP thing which sometimes is a libra trap. The Subject would miss every sweet ( but calculated and pre meditated ) move, attention that once strangled them coz no one else can praise like a libra ( yeah some of them are lies )so they try to give the libra a chance BUT how sure are you you didnt blew YOUR chance with Libra.
CUT THE GUY OFF DON'T DO THE STRING THING AND JUST BE SURE YOULL NEVER WANT HIM EVER IN THE FUTURE COZ HE WILL GIVE YOU ONE HELL OF A RIDE AFTER REJECTING HIM THE FIRST TIME.
CUT THE GUY OFF DON'T DO THE STRING THING AND JUST BE SURE YOULL NEVER WANT HIM EVER IN THE FUTURE COZ HE WILL GIVE YOU ONE HELL OF A RIDE AFTER REJECTING HIM THE FIRST TIME.
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