So seeing as the title above has prepared you for the following statement... please be advised i was stunned, shocked, insulted and confused by the following statement.
"I'm not in love with you, nor do i think i ever be'.
yea... and i sat there and took it. ironically the following morning my libra was a bright bowl of dispair /confused and asked if we were 'ok'. so i said what any normal woman would say to a man who's crazy enough to believe after verbally attacking them would say.....
'Yes, we're kool'....
i kept reading the words 'patience' on this board... i'm wondering does this make me a sell out as an aries?
If he's not ever going to be in love with you and you want him to be....you must move on. He has been honest with you and you would do yourself a huge favour in taking him at his word and getting out of that "r/ship" rather than sit and hope he'll change his mind.
If he did, he'd tell you but what you wrote above sounds familiar.
lolz yea i didnt leave because it was around 2am, i had work at 9am, and he was slightly intoxicated so my travel time would've been an hour to an hr and a half if i left. only to wake up at 7am to get to work... so almost a pointless night. I just felt like i was in some twisted dream waking up the next morning and hearing him ask if we're still in a relationship (several times), and he stated 'i have a lot of bad sides'. He also said (b4 the statement above) that he wanted to take things slow (which obviously we werent).
normally i appreciate the honestly (brutal or not) and i'd back off (which i have).... but what disturbs me the most is now he wont stop calling me! I know im quick to jump into things n even quicker to get out.... but his actions and cutesy message droping during the day.... that sounds contradictory.
If he wanted slow he's gotten what he wanted, because im not bothering to go out of my way for him. But whats with the constant calling now? is this a possesive thing? cuz for someone to tell me 'um no we're not ever getting that close' then act 'clingy' and 'obnoxiously calling'... that doesnt make sense to me
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So seeing as the title above has prepared you for the following statement... please be advised i was stunned, shocked, insulted and confused by the following statement.
"I'm not in love with you, nor do i think i ever be'.
yea... and i sat there and took it. ironically the following morning my libra was a bright bowl of dispair /confused and asked if we were 'ok'. so i said what any normal woman would say to a man who's crazy enough to believe after verbally attacking them would say.....
'Yes, we're kool'....
i kept reading the words 'patience' on this board... i'm wondering does this make me a sell out as an aries?