happykitsune
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Venus in Libra...taking a break?
"would you want to take a break too"
Yes, it's very normal. They may just want to be left alone to deal with or 'balance' their difficulties. Give them the space they need.
Yes, it's very normal. They may just want to be left alone to deal with or 'balance' their difficulties. Give them the space they need.
Sheesh for how long?
I'm a sag so I know space, but it's just strange to me when I really like the person and they want space :/
I'm a sag so I know space, but it's just strange to me when I really like the person and they want space :/
Posted by happykitsune
Sheesh for how long?
I'm a sag so I know space, but it's just strange to me when I really like the person and they want space :/
That is a Libra for you, or even (cave)men.
Just remember they're not going anywhere even if they seem like they're gone. I'm not sure how this plays in a Sag/ Venus Libra, but if all things are equal (speaking from a Libra/Libra Venus POV), if they're even semi-serious about seeing you, they're not going anywhere. Family matters can be an emotional time, and Libra aren't good with dealing with emotions. They like to take things one at a time: i.e., focus/ attention on family, once that is over, then focus will be on SO or work or whatever.
i take a break when i know it so intense that i feel like i dont have the control anymore . . . I may be easy going but its controlled easy going. You may think I am not thinking about the end result but its actually always on the back of my mind.I work hard for a Great End Result.
The What Ifs thats what is eating Me up. What if he feels im too available. What if He doesnt appreciate what i am doing. I am Half Passionate and Half Worrier.
Thats why I f**k everything up when I am at the peak of happiness coz I worry that we are too happy that the only way to go is down. So I try to Set It Again to A pace thats not too intense but not too loose. Just Enough. But I also know It drives my Partner Crazy with my reset mode.
The What Ifs thats what is eating Me up. What if he feels im too available. What if He doesnt appreciate what i am doing. I am Half Passionate and Half Worrier.
Thats why I f**k everything up when I am at the peak of happiness coz I worry that we are too happy that the only way to go is down. So I try to Set It Again to A pace thats not too intense but not too loose. Just Enough. But I also know It drives my Partner Crazy with my reset mode.
i have venus in libra.. and sag moon and rising.. he will be back. Sometimes we need our breaks.. But wait for him, dont call/text him so much, dont be pushy. Just be chill about it..
Posted by ellessquePosted by libra08
i take a break when i know it so intense that i feel like i dont have the control anymore . . . I may be easy going but its controlled easy going. You may think I am not thinking about the end result but its actually always on the back of my mind.I work hard for a Great End Result.
The What Ifs thats what is eating Me up. What if he feels im too available. What if He doesnt appreciate what i am doing. I am Half Passionate and Half Worrier.
Thats why I f**k everything up when I am at the peak of happiness coz I worry that we are too happy that the only way to go is down. So I try to Set It Again to A pace thats not too intense but not too loose. Just Enough. But I also know It drives my Partner Crazy with my reset mode.
yep.
to find that partner who understands that need for solace is golden.
sometimes I'll disappear or purposely not answer the phone. not because i don't want to talk, just because i need to be alone with my thoughts. when things get really intense, i notice that is my pattern. someone who doesn't understand that sees it as disinterest or detachment but it's just a breather.click to expand
i wish more people understood the concept of "alone time"
@happy,
i think your moon in scorpio paranoia is rearing its ugly head and i know when it happens to me, i get obsessed with "why."
if you 2 arent officially in a relationship, then hes welcome to take some time off and vice versa. he also may not feel as invested in the "relationship" if hes this distant.
it honestly worries me that after you approached him with wanting to spend more quality time, he is so MIA. usually when this happens, i get the hint. u know?
when was the last time he spoke to you?
does he want the same type of relationship that you do?
i think your moon in scorpio paranoia is rearing its ugly head and i know when it happens to me, i get obsessed with "why."
if you 2 arent officially in a relationship, then hes welcome to take some time off and vice versa. he also may not feel as invested in the "relationship" if hes this distant.
it honestly worries me that after you approached him with wanting to spend more quality time, he is so MIA. usually when this happens, i get the hint. u know?
when was the last time he spoke to you?
does he want the same type of relationship that you do?
Posted by libra08
i take a break when i know it so intense that i feel like i dont have the control anymore . . . I may be easy going but its controlled easy going. You may think I am not thinking about the end result but its actually always on the back of my mind.I work hard for a Great End Result.
The What Ifs thats what is eating Me up. What if he feels im too available. What if He doesnt appreciate what i am doing. I am Half Passionate and Half Worrier.
Thats why I f**k everything up when I am at the peak of happiness coz I worry that we are too happy that the only way to go is down. So I try to Set It Again to A pace thats not too intense but not too loose. Just Enough. But I also know It drives my Partner Crazy with my reset mode.
Reset Mode huh?
Well he did do this thing where he just hung out with his friends for two days and didn't hang with me. This is only strange because everytime he hung out with his friends he'd invite me (they are always guy friends). I don't mind him hanging with friends, but it was a weird thing to not hang out with him for a day. He told me it was good to have space, which I agreed. We hung out again after that and then a few days later he started not hanging out with me again...he was even too busy to text me. I wonder if this is the reset you're talking about because we were hanging with each other every day. Maybe he felt like we needed to have more space because we were not only hanging everyday, but we work together as well.
Posted by DMV
@happy,
i think your moon in scorpio paranoia is rearing its ugly head and i know when it happens to me, i get obsessed with "why."
if you 2 arent officially in a relationship, then hes welcome to take some time off and vice versa. he also may not feel as invested in the "relationship" if hes this distant.
it honestly worries me that after you approached him with wanting to spend more quality time, he is so MIA. usually when this happens, i get the hint. u know?
when was the last time he spoke to you?
does he want the same type of relationship that you do?
Yeah probably is my moon. I don't like it. And it gets worse around this time of the month...ugh.
He spoke to me on monday.
Hmm I think I may have worded that wrong. It's not that I want to spend more time with him. I just wanted him to be considerate and plan dates with me that were earlier in the day so that we could do an actual activity. Him and I both like getting out and doing things that stimulate us, but his working out was taking over a lot of his time and thus we only had time for me to come over and watch a movie.
I have a theory...he's very into his working out. Maybe he felt like I was being too pushy with me asking for him to be considerate with working out earlier. Because of his leo moon he probably likes to do his own thing and doesn't want to be bothered with how his schedule is set up because it's his time and he will do things on his own time. Idk...what do you think?
Posted by happykitsune
Reset Mode huh?
Well he did do this thing where he just hung out with his friends for two days and didn't hang with me. This is only strange because everytime he hung out with his friends he'd invite me (they are always guy friends). I don't mind him hanging with friends, but it was a weird thing to not hang out with him for a day. He told me it was good to have space, which I agreed. We hung out again after that and then a few days later he started not hanging out with me again...he was even too busy to text me. I wonder if this is the reset you're talking about because we were hanging with each other every day. Maybe he felt like we needed to have more space because we were not only hanging everyday, but we work together as well.
so its like almost 24/7 together right since you work together plus you always spend the whole day. . well yeah if we felt something like we are so together too much and i have things to do on my own but you have a bad reaction to it we usually find a way to slowly pull off a bit just to have space. . . coz seriously i am so bad at telling the one i love that i need time on my own for a bit because i dont know what i am supposed to do. We sometimes feel if we expose ourselves too much to the the most important person in our life we feel we will lose the excitement. We love the feeling of new love. . . routine maybe stable but its boring. And we dont want to bore our partners so thats why we pull off so when we get to see each other again we get to experience the feeling of being missed again. . . i know its f**ked up thing to do.
im needy but i dont wanna show it coz its like a weakness
Posted by libra08
so its like almost 24/7 together right since you work together plus you always spend the whole day. . well yeah if we felt something like we are so together too much and i have things to do on my own but you have a bad reaction to it we usually find a way to slowly pull off a bit just to have space. . . coz seriously i am so bad at telling the one i love that i need time on my own for a bit because i dont know what i am supposed to do. We sometimes feel if we expose ourselves too much to the the most important person in our life we feel we will lose the excitement. We love the feeling of new love. . . routine maybe stable but its boring. And we dont want to bore our partners so thats why we pull off so when we get to see each other again we get to experience the feeling of being missed again. . . i know its f**ked up thing to do.
im needy but i dont wanna show it coz its like a weakness
Thanks! This helps answer a lot 🙂
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