Chatz
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Chatz
He's probably building up nerve to make his return...These guys are unbelievable...Me and my Libra are still friends but he still hasn't fully let go...I am dating someone else now and not too long ago I was talking to him on the phone and he asked me how it was going with the new guy, i told him it was good and that he was very kind to me and did a lot of nice things for me...The same night he calls me back and tells me to come to his house that night because he was cleaning out his garage and had a bunch of rugs for me but I had to come that night, so I drive down , had dinner with him and when I was leaving he said, I can be nice too..(I have a flooring store-he's a sales rep)
Being nice is all fine and dandy but they just don't get it...They won't make up their mind, but expect us to sit around and wait for them...
Chatz, get ready, sounds like he's coming back!!!
He's probably building up nerve to make his return...These guys are unbelievable...Me and my Libra are still friends but he still hasn't fully let go...I am dating someone else now and not too long ago I was talking to him on the phone and he asked me how it was going with the new guy, i told him it was good and that he was very kind to me and did a lot of nice things for me...The same night he calls me back and tells me to come to his house that night because he was cleaning out his garage and had a bunch of rugs for me but I had to come that night, so I drive down , had dinner with him and when I was leaving he said, I can be nice too..(I have a flooring store-he's a sales rep)
Being nice is all fine and dandy but they just don't get it...They won't make up their mind, but expect us to sit around and wait for them...
Chatz, get ready, sounds like he's coming back!!!
he's jealous...i dated a libra for years. I started to pull away when i just couldnt take his antics anymore and he (unbeknownst to me) started online dating...he still hung around (I suppose until he found someone) and i found out after a tiff and (3)wks of silence- and I know his behaviour was because he was acting like we were together and searching for a new beau.
I returned what I had of his and wanted nothing more to do w. him...
I wondered if he was for real and turns out, I guess he was...but as he was "dating" this girl he would come around and hang around places he knew he would run into me...
he got a place downtown, which was where i moved and would walk down to my house (he was a nightmare)...
Libra's have this thing with challenges its like he knows that youre with someone else- so let me see if I can mean something to you still
why not just let it go? because you have no expectations from them now as 3rd parties it takes the pressure off
I returned what I had of his and wanted nothing more to do w. him...
I wondered if he was for real and turns out, I guess he was...but as he was "dating" this girl he would come around and hang around places he knew he would run into me...
he got a place downtown, which was where i moved and would walk down to my house (he was a nightmare)...
Libra's have this thing with challenges its like he knows that youre with someone else- so let me see if I can mean something to you still
why not just let it go? because you have no expectations from them now as 3rd parties it takes the pressure off
Libras-auuughghhgghhghgauuauauahhhhghhhhhhhhhhhh
if your Libra doesnt have much of a family connection (which a lot that I run into dont) then they have few friends and that puts a lot of pressure on the girl/guy
yet, I have read that they cannot stand to be alone.
so, time goes by for me (year later) and what sign am i head over heels for again—
that's right, Libra!!!
if your Libra doesnt have much of a family connection (which a lot that I run into dont) then they have few friends and that puts a lot of pressure on the girl/guy
yet, I have read that they cannot stand to be alone.
so, time goes by for me (year later) and what sign am i head over heels for again—
that's right, Libra!!!
it sounds really strange Chatz and from the other responses it sounds like it's just a game to him
is it possible that to a libran man, love is just a treetrunking mind game
what a treetrunking shame!
is it possible that to a libran man, love is just a treetrunking mind game
what a treetrunking shame!
LOL very good...do Istill care? I care for him (as a friend would) and I feel terribly sorry for him that he's so lost but would I want him back? No, too much has happened in the last 8 months and Ive moved on and well 8 months is a long time....do I think he's changed? not on your life and I can guarantee he's home every single night hanging on 3 singles sites...nothing would have changed. He's too lost and that's a shame.
Im happy now. I'd like him to be too but it isnt to be. He knows he blew it, he knows so much time has gone past and I doubt even a Libra with plenty of balls could find a way back and be able to fix the mess he left me with.
Its just sad that he's reverting to this now....it feels kinda creepy (in broad daylight!!) LOL
Im happy now. I'd like him to be too but it isnt to be. He knows he blew it, he knows so much time has gone past and I doubt even a Libra with plenty of balls could find a way back and be able to fix the mess he left me with.
Its just sad that he's reverting to this now....it feels kinda creepy (in broad daylight!!) LOL
Yow. Maybe if you ignore him, he will go away. 'Sorry, Chatzy. NOT cool.
LOL ATOM, He's the one who has been ignoring me for the past 8 months....and no, people dont do face to face stuff anymore LOL.
I'd love to talk to him, and understand what and why his behaviour has and is as it has been but Im loathed to make any effort whatsoever...me contacting him would give him the green light...THATS what he wants because, I hate to say it, he is the gutless one. If he had the balls? he wouldnt be sneaky, he'd have made contact many months ago.
I certainly dont hate him, in fact, I care for him very deeply but he did not allow me to do so....I have walked away now - I hope he finds happiness but it seems he can't/wont....I will keep an eye out and if it becomes a problem? well I will do something about it but until then? I wont give him the satisfaction of making any contact 🙂
He stuffed up, its him who can fix the friendship at the very least
Yes, I always knew he'd come back into my life at some point but not like this.
I'd love to talk to him, and understand what and why his behaviour has and is as it has been but Im loathed to make any effort whatsoever...me contacting him would give him the green light...THATS what he wants because, I hate to say it, he is the gutless one. If he had the balls? he wouldnt be sneaky, he'd have made contact many months ago.
I certainly dont hate him, in fact, I care for him very deeply but he did not allow me to do so....I have walked away now - I hope he finds happiness but it seems he can't/wont....I will keep an eye out and if it becomes a problem? well I will do something about it but until then? I wont give him the satisfaction of making any contact 🙂
He stuffed up, its him who can fix the friendship at the very least
Yes, I always knew he'd come back into my life at some point but not like this.
The time it takes for us women to "let go" of someone we've put so much effort into isn't really that much of a mystery why men (of any sign) take an interest again. When you consider that guys KNOW our pattern of behavior and how we keep threatening to leave a thousand different times and ways. Then one day......we do FINALLY let go. We just end it because we've had enough of the BS.
Sure you say it's over and you move on but...they know you might still care deep down inside. Therein lies the challenge. The moment you truly "let go" they see it by the mere fact that you haven't reverted to making contact or giving them any attention at all. It's like "suddenly" they wise up. Yes, 8 months in Libra-land is sudden.
MOONMADNESS is totally correct. He's just getting interested because he wants to see if he can still raise your interest in him. He's inching closer and closer to "pop back up" so he can try to charm you back. Those drive-by's for instance....He was probably hoping you'd "notice" his car and be so thrilled and surprised to see him. Flag him down and be all over him. If he doesn't have the balls to call you, email, TM, or go to the trouble to drive down your cul-de-sac and NOT pull into your drive-way then don't give him a second glance or any satisfaction in knowing you saw him at all.
You are right Chatz, what could you possibly say to him after so much time has passed and he let it end the way he did? Roller coasters are fun when you don't LIVE on them. Don't let him ruin your progress. I know you offered to be friends and he refused. You've got to be smart and asking yourself "why now?" he wants to make friends now? Why?
He just wants to see if he can still use his charm to get you back.
Sure you say it's over and you move on but...they know you might still care deep down inside. Therein lies the challenge. The moment you truly "let go" they see it by the mere fact that you haven't reverted to making contact or giving them any attention at all. It's like "suddenly" they wise up. Yes, 8 months in Libra-land is sudden.
MOONMADNESS is totally correct. He's just getting interested because he wants to see if he can still raise your interest in him. He's inching closer and closer to "pop back up" so he can try to charm you back. Those drive-by's for instance....He was probably hoping you'd "notice" his car and be so thrilled and surprised to see him. Flag him down and be all over him. If he doesn't have the balls to call you, email, TM, or go to the trouble to drive down your cul-de-sac and NOT pull into your drive-way then don't give him a second glance or any satisfaction in knowing you saw him at all.
You are right Chatz, what could you possibly say to him after so much time has passed and he let it end the way he did? Roller coasters are fun when you don't LIVE on them. Don't let him ruin your progress. I know you offered to be friends and he refused. You've got to be smart and asking yourself "why now?" he wants to make friends now? Why?
He just wants to see if he can still use his charm to get you back.
yes I realise this. To date he has been true to his words:..."I will never again take advantage of you nor will I let my guard down around you"....well he stayed away for 8 months LOL.
I wont allow him to come back, not for a r/ship or a FWB thing or anything of that nature. If he wishes to be friends then that would be nice but Ive closed the door to my heart to him....I rode that rollercoaster for a year and I held on for so many months after while he lived his life as nothing had happened....I wont go backwards and always knew that once I let go he'd never get another chance....Im pretty sure he knows it too....Us Leos are very loyal but when we're over it? it remains that way 🙂
I wont allow him to come back, not for a r/ship or a FWB thing or anything of that nature. If he wishes to be friends then that would be nice but Ive closed the door to my heart to him....I rode that rollercoaster for a year and I held on for so many months after while he lived his life as nothing had happened....I wont go backwards and always knew that once I let go he'd never get another chance....Im pretty sure he knows it too....Us Leos are very loyal but when we're over it? it remains that way 🙂
Thanks everyone...I thought I was being too harsh
sweetie, you're never too harsh---a rather mellow pussy cat.
Hi Chatz
I don't know a lot but I do know this:
That once a leo-girls decides it is done. It really is done. And I also know that Libra-men are persistent and they don't give up until they get what they want from you. Problem is that once they have you they don't know what to do with you.
I think leo- girls will always have a soft-spot for our libra exes. Because deep down we got each other. And even if we say that things are over and done I can't help but think of what could have been.And seeing him really makes me go off the rails..LOL
He won't give up until he gets closer to you?So, be strong
I don't know a lot but I do know this:
That once a leo-girls decides it is done. It really is done. And I also know that Libra-men are persistent and they don't give up until they get what they want from you. Problem is that once they have you they don't know what to do with you.
I think leo- girls will always have a soft-spot for our libra exes. Because deep down we got each other. And even if we say that things are over and done I can't help but think of what could have been.And seeing him really makes me go off the rails..LOL
He won't give up until he gets closer to you?So, be strong
((And seeing him really makes me go off the rails))
I have a friend that keeps telling me to breath and take one day at a time.With the help of this site and friends I have taken steps to move on. And everyday it is getting easier. I am not completely over him and it doesn't help that he keeps popping up...But I am getting there.
I have a friend that keeps telling me to breath and take one day at a time.With the help of this site and friends I have taken steps to move on. And everyday it is getting easier. I am not completely over him and it doesn't help that he keeps popping up...But I am getting there.
Yeah I know all too well about closing the door...perhaps I didnt slam it hard enough as I did find myself dreaming about the wonderful times LIbra and I had BUT a dear friend snapped me out of this insanity, bless her darling little heart.
As she said, if he loved me, if he truly loved me he'd find a way to me rather than snoop, rather than hide, he'd not be embarassed to show me how much he cared but he can't and won't do it and I refuse to give anything to him right now.
Time continues to tick away and Im not sure, even if he did everything perfect, I'd be able to forgive and pick up where we left off from....
Thank you all my dear friends....I'd be a fool to go back there when there are so many wonderful men out there who WILL give back.
🙂
As she said, if he loved me, if he truly loved me he'd find a way to me rather than snoop, rather than hide, he'd not be embarassed to show me how much he cared but he can't and won't do it and I refuse to give anything to him right now.
Time continues to tick away and Im not sure, even if he did everything perfect, I'd be able to forgive and pick up where we left off from....
Thank you all my dear friends....I'd be a fool to go back there when there are so many wonderful men out there who WILL give back.
🙂
thread title sounds like some UFO sightings. 😛 yea well kinda true right?
LMAO....Absolutely.....must admit he's a bit of an alien LOL.
Chatz, glad you're making good choices. Hope everything else is going well in your life.
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