@moonmadness
18 Years
did I screw up??
yes, it does sound like it was just for the booty. when his sister said "Oh you're in love with my brother" tells me shakes you off as a fling.
*tell me he shakes you off as a fling.
1. He changed his mind about you
2. He misinterpreted something you said and he thinks you don't want him
3. Sms him and ask where he's been and that you missed him
OR
4) Be thankful he's gone and you can get on with your life with somebody who doesnt do the disappearing thing 🙂
Just ignore him, and he'll chase you down. But try not to get caught up in that game, it's a long and hard one.
well, the thing is that one of his friends that always hangs with Lib was out by himself and ran into us on Fri. nite and he was like...hanging with me and the sister...but the Lib. is not around.
His sister keeps pointing out people that maybe have crushes on me and I keep blowing her off.
The Lib. used to call me on Thur. to see what I was doing for Fri. and for (2) weeks has not...he also has a Virgo moon and from what I hear- they do the disappearing act sometimes as well.
I know he is busy and going on a golf trip soon...I just dont know if I should call him and bug him and look stupid in the meantime.
I suppose going and eating fries off the bands plate one nite was a little too much. hehehe.
I was friends with a Virgo guy once and we flirted and had an attraction...we hooked up...and then it was this complete turn around of character...he turned mean after tha.
* 4) Be thankful he's gone and you can get on with your life with somebody who doesnt do the disappearing thing
^^I vote this.^^
It sounds like it was casual hooking up NOT dating. i.e. you didn't go out to dinner on dates etc. This was not a relationship.
no, I get it. I agree it was not a dating thing...it was a hooking up thing...we did do other things besides- I went to his house a couple times and we went on a little hike, we made dinner, etc.
it was a hopeful beginning to a dating process, but hadnt gotten to that point.
he told me he bought tickets to a baseball game I wanted to go to
that isnt until late July. I totally wanted to go and he insisted on getting the tix.
now, i dunno if he was just saying that or what.
I think i am not going out for a while
Under no circumstances should a woman chase a man. I have spoken. He won't respect you. And the least the woman should come out with is her self respect.
YEAH MOONMADNESS, YOU SCREWED UP!!! YOU'RE SO BUSY FOLLOWING ME AROUND , YOU CAN'T EVEN CONCETRATE ON KEEPING A MAN. YOUR SO BUSY BEING DEFEATED AND DEFENSIVE , YOU TRY AND HARM ME INSTEAD OF THE MAN WHO BRUSHES YOU OFF. YEAH U MESSED UP THERE!!!
Flygirl; your spelling is atrocious (can you pronounce that on your own) ??
truth of the matter is little girl, you need to go back to school instead of hanging in the projects with all your baby daddies causing problems and sticking your nose in other peoples biz
it appears you followed me here....how cute...now run along little girl
I dont care to have any more words with you....when the adults speak little girls like you should be quiet and listen
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so this Lib. showed interest in me.
I didnt figure out for a while and then I asked his sister what was up.
she either didnt get it or played dumb.
so her brother and I start meeting up at the bars (with a group)
he seemed intent on getting me drunk (I'm such a dumba**) and a couple times we go to his place and nothing happened
couple times we go there and stuff does happen
then I go to his other sisters house and she states "oh, your so in love with my brother" and I was like, I'm not saying a thing...
I had gone to his house on Sunday...his other sisters house on Mon. and she was teasing me....and from that point forward- nothing...I have not heard from him in like (2) weeks
what the hell? I played it cool, I know he did little things for me and I appreciated them and told him thank you...but what is up with the chase, the deal and then nothing...I have heard of Libras doing this disappearing act...but never have I been disappeared upon by a Libra- I have had Libras stick around thru thick and thin...
I get the feeling it was for the booty and that was it- another Libra thing?
I try my best not to call- but here's another thing...how do I get the closure or how do i get the "what the hell" like are you hating me or what? It drives me crazy not to know.