what does he want?

my ex called me the other day out of the blue, and had the nerve to say " i know you have slept with someone since we stop talking" i honestly answered no i have not. he followed up by sayiny "why do you have to lie to me?" i was like dude you are trippin. but i'm going away this weekend for some me time. he then said "so is that what this weekend is for,for you to go and f*** someone else? i just hung up. what is his issue? it's his fault we broke up in the first place. what does he want? for me to jump at his every command even though we are no longer together?

He wants you and feels as if you didn't love him what so ever...
Just ask him straight.. Do you love me and want to be with me or not ? i'm tired of games..

Libra men! ugh. haha. my libra n i broke up 2 yrs ago and he told me that he knows about me and this guy I was "seeing" and asked me if he was good...wtf? haha. So I think this is pretty normal with Libra guys. I was curious about this behavior, but I gave up and lost interest in the libra guy. At first I thought maybe he wanted to get back together, but he didn't.

(( "I know you have slept with someone since we stop talking" ))
(( "why do you have to lie to me?" ))

Are libra men the same everywhere...(I live in Africa)

(( i was like dude you are trippin.))
And then again we all respond like this ...[we really are our sun signs]

Libra men! ugh. haha. my libra n i broke up 2 yrs ago and he told me that he knows about me and this guy I was "seeing" and asked me if he was good...wtf?

do libras have ego issues or something? My libra used to say the same thing, "I bet he can't do it like me................can he?"

can somebody (TheLibran) shine some light on this?

it sounds like hateful comments to me...not jealousy or wanting you back. he's your ex for a reason.

yeah Hp. I agree. I don't know why women want these abusive relationships.

i don't want an abusive relationship. hp you are right he is my ex for a very good reason. i just don't get his instability. we haven't spoken so why out of the blue do you decide to call me and inquire about my life? he's just a jerk.

they do that...pop up out of the blue!! Im going through this at the moment....after 8 freaking months of silence!!!

good points. he has no right to an answer to any answer. chatz how are you handling the sudden contact?

LOL LEOKITTEN hehehe..very good answer 🙂

baby76 his sudden appearance back into my life? Im not sure, I really dont have much to say to him - I think he was rude and selfish the way he let things end and then pretended to want to remain friends then ignore me and now he wants to re-appear? Im very cautious/wary because Im no longer in love with him and THAT is when they come back, I just dont want to go through the BS of trying to charm me back just so he can toss me aside.

Although at times I think its tempting to play him at his own game I have now got better things to do and hell, these 8 months have been amazing in that I see him in a completely different light, he's not that good looking and he's not all that nice and he treated me with utter contempt during our year and now, ONLY NOW do I feel he's realised what the hell he did and lives with his regrets.

I do wish him well, I do hope he can keep himself away from those ridiculous singles sites he was so hooked on and gets a life....Even if i still found it in me to love him as in being "in love with him"? how could I ever trust he's not on those sites? He ws on them every single day while we were together....doesnt say much to how he felt about me/us.

So to answer your question?....Im over him but wish him no hardship. I wish we could have remained friends but you dont treat a Leo badly and expect to come back almosta year later like nothing happened. We have big hearts but it only goes so far.

Im slowly but surely falling for a Taurus right now and Libra is no longer on that top shelf in my heart (Taurus knocked him off his perch LOL)

baby, he has NO clue. I'd brush him off, minimal contact or NONE. Keep him guessing about your love life (none of his business, right?).

"asked me if he was good...wtf?" HAHAHAH, oh man, my libra did the same things like almost every time we had sex. He was always like was your ex better? Or am I better? I was like you have got to be fucking kidding me dude. Who thinks like that? I never cared how is ex was in bed, I won't even think about that. I don't compare myself to people. I think I'm great. And if thinks someone is better cool, but I'm still gonna think I'm great. He SHOULD think like that too. I mean come on. It made me so uncomfortable.. eww..

Oh yeah, it's a totally ego thing. TELL TO F*** the F*** OFF.