What does it mean when a libra ignores u

Me and my libra gal had a very minor falling out and since then she's been ignoring me. Problems are nothing new to us but it's surprising to me that something so small would make her ignore me for damn near a week. The weirdest part about it is she was the one being a bitch about it all so why would she be ignoring me

I tried a whole lot of communication the night of. She refused to talk about it. I'm expected to keep trying to communicate when she was the one being a bitch to begin with
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give her some time to come around. she is probably trying to sort her thoughts out.

as a side note, i imagine thinking of her as a bitch in your thoughts doesn't bode well for the relationship.

Lol

She wld normally be a queen in my thoughts but she isn't acting very queen like

Posted by Ralphsleek100
She wld normally be a queen in my thoughts but she isn't acting very queen like

exactly. and it is in those moments that you have to be compassionate, understanding and try to see thing through your partner's eyes. this is when you as a partner are tested. by thinking of her as a bitch, you fail.

I'm new here, but as a Libra woman myself I thought I'd chime in.

What I'm about to say will probably hurt you and I'm sorry for that but this woman is just about ready to move on.

You had spat number 3,789 I'm guessing, and us Librans tend to get to a "sod this jack_ _ $ " stage and go off muttering angrily to ourselves cursing your name. If she was even remotely 'IN' it she'd be incapable of ignoring you for a week, our inherent sense of fairness would demand we see your side, and either squash the argument, or hash it out and leave the conversation on an even keel.

So. What do you do? Send one text (ONE) saying "I miss you and hope you're okay" then just be getting on with your life. Play the long game (she'll call when she calms down) - BUT recognise (a) no matter how many months this may drag out, the drama is loosening her bond to you (b) arguments make us unbalanced, and disturb Librans - always keep your warm feelings for her in your voice and at the forefront of your thoughts in any GENTLE / jokey disagreement.... We're often called the human equivalent of an emotion detector. She will smell out any patronising insincerity.

Best of luck!

That's the most baffling thing about you libras to me. She always tells me she hates drama n she would much rather we get along but she starts the drama........ Not every single time but often enough. Surely in this situation she would be the one responsible for the confusion.

so she stirs up this drama that she hates so much then decides that she wants to ignore me? I guess you're right her ignoring me can only mean that she's moving on. I can't see any other reason why she wouldn't make an attempt to right HER wrong

If u want date a libra sorry u have to be bigger person just call her communicate. I dont think libras are good at admitting their faults right away. Yes i do feel they start drama and arguments and make it seem like its ur fault ur the wrong one. They r stubborn but i dont think a week long stubborn. My current libra did something againnnnn and i didnt talk to them or call them and guess what they hit me up first after 24 hours..idk how imma deal with this my ex was a libra too and they never admitted their wrong always started a war.

Posted by jeane
give her some time to come around. she is probably trying to sort her thoughts out.

as a side note, i imagine thinking of her as a bitch in your thoughts doesn't bode well for the relationship.

Right?

The OP is a giant douchelord, if we're going to be using descriptive names like he's using here.

His attitude explains a lot about the situation. No wonder she's ignoring him.

OP are you a Cancer?

Just call her, she's probably waiting for you to do so...or she could just be over it and you. Either way, I'd call to find out.

It probably (the issue) wasn't a minor thing like you originally thought.

I'm a cancer n im king douche idc libras literally live like the world is their world. She can ignore me for reasons I'm not aware of and still get a phone call from me to clear the air which is what I tried to do the night of? If any one of us should be doing the calling it's her. For libras to be so balanced this is probably the most childish/one sided relationship I've ever dealt w. I'll just chill and let her come around

Or not.

Well waiting for me is like doin whatever/whoever I want then if she comes back around ill gladly refocus my attention to her. She's definitely someone I want to work it out with

Posted by TheStar75
I' You had spat number 3,789 I'm guessing, and us Librans tend to get to a "sod this jack_ _ $ " stage and go off

I agree with this, as a libran, I can take a lot in silence but after a certain point, particularly this month I've noticing, i really do think f**k it and leave it.

But librans are very forgiving so just give it time, our anger tends to dissipate after a week, then contact her and when you do, address the issue directly in a non accusational way and hopefully she will be in a better place to understand.

Currently, mars is transiting libra so most of us librans might be feeling less able to compromise and more of a feeling of enough is enough

Fine I'll reach out tonight.

Posted by Libralula
Okay...I see you're not going to be up front about it. As of now, you both are on the same level of maturity.

You can chill and wait if you want to, just be sure you know if this chick is right for you or not. Is this someone you still hope works out?

He even mentions in his OP that they're always having problems.

You can't help but think that this thing has run its course.

And if he is a Cancer (I'm still not sure since I can't read retardese typing) it explains quite a bit, tbh. We've seen it too often here on the Libra forum. Cancers are some of the biggest emotional leeches and it's just too much for Airy Libra.

more like do myself a favor n move on. But I won't bc I love her. I'm thinking I should just let her be until Christmas then send her a nice ass purse or a nice watch or somethin. Take her to dinner. Make love to her. Then disappear for a month.





Kidding


Maybe I'll call her tonight I'll let you libras know what happens

Call her... People are giving a lot of good advise but if she intentionally started an argument... She is either holding on to something you did in the past that she is having a hard time getting over... Or she is wanting to move on. As a libra woman... If I like someone and we get into it... I'm gonna want him to contact me (specially a phone call) no later than a week (preferable the next day)... If she is holding onto a grudge longer than that... She may be seeing someone else... that she thinks is better.

I'm a Libra female and I completely agree with @TheStar75...she's getting ready to leave. To be completely honest we aren't good at communicating when something isn't working. This is truly a bad habit of mine, but when things go awry and I'm not happy, I start looking. If she hasn't wanted to make amends, this isn't a good sign. The drama is to get your attention. We're passive aggressive, so that's the silent treatment. I can absolutely admit fault but you have to reach out to me. You say you're a king douce...don't be that way. If you really care about this girl fight for her...the longer this draws out, the higher chance she'll move on. Don't let your ego get in the way. When you're back in there...tell her that she can't act that way, she has to talk.

Posted by ElTigre24
I don't understand why questions like this get asked. Go up to the Libra and ask "why have you been ignoring me". Simple.

you've got it all figured out don't you dude

I cant figure out if a reply like this is more humorous or annoying. I would never ask this question if i hadn't already asked her why she's ignoring me genius

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I don't understand why questions like this get asked. Go up to the Libra and ask "why have you been ignoring me". Simple.

you've got it all figured out don't you dude

I cant figure out if a reply like this is more humorous or annoying. I would never ask this question if i hadn't already asked her why she's ignoring me genius

The answer you are looking for isn't going to come from complete strangers. Have you no intuition or instict to trust? You are coming to a Libra forum as if we are all the same or something. We aren't manufactured in IKEA. Smh

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Yet I have libra after libra after libra giving me advice
Get off my dick clown

I've been following this thread with curiosity. Personally, when I'm really interested in a guy, I want to talk to him every day. If I start ignoring someone--especially for that long--I'm PRAYING that he gets the hint and just magically goes away. I absolutely despise confrontation, and fewer things make me more uncomfortable than to (a) give someone unpleasant news, and (b) have someone upset with me. That's a 1-2 punch when you break it off with someone, and while it's the cowardly way out, I usually just hope the person goes away. Sorry 😢.

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I don't understand why questions like this get asked. Go up to the Libra and ask "why have you been ignoring me". Simple.

you've got it all figured out don't you dude

I cant figure out if a reply like this is more humorous or annoying. I would never ask this question if i hadn't already asked her why she's ignoring me genius

The answer you are looking for isn't going to come from complete strangers. Have you no intuition or instict to trust? You are coming to a Libra forum as if we are all the same or something. We aren't manufactured in IKEA. Smh

Yet I have libra after libra after libra giving me advice
Get off my dick clown

And I guarantee you didn't use their advice. You most likely wanted validation. Troll.

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Not only did I use it. It worked
Youve sounded like a dumb ass from your very first comment shut the fuck up

And to the libras that thought she was moving on



Shes not.



And the ones that urged me to reach out
Y'all are awesome


I finally got an explanation for all of this out of her which by the way I completely understood. My only argument to her was
just as I understood her today I could've understood her a week ago
Her logic behind ignoring me = "to make me suffer"
But she was very apologetic to the point of tears and I'm just happy we finally talked so I didn't bother making an issue out of her trying to make me suffer
Even though that's stupid as fuck

Posted by blackphase

Posted by Ralphsleek100
I tried a whole lot of communication the night of. She refused to talk about it. I'm expected to keep trying to communicate when she was the one being a bitch to begin with
?

LOL.. Yeah don't hold your breath waiting for a Libra to communicate with ya properly..

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I see. It's been a year and a half. Same shit

Posted by Goldigold
I'm happy for you, I love the Cancer Libra pairing yes there are challenges, but have a very deep and devoted love...good luck.

Just don't ever cheat on your lady..

You're right very deep love


I have no desire whatsoever to cheat.
Doing "whatever or whoever" was said out of anger

Posted by blackphase

Posted by Ralphsleek100
That's the most baffling thing about you libras to me. She always tells me she hates drama n she would much rather we get along but she starts the drama........ Not every single time but often enough. Surely in this situation she would be the one responsible for the confusion.

so she stirs up this drama that she hates so much then decides that she wants to ignore me? I guess you're right her ignoring me can only mean that she's moving on. I can't see any other reason why she wouldn't make an attempt to right HER wrong

Well this sounds familiar. Lol, Love how they say they hate drama.. but I have never met anyone who stirs up more drama than my Leeb -_-

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Dude she finds a way to make an issue over the smallest things!!!! then once the argument gets too heated she'll try to retreat and act like she's so above the drama

sounds like both your partners find it difficult to communicate with you.

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That's the most baffling thing about you libras to me. She always tells me she hates drama n she would much rather we get along but she starts the drama........ Not every single time but often enough. Surely in this situation she would be the one responsible for the confusion.

so she stirs up this drama that she hates so much then decides that she wants to ignore me? I guess you're right her ignoring me can only mean that she's moving on. I can't see any other reason why she wouldn't make an attempt to right HER wrong

Well this sounds familiar. Lol, Love how they say they hate drama.. but I have never met anyone who stirs up more drama than my Leeb -_-

Dude she finds a way to make an issue over the smallest things!!!! then once the argument gets too heated she'll try to retreat and act like she's so above the drama

Ahhhhh! OMG, Yes! It makes me want to pull my hair out. One time we got into a huge argument over a comment I made about chicken nuggets.. chicken fkn nuggets! Like seriously.. and he got so pissed that I confronted his foolishness that he broke up with me about it. Over chicken nuggets! LOL

But it seriously drives me insane how they can make a huge deal out of something stupid, get their little spiel out but conversation is over as soon as it's our turn to say something. Every single time. I am never able to bring up an issue, or I am starting shit, but he can shit all over me and my feelings and I just have to take it. And Libras are all about fairness? I've never met someone as unfair as this fellow.

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Nuggets ahahahaha


I'm so relieved that we're not the only couple with extremely petty arguments like that lmao our families always tell us they don't know what we would do if we actually had real problems bc arguments over food and anything trivial like that is very normal for us


And she loves breaking up with me after I start stating facts
She can make me out to be the worst boyfriend for an hour then when I tell start telling her the problems I have w her as a girlfriend she shuts down. every once in a while she'll admit her faults like yesterday, but usually she acts like she's perfect as perfect gets



What's your sign?

Posted by jeane
sounds like both your partners find it difficult to communicate with you.

But why?! Is the issue

Posted by Ralphsleek100

Posted by jeane
sounds like both your partners find it difficult to communicate with you.

But why?! Is the issue

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i would say it depends on the dynamic of the relationship.

are they starting fights because it is a way to avoid the bigger problems? is it to get some emotional distance? is it for attention? i it because they are frustrated and so a reasonable thing to fight about is why they were 5 minutes late?

is the dynamic of your relationship where you partner feels they can't come in honesty to tell you how they are feeling? as in your case Ralph, does your partner somehow feels that at times you consider her a bitch who does stupid things? that doesn't feel like a very safe and inviting place to be vulnerable.

with blackphase, is she in a parent-child relationship where her partner has to resort to tantrums to express his feelings? i it because he is naturally abusive and not mentally fit to be in a relationship. is it because she makes excuses and therefore they are co-dependently ignoring the elephant in the room.

yes, it's cute "ooh look we bicker over the smallest things" but if you are ending a relationship over chicken nuggets or ignoring your partner for a week because you want to "make them suffer" then the problem is much bigger than we fought because he forgot to bring the washing in when it started to rain.

just my opinion though. maybe it is just the quirk of your relationship.

Dump her.

Seriously... the satisfaction will be immense.

Posted by Vanish

Posted by blackphase
@Vanish - What does that tell you?

I was just curious because I dated a Libra like that and I blamed the bitchiness on venus in virgo 🙂

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I have Venus in Virgo, and I use my words.

No guessing.

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Posted by blackphase
@Vanish - What does that tell you?

I was just curious because I dated a Libra like that and I blamed the bitchiness on venus in virgo 🙂

I have Venus in Virgo, and I use my words.

No guessing.

You got that Leo Sun influence though 😉

Have never met a Leo that i didn't like

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Even I can't make that claim. 😄

Right back at you though. ♡