Guys help me out here, is this guy in love with me or not!
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We're friends and i love you even if you're seeing someone else. It shouldnt and it wont take away from the bond we have formed in the past few months.
I'm laughing my ass off right now, why do I get fooled so easily
He has never ever used that word with me, he's given me all sorts of things but not the I love you bit that was kind of shocking!? he has a girlfriend and sometimes the friends part I think he uses as a cover up for his guilt of falling for me while he is with someone else
Flip flop so what do you think he means ? he's confused or he's not confused ? you know confused is good! If I get him confused then that's a good sign where I'm concerned!!! LOLOL
I heard that Libra is looking for a friend in a partner and somehow I thought this would be the way to his heart ?
When a LIbra says they love you it does not mean they are "in love" with you....there is a HUGE difference.
If he's with somebody else walk away - why are you even wondering about this? Libras love everybody (well most LOL).
Dont lose any more sleep over this one.....he's not that mad at you - he has no right to be .... what he wants is for you to sit on the sidelines waiting for HIM but he can see others? pffffftttt....tell him to go....well never mind.
Read other posts on here and you'll see theh ride you're about to go on if you continue even fantasizing about the idea.
so what you all are saying is those words mean nothing to Libra, to say to someone I love you means nothing to Libra
I don't say that to someone I have known for two months no I don't think, not someone of the opposite sex.... i can say that to very few very close long time friends and family
But in anycase, I'm feeling this
And Chatz, I found him with someone already, we are not yet officially anything and I don't have much expectation... I was just wondering what I should do with this new information from him
Im certainly not saying it means "nothing".....but unless his actions match his words? ummmmm....dont read anything into it.
My Libra said I love you after 9 months...yep 9 months we were seeing one another then one day he said I love you....yep my heart did backflips and I went crazy trying to figure it all out....then off he went when I wanted to be "serious"....he said "Im not ready for a relationship"....continued for another 3 months, got over it and walked away....now after 8 months of no contact he comes back into my life...why? still not sure...maybe he wants to tell me he loves me again and then go again?? LOL
My heart doesnt do backflips anymore though....Im happy to be a friend....I think they make AMAZING friends, just not any more.
Ok guys I am also playing here? I am deeply in love with him I would give him the world, literally, but obviously I have to cover my tracks at this stage! LOLOL
I wrote him an email the other day with something like :
?I appreciate our friendship a lot, I hope you know I don't need anything more than that.?
This is intentional to just keep him uncomfortable and figuring out how on earth he could ever win my love!! LOLOL
Is it possible he might be covering his tracks too?
Ahhhhh the joys and the pains of seduction! I'm happy to accept if he is not, honestly, I just don't wanna fool myself thats all
lol. find out wats his ex's zodiac if you really want to know what are the possibilities. its not easy for a libra to leave his past behind all of a sudden. we will keep traveling back and forth for a while. Just to make things easy for our ex as well as ourselves. You will have to live with that for a while. pisces-libra is not a bad combo. so may be you will have to prepare yourself to invest a bit more time, effort and understanding into it.
He's testing the pisces waters. When all the other "verbal flowers" of flattery haven't got you hooked on him yet... he'll come on strong with some words to "charm you" like ...throwing the L word out there ! And NO it does not mean he is "in love" with you at all. Nobody else throws that word out there loosely but a Libra. It's manipulation but in Libra-Land it's called...uhm..."CHARM". They'll say whatever they think you want to hear and you'll be swimming straight for them if you fall for it.
Recognize it for what it is......just verbal flowers. He loves you in a FRIENDLY way. Nothing more!!!!!! Don't delude yourself into believing he is saying it because most everyone else doesn't use the word unless they really mean it.
Hey, He eventually could fall for you but you'll also have to remember you'll be sharing him probably with someone else or even several others.
Unless his actions are backing up his words .........their just words. It just means you are special (of course you are). But you are NOT the women he is "in love with". Get it? He's with someone else right? Then pay attention to the red flag and NOT the flowery words!
templeofjaguar, what kind of actions should I look for to back up his words... like calling me and sending me flowers or something ? I don't really like that corny stuff and I heard Libra is a helpless romantic and I just wonder when will I ever see the romantic
when he does fall for me, what will be the signs to look out for ? pls help me here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have decided to start opening up some line of communication with him, and I have decided instead of relying so much on guesswork, I will ask my Libra directly some of these questions
We are really close and trust each other as friends, why would it be so hard to just ask someone : do you think you might have some feelings for me ? I mean why can't we all just be honest. Even if it's intruding, I could also ask him about his other woman... would he answer me truthfully ? hmmmmmmm
And if he says no, great! Why can't life work like that...
I'll be honest with him too
ahhhhhhhhhh what do you guys think! LOLOL there i'm asking again
ohh and I also learnt that Uranus rules Libra's house of true love
Uranus is in Pisces until 2012 I think!!!! Is this some kind of co incidence or something
I think we are really falling in love with each other!
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we even accoommodate each other's oddness sometimes... I tolerate his intellectual abstractness sometimes and he can stand my sentimental dreamy nature, he responds to it with such undertsanding and tolerance 😢((((((((
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We're friends and i love you even if you're seeing someone else. It shouldnt and it wont take away from the bond we have formed in the past few months.
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